However, what's the use of blaming yourself, scolding yourself and punishing yourself, in the end it's not just to make yourself sober, and such sobriety could have been done at the beginning, but it was not done at the time, which led to the occurrence of regret now, to be honest, everything is very regretful.

If we are not very sure about ourselves, then we need to think carefully about why we are not sure, what the problem is, and see if we can find similar experiences to provide us with some hints.

If we can all think like this, we may eventually be able to find one thing, and that is that the probability of making a mistake when we do something is much lower, or the probability of making a big mistake is much lower.

And some small mistakes, we don't have to be too ourselves, it doesn't matter if you make some small mistakes, but you can't make small mistakes often.

Because if a small mistake is made often, it will eventually benefit and become a big mistake, and the big mistake will also have a great impact on us, and even for some people, it is simply a catastrophe.

Therefore, from our personal point of view, or from any point of view, it is definitely not a wise and rational thing to continue to make small mistakes for a long time.

Therefore, we must be cautious and cautious about such things, and never think of them as a trivial matter, as long as we take them seriously at the beginning, the reality will give us back to us in the end.

People are mutual, the same people and the world are also mutual, you treat him well, he will treat you well, if you don't treat him well, the end result we will not get them to treat me well, otherwise we hope that we can gain a lot of things without doing anything, but in fact we must be clear about one thing, that is, such things are not realistic, we must learn to understand such things, we must learn to identify such things, That's what makes us reliable.

If we go in the wrong direction at the beginning, then it will definitely not be much better in the end, so when we start to set sail and start to decide to work hard, the first thing we do is not to think about how and how we want to work hard, but also to think about what direction we should work in and work in this direction, is he right? Or is he right? In fact, it is difficult to say whether it is right or wrong, but there is one thing that can be measured, that is, if we think that if we do this, it will bring some harm or a lot of harm to us, then it is better not to break through such things in the first place.

And if we say that this will bring us benefits, but the size and size of the benefits can not be determined, then such a thing is worth doing to a certain extent, because this shows that he is beneficial to us and can bring benefits, and the size of the benefit problem can not be judged, which is also normal, because many things he is not going to try, you do not have a completely 100% way to evaluate, and you can only say that it can be big or small, so big or small, with a little bit of down-to-earth efforts, He may not be able to bring us more rewards than we can imagine.

I don't know how many people rush to this kind of return, if because of our momentary uncertainty and momentary hesitation, or fear that we will only get a small amount in the end, we give him a sudden veto, then such a veto is undoubtedly very stupid.

Isn't it stupid to waste such a good opportunity for no reason? It's obviously stupid, if we can wake up in time after being in such a situation, then it's not too late for such a thing to be said by parents that they are still obsessed and still unrepentant after being in such a situation, then such people are obviously a little hopeless to some extent.

The time when people come back is originally for a comfortable and happy life, and if we can't enjoy such a life because of our own problems, then we will be very uncomfortable, but at the same time we will also be condemned by a huge amount of condemnation, of course, it is not excluded that some people are optimists who condemn themselves for a while, and suddenly recover, is this kind of character good? In fact, it is difficult to say good and bad, because everything has its two sides, and it is a double-edged sword.

Because if you are too chattery, there will be such a result, that is, if you make a mistake, you don't know, and you don't know how to repent, and this approach is undoubtedly very wrong, he is the opposite of too sorry can also bring benefits, that is, the world is impermanent, who can guarantee that they will not encounter some things that are difficult to change in this life, and when they encounter these things that are difficult to change, we need a very strong heart to be able to get through, and the words of the natural optimist, Then there is no doubt that it has such qualities and character.

When such difficulties happen to them, they may be relatively simple to get through, and after they get through such difficulties, their lives can continue, and they can continue to live the rest of their lives in peace.

And if we can't survive it, then what it brings to us is the blow of destruction, and many people will be depressed because of this, living in this world in a state of confusion, not knowing what to live for, just like a walking corpse, such a thing is undoubtedly very speechless.

But what's the use of being speechless? Can silence change this? No, if you want to change this status quo, it is he who gritted his teeth and vetoed him.

That's what we're doing, that's what we're supposed to do.

But the words are simple, but there is no one who can really overcome such difficulties, not one in the world, not one in a hundred, or even one in a thousand people with an extremely strong character, such people are rare, and at the same time have such a quality, it is also worthy of envy, so it is difficult for us to say that we can have such a quality, but if such a quality is consciously cultivated, they can be cultivated.

Because these questions are not too big a problem in the first place, the key to the problem is whether we have this kind of thinking, and the key to the problem is whether we have this kind of awareness in the first place.

