11 Eat dumb losses for women, teach children to be understandable

Weng's son-in-law was full of gas, and he didn't eat much for dinner. Yangyang ate quietly from beginning to end, and seemed to have understood that this storm was caused by her. As soon as the three of them finished eating, Gui Ying returned.

"Why don't you wait for me to eat?" Gui Ying looked at the scraps on the table and said.

"The old man and the child are hungry! Do you want them to wait for you? I'll keep it in the kitchen for you! After Zhiyuan finished speaking, he went to serve the food and rice.

"Wow, stir-fried beef with pork rib soup and garlic sprouts! The three of you secretly eat delicious food at home! Gui Ying said as she picked up the bowl and ate in a big gulp.

"Zhiyuan, you take her away and ...... first" The old horse pointed at Yangyang with his chin.

"What's the matter—forget it?" When Yangyang left, Lao Ma asked Gui Ying.

"Oh, the village chief of the horse has no eyes! The head of my family didn't finish the meal of three, you talk to me about this! Gui Ying quickly ate a few mouthfuls, raised her eyes and asked Lao Ma: "Tell me, what's wrong with it?" ”

"You've been out there for so many years, can't you solve such a problem?"

"Your pen has been bought for you, and it will be in two or three days!" Gui Ying was slightly displeased.

"I'm not talking about the pen!" The old horse knocked on the table.

"And what do you mean?" Gui Ying asked after swallowing the rice.

"Dad wants to get the pen back without hurting and getting it back!"

"How is that possible! If she were a person of conscience, would she take the rippling pen away? Unless she sends it back, or it's no fun, do you think she'll send it back? Gui Ying asked Zhiyuan, but Zhiyuan was speechless.

"Hey, it's a big bag!" The old horse rolled his eyes and said Gui Ying.

"It's nothing for me to suffer for my child! Isn't it possible for me to beat, scold, and beg for what you want? Do you want to punish adultery and eliminate evil and do justice? I'm sorry Chief Ma! I don't have this time, I have to support my family and run customers to make money! The mantis arm is beyond the power of the car - I really don't have time to do it! If you think it's just a teacher's personal problem, then I can only say that Village Chief Ma is very simple! The environment is like this, why should I hit a stone with an egg! As long as this Xiaowen teacher doesn't hurt my child, as long as she attends classes well, whenever I see someone, I have to be grateful to Dade with both hands! All she wants is a pen - I can afford this Ma Guiying! What if a teacher asks a child for something more precious than a pen? Then I can't afford it, it's okay - I'm transferring! But what about the physically and mentally injured children? There is no point in me doing anything other than to earn more money to buy a better learning environment for my children! The whole society is like this, why don't I be like everyone else - choose Mingzhe to protect myself! If you think you can solve this problem well - don't hurt the child, don't offend the teacher, and get the pen back, then the village chief, you go! If you really solve it, I admire you on the ground! When Gui Ying said these words, she squirted out rice grains excitedly.

The old horse was speechless as he breathed smoke.

"There will definitely be a good way, but we ......" Zhiyuan wanted to relieve the old horse.

"Why not? Yes! If I want to be something, what kind of head do I need? I'm afraid she has to send it respectfully! And by the way, you're going to give me a big gift! I'm going to drive a sports car and bring a watch to her, and she's scared! It's a pity that I'm nothing! People dare to do this, pinching you are a soft persimmon with no background! Ay! Old village chief, your so-called justice is hiding in the book! Song Jiang and Cao Cao, either raise their own apricot yellow banner or attack the city and seize the land to fight him! That's a Qin dialect excerpt! Real life is always real life! I'm not qualified to instruct others, I can only restrain myself to be a good person, in case I, a good old man, is bullied, then I can only quickly avoid and stop the loss in time! As a pair of the most ordinary parents, what else can we do besides making more money? Zhiyuan has been in this circle for so many years, big (Dad) look! Even he, a former high school teacher, was silent! What more can I say? Gui Ying's crowded eyebrows flashed with water.

"Hey! Hurry up and clean up after eating, and go to bed early! The old horse sighed, and after saying that, he turned around and went back to the house.

"Just finished eating and let me take a break! Let's pick up the boy later, shall we? Zhiyuan understood, nodded and brought the dishes into the kitchen.

