Xiaoyu was holding a branch that teased ants, which was also a new thing for her, so she naturally refused to let go.

As a result, it was just like this for a while, only to hear Ye Xiaoyu shouting: "Don't rob it!" And they tore apart.

The maids and grandmothers of the two of them ran over and separated the two of them holding each other. Ye Qian was already crying impatiently.

Zhen Zhen also stepped forward and said to Xiaoyu: "If you don't want to, you can tell your brother that you can give him this branch if you play with it for a while." Let him not be in a hurry, and wait. ”

"What if he doesn't want to wait?" Ye Xiaoyu was very dissatisfied.

Ye Qian was still crying. After everyone calmed him down, Zhen Zhen turned to him and said, "You have to talk to your sister." Don't grab it. ”

Then she taught him word by word: "I, want, tree, branch."

Ye Qian buried his head on his grandmother's shoulder and ignored Zhen Zhen.

Zhen Zhen said to the Chen family next to him: "Madam, when this kind of thing happens, don't blindly ask your sister to let your younger brother go." On the one hand, the sister has to learn to share her stuff. And the younger brother has to learn to negotiate and wait. As long as there is no danger of injury, it is best for adults not to be directly involved in children's small conflicts. Slowly, they will learn how to deal with each other's problems. This is also a necessary process for cultivating feelings, and only those who have experienced contradictions can have a strong emotional foundation. ”

"I see, I'll persuade him." Chen raised Ye Qian's head with his hand and said to his son: "Qian'er, you learn to speak, discuss with your sister, don't grab it directly." My sister will be sad. Say to my sister I, yes, tree, branch. ”

Ye Qian had always wanted the wind to be rainy before, and it was the first time to "discuss" this kind of thing, but his mother spoke, and he whispered very reluctantly: "I want a branch."

Xiaoyu was still a little unhappy on her face, and she didn't agree immediately.

Zhen Zhen walked up to Xiaoyu and said, "Sister and brother are together, there will be times when they are happy and when they quarrel." We must learn to enjoy happiness, but also learn to deal with conflicts. I think you did a great job today. First I walked with my younger brother, and then I played with my younger brother. Now I have learned to deal with conflicts with my brother. I'm sure you'll do better in the future! ”

Xiaoyu originally thought that if she quarreled with her brother, the adults would at least criticize her. But Zhen Zhen praised her. She nodded as if she didn't understand, agreeing with Zhen Zhen's statement.

"You have to be able to say to your brother, 'Wait a minute. Let's practice, shall we? Zhen Zhen looked at Xiaoyu's eyes and said sincerely.

"Brother, wait a minute. I'll give it to you after a little while. After Ye Xiaoyu said these words, he quickly understood what Zhen Zhen meant.

So she took out her handkerchief, walked up to her brother, wiped away his tears, picked up the branch that she had thrown on the ground in a fit of rage, and said to him, "You say, I want a branch, and I will give it to you."

Ye Qian understood and blinked. Say, "I want a branch."

Ye Xiaoyu smiled and handed the branch to his younger brother. Ye Qian also burst into tears and laughed.

Zhen Zhen stood beside Xiaoyu and said, "Look, getting along with my younger brother, even if there is a conflict, isn't it so difficult to solve?" If you find something interesting, you can take your brother with you to do it. Slowly, you will become good friends with each other. ”

Chen said appreciatively, "I think you really have a good way."

At this time, a maid came to inform her that the young master and young lady's dinner had been prepared.

Chen pulled Xiaoyu and said, "Let's have dinner with Qian'er next." The meal is ready. ”

While eating, Ye Xiaoyu took the initiative to pick up the bowl and spoon and said, "Brother, I'll feed you."

As he spoke, he took the rice bowl from Mama Ye Qian's hand and fed it one by one. Seeing the rice grains leaking out of the young master's mouth, the people next to him didn't squeak anymore---- Miss wants to play, then play."

After coming over for a while, Zhen Zhen estimated that Ye Xiaoyu had already tasted the freshness of "feeding", so he said, "Xiaoyu, aren't you going to teach your younger brother to eat?" If someone always feeds him, how can he learn? ”

Xiaoyu felt that he was gradually getting into his hands, and refused to let go, saying, "But my brother, he will make the food all over the table."

"Can we figure out a solution to this problem?" Zhen Zhen inspired her, "What do you think is the reason why he spilled food on his body?" ”

"Qian'er, he's too young to hold a spoon steadily." Xiaoyu said.

"Yes, one reason is that his hands are relatively small, and he is easy to get tired when holding a spoon. So, after a long time, he couldn't hold it, and the food in the spoon spilled on the table. Another reason. It's that he is not skilled in eating, and it is easy to knock over the rice bowl. So can we give him a little less food in the bowl? That way, even if he knocks it over, he won't spill too much food. ”

"Okay. I'll feed him a few more bites and let him eat on his own. Then Ye Xiaoyu said to his younger brother: "When you grow up, eat it yourself." As he spoke, he put the bowl on the table in front of Ye Qian, stuffed the spoon into his hand, and taught his younger brother the gesture of holding the spoon.

Mama and the maids watched with trepidation as Young Master Ye ate with a spoon for the first time. Madame sat next to the young master and didn't say no, how dare others say anything?

Ye Qian seemed to feel that there was another toy in his hand, and he took the spoon and pounded the rice in the bowl vigorously.

Zhen Zhen asked Xiaoyu: "Do you think my brother needs to teach anything now?"

Xiaoyu comprehended it in place and said, "Qian'er, the spoon can't be played, it's for eating, you can only eat." As he spoke, he took his brother's hand and helped him scoop up a spoonful of rice and put it in his mouth. A few more grains of rice were sprinkled down.

"Oops, it's sprinkled again!" Xiaoyu said. There are still a lot of etiquette when eating in the Guogong Mansion, and this is one that can't be sprinkled with rice.

Zhen Zhen said: "Your brother can't even hold the spoon steadily, so you want him not to spill food, how is this possible?" Would you like to make that request from him again in a few days? ”

Xiaoyu said, "Then can I use bibimbap with broth for him to eat?" I think it's delicious. ”

"Absolutely." Zhen Zhen said.

Ye Qian held the spoon and knocked on the edge of the bowl, making a clanging sound, he looked very proud.

Xiaoyu added broth to Ye Qian's bowl and said like an adult, "Eat well!" Don't knock! ”

Zhen Zhen made a downward gesture with his hand: "He ate by himself for the first time today, and he was very excited." He couldn't tell the difference between playing games and eating. You have to understand him. He is still young and needs time. Don't be in a hurry. You've taught him a lot today, and you're already a good older sister. ”

Chen also said: "Xiaoyu, take your time." Eat too, and when my brother sees you eating, he has an example. He'll learn from you. ”

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