Zhen Zhen's advantage is that she is with Hongyun every day, and she can understand his thoughts more comprehensively.

But her disadvantage is that she is with Hongyun every day, which psychological counselor lives with clients every day?

And she is well aware that in the normative practice, the counselor and the client cannot have contact outside the counseling relationship. There was once a senior brother in the department who found himself in love with his client, and he terminated the counseling relationship in time and completed the procedures for referral to another counselor before confessing to the other person. Even so, the department severely criticized the senior brother and suspended his consulting work for a time. Students from other departments feel that this relationship is brave, warm and romantic, but the teachers in the department always use this as a negative teaching material---- psychological counselors must set their own boundaries and not be emotional, otherwise they will face the risk of losing their jobs.

At present, Zhen Zhen is also forced to be helpless, it is impossible for her to find a stranger to carry out consultation, and if the consulting technology is abandoned for a long time, she will definitely forget and regress. What a shame. Besides, can she still go back to the psychology department to report cases to the supervisor every week?

The reality does not allow it, and Zhen Zhen can only set it up within his ability, which is also a kind of protection for himself. Consultants are human beings and cannot be working all the time.

She wants to spend an hour or so in the afternoon of every five and ten days to talk to Hongyun about her expression and communication issues, and it is expected that six times a month, she should be able to see the effect.

The next day is twenty-five, since I want her to speak, let's start to "tease" her from the field she is good at.

Hongyun's embroidery work is still good, at least better than Zhen Zhen.

That afternoon, Zhen Zhen took a nap after lunch, and then pulled Hongyun to embroider together. Zhen Zhen took a plain handkerchief and stretched it with an embroidered bandage, and the pattern of a narcissus had been drawn on it, and she deliberately asked Hongyun to speak: "Hongyun, it's better for you to see where this narcissus starts?"

Hongyun said, "It's all right."

Zhen Zhen knew that the original owner Zhen Zhen was a casual child, and embroidery was really the master who could start anywhere, so he said: "Hongyun, I am a new handkerchief, I don't want to embroider randomly, you can help me take a look."

Hongyun took a needle and threaded a green silk thread and handed it to Zhen Zhen, "The tip of the leaf." ”

Zhen Zhen took the needle and thread, and relied on the muscle memory of the original owner to get the needle, "And then?" ”

Hongyun said, "Flat embroidery is fine."

Zhen Zhen deliberately asked seriously: "What is flat embroidery?"

"Flat embroidery is ......" Hongyun was silent halfway through her words, she got up and took an embroidery that she had embroidered half-embroidered, pointed to one of the leaves and said, "That's it."

Zhen Zhen embroidered the two needles that should be parallel into an X, "Is this okay?" ”

Hongyun looked at it and said, "In this case, the embroidery surface is uneven, the stitches are uneven, and the cloth surface will be exposed." Not good. ”

Zhen Zhen dismantled it and started over, anyway, it was just the beginning, and he didn't embroider much.

Embroidery is a delicate job, the two of them embroidered their own things, neither spoke, the room was so quiet that even an embroidery needle could be heard on the ground.

Zhen Zhen finished embroidering some leaves, picked up the thread of the same color and threaded the needle, Hongyun raised his eyes and saw it, his neck stretched, as if he wanted to say something, and finally swallowed the words back.

"What do you want to say?" Zhen Zhen asked.

"Miss, the back of the leaves is generally lighter in color, so it's best to change to a lighter green silk thread." Hongyun saw the ground as he spoke, and he didn't dare to look directly at Zhen Zhen.

"Makes sense! How did I not think of it? Thank you for telling me. Or are you experienced. ”

Hongyun raised his head and a smile appeared on his face: "This thread you just wore can embroider another leaf."

"Another great idea! Thank you for telling me! Red Cloud, what other ideas do you have? Can you teach me a few more? ”

Hongyun nodded silently several times, took the bandages of the two, and carefully told Zhen Zhen how to embroider her narcissus to look good.

After Hongyun finished speaking, Zhen Zhen said: "Hongyun, you really have a way!" Why didn't I think to ask you for a few tricks when I used to embroider? ”

Hongyun's face suddenly flew up like her name, and she hurriedly explained: "Miss, what you say will torment the slave." You're a good girl, just know some of these rough jobs. ”

"Well, I wasn't very serious about embroidering before, and I was always fooling around, so you have to help me more in the future." Zhen Zhen's tone was very sincere, and then she said purposefully: "Of course, if you don't want to say it, you can not say it."

Hongyun felt that the thirteen-year-old girl in front of her was speaking in a tone as if she was ten years older and her sister. She defended: "I didn't want to say it. I'm just afraid that I'm wrong, and I'm afraid that you won't believe me if I say it. ”

Zhen Zhen especially understands her feelings. Hongyun now has no worries about food and clothing, and has no safety worries, so she naturally has a psychological need for emotion, being respected, and even self-realization, which is what she calls "someone who believes what she says". When this psychological need is not satisfied, she will have a sense of shame of "asking for but not getting", and in order to avoid this shame, she will gradually suppress her needs and even show avoidance. This evasive silence hides the countless disappointments in my heart---- the words that I am afraid to say are like a drop of water thrown into the sea, unresponsive, and no one cares.

Zhen Zhen said: "Then did I listen to you carefully just now and believe you?"

Hongyun nodded a little embarrassedly: "Hmm."

"Then I'll start today, and I'll often ask you when I'm embroidering, okay?"

"Then I don't dare to be!" Red Cloud flinched a little.

Zhen Zhen knew that cognitive and behavioral changes were not achieved overnight, and it would take a long time to achieve, so he didn't continue to talk about this topic.

She said, "There are just you and me in this room, and you can say a lot to me when you look up and don't look down." I'll keep it a secret. ”

Hongyun looked at his shoes and his voice was half lower: "What if I say the wrong thing?"

Zhen Zhen said: "Is it true that only people who do not make mistakes can speak in this world?"

"Old people often say that trouble comes from the mouth. Too much talk can make you lose it all. It's better to be cautious. Hongyun said.

"If you eat too much, you'll die. Is it because of this that I don't eat? ”

"Of course not."

"It's just normal talk, don't tell right and wrong, don't chew the root of the tongue, what trouble will it cause?"

"It's not enough."

"There are only such people in our Zhen family, does anyone hate you?"

"Then no one will hate me."

"And what are you worried about?"

"Wouldn't it be embarrassing if I spoke and no one paid attention to me? If you say it wrong, you will be looked down upon. Hongyun began to confide in Zhen Zhen under the inspiration of Zhen Zhen.

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