The old horse went back to the room and lay down on the bed, his belly was hot. The things in this world have been going through for seventy years—it's not that I don't understand. It's just that the cunning and darkness of adults contaminate the child so early, and he is a little indignant. He couldn't get the pen back, nor could he beat and scold the teacher, so he could only chew his anger in his heart, chew it and swallow it. There must be a better way, it's just that the three of them are cowardly and stupid and can't think of it. Since ancient times, there have been bullies and bullying the small, and people have learned it for thousands of years, and the old horse shook his head and was melancholy. He has watched with his eyes for seventy years, and the appearance of this society is old, but it is not old; It seems new, and it's not new.

It's not half past eight, and there is still a while before the next night's self-study. The two returned to the room, and Gui Ying rested quietly in Zhiyuan's arms. Zhiyuan's gentle and stable embrace always gives her strength, like a power bank. She loved to be held tightly by him, and when she thought of it, she felt that life had been so kind to her. Over the years, she has been running customers outside, how many nests she has swallowed, how many tears she has swallowed, even though she has cultivated herself into a powerful man from the inside out, as long as she sees the truth of this world, she is immediately so fragile that she panics in the middle of the night. Gui Ying can only wrap herself with surrender and disguise herself with toughness. Fortunately, she has far-reaching love and the laughter of her two children, as a woman, she is not at a loss and not weak.

"They studied at 9:40, and now it's 9 o'clock, and we almost have to leave when we walk to the gate of their school! Wait for him at the door early and let him sneer! Zhiyuan said in Gui Ying's ear.

"Hmm...... Tired! Gui Ying was so tired that she couldn't get up.

"Why don't I pick him up, I'll talk to him! It's not that Tsai is ignorant and can't listen. Zhiyuan felt sorry for his wife and kissed her forehead.

"No, I'll hit me! Be a messenger of flowers! ”

"Haha, okay! My precious and immaculate flowers! Get up! ”

"Haha......" Gui Ying laughed clearly.

Zhiyuan got up first to look at Yangyang, she was still writing her homework there, she hadn't finished writing for an hour on a palm-sized piece of paper, Zhiyuan couldn't stop smiling.

"Dad, it's almost time for Yangyang to go to bed, I'll take her here to do your homework, she wants to write sleepy, you let her sleep in the boy bed first!" The old horse sat up and nodded, and the two of them changed their shoes and went out.

Yang Yang drooped his eyelids and copied the homework, looking at the old horse while copying, and looking at the old horse for a minute and then bowing his head to copy the homework for a few seconds, and so on and so on for ten minutes. The old horse couldn't help laughing, and this laugh made Yang Yang tremble with a big wit.

"Hee-hee-hee...... What are you laughing at? Yang Yang has been brewing for a long time and asked the old horse.

"What do you think I'm doing? Sleepy bugs! Lao Ma also asked her.

"Nothing! What is a sleepy bug? ”

"Bugs that sleep all the time are called sleepy bugs!"

"Hey, hey, hey...... Then I seem to be a sleepy bug! Yang Yang smiled, then flashed his back to the back and yawned slowly.

"Grandpa is asking you a question, okay?" The old horse moved a little beside Yangyang.

"What's the problem?"

"Why did Mr. Xiaowen ask for your pen? What did she say? The old horse performed a smile like a Buddha.

"Teacher Xiaowen said that she liked the pen very much, and she asked me if I could give her that pen?"

"And what do you say?"

"I didn't say anything......"

"Teacher Xiaowen took that pen away from you?"

"Not from me, she took it from my desk!" Yangyang's eyes flashed wide, and her clean face was like an angel.

"It's okay, it's okay! That pen is not good, grandpa has a lot of better pens! Do you want it? The old horse lifted his rough palm and gently stroked his yellow hair.

"I don't want it!"

"Why?"

"That one is too heavy...... I can't pick it up! ”

"Hey, hey, hey......" the old horse laughed.

The conversation between grandparents and grandchildren stopped, and Yangyang continued to copy homework and watch grandpa. A few minutes later, Yangyang asked his grandfather with a sad face, "Grandpa, did I make a mistake?" ”

When the old horse heard this, he stared for a moment, speechless, only felt his nose burn, and then he shook his head sharply and said, "What mistake can you make a sleepy worm and a foolish worm!" You're making a mistake if you don't play with grandpa! ”

Yang Yang smiled silently when he heard it.

