58 Under A child wants a father A child is beaten by his father
"Na...... I've already introduced the Anke Exhibition, and I'm sure you've checked the information before you came. I would like to ask, what do you think of the sales job? "In the evening, an interview was coming into the school in the conference room
"The more you work, the more you get, the more you earn. I'm not sure exactly what you're asking. "The interviewee asked about the interview.
"Actually, I want to ask, can you endure the hard work of sales. More work and more reward - yes, but in the early stage, any practitioner entering an unfamiliar field, he must have a long accumulation process. As a salesperson, you have to go out to customers, attend meetings, visit exhibitions, hand out business cards, understand the background information of customers, and find relevant people who are linked...... Eighty percent of salespeople often find a new job after passing the next hurdle. Manager Ma stared at the young man opposite.
"I know, I'm willing to give it a try." The young man replied solemnly.
"Uh...... To be honest, I was a bit surprised. Today I interviewed four people, and you are the same from the superficial level of the conditions - low education, average age in 256, your own conditions are good, but the work experience is very simple. The other three hesitated, but you didn't have Sakura...... If you are interested in joining our Anke Exhibition, at least the current two months are all the peripheral work of the exhibition, that is, you can only get the basic salary in the two months after you join, of course, you can bring customers better. ”
"I understand." The young man nodded, looking smart, steady and not anxious.
"Okay, you can join at any time. Other than that...... Sorry ha, scheduled your interview for the evening. ”
"It's okay, Manager Ma."
The two were silent for a while, and Manager Ma ended the interview. After the guy left, she held up Narao's resume and read it again. Zhang Ke, born in 1992, majored in finance, and worked in a trading company for one year, which is all the experience on his resume. The face is handsome and refreshing, dressed exquisitely and stylishly, claiming to have opened a store and invested in it, it should be a rich second generation, I don't know how to perform after joining, I can recruit someone to use it first.
In the past two months, there have been a lot of salesmen, and the remaining personnel have a lot of customers in their hands. Approaching the launch, the salesman's office is often empty recently, and everyone has gone out to run customers, so who will do some of the basic work related to the exhibition in the business department? There was no way, after Gui Ying and Li Yubing reacted truthfully, Sister Li specially approved a quota to recruit a person to assist in the piecemeal work of the exhibition business.
The company wants to reduce costs and not allow employees to be recruited, and no one will deal with some work after the original salesman leaves; finally opened an opening from Sister Li, and with such a humble basic salary, I still want to find a suitable and capable salesman - difficult. Originally, Guiying was going to sign contracts with two customers for the exhibition, so she went to one in the morning, but she postponed one in order to interview her.
After sorting out the resume for the interview, Manager Ma went back to his office and thought about his next job. On Wednesday, I went to a factory in Shuanglong District to finalize the contract with the marketing department there; On Thursday, I went to two old customers in the city to do video surveillance, and the number of booths that had been negotiated before was planned to be settled in black and white; On Friday, she may have to go to a company in Guangzhou, a new client she talked to last year, meet the company's leadership, and then finalize the contract by the way...... As for the group, the head is big! Recently, Cheng's internal turmoil has been extremely turbulent, Gui Ying chatted with Mr. Zhang a few times, who knew that Mr. Zhang had resigned from there after the National Day. How can you talk about this big business without contact? Gui Ying, who received Mr. Zhang's message last night, had insomnia until two or three o'clock.
This year's income is definitely less than in previous years - much less, thanks to her being a business manager, she has a fixed salary of 5,000 yuan a month, but this 5,000 yuan is enough for a family of five to eat!
"Some of our classmates, I don't know if I'm on or on the ground on the seventh day of the National Day, and I haven't done any homework! As far as I know, our Chinese homework is much less than the homework assigned by your math teacher, and that's it, there is one that is not written! What do these students want, do they refuse to take the language test in the college entrance examination? Do you give 120 points to the invigilator? In the evening self-study, the thin female teacher had just finished, and the students were all smiling, but the two eyes of the Chinese teacher were staring sharply at He Yiming.
