Only when we understand that cherishing ourselves is the biggest thing, then we can be regarded as truly growing, many times, a person's growth or not, not in how big they are, not in how strong their physique is

True maturity is in our minds.

Only when our thinking is mature, that is really mature, the maturity of a person's thinking, in fact, whether for others or for themselves, can be regarded as a better thing, when we get along with a 4 mature people, we will feel more comfortable, more comfortable. Because they know how to take care of our emotions, how to calm our emotions, and even how to deal with us well.

Getting along with such people, to a certain extent, we will feel particularly comfortable, but behind the special comfort, in fact, they also more or less hide some of their own careful thoughts, not as simple as we imagined, so simple just for others.

Therefore, when we get along with them, we sometimes feel that they are not so pure, which will make some people who feel self-righteous a little uncomfortable, or a little uncomfortable, but in this world, how can there be perfect things, there are some things, we should not be too extravagant, too too extravagant, too dissatisfied, and in the end we will bury ourselves.

We have to learn to be content with one, know how to be content, a person who learns to be content will often be happier than those who are not content, even if they have the same thing, they will feel that having this little thing is enough to make them feel very comfortable and comfortable. The happiness they have is unimaginable to others, and others may wonder why others have so little and are so happy and happy every day? Why do they crave so much and still don't get it in the end, they think, is it because they have already got what they want? Otherwise, why would they be so happy, although they may not be rich on the surface, but maybe there are many good things hidden in secret.

But is this really the case? If we are themselves, most of us may find that they are not that kind of people, their more happiness actually comes from their own spiritual wealth, material wealth and spiritual wealth, to some extent is not proportional, we should not always think that they have more material wealth, will make themselves happier, so happy.

Such attitudes and such ideas are wrong, once we hold this wrong attitude and concept for a long time, it may cause some wrong understanding, deviation of the world's cognition, after the deviation of the world's cognition, we will make some wrong actions according to such deviations, some wrong actions are true in the eyes of others should not be, but they just can't be perceived, it's not that they don't want to perceive. It's just that kind of emotional emotion that makes them deviate from the right path that leads you, and this kind of right path may never be able to go back, to be honest, this kind of thing is quite regrettable to some extent, but regret does not mean that it is necessary to do so.

And we know regrets, but also to know how to avoid such regrets, don't always let yourself fall into a constant cycle of death, don't always let yourself fall into one tenacious regret after another, this approach is also very stupid, the same is not worth it, each of us has a limited life, the same way, each of us has a limited psychological capacity, if we have always been in such a regret, we may feel too painful.

Too much pain is not conducive to the development of our physical and mental health, and if we don't want such and such things, such regrets happen to us. Then we must learn to change, how I want to change, that is, think about what kind of result this will lead to, what kind of regret may be left behind, as long as we move towards this aspect, deliberately think more, the last few times will not get the result we want, but it will not be too bad.

And even if it's too bad, we can't change it, we will slowly feel yes in our hearts, this is determined by our own ability, since we can't reach it, it doesn't make much sense to deliberately force it to say it's true.

Because of deliberately trying to force what you can't get, in the end you will find that you have spent countless efforts, countless energy, countless brain cells, and endless physical strength, and in the end you still have nothing, so that nothing will make you doubt your life, will hit your enthusiasm, we will think why we have worked so hard before? Is he really too stupid? Is it really? In fact, it is not because some things are too difficult, and there is no good foundation at the beginning, just like if you want to leapfrog to do big things, it is undoubtedly a very difficult thing in the end, and it can even be said to be an impossible thing, and if we take such impossible things as our lifelong pursuit to do, then in the end we will inevitably not be able to make the final wounds all over the body. The bell over there is not what they want to see, and the same is not what others want to see, everyone has their own compassion, everyone has their own compassion, not all people are willing to watch others suffer, but it's not a good thing for those who don't know what to do, let them suffer once, there is a good saying, practice first to become fine, only by constantly honing, constantly honing yourself, and finally be able to become a good person in the eyes of others, to be able to become a very energetic person.

This kind of energy may be the envy of others, and they may take it as if they are serious about it, and we may feel very proud of it.