"Grandpa will give you another thing, okay?" The old horse took out a piece of paper from Tsai Tsai's desk, folded a dart with the paper, and threw it out of the room, and the dart flew for a long time before it landed. Yang Yang stood at the door of the room and covered his chin, as cheerful as watching a meteor fall. She ran after darts and then learned to throw them as well. Seeing that she couldn't throw it, the old horse limped out to teach her.

Yang Yang ran freely around the house like a puppy, she raised her arms like a kite to chase darts, and the laughter floating in the air haunted the old horse. Looking back on the same scene, for Lao Ma, it was actually more than 40 years ago when Xingbang was taught to throw darts. His children have always been in front of him and far away from him. He threw the children out like darts and spent the rest of his life waiting for them to fly back, only to have them never come back - as Xingbang did, and so did Guiying.

Gui Ying and his family stood outside the school gate to inquire about the middle school students who came out one by one, but they never saw Zaizai. After finishing the last question, Tsai Tsai saw the message sent by Zhiyuan, and flew out of the school gate on a bicycle, and suddenly had nothing to say when he saw his parents.

"Tired or not? How about evening self-study? The three of them were side by side, Tsai Tsai pushed the bicycle, and spoke first in the middle of Zhiyuan's walk.

"A little tired this morning and fine in the evening! Why are you here to pick me up, this is the first time this semester two people have come to pick me up! When Gui Ying heard the last sentence, she couldn't help but feel sad. Tsai Tsai was brought up by her, and when Zhiyuan was at work, she specialized in watching the children. Since she joined this company, the lives of their mother and son seem to have diverged.

"You're so old and you still have people pick you up! Shame or not! We treat you like a baby, and you always think we take care of it! In fact, we wish you were a baby, like how well-behaved you were when you were a child! Zhiyuan said with a smile.

"You have a new baby, how can you take care of me!"

Gui Ying was even more uncomfortable when she heard this. She ignored the eldest and even more ignored the second, watching Yangyang grow taller and heavier day by day, she often looked at her like a stranger.

"She's our new baby, and yours! In the future, the two of us will no longer be there, and you can still go to my sister if you miss us! "Zhiyuan is bitter.

"I know, I know it, I've said it 10,000 times!"

"By the way, although your grandfather's pen was not taken by you, it was indeed missing, Yangyang took it curiously, but her teacher asked him to leave!"

"What do you mean?"

"Hey, it's not bad like the Polaroid camera of Xiong Wenbin in your class when you were in elementary school!"

"Humph! I see! So what did my grandfather say? Tsai Tsai peeked at his mother while talking, only to see her speechless and preoccupied all the way.

"Didn't say much! Your grandfather is now watching Yangyang at home! It is estimated that Yangyang is asleep at this moment! The three of them were suddenly speechless.

"Are you still angry with your mother?" Zhiyuan asked his son with a smile.

"No, how dare you!" Tsai said as he looked down at the rolling front wheel.

"The relationship between your mother and your grandfather, that is the relationship between father and daughter; The relationship between you and your grandfather is the relationship between grandparents and grandchildren; These are two different things, you can't weigh whether your grandparents have a good or bad relationship based on how their father-daughter relationship is good or bad! Do you understand? Zhiyuan glanced at Zaizi. After hearing this, Gui Ying breathed a sigh of relief and held Zhiyuan's hand tightly.

"Hmm." Tsai nodded.

"If you want to worship or be hostile to someone, you should choose according to your own judgment, not on the basis of other people's attitudes or practices. If you say whatever everyone says, you say it, isn't that brainless? The public's evaluation may be true or false, just like chasing stars, if the star deliberately creates a good image, the public may be deceived; If the public listens to other people's mouths to judge a person like you, then the public is all blindly following the ignorant, and is there any reference value for the evaluation made by a group of ignorant people? After speaking, Zhiyuan glanced at his son and saw that he nodded in approval.