"I don't care what your reason is, by Friday, you have to make it all up and hand it over to my office, I'll wait! Don't let me name him! I've got face! The teacher glared, walked around the classroom twice, and then left.
He Yiming breathed a sigh of relief, and hurriedly found Huang Yichao next door to ask for his version, and then borrowed his from Hu Hongzhen in the back, two-in-one copying, which will not be the same and can also be synthesized to get a better answer, and secondly, it can also achieve the copying speed he needs. This is not the first time He Yiming has received a deterrent. Therefore, not only did I not write any Chinese homework, but I also did not move English and biology. On the seventh day of the National Day, half of the time I ate and played well in Hunan, and half of the time I spent watching videos, and those few homework were purely out of fear of the teacher.
After arriving home at 10:20 in the evening, I wanted to catch up with my homework for a while, but several classmates were waiting for him to watch videos and compete online at the same time. During this period, the old horse told him not to move, and when the mobile phone was completely out of power, he fell asleep without taking a bath or undressing. Second, he didn't listen to any of the classes, and he was copying homework.
In the morning, when Gui Ying was dressing her daughter and combing her hair, Lao Ma walked to the door of Yangyang's room and said, "Boy...... These old people look at their phones and don't know what he's doing. ”
"From the problem, the National Day is not like that. Which of today's kids doesn't swipe their phones? Even I brushed it up after twelve o'clock last night, and it wasn't a job yet. Now work, study, and communication all use mobile phones, which can be distinguished! Gui Ying finished, didn't wait for Lao Ma's second sentence, went back to the room to clean up, and went out to work when he came out again.
The old horse was lost. After she left, when did she look at her watch, when would she be in such a hurry to work? It's hard to make it the busiest time of the year.
In the evening, Zhong Neng finished washing the dishes and was ready to clean up the room and sleep. Ever since he went to work, he had been yawning incessantly at night. Entering the room, Xuecheng bowed down at the desk to do his homework, and Zhong Neng made the bed. I looked back at the child several times, and found that the baby was in a daze—motionless, in a daze with both eyes, for most of the day.
Of course, it's not the first time that the old man has seen his grandson in a daze, and he is used to seeing it, so he doesn't bother, and sighs softly. After doing all the work, Zhong Neng lay down on the bed and rested, looking at his grandson, and waited for him to finish his homework and watch him fall asleep. Looking at the child's thin back and sluggish personality, Zhong Neng is often worried. It's time to go out and play crazy with friends, but I've never played, and I'm always curled up at home alone. The old man never knew if he had been wronged at school, but thinking about this temperament, he could guess a few points.
Worried, worried about this child.
The child's personality is a mirror of the parent's personality, growing up in such an environment, I don't know if it will gradually become autistic, depressed or have any social disorders, psychological problems, anyway, I don't have a good friend from college. That's right, Zhong Neng has checked a lot of questions on his mobile phone privately - what to do if the child is always in a daze if he doesn't like to talk, is it normal for the child to have no friends when he is eight years old, what happens if the child is often beaten, what is the difference between autism and depression, and what are the common mental illnesses in children......
He can't solve these things with others, and he can't solve them by himself, and he is stuck in his chest like a stone. Is it that he is sweeping the floor on the street, thinking that the child is too sluggish or emotionally single, and he is not energetic and often stops and sighs.
Zhong Neng is not a doctor, does not understand psychology, and is not a smart person, all he can do is give him all the love and care he can give. No matter what you eat, eggs, milk, rice porridge, and Xuecheng's favorite snacks can never be broken; Pick him up from school and be sure to tease the baby until he laughs; I always told him a lot of reassuring and charitable words when I accompanied him at night...... If the child really has any psychological problems, how can he save an old farmer like him?
