So on the surface, progress is slow, but in reality, it's definitely not slow. Because it's an established fact.

However, in these seemingly short and long years, countless things have happened. Countless things, let the smell sigh.

There is no way to avoid these things, or they are very difficult to avoid.

Because not everyone has the right to resist.

Not everyone is a rule-maker.

Most of them are just ordinary people.

It is not easy to be able to avoid such and such injustices, and it is tantamount to a fool's dream to try to control and spare fate.

At the thought of his uncontrollable fate, tears welled up in Lao Rao's eyes again, as he began to ring her daughter.

Remember, it was even before I was younger,

Although the old man is ordinary-looking, his wife is very good-looking.

And his son is very similar to him, inherited his genes, not too good-looking, but also better than him, after all, his wife is still very good-looking,

As for his daughter, she almost completely inherited his wife's appearance.

is even better than blue, and looks at himself with such a beautiful daughter.

Really, his heart melted just by looking at it. And this daughter is also very sensible and considerate, never causes trouble, and often cares about him and her.

He likes this daughter very much, more than his eldest son.

You must know that in their time, girls generally had no status, while men had the most status. So the attitude of the family towards girls and boys is completely different.

There are even some baby girls who are abandoned by their parents when they are born.

This is enough to show how low the status of baby girls is.

And they are often treated badly at home.

All good things are satisfied with the boys first, and then they begin to satisfy the girls.

No one doubts this status quo, and no one dares to oppose it. Because this is something that has been passed down from our ancestors for hundreds of years, no one dares to disobey it.

For a long time, it has become a normal concept in their hearts, but what they don't know is that this concept is absurd and jealous absurd.

And there's no reason for it, it's completely untenable.

But at that time, it was like the truth, no one could resist, no one could resist, if anyone dared to resist, who was a sinner, who was unfilial,

And in the end, they will all be punished.

In fact, there is another reason, that is, at that time, men dominated the world, and almost everything was decided by men, so they didn't want to break the dominant position of men, they only thought about how to consolidate, there may be a few people with better concepts, but at that time, in that world, there were still too few and too few such people.

There are so few that they almost do not exist, and even if they do, their voices are inaudible to others,

With their few spare voices, there is no way and ability to break the magic barriers that have been planted on women for hundreds of years.

Of course, it is not that no one resisted, but because of the power of resistance, it was too much.

And most people get that kind of education.

From that time on, that kind of concept was planted in the mind, and then slowly sprouted, and finally produced a huge fruit, which is called the supremacy of Nanquan, the supremacy of men and the inferiority of women.

So they have almost no opinion on that treatment, as if it were justified.

It's like at that time, the order of the parents is greater, and no one can disobey the orders of their parents except for the emperor.

In fact, what people don't know is how much damage such ideas have caused to a woman for hundreds of years, decades, and it is precisely because of the existence of these concepts that they have no way to live a normal life, have no freedom of their own, do not get enough respect, and in the end can only live a lifetime with regrets and people they don't like.

If such a thing happened to us today, I don't think it would be unimaginable, because these things are really too different from the current concept.

Today, this situation has improved thanks to the crying and fighting for freedom from the people who came before them.

In the end, it took a lot of difficulties and dangers to change this incorrect rule.

People today may be happy, but the history of the past is still vivid, as if it were happening right in front of them.

And most of the old man's time did not escape that fate.

And the same is true of Lao Rao's daughter. As everyone knows, he used to care for his daughter, but in the end he ended up like that.

Here's what happened.

His girl is very cute when she is there,

It's very likable in the village, and as you get older, you gradually become slim.

It looks very cute.

It's a beautiful embryo.

The boys of the same village want to show themselves in front of his girl.

But they are all uneducated guys, and many of the things they do look particularly funny in the eyes of others.

But they don't realize it.

And his daughter, but she can see clearly, so she probably doesn't have a good feeling, you know, this is just a place, in this place, there are basically no dragons and phoenixes, but this is an exception, except for a big beauty.

Gradually, the prestige of his girl spread farther and farther, and then many people came to see it with curiosity.

It doesn't matter if you don't look at it, if you look at it, you don't feel unmoved

In the end, many people came to his house one after another to propose marriage

For these family affairs, really, the old man has a headache, and a few of them are very old and appetizing, but you, from the moment he arrived, he is different from others, he did not immediately make his own decision, but went to ask his daughter's opinion, but his daughter, almost every time, refused at his own age, this is too congested for his daughter.

The old man was also speechless, he wondered if his girl had something to hide from him, and then he wanted to ask on the side, but after a few times, he almost didn't smell anything, and then, he couldn't help but wonder, is it really like she has nothing, or, this girl has something on her mind and has been silent, and her mouth is strict!

At that time, he estimated that he could still see his daughter's mind clearly, but as his daughter gradually grew up, she may become smarter and no longer dependent on herself, and in the end, there are many things that he can't see through more and more.

