Even if they want to change, it's hard.

Because they don't realize that they are wrong, they don't know that they are wrong, so what can they talk about?

Isn't that a joke?

Although we may think they are ridiculous now, in their time, maybe we would not feel like that.

Because, in reality, their behavior is not ridiculous at all, but we are only looking at them from a perspective that does not belong to the contemporary era.

But there was one person who belonged to the time who didn't think so, on the contrary, he also thought that they were wrong to do so.

And that person is the old man.

It's him, yes, his thinking is completely beyond the limits of that time, and his thinking is to some extent the same as that of people hundreds or thousands of years later.

But what's the use of the same, after all, his strength is limited, and there is no way to promote this kind of thinking, all he can do is to practice it in his own home.

It can be seen from the matter of his daughter's marriage contract that he respects others very much, and he is definitely not the kind of person who likes to impose his thoughts on others, in fact, this is also a kind of presumptuous thinking that imposes thinking, but this kind of presumptuous is a good way, because this way is a way to give others freedom, not to force others, and not to make others feel uncomfortable.

Anyway, as long as they are not the kind of people who like other people's ideas for themselves, they will not be disgusted by this method, after all, this kind of presumptuous will not cause them any negative effects.

At best, I didn't get an idea.

Actually, the old man also wants to give ideas, but the other party doesn't give him that chance, doesn't give him that opportunity, how can he achieve it!!

After all, he knows that the melon he asks for is not sweet, and he doesn't have that habit, if he insists on forcing him to do things than others, really, he is very uncomfortable, but he doesn't want his daughter to regret it in the future, after all, he is still very optimistic about a few children, but after he asked, his daughter didn't have that mind, and he didn't have the mind to take a look, plus he was soft-hearted, and under his daughter's coquettishness, he compromised all of a sudden.

But when he came back, he regretted it a little, so he discussed it with his daughter-in-law, and in the end, he was still ready to invite his daughter-in-law to ask, after all, the child was closer to his mother, and maybe his mother would be able to ask.

Really, at first, he still had a lot of expectations.

But it wasn't long before his wife returned.

After seeing his wife come back, in an instant, a light appeared in his eyes, and then he immediately asked.

But his wife immediately shook her head and said, "I'm sorry, old man, I didn't ask, no matter how I asked, I didn't do anything with her, they all prevaricated themselves on the grounds that they were still old and waiting."

After hearing such an answer, really, he couldn't believe it.

But he immediately asked, "Did you let him go and see it?" Just go and see what if you catch your eye? There are a few children among them, I still like them, it's really good, but don't be rash! ”

Why didn't you ask! I asked, but he still didn't want to meet, he kept shaking his head, and finally I couldn't do anything about it.

Ay!

After hearing such a recovery, the old man sighed in an instant, it seems that this child is still too stubborn.

Old man, why don't we force her to go and see it, anyway, we're here for him, and there's nothing to do.

Ay!

Forget it, don't do it, it's really not good to do this, we still respect the child's will, since he doesn't have that idea, let's not consider it for the time being, after all, it's just reached the age of marriage, and there is no real marriage yet, maybe it's really not ready, let's be considerate and considerate of them.

You know, we also seem to come from that one.

When we were asked to do so much, in fact, we were still quite disgusted and uncomfortable to do those things, and we could understand him if we empathized for a while.

After hearing that her husband was like this, the woman had no choice, and then he sighed, and then said, old man, you are a good person, you are too kind.

It's too ruthless, have you forgotten, those people in the past, how did they help them, and last time, after they had a little crisis, do you still remember those Rao reactions, there are not many people who remember how good they are.

Is this a good job!?

Ay!

Madame!!!!!

It's okay, we help them, it's our ideas, it's our resources.

And there are no decrees written on it, after we help others, others must repay us!

Forget it.

At least that time, we saw some of Rao's true colors, and we weren't completely friendless, at least a few of them helped us.

They should be regarded as our pot friends, life in the world, most of them are passers-by, there is no need to have so many friends, in fact, it would be good to have a few friends.

You don't have to have that much, and you know that sometimes having too many friends can be a burden.

For example, when they have a birthday, we have to go, and after they go, we have to give things, aren't these all money?

There is no problem with a few times a year, but if there is a ** time a year, it is not good.

If it's dozens of times, it's really a huge burden. It's a burden like that, really, and few people can't afford it.

For his family, it is regarded as his family, although his family is rich in his place, but eight times and nine times is indeed not a number.

As far as the limit is concerned, it is only a dozen times, at most second-hand times.

Therefore, if you really want to give a gift like that, it is really possible to send him bankrupt, and even if he is not bankrupt, his life will definitely not be affected.

After all, if it's really a good friend, it's definitely not reasonable not to send things, and it's easy to be gossiped by others, really, what he hates the most is other people's gossip, so for these things, he won't let them happen.