Zhong Neng thought about it, and with excessive fatigue and melancholy and sadness, he fell asleep in a few minutes under heavy breathing. Xuecheng heard the snoring and came over to cover the list for his grandfather—gently, slowly. After finishing his homework, he turned off the treatment, went to bed, covered himself with the quilt, hugged his grandfather's arm, and fell asleep gently.
Such a precocious child, before going to bed, how much does he need to tell a story, kiss, hug, and have someone to accompany him - to have someone to give him a sense of security, that is the best childhood story.
The week after the National Day was calm and hurried.
Like a Thursday night, Yang Yangyang, who yawned frequently after dinner, fell asleep on the sofa in the blink of an eye. The old horse looked at the gazelle and took the child back to the room. When she got to the room, she suddenly woke up again.
"When will Daddy come back?" From being brought up by a father to going to bed, he keeps asking this question like a robot.
"Later."
"How long will it be?" Yang Yang asked with a wink.
"You count a hundred, and your dad will come back." The old horse sat on the edge of the bed and coaxed her.
"And when will my mom be back?" Yang Yang grabbed his hands and feet, his eyes full of anticipation.
"Ten o'clock." When asked such a question, Lao Ma always felt a little difficult to answer.
"Ten o'clock...... So when will my brother come back? "The child was very disappointed.
"Ten twenty. Grandpa accompanies you and waits for them, won't you? ”
"Done."
The child struggled desperately between waiting and sleeping, and the old horse looked at the torment and coaxed: "Master will tell you a story, do you like to hear it?" ”
"Uh...... After listening to the story my mom and my dad...... And can my brother come back? ”
"Yes! Absolutely! Grandpa gives you a packed ticket! After telling the story, the three of them haven't come back yet, grandpa will buy you candy to eat, and give you another five yuan, okay? ”
"Done." The child's eyelids flashed, and he almost fell asleep, shook his body, opened his eyes and listened hard.
"Once upon a time, there were two people – Zhang San and Li Si – who were farming in the field, and there was so much grass in the field that they couldn't hoe it all the time. Zhang Sanyi burned the grass and wheat together, and soon the grass grew again. Li Si didn't hoe the grass, he let the grass grow together with the seedlings, and as a result, the millet turned into dog's tail grass and the wheat became barnyard seeds. In the spring, the two had to go hungry. One of them went to Wang Wu and cried that the crops were not good and could not be planted, and Wang Wu explained to them that the crops could not grow on their own, and that the people kept hoeing, fertilizing, and loosening the soil all year round......
"Huh!" Yang Yang, who had been closing her eyes quickly, suddenly shook her whole body - she woke up again, thinking that the story had already been told, she slowly fluttered her eyelashes and asked her grandfather, "My father is back...... No? ”
"Nope! This story is not over yet! Isn't it okay, after the story is told, he came back together. ”
The old horse saw that this story was plain and unpleasant, so he raised his ass and shook his body, and remembered another story - his grandfather told him when he was a baby. The old man licked his lips and said, "Grandpa has continued!" There was a man who raised a group of monkeys, and he dressed them and taught them to dance, spin in circles, and do movements. The man trained the monkeys in a proper manner, and as long as he beat the beats, the monkeys moved together as if they were dancing, and then they performed for people, and made a lot of money. As a result, there is a group of dolls, they feel that they are not as good as a group of monkeys, a little jealous, angry, and thinking about trick-or-treating. Once, when they were watching the man direct the monkey performance, they hid a lot of food in their pockets in advance—bananas, corn, chestnuts...... While the monkeys were performing, the dolls threw their food on the ground, and the monkeys were all in a mess – on the table, on the bench, crawling on people...... Turning all the things on the table upside down, the monkey keeper can't do anything to scold......" When the old horse looked back at Yangyang, the baby had fallen asleep.
The old man breathed a sigh of relief, moved the doll into the bed, and prepared to cover the list and turn off the lights and leave. Who knew that when it was rippling, the old horse saw two patches of red on the baby's right shoulder - a little swollen, big apricot, very red! The old horse frowned and touched it, but he didn't understand, he just thought that he had been bitten by an insect, wiped two mouthfuls of saliva, and forgot it.
