When I woke up in the morning, the pain in the wound on my right foot seemed to have lessened a bit, and the knee of my left foot was not swollen as last night, but it was still very painful, the gauze covered a lot, and I was stretched to walk, and I couldn't walk too fast.

said that it was half past nine, and the driver of Fushouyuan came to pick up our mother and wife half an hour early.

Today is Sunday, and I only see the people who are buried and the people who look at the tomb, and they keep shuttling through the cemetery.

The transformation of the new cemetery also reflects the progressive trend of funeral reform, and with the improvement of people's living standards, the aesthetic requirements for things are getting higher and higher.

Compared with traditional tombstones, artistic tombstones belong to personalized customization, with changeable shapes and different shapes, and relatively high requirements for the master's carving. It is generally composed of a main monument and a cover plate, although the shape is simple, but there are many shapes and different shapes. The small artistic tombstones that highlight the individuality are like works of art, which makes the atmosphere of the cemetery much more relaxed. The artistic tombstone incorporates many carving techniques: relief carving, line carving, hollow carving, shadow carving, etc., and its tombstone shape incorporates a lot of natural elements, such as house modeling, leaves, flowers, branches, waves, auspicious clouds, etc., which are combined with the preferences and character of the deceased to carve out a small artistic tombstone.

Two years ago, my husband and I stumbled upon a novel art tomb on the Internet and were immediately intrigued. The two of us may be strikingly similar in aesthetics because of the relationship between the two of us who used to post on the wall in the unit.

After the memorial service, the captain of the cheongsam team accompanied me to Fushou Garden next to Dishui Lake in Lingang. The receptionist led us through one cemetery after another, and finally chose the one that my husband and I had once liked on the Internet.

Pure black is the favorite of Mr., and in funeral culture, black is the color that shows the luxury of the nobility. Such a small artistic tombstone, the overall shape is composed of the main monument and the cover, but it undoubtedly reveals the deceased's homecoming and the identity of the noble tomb owner.

"The lotus leaves are infinitely green, and the lotus flowers are different red." I love the lotus's "out of the sludge without staining", and I admire the lotus's "character like jade".

My daughter recognized my vision, and the tombstone carved with a white lotus flower in pure black was very chic and very artistic.

I chose the style and color that Mr. Antique liked when he was alive with the funeral goods placed in the tomb, and I used the famous sentence "I wish to be a winged bird in heaven, and I wish to be a branch in the earth".

According to the wishes of Mr. before his death, the tomb builder was paid for his daughter. originally wanted her daughter to have a boyfriend and call him "Dad", but unfortunately he left too early, and her daughter could only call him "father" on the tombstone.

In order to divide the inheritance, the son's son made a symbolic appearance three times after the death of the husband. I told him about the cemetery on WeChat, and he was noncommittal and unresponsive, no wonder Mr. didn't want to mention him.

My wife's wife regretted his premature departure, but at the same time she was glad to have us by his side.

My husband's funeral was all handled by me, and I did not take my uncle's suggestion, and the funeral was simple. I did my best to let Mr. walk decently and decently.

After opening Mr.'s mobile phone with the password, Fang found the WeChat of the old secretary who brought Mr. to the leadership position.

The old secretary was saddened and sorry for the death of my husband, and I didn't know how to tell the old secretary about it, so I sent him a fragment of my diary from my documentary work. The old secretary replied to me with emotion:

"She is worthy of being a talented woman, there are not many words, but she is very touching, and she deeply expresses her love for her husband. The high mountains have a spirit, and they will be deeply gratified. Although he left a little early, he can get your company to finish his life, which cannot but be said to be his blessing. I hope you will come out of your sadness soon and see your wonderful text full of joy."

For the love of the old secretary, Mr. has always been grateful. He often mentioned in front of me that the old secretary was an older generation of college students, and after he retired, he took me to visit the old secretary, and often sent the Yue opera I sang to the old secretary......

After my husband's mobile phone was turned on, I also sent a message to my friends on WeChat to inform him one by one, and everyone couldn't accept it. In the eyes of people, Mr. is so healthy and energetic, how can he say that he will leave!

Mr. Wang, a friend of Mr. Wang, bought a new house of the same type next to us for his father, and the decoration was all taken care of by my husband. Mr. Wang's parents came to Shanghai from Hubei during the Spring Festival and asked my husband for help, but he did not avoid it because he came from the epidemic area......

Hearing the news of Mr. Wang's death, Mr. Wang and his wife were very sad, and the old man specially added my WeChat, saying that he would definitely come to see his sister-in-law in Shanghai.

Many of my colleagues and friends regretted that they could not send him to him, but I am glad that everyone has praised him.

For more than a year, Mr. deliberately hid from everyone, carrying unimaginable psychological pressure. As his wife said, "...... In order not to trouble others and not let anyone know, why are you so strong, and you have suffered yourself and your wife......"

The sudden death of my husband plunged me into grief and I couldn't extricate myself. The gentleman said that he chose me among many admirers because he was moved by two poems in my marriage notice:

Bodhisattva Barbarian - Dream among Flowers

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Xia Lianyi dreams among the flowers,

Qingli Jiaoying is drunk in the west and east.

The sound of the piano is full of blue waves,

Fang Fei looks for the king's trace.

Disdain for the vulgar,

Falling flowers are also strong.

When the makeup is removed,

With whom does poetry share?

Aomei

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The elegant and secluded path leads to the secluded place, and the early plum is faintly visible,

If you don't learn to show off your matchmaker, you can already smell the dark fragrance floating in front of people.

Zanmei is proud and flawless, and Ling Xue dances alone.

Dou Yan spits out the ice and jade bones, and there is a cold valley to call spring.

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The flowers are dressed up to compete for spring, and it is unbearable to be lonely and beautiful,

The flowers bloom and fall year after year, but the plum rain and snow are quiet.

Waiting for the people who are destined to enjoy the flowers, the soul meets to enter the plum garden.

Although it is not a plum blossom ode through the ages, I am willing to be a chanjuan in the world.

Just as I was about to quit the dating network, I received a letter from my husband. This is fate, or perhaps providence......

After more than a year of sharing weal and woe, we have learned to tolerate and cherish each other. However, just when we were hopeful for the future, my husband left me forever......

Today, I transferred all the money in the card, and there was still a shortage of tens of thousands, and my daughter paid it. All the money originally reserved for his treatment was used in the cemetery, which could somewhat make up for his shortcomings during his lifetime.

In the future, every year during the Qingming Festival, my daughter and I will visit my husband and play the poem "Ferry" by Xi Murong that I recited and recorded in front of his tomb:

Let me shake you goodbye

Gently pull out my hand again

I know that my thoughts have taken root since then

Mountains and rivers ** gentle

Let me shake you goodbye

Gently pull out my hand again

The Chinese New Year has come to a halt

Tears flow into rivers in my heart

It's such a helpless gaze

There was not a single flower to be found next to the ferry

Just pin the blessing on your placket

And tomorrow and tomorrow are the end of the world