"Mom, do women have to get married? Can I live a good life myself? ”

"You are young and have a stable income, so of course you can say that you can live a good life. When you are a little older and see that someone else has a lovely child and a happy family, you will regret saying such things. ”

"I have the ability to support myself, and if I have to get married, I have to choose one that I like, or who likes to tolerate me very much."

"Well, in a woman's life, it is very important to find someone who knows cold and hot. It's not that important to like yourself, life after marriage is not glamorous, and some are basically bits and pieces. Giving birth to children, doing laundry and cooking, worrying about children's studies, children's employment, children's mate selection, and helping children raise the next generation. These events contain countless trivial things in life, and perhaps several tragedies that will make you feel painful, year after year, day after day. When you are old and infirm, you will be sick again, afraid of becoming a burden to your children, suffering from illness, who can you spare over the years? That's how most women live. You want to be detached, you want to be romantic, child, that's unrealistic, you can have someone who knows cold and hot, and accompany you through this long life, you will be much easier. Ru's mother poured out most of her life's life insights.

"Mom, this is too terrible, I don't want to grow up, I don't want to get married, I want to be by your side forever." Ruge buried her head in her mother's arms.

Ru's mother patted the child's back and gently comforted:

"Don't be afraid, child, do you still have mom and dad? We can stay with you for many years, and we won't let you be wronged. ”

"Well, Mom, why didn't I find out you loved me so much before?"

"There are so many children, the family's eating, drinking, and Lazar are enough for the mother to be busy, so there is still energy to pay attention to the ideological dynamics of each child. Now that my mother is idle, I want to make up for all the regrets I had for you. ”

"Mom, life is really not easy, I have to love myself even more."

"It is important to love yourself, and only by loving yourself can you have the ability to love others. When your own life is a mess, how can you have the energy to love others? ”

"Well, I'm going to love myself, and I love my mom and dad, my lovely siblings, and the people who have helped me, and those who need help."

"We've grown up. Helping others will give you a sense of accomplishment and pleasure. People who have the ability to help others are people who love life, life is not easy, you love it, it will become colorful, glowing, and let you have more happiness. ”

"Mom, thank you, I know how to deal with the confusion now." changed her decadent mentality, she seemed to have suddenly opened up, and she was no longer so pessimistic and disappointed.

"Mom and Dad will always be your strong backing, tired, difficult, don't forget that you still have the most loving father and mother, don't always think alone and pretend to be strong."

Ru's mother pretended to be angry, which made Ruge feel a little cute. She has parents who love her like this, she can ride the wind and waves for her life without any scruples, even if she is embarrassed in the end, and her parents will cover her back.

"Hmm. Mom, go and rest, I'll clean up the dishes. ”

"I'll do it and let you be a little princess for a few more years." Rumu smiled and refused.

Ruge stuck out her tongue at her mother mischievously and went back to her room. Lying in the warm quilt, I felt very happy, and after a while, I fell asleep.

There was no dream all night, and she slept very sweetly this night. After waking up, I stretched out and looked at the red sun rising outside the window, which made people feel warm like spring. It's been a nice day again.

After washing up, I saw that the restaurant had already set up a hot breakfast: steamed buns just out of the pot, a plate of small pickles, thick fragrant eight-treasure porridge, and a glass of milk. Ru's mother saw Ruge come in and beckoned her to sit down and have breakfast.

Because he got up early, the time was not tight, and Ruge listened to her mother talk about some trivial matters in the neighborhood with great interest. Although they are all small things, they are quite vivid and interesting to be told by the eloquent earth mother.

Breakfast ended quickly in a pleasant and relaxed atmosphere. Ruge goodbye to her mother and walked towards the unit humming a cheerful song.

When she arrived at the unit, it was still early, she had her favorite song on her mobile phone, and she was happily cleaning up the business hall. Wipe the counter, wipe the glass, mop the floor, place office supplies, and after a while, I was tired and sweated. The song is in full swing, completely ignoring the beads of sweat that are about to fall. Finally finished, looking at the bright and clean windows, the brand new business hall, like a song, quite a sense of accomplishment.

She washed her face, stood in the sun and moved her muscles and bones, bathed in the sun like a song healthy and energetic.

"Ruge, it's so early again, the little girl is so diligent." Sister Liu, a colleague in the business hall, greeted her with a smile.

Looking at Sister Liu, who hurried to send her children to school, Ruge responded sweetly:

"Morning, Sister Liu."

Sister Liu, for example, is eight years old and has a son who is in elementary school, and she needs to pick up and drop off her son from school every day, prepare food at night, help with homework, and be so busy that she can't stop if she wants to.

When the class is not busy, I chat with Sister Liu, and Sister Liu often sighs: I really envy you little singles, you can enjoy life after work, I have no hope, I will always be busy. When a girl always fantasizes about marrying a good husband, having a lovely child, and having a happy family, how could she have thought that after sweet love, life after marriage will be so helpless. The boyfriend who was polite and clean before marriage has become a sloppy and lazy man who doesn't pay attention to hygiene, throws stinky socks everywhere, and doesn't like to take a bath or do housework. That fantasy cute kid will always make life situations so destructive that you can't even think about it, the newly bought toys will always be disassembled by him into a pile of useless parts, and the homework will always have to be done with yelling, and he will justifiably argue with you. Mother-in-law, mother-in-law will always have a lot of bad things waiting for you.

"Look at me, have I become a middle-aged woman with an abominable face? I used to be a gentle and lovely girl. ”

"No, Sister Liu, you still have a lot of temperament." Ru Ge's words are insincere.

Indeed, the current Sister Liu has no light on her face, her eyes are big and godless, and she has thick bags under her eyes, and she has long been tortured by the vicissitudes of life, and she has escaped the image of a yellow-faced woman.

"Hey~, I don't know what I'm like? If you don't want to learn from me, you will trap yourself in the siege of marriage so soon, enjoy your current single life, and then talk about a romantic relationship, and your life should not be too beautiful. Sister Liu finally leaked a smile, maybe she also thought of the good times when she was in love.

Such a good youth time is time to talk about a romantic love, live up to the time.