There's no way, he's just such a brainless person, he values some things so much, especially for friends, if it's a real friend, when they are in trouble, he will definitely help no matter what.

Because otherwise, what kind of friend is it?

If something happens to your friend and you don't help, then what are you?

Even if he doesn't get a white eye, really, he can't stand it, I believe that just like that, no matter who it is, no one can stand it. Because that's not what a normal person should do.

Looking back on his voice, his promises, and his promises to his friends have almost been fulfilled.

The only time he didn't do it was because he couldn't really help because he was so far away from him.

He was just a civilian, he didn't have that ability at all, and he had to give up in the end, but really, those things still left a lot of regrets in his heart.

But he did his best.

After the final assessment, he found that he didn't have that ability at all, and he didn't have that ability to go far away, you know, going far away was not a simple thing at that time, thinking was a more difficult thing, and ordinary people couldn't afford to go far at all.

You know, going far away means that you have to throw away something, give up the time you can't work for months or even years, you know, many people still point to the harvest every year.

If there is no harvest in any year, or if the harvest is drastically reduced, they may even starve to death.

The world is so big, almost every such thing is happening, although his family is not so poor under his hard work, but really, in fact, it is not much better, and it is also very limited, not ordinary limited, but really very limited.

He's just a short man, just a tall man among short people, and he's definitely not tall when he looks at it all, so he can only barely do it, and in the eyes of some people who aren't too rich, he seems to be just a commoner.

Therefore, there are many things that cannot be done in any case, such as going far away.

He is the main labor force in the family, and if he is gone, it means that the family will have a lot less food for at least a few months.

Even in the end, there is no way to get enough food, which is one of them, and the cost of the journey is also very high. 、

And during the journey, you have to pass through a lot of lofty mountains and mountains, and there are so many wild beasts in them that if you are not careful, you may lose your life.

It can be very dangerous, if you lose your life, what will happen to your wife and children?

Obviously, there is not much way back

So he not only has to think about his friends, but also for his wife and children.

After all, their responsibilities should be borne by themselves.

After all, he is the head of the family, since he has this title, then he should take this responsibility, otherwise, he will be spurned by tens of millions.

If something like this happens, he will be very embarrassed.

And he also received the weight, presumably his friends would not blame him if they knew him like this, after all, life and death are fate, wealth and wealth,

No one can give up helping their friends for the sake of their children and wives, what's wrong?

And he didn't give up, but he really didn't have that ability! 1

And he can't bear it, if he leaves, he won't worry about leaving orphans and widows at home!

After all, they are not very safe, there are still some ruffians and hooligans, and a big man must be present to be able to suppress them, otherwise it will be very dangerous.

So, in the end, he was really hesitant and decided to let go.

Only, if he still has a chance to live, when he comes here, he must treat him well, as for other things, he really has no way to give.

And he did his best.

If he is not so far away, he can still help, but if he is so far away, he can only have more than enough heart and not enough strength.

Presumably he wouldn't blame himself so much after learning the truth of the facts.

I can only hope for this!

But since then, he has not heard from his friend.

I don't know if it's hidden, or if it's really over.

Even now that he thought about it, he felt ashamed.

But what they didn't know was that his incident was nothing at all in Be's eyes.

There is no need to feel guilty at all.

Because in the eyes of most people, friends are just friends after all, and when something happens, there are things that are more important than family, after all, family members are real relatives and people who are related to themselves by blood.

is the person who is most worthy of his help, and the other priority levels must be lowered by one level.

He also understands this truth.

But just as there are times when you make a choice, there are some things that may be the best and most worthwhile.

But more or less there will be some regrets.

For those regrets, there is no way to let go.

At least he felt that he couldn't let go, or that it was hard to let go, and it wasn't easy to forget a sense of guilt.

After all, there is a difference between humans and animals, and humans have stronger emotional needs and expressions than animals.

But he's really a bit too much.

This world is like this, everyone is independent, they are all unique, and they all have their own characteristics.

To exist is to be reasonable, as long as it is not bad. 、

There's nothing to do.

After all, his behavior will not hurt others too much, but it is his relatives who will hurt the most.

After all, he sacrificed his own interests to meet Birao's needs, and many people can't stand such things, but here, he is an exception.

That is, his wife is different, or he is lucky enough to get a reasonable wife.

He knows how to be considerate of him, usually does not scold him, and many things will be supported, it is with this trust and persistence, he is very happy, and everyone is very motivated.

Because he swore that he must make each one better than the previous one, so that one day he could give his wife a good living condition, and he did not want to let his wife suffer with him.

Really, he really felt a little guilty,

In the deepest part of his heart, he actually has some inferiority complex.

Because, it was clear that he could marry a better man on the condition of his wife's husband, but in the end he followed him, which seemed to delay him a little.

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