However, he didn't want to interfere too much with a child's mind, he felt that he should leave some ** for the other party.

is under the dominance of such thoughts, almost the old man has not spied into his daughter's heart.

Her mother got along with her more, and he couldn't help but think of his daughter-in-law, and then he talked to his daughter-in-law, and after talking, his daughter-in-law told him that this guy definitely had something on his mind, and he definitely didn't want to be so simple in words.

After getting along with his daughter-in-law, he was very convinced of his opinion, really, because he knew that his daughter-in-law was definitely not stupid, and he would not lie to himself, and finally after learning the truth of the matter, he had no choice, and finally had to ask his daughter-in-law to come forward and ask again to see if he could make new progress.

Really, he's a little anxious now, because his daughter is gone.

At least not at the time. It's almost the age to get married, and there are a few of them he likes.

He didn't want his daughter to miss out.

After all, as an elder, you still have to think more about your daughter.

After all, it's your own relatives and your own children!!

Children, and their age is very different, mentally, thinking about problems, it is inevitable that some immaturity, so they must intervene to a certain extent, otherwise he will not fulfill his responsibilities as parents, it is in this mentality that he is a little anxious.

If she was the daughter of another family, he wouldn't worry so much, but he was in a hurry, but he still hoped that he could respect the other party.

He is such a stubborn person, even if it is his own child, he must respect the other party, and not easily force the other party to do anything.

This matter, in the eyes of the neighbors around him, can be quite unbelievable.

You know, in their opinion, their parents' will is definitely greater than their own.

It's not too much to say that parents are greater, after all, they have all been like this before.

What matchmaker's words, parents' orders.

Everyone grew up like this, one by one.

So that pattern of thinking is already imprinted in their minds.

At this moment, in their minds, only this approach is correct, and all other practices are unfilial.

but spurned by all men.

If a child does not listen to his parents, he will be condemned by the whole family.

So for a person, it will be very difficult to disobey his parents.

And these parents are also accustomed to exercising their own rights, outside, they can't control other people, at home, they can't be the masters?

How can this work?

No............ Absolutely not1............ If someone hears about something like this, it will be laughed at.

Really, they almost all have that mentality.

But as everyone knows, their behavior will seem absurd to people hundreds or thousands of years later.

But in fact, there is nothing to blame, after all, many things are limited by the history of the curtain time.

When we make an evaluation, we should try our best to evaluate it from the historical conditions at that time, rather than detaching it from historical evaluation, otherwise it will be biased.

After all, it's like a person looking at a child, comparing a child with an adult, at this time, most adults are superior, but this can't always be done by this child

Obviously this is not wrong?

They are still that old, completely different age from those adults, and it is very unfair to judge them like that.

In the same way, when we evaluate the events of hundreds or thousands of years ago from the perspective of the present, sometimes it is unfair to them.

However, Lao Rao seems to have traveled through time and space, he is an alternative, maybe a million people, among ten million people, he can't find such a person.

But even if he is puzzled and confused by people all over the world, he doesn't want to change.

Because he feels that everyone is an individual, and if he can't be their parents, he must have the right to ask them to do this or that thing, although he chose to give birth to them and raise them.

But after all, this is not what they ask for, they are all willing, so they don't owe it to themselves.

So there's no need to do what you say.

This set of words may be correct, but what about the things at the bottom, so many correct things must be accepted by most people?

Obviously, absolutely not.

First, some people have no way to distinguish right from wrong in some things, and in their opinion, it is not difficult to be right and wrong, that is, what was right in the past, then we think that this is right.

Because most of the will of Qianrao is irresistible, otherwise, it is unfilial.

If you are labeled as unfilial, it is actually embarrassing.

And it's very easy to be spurned, and he doesn't want to be spurned like that.

In any case, it is absolutely impossible.

And they don't like to think, as long as they are not so completely wrong, then what their predecessors have passed down from their parents is the truth.

As everyone knows, how foolish this approach is.

But they don't care, because they can't resist, and when they grow up, they can exercise this right themselves.

After a long time of exercising this set of rights, they were overthrown at once, and there was nothing left.

In any case, physically, mentally, they will feel very uncomfortable.

In the end, the result will not change. Why changed.

After all, that's what everyone does.

And if your children don't stop yourself, then what are you?

Is there still the dignity of being a father and mother?

This is a kind of machismo.

But such behavior has become the consensus of the world. At least at the time it was a consensus, so they didn't think they were wrong.

If so, what about those who oppress them?

It's not that they are all at fault, although they know that they are wrong, but they dare not disobey, because once they disobey the conversation. They don't have any power in their hands, and if they do, they will only learn a lesson.

At worst, they will be educated, and at worst, they will be sent to prison.

Of course, this is not the main reason.

So what is the main reason?

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