And the only way to avoid such things, or the best way is to stay away from such people, away from them, we will naturally not suffer such a hopeless disaster, but there is one thing we must be 10 points clear, that is, it can be avoided, but it can only avoid this aspect, and cannot avoid the difficulties and torments brought to us by other aspects, because after all, life will encounter a lot of things in the world.

Some of these things may not be very annoying, but some of them can be very annoying.

And if we want to solve these bad problems and things, then the biggest thing is to rely on our ability, rely on our ability, to be able to solve such things.

And if we don't have the corresponding ability and don't have a strong ability, then it means that when we are faced with such a thing, it is undoubtedly a very difficult thing for us to solve it, or it is simply impossible.

Some problems may not be solved, then there is no way to solve them, but once some problems cannot be solved, it means that it will bring us a lot of pain, so can we continue to let him not solve them at this time? Obviously, we can't, but if we can't solve it due to our own lack of ability, then what should we do? What should we think about our actions? In fact, you don't have to think about it to know that if you encounter such a thing again under such circumstances, your heart will definitely be full of torment and torture.

In the face of such torment and family torment, can we still look at it with a normal heart?

Obviously, for the vast majority of people, there is no way to do such a thing, even if they try their best to think and look at it with a rational mind, but the final result is still very likely to lead to one thing, that is, they will eventually suffer. A lot of psychological pride, if we can survive such mental health, then our life is likely to have today's reversal, and if we can't survive, then the ending will undoubtedly be very bleak, in the face of such a bleak ending, we may be a little unwilling or a little uncomfortable, but we still have to accept it, because this is the reality, we should think about what kind of experience we should learn from this matter, What kind of guidance does this experience have for our future life, instead of always dwelling in the sadness of past failures, excessive sadness is only harmful, not beneficial, because excessive sadness can make people very exhausted, make people feel very uncomfortable and very tormented.

In the face of such extreme discomfort and extreme torture, we still want to do something good.

That's undoubtedly a fool's dream.

Therefore, our best attitude is to indulge in the sadness and grief of the past, but we must withdraw in time to confirm that he will face him, so that our life will have a new change, and our life may take this to step on a new level, of course, the premise is that we have a good thinking ability and a good ability, and finally under the continuous thinking, we will stimulate our potential, promote, and boost our strength step by step. Then realize your dreams and ideals in life.

However, this process must be full of countless torments and countless tribulations, we must have a good psychological preparation in advance, do not face her with a completely unprepared posture, if there is no psychological preparation at all, when some extreme things happen, we will initially find a terrible thing, that is, before the thing has begun, we have failed, in the face of such failure, how should we take it seriously rationally?

Obviously, this result is not in line with our wishes, this machine is not in line with our will, and what we have to do is to give the reason behind this kind of thing. Completely spy clearly, we can improve after we have a complete snoop, we can be in the way the next time we encounter the same thing, will not appear helpless, in fact, any calm, any calm.

It's not a very simple thing to obtain, but to do it behind it I don't know how much sacrifice I have paid, I don't know how much accumulation I have paid, just because we don't see how many trials and tests others have endured in private, especially those who are very poor on the surface, if we are too clear about these, we will find that their calmness and calmness are not very simple to obtain, we will be clear, It turns out that these calmness and calmness have been achieved after so much tempering.

And for us, if we do that, will we become the same as them?

Such an idea is not wrong, and even to some extent it can be said that this idea is very correct, and indeed many things as long as we learn from those successful people to imitate, even if it is the result, it will not reach their height, but it is definitely much better than the current bastard appearance.

It may be a process of slowly improving, slowly improving oneself, so it is very good to be able to improve, compared to others, at least we are still improving, at least we are constantly improving.

This kind of continuous progress, such continuous improvement, for us still has great practical significance, because when we know that improvement is a slow process, not a sudden process, we will be more down-to-earth to do every little thing, and if we think that improvement is a cognition that can suddenly do great changes.

Then it will undoubtedly prompt many people to have a kind of speculative psychology, such a speculative psychology is very undesirable, why do you say so? If we don't have a correct understanding in our hearts, we only have a speculative psychology in our hearts, because it may lead us to deviate from the road, but we don't know that thousands of high-rise buildings start from the ground, if the foundation is not laid, even if we go high, we will suddenly help him one day, because the foundation and the foundation determine everything, even if we know how to continue to build and transform on the top, but still can not change the foundation, the fact that it is unstable means that there is a great risk of collapse at any time in the future.

