Zhen Zhen and Chen accompanied the two children to finish eating, and Zhen Zhen should also go back. When there was only Chen by his side, Zhen Zhen said: "Madam, there is a sentence that I don't know whether to say or not."

"Why are you so polite to me?" Chen asked with a smile.

"May I ask you, madam, what is the difference between a servant taking care of a child and a family taking care of a child?" Zhen Zhen asked.

"The family will definitely be more careful, but only the servants can follow the children all day long." Chan said.

"The servant takes the child so that he does not make a mistake, and that the child does not cry, make trouble, or get sick. Only the family will think about the needs of the child's growth and future. For example, when it comes to eating, the sooner the child eats by himself, the more exercise his hands will get, the more flexible his hands will be, and it will be easier for him to learn to write in the future. But when children eat by themselves, they will make a mess. The servant was afraid of being scolded, so he would rather go to the trouble of feeding himself than let the little master eat by himself. Over time, the child will become industrious. ”

Chen shook Zhen Zhen's hand and said, "Thank you for your heartfelt words." My own children, I'm going to be interested. ”

Zhen Zhen said: "The child lacks nothing but one thing in the Guogong Mansion."

"What?" Chen asked curiously.

"The company of family. If your wife is free, she should spend more time with her children. After a few years they grow up, you want to accompany them, and they don't need to. ”

"Good. I listen to you. You know? I always have a feeling that you are like a teacher in the school, you speak one by one, which is very reasonable, and you will not understand it for a while, and you have to think about it afterwards. ”

"You didn't say I was an old pedant, and I'm grateful." Zhen Zhen broke out in a cold sweat on his back---- he unconsciously made the mistake of preaching like an old pedant. The supervising teacher had warned her before, don't preach, everyone understands the reason, why is it still so difficult to act? Pay attention to the emotional factors that make it difficult to move, and use empathy to stand in the other person's perspective and experience the other person's feelings.

What is Chen's perspective? I wonder if she would like to talk about what happened when she was a child? Does she spend more time with her parents or with her nurturing grandmother?

Forget it, it's too late to ask these questions today, so let's talk about it later.

I only heard Chen smile and said: "Look at what you said, you are so young, beautiful, smart and clever, where can you compare with an old pedant?" By the way, it's the Dragon Boat Festival soon, and I have an invitation to Anlan Pavilion here, please go to the dragon boat race with Mrs. Zhen. ”

Chen put a piece of red paper in Zhen Zhen's hand.

Zhen Zhen looked at the invitation in his hand and said, "Madam, I haven't been in the capital for long. I don't know what to pay attention to watching dragon boat races in Anlan Pavilion? ”

Chen comforted her and said, "It's not exquisite. Anlan Pavilion is a seven-story pavilion on the edge of the Yongan River in Shangdu, which was originally used to observe the water situation during floods. After years of repair and reinforcement, on the day of the Dragon Boat Festival, it has become a place for the ladies of the official eunuchs to watch the dragon boat race. This Anlan Pavilion is ventilated and cool, not afraid of the sun, and is a good place to watch the game. The matter of sending the invitation was under the control of Jing Zhaoyin, so I asked my grandfather for one more. ”

As soon as Zhen Zhen heard it, she knew that this was a gathering of the top female relatives in the capital, and it was impossible for her, the daughter of a five-grade official, to have a chance. She wanted to reject Chen's kindness.

First, because there are many rights and wrongs in the women's pile, she doesn't want to be an outlier in the eyes of these aristocratic women.

The second reason is that from a professional point of view, she cannot have any other relationship or interaction with the client outside of the consultation time.

"I ......" Zhen Zhen couldn't find a good excuse for a while, and hesitated.

Chen seemed to see through her thoughts, and said, "Follow me when the time comes, I will introduce you to other people, and no one will dare to look down on you."

"I mean, I don't know if my mother wants to go, and she won't let me go." Zhen Zhen finally found an excuse.

"Then did you come out of the Lantern Festival?" Chan asked.

"Yes."

"This Dragon Boat Festival is more lively than the Lantern Festival! Many girls' homes stand by the river to watch the dragon boat race, and a large group of men and women, old and young, do this every year. If Mrs. Zhen is reluctant to go out, don't you still have a sister-in-law? Do you want your sister-in-law to come with you? ”

"Oh......" Zhen Zhen hesitated.

"We're going out all year round for the holidays. With such a great opportunity, what are you waiting for? "Chan has a spirit of not giving up or giving up.

The two broke the time for a stick of incense.

"Okay," Zhen Zhen said, "I'll accept the invitation first, and if anything happens, I'll send someone to reply." ”

"Be sure to come!"

Zhen Zhen originally couldn't resist Chen's consent, and planned to leave after he went. Who knew that after returning home, as soon as the invitation card was taken out, Mrs. Zhen smiled happily: "Okay, good, we must go, we have to prepare carefully."

Zhen Zhen figured out his mother's thoughts---- having the opportunity to meet more female dependents means having more opportunities to marry herself!

Ay! Now I can't have less contact with Chen.

Two days before the Dragon Boat Festival, the third day of the fifth month, is Mrs. Zhen's birthday. Zhen Zhen is still very filial, and he has to follow his mother's wishes these days no matter what.

What surprised her was that her mother had already prepared clothes, jewelry, shoes, and even the small fan in her hand! Yes, when I went to the Luguo Mansion for the first time, I said that I watched the dragon boat during the Dragon Boat Festival.

It is a skirt with ten hems, each one is a color, the lotus step is gently shaken, or the breeze blows, the skirt color is like the moon, so it is called "Yuehua skirt".

Hongyun exclaimed: "Miss, I haven't seen such a beautiful dress yet!"

Zhen Zhen thought to himself, it's not a beauty pageant......

On the third day of junior high school, she happily wore a new satin dress prepared by Haoxing, put on a jade bracelet, ate longevity noodles, and was kowtowed by the younger generations. She was satisfied.

What she cared about was that Zhen Zhen hadn't seen such a big scene since she was a child, so she specially asked Zhen Cheng to invite a nurturing grandmother.

It is said that this upbringing grandmother used to be trained to be selected when the palace maid was selected, and now she is old enough to go home and tease her grandson.

In the past few days, the upbringing grandma has strengthened the etiquette of everyone's ladies and socials for Zhen Zhen, from entering the door, greetings to chatting and dining.

Simple movements, constant repetition.

The eyes of the nurturing grandmother are even more poisonous than the eyes of the instructor during the freshman military training, constantly correcting Zhen Zhen's movements and postures.

Zhen Zhen has to rely on doing ideological work for himself in order to persevere: Yiduo is not pressing. Learning more things is good after all, even if it's red tape, it's better to know than not to know, and it's better to be decent than to be ashamed.

On the fifth day of the fifth month of May, it has finally arrived.

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