"If you want to criticize or like a person in college, it must be you, He Yiming himself, after a comprehensive understanding and contact, make a judgment on this person! In the future, the attitude or stance towards a certain phenomenon, a certain point of view, a certain profession, or a certain type of person must also be the decision of you, He Yiming himself, to oppose it or support it after first-hand contact and in-depth analysis! We don't want you to be rich and rich, but we want you to know people and be reasonable. You have grown up, feel with your heart, make you happy and feel reasonable to be close to him, and let you feel uncomfortable and think that abnormal is far away from him. ”

He Zhiyuan swallowed his saliva, and then said: "You already have the basic intelligence and emotional intelligence of a human being, as for how to treat your grandfather, we hope you will take some time to get to know this person personally." He must have advantages if he has faults, and you are the same, there must be advantages and disadvantages, and no one is perfect. If one of Grandpa's faults makes you feel uncomfortable, you can object to him, but you can't oppose him because of that fault - you have to figure this out! What is the relationship between your mother and your grandfather, this is their father-daughter business, and it has nothing to do with you He Yiming, don't interfere, and don't be affected. Yesterday you yelled at Grandpa like that, if your child yelled at me like that in the future, what do you think Daddy's mood will be? So it's reasonable for your mother to beat you, and I'll stand on her side. ”

Gui Ying was relieved to hear this, and she smiled and clasped her husband's arm with both hands.

"What, you're still mad at your mother?" Gui Ying finally spoke.

"Humph! Beat harder than stepmother! My face is still swollen! Tsai Tsai touched his face and said aggrievedly.

"Hehe......" The husband and wife couldn't help but laugh.

"In the future, when you enter the society, the biggest superiors, investors, professors, and leaders you will face are probably all middle-aged and elderly! It's hard for you to figure out the identity of the old man you bumped into, just remember one thing: be polite to any middle-aged and elderly person older than you! I remembered this slap today! Zhiyuan said.

"Got it! I'm not stupid! ”

"Your grandfather is a cow! Observe him more in the future, if you can learn from a few successful husbands, you will definitely not suffer in the future. Gui Ying bent over Zhiyuan and said to Zaizai.

"Understood! He's the village chief! Don't treat the village chief as a cadre, right? Tsai was joking. For a long time, joking and bickering were the main means of communication between their mother and son.

"Don't be kidding, Dad is serious with you! When we went to pick up your grandfather to Shenzhen that day, we left the village in a small car, wow! Everywhere the car goes, it's really a farewell! Not an exaggeration at all! The people who came to the house to see off your grandfather that day - village cadres, good friends and relatives, dozens of people in the neighborhood crowded a room! No matter where Majiatun is, it is remarkable that a person can be respected and recognized by so many people! What's more, your grandfather is leaving and not taking office! How lucky you are to live in the same room with him now, you really need to learn and learn! ”

"Hmm." Tsai nodded.

"I'll go home and apologize to your grandfather first! After a person has passed the sixtieth birthday, dignity and respect are probably the most important things! Zhiyuan patted Tsai Tsai's shoulder.

"Got it!"

Walking like this, the little three talked home about you and me sentence by sentence. Yangyang had already fallen asleep on the sofa, and the old horse was afraid that she would fall, so he sat on the side and protected her with a cane. The three of them entered the house with a smile, and Zhiyuan pulled the boy to the old horse and said, "Malidi, apologize to grandpa!" ”

"Grandpa, I was wrong! I shouldn't have yelled at you! Tsai Tsai looked down shyly and said.

"Humph!" The old horse snorted, the apology came too quickly, he was completely unprepared.

"Be sincere!" Zhiyuan coaxed on the side.

"That was the most sincere just now! Or how to do it - kneel down and apologize! Tsai said and knelt down on one leg with a smile on his face, kneeling in front of the old horse.

"What are you kneeling for?" The old horse poked the ground with a cane.

"I was sincere from the bottom of my heart just now, and the sincerity my dad said was exaggerated! Isn't that a performance apology? Tsai Tsai stood up and smiled at his parents on both sides.

"Okay, okay, stop acting!" Gui Ying finished speaking and hugged Yangyang.

"Go to bed early, Dad!" After Zhiyuan finished speaking, he also turned around and left.

Tsai helped the old horse into the house and said nothing all night.