Zhen Zhen attributed the reason why Cheng Jiao didn't dare to speak out loud to the fear that she would be criticized for saying the wrong thing, which made Mrs. Cheng unable to accept it for a while.

Mrs. Cheng was a little annoyed: "Miss Zhen, are you mistaken?" I'm a genuinely good person to my daughter! You're saying I hit the kids? ”

"I didn't say you. I don't know anything about you and the people around Cheng Jiao, so I'm talking about someone hitting the child. You may wish to pay attention to who comments on every word of your child after he has finished speaking. Zhen Zhen explained unhurriedly. At this time, it is really reasonable not to raise the voice.

"At home, I talk to my children the most, and you still talk about me." Mrs. Cheng did not relent.

"If you behave like this, then I hope you can swap roles with your child and see how your mother and daughter have a daily conversation and how they feel about each other."

"How do I swap roles?"

"I called the kids in." Zhen Zhen heard the sound of Hongyun and Cheng Jiao talking outside the house, so he got up and went to call someone.

Cheng Jiao's mood is obviously much better than when she first went out.

Zhen Zhen said to Cheng Jiao, who came into the house: "Now let's play a game, you and your mother exchange roles." You play the mother, and the mother plays the daughter. Would you like to come and play? ”

Cheng Jiao raised her eyes to look at her mother, but didn't see a displeased look on her face, so she nodded and agreed.

Zhen Zhen said: "Let's start with the sand table. Auntie, can mom change what you put in place? ”

Cheng Jiao agreed with some trepidation: "Yes."

Mrs. Cheng came over and said, "Miss Zhen, you are really polite, she knows what a child knows, don't ask her."

Zhen Zhen shook his head and said, "She is Mrs. Cheng now, and she must respect Mrs. Cheng's meaning." After speaking, Cheng Jiao smiled slightly, and Cheng Jiao was unexpectedly stunned.

Mrs. Cheng was stunned: "This is the beginning of the act?"

Zhen Zhen said to Mrs. Cheng: "Now you are Cheng Jiao, you come to set up the sand table." Auntie, think about it, what your mother usually looks like, you show that look, you know? ”

Cheng Jiao came back to her senses and nodded in agreement.

Mrs. Cheng took down all kinds of buildings from the shelves, and walked along the river painted by Cheng Jiao, she said: "How lonely a house is, there should be a street along the river, buy all kinds of things."

Cheng Jiao's voice suddenly became louder: "This is in the mountains, not by the river, so you can't build so many houses." Auntie, the street you did was not good, it was demolished! After finishing speaking, she looked at her mother timidly, and glanced at Zhen Zhen with her spare eyes.

Zhen Zhen smiled and gave a thumbs up: "Very good acting!" Come on! ”

Mrs. Cheng's sudden anger was extinguished in an instant, because she thought that she was playing her daughter. She stabilized her mind, adjusted a moment and said, "Mother, now I'm setting things up, and you let me finish arranging."

As she spoke, she put the three people who were originally far away together: "This is their family going out to hunt and come back." When this lady got off the horse, she didn't pay attention to her foot, and the pain made her cry. The little girl and her father immediately came to help, and the little girl said that fortunately there were many flowers and herbs planted in the house. Let her mother sit down and apply her medicine. ”

The story was changed by Mrs. Cheng, and it immediately became warm.

Cheng Jiao glared at her eyes and said, "What's so great about being able to grow flowers and grass?" Who doesn't have a gardener to do this? If you want herbs, go to the pharmacy and buy them, is it necessary to grow them yourself? It's a waste of time, it's better to embroider more flowers. ”

Mrs. Cheng was a little uncomfortable by her daughter's choking, but these were the tones of her past speech, and her brain seemed to be unable to distinguish her position, so she sneered: "Of course, what you buy outside is not as good as what you buy at home."

Cheng Jiao saw that her mother agreed to her practice of "loving flowers and plants", and she didn't react for a while, this was "acting", she was a little stunned, and unconsciously returned to her daughter's true colors, and asked: "Mother, do you agree with me planting flowers and plants?"

Mrs. Cheng looked confused: "I'm playing you."

"Oh." Cheng Jiao lowered her head in some disappointment, wrung the handkerchief in her hand, and said nothing.

The "play" can't go on. Mrs. Cheng looked at Zhen Zhen as if asking: Do you want to continue acting?

Zhen Zhen asked Mrs. Cheng: "Mrs. has just played her daughter for a while, do you feel any about the way you and your daughter talk?"

Mrs. Cheng is a smart person, and she quickly understood what Zhen Zhen wanted to express---- children also need respect, not to mention that she really felt disrespected just now. It's a very uncomfortable feeling. Thinking of her previous words like "don't ask her", she didn't want to slap herself in the face, and immediately admitted that she was wrong.

So Mrs. Cheng pretended to be confused: "Well, this, I will pay attention to the tone of my daughter's voice in the future." She also explained, "Ah Jiao likes to plant flowers and plants with the gardener at home. I said that she always got her hands and clothes dirty, and she didn't look dirty, so she might as well go into the house and embroider. The embroidered flowers will not wilt yet. ”

Zhen Zhen knew that Mrs. Cheng couldn't let go of being a mother, but this was their first visit, and it was already good to overfulfill the task if they had gained. She was not in a hurry to say it, "Then do you think the tone of your speech just now, is there anything for Auntie to learn?" ”

"Yes, I just want the child to speak like he just did, crisply, and loudly." Mrs. Cheng thought that she had not come to the Zhen family in vain today.

Zhen Zhen walked up to Cheng Jiao: "The way you spoke loudly just now is very beautiful!" Can you say one more thing? ”

Cheng Jiao was silent for a moment, as if she was accumulating strength: "If there are no flowers planted, who can embroider beautiful flowers?" was actually refuting Mrs. Cheng's words.

Before Mrs. Cheng's temper could be released, she was suppressed by Zhen Zhen's gesture of silence. Zhen Zhen said: "Okay! That's what you want! Say something louder? ”

Cheng Jiao simply let go of herself: "I like flowers and trees!"

Mrs. Cheng listened to Zhen Zhen's praise of Cheng Jiao, and it was difficult to investigate the content of the words. After all, this volume is the effect she wants.

Zhen Zhen said to Cheng Jiao: "Auntie, you see that boys generally fight at every turn, but adults rarely fight. This is because when we grow up, we know that many problems can be solved through communication and exchange. What you like is different from what your mother likes, would you like to discuss this problem with your mother and then solve it? ”

"Yes." Cheng Jiao was a little embarrassed again.

"Then I'll leave a task for the two of you, and you must discuss it when you go back. Next time we'll talk about that. Zhen Zhen said.

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