After coaxing the children, Lao Ma helped Yangyang pack his schoolbag and simply clean up the toys in the room. Recently, the baby always asks her parents, almost every time she goes to bed, she has to ask three or five times, seven or eight times, Lao Ma listened to it at first, and then felt annoying, and now she can't help but feel sad when she listens to it, only to fool her with some childhood stories.
Her brother didn't study at night, and occasionally came back early to basically treat the baby as air, and when he came home, he hugged a mobile phone and chirped like chanting; Her mother was busy before and after the National Day, either drunk or nowhere to be seen, and the baby was basically still dreaming when she combed her hair and dressed her in the morning; After ten o'clock in the evening, when her father came back, the baby slept more muddy, and he couldn't wake up when he lifted it and fell down, not to mention that his father just habitually kissed and touched his face. If there is really no old man at home to take care of, what is the difference between a domestic baby and a baby without a mother?
Urban life has reshaped the structure of the family, and how many children are looking forward to their parents at this moment, but they can't look forward to anything. Which company doesn't work overtime? What kind of job can work normally and pick up and drop off the children by the way? What industry can allow a caregiver to juggle both? The damage and squeeze of the family in the city cannot be erased, and the industrialization of excessive subdivision has turned the individual into a ruthless part and the family into a hidden subordinate, which is by no means the case in an agrarian society. The family is supreme, all agricultural or rural activities are based on the family, and the purpose of all agricultural or rural activities is the continuation of the family. Children grow up in an open and free place, and no matter what they do, they are like sheep and cows on the slope, and when they look up and see their mother, someone will respond to them with their mouths.
Pity the people who are busy in the vast buildings.
On Friday night, the three gentlemen of the Zhong family ate, the middle-aged smoked, and the old cleaned up the dishes and chopsticks. In order to save time, Zhong Neng took a few dishes back to the kitchen to wash the pots and dishes, and Xuecheng was still eating the food in the bowl. There was a burst of laughter at Sister Zhang's house for some reason, and Xuecheng laughed inexplicably when he heard the reputation, and a chopstick in the chuckle was mixed with a leaf on the chopsticks. Xuecheng reflexively glanced at his father first, and saw his father stepping on the sofa with his right foot, shaking the cigarette ash with his right hand, and staring at him with both eyes.
He slowly picked up the chopsticks on the ground, and after picking them up, he looked up at his father, not knowing whether to use them or not. Five seconds later, he merged the two chopsticks together and continued to eat.
"Pick up the vegetables on the floor!" Zhong Li pointed with a cigarette butt.
Zhong Li means to pick up the vegetables on the ground and eat them or pick them up and throw them in the trash, others don't know, Xuecheng understands the latter in a panic. The green cabbage leaf is stained with soil, how can you pick it up and eat it? Xuecheng withdrew his eyes from looking at the vegetable leaves on the ground, stared at the empty coffee table, and did not move. A few seconds later, he raised his eyes and glared at his father.
"Pick up the dishes!" Zhong Li roared.
Xuecheng didn't want to eat the soil-stained vegetable leaves, so he left it as it was, as if he had been pointed.
Zhong Li gently kicked his son's arm with his foot and asked, "Do you pick it up?" ”
Xuecheng didn't know if he was stupid or sat still, and after his father took his feet back, he glared at his father, hiding anger and grievances in his eyes that he would not hide.
"What are you staring at?" With a snap, a slap landed on the child's right cheek, and the half of the face instantly turned red and hot.
Learn to hold the bowl and chopsticks in both hands, the knees are close together, the body is straight, and the mouth is hard. After being beaten, he still did not move, and glared at his father again.
"You stare again!" Zhong Li sat up straight and pointed at his son and yelled, the kind of disobedience and denial from his son, he couldn't tolerate it, and was completely enraged.