Pride is pride, but we also don't simply expand at will, we have to know that there are people outside the world, there are heavens outside the sky, such a simple truth is understood, there are people outside the people, there are days outside the sky, we can become more humble, in fact, humility is a good thing, humility can cover up the shortcomings of some people, can hide their own shortcomings well, keep humble to see how the people around us do, how to do things, we can learn slowly, Draw a trace of valuable experience from each of their charms to transform ourselves to strive to improve ourselves, when such a continuous transformation again and again, even if we are a very ordinary person, will slowly have some good qualities, to know that good quality is the necessary key to success, although it is said that it may not be able to succeed, but the lack of it will be more difficult for men to succeed, we should not be too skeptical about this matter, Because this kind of thing is very simple, for example, when we meet someone, if their quality is good, whether we are willing to help them or not, whether we are willing to help them, whether we are willing to help them, whether they are very bad, whether we are willing to help them. Obviously, we don't want it from the bottom of our hearts, and sometimes that's the case, and many times we rely on our own strength, and if we want to stand alone, it's actually very difficult. More often than not, we need the appreciation of some noble people and some extraordinary opportunities, only when we seize these opportunities and these hours, we can be like a huge sailboat riding the wind and waves, and move forward bravely.

The charm of courage is the greatest, but also the most attractive, we want to continue to do this, then in the end we will do very well, we must give ourselves enough confidence, don't always think that they can't do it, otherwise the teacher thinks that they can't do it, always blindly think that they can't do it, if there is no possibility, in the end they will really think that they can't do it, and then give up, you must know that many things are not tried at the beginning, There's no way to tell if you can do it. We have all forgotten about Weibo, we should maintain a positive and optimistic attitude to look at all the things around us, don't always follow the crowd, and don't always make our own opinions.

In fact, to a certain extent, it is a kind of irresponsibility to oneself, because other people's lives are other people's actions have different environments, the same thing is not suitable for everyone, we can only polish a better self according to the individualized transformation and polishing, in order to be able to polish a better self, and if we follow every word said by others, every word is accurately implemented, in the end it can be generally determined that it is ourselves, It won't be much of a success, because it's inevitable, because everyone's environment is different, everyone's heart is different, everyone's looks are different, everyone's genes are different, and those different things, we use other people's different ways to adapt to ourselves, isn't it ridiculous?

Obviously, even the slightest bit of brains should know that such a thing is not only ridiculous, but also impossible.

It's really ridiculous to say that we still have to spend energy and countless hearts on things that can't be done.

We don't have to do that, if we do that, please turn back in time, we should clearly identify our own ability first, and then determine what we should do according to our own ability, instead of starting to work there without thinking about anything, if we go there at the beginning, there will be no good result, because such things are not suitable for us, nor for all people, and we can't do that, if we do that, we will inevitably be bitter and regretful in the end.

We have to be clear about one thing, that is, everyone's energy is limited, everyone's time is also limited, we must do something as efficiently as possible in the limited time, at the beginning a little bumpy, and there is nothing to be afraid of is that my brother is not popular a little bit and is afraid of it, so in this case, such a person is undoubtedly not worth others to do, and the same such person must also know one thing, that is, there is no way to get much change, Because many things want to be changed, and if you want to be sublimated, it is not that you can be sublimated by patting your brain, but that you must have enough concentration to devote yourself to one thing as much as possible, and it is possible to make slow progress and get a certain transformation in the concentration. Otherwise, it's all just a dream.

Even if we like to dream and want to dream, but we can't always dream, although sometimes dreaming can make us get a certain amount of relaxation, can let us get a certain amount of comfort, but if we always dream, in the end we may fall into a dream for a long time, unable to move forward.

It's very likely that you will like this step-by-step funny dream. The passage of time in the external world may not be obvious, and I feel that this lack of perception is disappearing bit by bit, so that I have no way to perceive it.

In this way, unconsciously, our lives are constantly consumed by us, so when we look back at such things as ourselves, we may feel all kinds of regret and great pain in our hearts, because such things should not happen to us, because we should be able to use such things and such time to do more things we want to do.

But there is a kind of ignorance, but because of their own lack of notice, everything is gone, such a thing as a person, no matter who it happens, it will not necessarily make them feel very unwilling, everyone is like this, everyone is like this, and the current cost and the current Chen Jing, we may feel temporary happiness. But slowly, when we need to return to reality, we will find how material we are at that time, if we invest that time in something meaningful, then in the end we may gain a certain skill or a certain reward, instead of wasting our time alone like this, and in the end we will have nothing and nothing. Nothing will come out of us except the bruises and endless regrets and remorsees that we are left alone. Please keep in mind: Lily, website mobile version computer version, lily free fastest update no anti-theft, no anti-theft, error chapter Ask for a book Looking for a book, please add the lily book friend group QQ group number 548944127