Once he really collapses, we will find one thing, that is, all the efforts we have made before, and all the efforts will disappear in this second, at this moment.

No one will care about how brilliant and how we existed before, they will only care about how we are now, what we are now, and of course, for those who really love us, they care about whether we are at any time past, present and future.

So what should we do about these people who love us constantly? Shouldn't we do everything we can to give them the best of us?

It's clear that it's absolutely right, and it's definitely worth it.

Therefore, we must understand from the very beginning that laying a good foundation is a necessary thing, what a good thing, so as to ensure our stable, sustainable and efficient development in the future, otherwise the rapid development will be like a flash in the pan, which is just a moment of brilliance.

Although the smoothness of the moment is dazzling, after this moment of brilliance, it is ushered in by rapid withering and rapid destruction.

What effect will such withering and such ruin have on us? There is no doubt that it will have a fatal blow to us, there is a good saying, there is a frugal luxury is easy to enter from simple to luxurious, once we get used to the feeling of sitting high in the clouds, suddenly fall so badly, fall so much at once, it is very likely to let your heart appear some unbalanced emotions, appear some crazy emotions, these imbalances, these crazy emotions, may be able to swallow us up in an instant.

Once the real thing is devoured, we will eventually find that we will lose our original rational emotions, and after losing our original rational emotions, we will carry a crazy emotion, under the guidance of this crazy and irrational emotion, we will do some crazy things, and no one knows how crazy things will end, but one thing is very clear, that is, such madness, other guests will bring greater risks, We may hurt others because of this, and we also feel that we will hurt ourselves, which is irrational and bad for anyone, including ourselves.

Although the truth is very thorough and clear, how many people really understand and understand such a truth? In fact, maybe not too much, maybe it can be said that there are really few, if there are a lot, then how can there be so many boring and inactive people around us?

Could it be that each of them is a person with very mediocre qualifications? Actually, no, there are no amazing talents in it, but why did they end up so mediocre and inactive, in fact, the result is very simple.

That's because they don't have a visionary vision, they don't have a visionary vision, it's for the sake of temporary gains and losses, just for a momentary fun, playing this kind of future, burying their youth, when they really wake up, let me find that I no longer have that ability, or I find that I am too old to do it, and in the end what they can do is the wings of resources to let themselves go and give up on themselves.

Are we satisfied with such an outcome? Obviously, it is impossible to be satisfied, and it is obvious in the heart that there are all kinds of discomfort and pain, and what is the use of these discomforts, so to speak, the cheapest thing in the world is the useless negative emotions that you have nowhere to put them.

There is the release of these negative emotions, and the growth of these negative emotions, and in the end, Zhijiang is just endless pain and endless regret.

The most valuable and useful thing for us to do is to pick ourselves up and work hard to know that there is one thing, and that is that it is not too late for the prodigal son to turn back.

That is to say, once a person realizes that he is wrong, it is not too late to turn back at any time, but in fact it may not be the case, but it is possible to look back and review the development in time, you are already quite amazing, and there are also people who have made some very brilliant achievements when they are connected to the microphone, when the body is not so strong, so we should not think that it is impossible, as long as we have such a firm idea of this year in our hearts, And then devote as much time as possible to this matter, then it means that we still have the possibility of turning the tables, and there is also the possibility of rewriting our own ending.

Otherwise, it is impossible, so in any case, we must strengthen this confidence and firm this concept, under the guidance of this correct concept that we can only rely on our own efforts to change and write the ending, we can finally make a very satisfactory result, if we do not do this, then what awaits us is undoubtedly endless torture and all kinds of discomfort.

This kind of torture really doesn't mean much to us, why do you say that? Because this kind of complaint is really uncomfortable, it will only make us stop, how to keep us in place, it may become more decadent because of it, and we cheer up, have sunshine in our hearts, and move forward firmly.

So in this way, our life, our future will be rewritten, even if we refuse to admit it in our hearts, but this is the case, so this kind of non-recognition in our hearts, in addition to only bringing harm to us, will only bring us torture, will not play any substantive role, so what we should do and how to choose, it is completely up to us in our thoughts, if we still have some sense, we should be clear about what we should do.

Or how to do it is the best for us, we must not think that we are the chosen one, do not think that we can do well at any time, at any time.

If we still think so, then why do we say that the comparison that awaits us is bleak and unlikely? Because some things should be done at the right age, once we pass that age, we may have to put in double the effort to do it, so it is extremely unworthy.