Xuecheng looked down at the dishes and chopsticks, his chin was slightly raised, his two lips were the size of a cherry, and his nostrils were open outward.
Children who are used to being beaten are most afraid of being beaten, and the least afraid of being beaten is also being beaten.
Father and son are in a stalemate.
Zhongli's irritability has reached a critical point.
The old man Zhong Neng ran over with his hands in his hands, and when he saw this, he frowned and muttered: "What are you doing here, baby eat, what are you yelling here!" ”
"I told you to stare at you!" Zhong Li didn't listen to his father, and after pointing at his son, he slapped him again, his face turned even redder, and his right eye kept flickering and blinking.
Seeing this, the old man hugged the child and held it in his arms. The eight-year-old child in his arms was weak and his eyes were fierce. The anger in his eyes must have used all his strength and courage.
Zhong Li, who was always staring at his eyes, was completely out of control. He stood up and walked around the coffee table and reached out his big hand to pull the son in his father's arms. The old man quickly turned around and tried his best to hold the child, Zhong Li flashed his body and tried to pull Xuecheng out of his father's left side, he pulled out Xuecheng's left arm and pulled it roughly.
"What are you staring at! If you don't clean up today, it's against you! I call you glare! Zhong Li pulled hard.
The old man was afraid that he would beat his grandson out of trouble, so he held on to it. Zhong Li saw that he couldn't pull it out, so he grabbed the child's collar with his big palm and broke the old left and right with both hands.
"The door is open! Are you crazy? Are you going to beat the baby to death......" the old man begged incessantly.
Zhong Xuecheng didn't cry or move, holding the dishes and chopsticks in both hands, and listened to the two of them dragging him around in his grandfather's arms. Old Man Zhong was angry and slapped his son: "Look at what you have made the family look like!" Your daughter-in-law has gone out, and now you are drinking and beating the baby, are you still like a person? ”
The old man hit this time, his left hand was loosened, Zhong Li took the opportunity to pull out his son and opened his father, the prime man was too hard, and the old man was knocked down unguarded, and his waist was first in the corner of the coffee table, and then the whole person fell unsteadily on Lin. Seeing this, Xuecheng threw away the dishes and chopsticks and broke free to pull grandpa, and his fierce eyes instantly burst into tears because of his grandfather's fall.
"I told you to stare at! What ......" Zhong Li scolded and kicked his son a few times, and when he saw the old man who fell on the left and right sides, he felt extremely guilty for a while, and he didn't have the face to look at it anymore, so he shook his hand and went out.
Xuecheng aunt hurt himself, and when he saw that his buttocks and legs could move, he slowly got up to help his grandfather. Zhong Neng covered his waist, didn't say a word, and looked bitter. Afraid that the people coming and going at the door would see jokes, the old man sat up desperately, and then staggered from the sofa to the kitchen, entered the kitchen and turned back to Xuecheng: "Grandpa is fine, Cheng'er, you hurry up and do your homework, don't let me worry." He pretended to be relaxed and wanted to open the child, then closed the kitchen door, and could not move for about twenty minutes. A man of old age, facing a greasy window, with a black face, like a waterfall, is full of water.
Xuecheng is like a cat, standing quietly at the kitchen door, looking at his grandfather. His face was flushed, like a spring, and it was full of water.
"The daughter-in-law who repaired the car at the east gate bragged - her family's paint is good, the tires are good, her man can repair it, she can repair it, obviously the technology is the most expensive, and she blows the fucking cowhide, I don't look down on her problem! Look at her, his man is so capable, why don't he press the plane in reverse gear, clean the oil tank for the aircraft carrier, and polish and wax the atomic bomb? Isn't he just a mechanic who repairs cars, as if he can repair bombers and build satellites! ”
"Hahahahaha......" Sister Zhang's family of four laughed, with the fragrance on the dining table, from the door of her kitchen through her living room, market lane, Zhong family's living room, and finally to the inside and outside of Zhong's kitchen.
The cold and heat in the world are different, this family is sad and that family is happy.