If we have this kind of consciousness at the beginning, then it is undoubtedly a matter of course to solve the problem, and if we do not have this consciousness at the beginning, we lack this consciousness, then when the crisis really comes, it may be because this powerful consciousness has not been able to form and eventually bring a devastating blow to ourselves, such a huge blow of destruction is very few people can really survive it, so once we really encounter it, it can only be said that we blame ourselves for being unlucky.

However, some people are the kind of person who is more and more courageous and courageous in battle, and such a huge blow may make them fall into endless pain in a short time.

But after a long time, they will find that such sadness, such pain is the same thing, gritting their teeth and enduring it.

However, there are not many such people, and more of them will be crushed by such pain when such a huge disaster occurs.

And are they pitiful? It's actually pitiful, but are they really completely worthy of sympathy? In fact, there may not be some people, if he had really cultivated it well at the beginning, maybe it wouldn't have happened, but it is true that because of his own laziness, it is true that such a thing happened due to his own inaction, then it is obvious that a large part of such responsibility lies with them.

Therefore, if we don't do a good job, we don't think more about why he didn't do it well, and whether this is in the process, what mistakes did we make, and how should we solve such a problem next time? And what kind of quality and what kind of ability should we have to be able to completely remove this kind of grinding.

This is what we should think, we should give full play to our own development thinking, and constantly diverge our thinking, which is what we should and need to do the most, rather than standing still, knowing that we are limited to the small things that happen.

This kind of vision is too narrow, too narrow vision is not able to achieve great things, to achieve great things must have a big mind, a big vision so that it can be interpreted, and if these are not available, it is undoubtedly a difficult thing to achieve great things, but for more people, they are not required to become a big thing, or to manage themselves well, and belong to such a small piece of land of their own.

This kind of thing is very simple, but in the same way, we must not take it lightly, because no matter how small things are because we don't care about it at the beginning, then it may continue to deteriorate and develop in a direction that we don't want to see.

It's definitely possible, not that we can't happen if we don't want it to happen.

Therefore, for us, even if it is a small thing, we cannot ignore it, because everything has its development, and it is very likely to cause a big mistake in the end, if we don't want to see such a thing happen, then we can treat it seriously from the beginning, so that we can completely eliminate the most unlikely possibilities. Suppose that because of our carelessness and our indifference, things eventually pushed in an unpredictable direction.

Then such an act will lead to endless regret in our hearts.

Presumably, none of us want to see such a result happen, and no one wants such regret to appear in their own lives, but on the one hand, reluctance is one thing, whether it will eventually appear, or ultimately depends on how we behave, see how we respond, if we say that we are negative to deal with negative responses, then it will undoubtedly increase the probability of this regret a lot. But if we face and look at it positively and optimistically, then we can continuously reduce this probability to the maximum limit.

And we have to do this, and we have to do it, and if we don't do it, what awaits us will be unbearable and terrible, and if we deal with it and make good decisions, then things will undoubtedly not make us feel too sorry and regretful to some extent.

In short, what kind of direction many things will eventually develop, it still depends on how you treat it, if you treat it well, then I will try my best to develop in a good direction, and the bad response will be natural, and the result will not be too good, in the face of such a result, we don't have to complain, because we must be clear about one thing, that is, such a result, such treatment is caused by our own hands. We don't have any right or any right to complain about others other than complaining about ourselves, because that's not something we can do, and that's not what we should do, because no reasonable person would think that the fault lies with others and blame others is a good thing.

It is a worthy thing, a manifestation of shirking responsibility, and a manifestation of irresponsibility.

This kind of shirking responsibility can only prove that he is a person who is not responsible, for a person who is not responsible, presumably no one will give us a very good vision, nor will it have a good impact on us, because this is inevitable, for a person who likes to shirk responsibility, there must not be many people willing to play with them, because playing with such a person also means that they will be in danger to some extent, because such a person is likely not to take the initiative to take responsibility when encountering some things, And they will shift the responsibility to themselves, so if they are with them, it is okay if it doesn't happen, once something happens to them, once they are given a reason, they are absolutely likely to unconditionally shift the responsibility for their mistakes, and those who don't know the truth may choose to believe it.

In this way, it will undoubtedly have a great impact on their reputation and all aspects, and not only will it not have any impact on them, but it will seem that they are lonely, and they will receive a lot of sympathy, and behind these sympathies, in fact, there is a grudge against myself, and I hate myself.

Presumably, no one will show a good attitude in the face of such a hopeless disaster, so we must try to avoid this thing.