To put it simply, if we don't do things with just fantasies, no matter how good our imagination is and how perfect our plans are, in the end, there is no way to turn them into something useful and beneficial to us. Just study hard by yourself, and work hard to get what you want in the end, otherwise everything else is just nonsense.

Each of us wants to get something, and in the same way, each of us can't get any of the things we want, some things have gains and losses, some things once lost means that we can't get the same, some things once there is no way to do it now, then we may not be able to get it in the future, if we can get it now, and only help ourselves, then we have to learn to start trying now.

Only now try hard, in the end it is possible to get what we want most, otherwise once we really lose, we will leave endless regrets in our hearts, for example, when we like a certain person, we like them now, but if we don't try to express our love, then over time, they are likely to be chased by others, and then become someone else's husband and someone else's wife, from then on even if we have a high power, No matter how high the status is, there is no way to go back, and there is no way to make them the only people we are destined to be.

For such a thing, many people are difficult to let go, even if they have great power and great power, there is no way to do it, they will feel extremely uncomfortable and painful in their hearts, why does such a thing happen to themselves, why do they leave themselves forever and become something that belongs to others?

But if we dig deeper, we may be able to find it simpler.

In fact, these things are just their own cowardice, but just their own wishful thinking, many times lost, and then it is impossible to recover, at that time I didn't realize such a problem, and in the end it was regret to suffer, so what's the point? Only by grasping the present, grasping today, our life is meaningful, and always thinking about pinning some things in the future, pinning on some time to think like this, it was wrong at the beginning, it was wrong at the beginning, how to make yourself have a better future, you must know that a good future gets, but in the right decision now, although sometimes people will inevitably make mistakes, will make some wrong decisions, there will be some wrong cognition, but, Some of them are not too important, and some of them are really fatal, so everyone has good and bad things, but let's reduce the bad to the minimum and raise the good to the highest, so that we can better and more likely to get what we want to get to accomplish what we want to accomplish. Otherwise, it will be so difficult that people don't believe that it can be done, and even if it is done, it is possible to find that it has cost a great deal of money, and those costs may be pain, money, and time.

In short, once it is lost, if we want to find it again, I will have to work countless times better to get it back, otherwise it will just be a nightmare for fools and jokes.

This kind of thing will not only be ridiculed by others, but also criticized by others, and in the same way, your own heart will also suffer from the condemnation of your conscience, why are you so stupid, why do you do what you should do, but in the end you don't complete all this, how much is the meaning behind it?

Obviously, the meaning behind this is very slim, it is very small, each of us has the right to do whatever we want, but at the same time, each of us will be responsible for what we do, what kind of things we do are likely to get what kind of results, the main results behind this we must also bear, there is no good thing for no reason in this world, you don't need to say that you do not be responsible, this does not exist, everyone must be responsible for their own things, It also means that we must be cautious in what we say and do when we do things, don't think of what we are, and don't think of what we want to do.

When we do things, we must think more about what kind of results we may lead to by doing this, whether we can afford such results, if we can't afford it, we'd better put it simply, and what I can afford, or if I can afford it, or if I can afford it, then such a thing, if we can try, we can still try it, but some things once they really have to pay a big price, we must be cautious and cautious, and we would rather think a little more, Don't wait for something to happen and then regret what you are talking about, it's useless to think about anything.

Learning that the painful regret in the end is not the beginning, don't let it happen, don't let it happen, there won't be so many things, maybe you can still have a good mood, maybe you can also use this time to do what we want to do, for everyone our time is limited, the same, it seems that some people have time to do what we want to do the most, in the end, even if I can't reap the joy of success I want the most, but in the end, at least I will be happy after experiencing today, Because such things are what we like, because such things are what we want, so what we like is what we want, which means that we experience even if we don't get what we want in the end, I have experienced it, we will feel autonomous, many times this is indeed the case, once some economies have been experienced, you will have a kind of heart for life friendship, there is a new inspiration, his inspiration is also available in the degree of labor, not that we want to get it, But we need to have that opportunity, after experiencing that kind of experience, it is possible to get it, is that our reputation has not been obtained, and there is no need to regret too much, life is like this, some things may not be able to get, even if they pay all their energy, they can not get, this is the real logic of existence in this world, we don't think that we will be able to get it if we pay, we will be able to get it if we pay, such a thing will only exist in it, it will only exist in books, In reality, it doesn't unfold like this, and we don't have to have too many regrets about such things, because this world is like this. We must have the courage to face such a reality, and in the face of such a reality, is it not a challenge and an incentive for us?

We must have this mentality, only in this way can we not be too inflated when we get it, and we will not be too depressed and sad when we lose it.

If we say that our mentality collapses, even if there are more opportunities in the future, we may not be able to seize it, because we must be absent-minded at that time, we must not be able to think of anything, and we will not be able to enter anything, so our talent will naturally be useless, and everything we want to get is just our own dreams. However, we need not be too pessimistic.

Because even if there are some things that can't be obtained, but in the end we have at least experienced the experience, we are proud enough, and we have at least understood that such things may not be suitable for us sometimes, not suitable for us, we understand him as soon as possible, understand him, and then leave him, the venue is not a good thing for us, don't always stumble on one thing, everyone's good point is different, some people are good at this, some people are looking for that, If we have our own strengths, then focus on what we are good at, and if we track what we are not good at, we may find ourselves regretting it in the end, and countless hours and energy are not comparable to others, and we will only do things with a trace of energy, and we will feel that we are too inefficient in doing things, but in fact, there is really no smile, in fact, it is not.

It's just what I have, and the rest is just my own, so this also consults us to a certain extent, we must distinguish our strengths and weaknesses, and after understanding our strengths and weaknesses, we must make deeper use of our strengths, and continue to work hard in our strengths, so that we can give full play to our talents, and after we give full play to our talents, we can deeply feel our value, for many people, I think the value in this world is what they don't find, some people may feel that they are too wasteful, they have nothing, they can't achieve anything, but in fact they really don't have such a good life, in fact, it's not, it's just that they waste some time or don't use some good energy on the right path and useless opinions.

Or do they spend those experiences and those times on some things that they are not particularly good at, but they are very draining on their will and time, and finally they will slowly find that they are becoming more and more skinny, ordinary and more frequent, such things are originally something they don't want to see, but if they don't want to see it, can they not see it? Actually, no, for example, can we make a question for him if we want to? Obviously, no, whether you can make a question depends on the difficulty of the question, second, look at your own ability, only when your ability is above the difficulty of this question, you can solve it if you want to solve it, you don't want to solve it, you can not do it when you come out, and if the difficulty of this question is above your ability, even if you want to do it, you may not be able to do it, or it is a great probability, there is no way to do it.

If you know that you can't do it, and you still stumble on this impossible road, then what are you pursuing? Is it too perverted to pursue the pain of this moment, it is obvious that such things are not worth us, each of us has limited energy, we should devote our energy and time to those things that need us to complete and need us to do more.

Instead of falling further and further down a wrong path, and even others want to pull us back, we also feel that others are framing people like us, often in the end it is impossible to achieve great things, such people often end up in great pain, they will hate themselves, they will hate others, but I don't know that sin should hate oneself, because this is one's own persistence, to bring oneself to such an abyss, because others say too much, no matter how good it is, even if they don't want to disagree, In the end, we may not be able to get what we want.

The final decision is still in our own hands, we don't want to be anyone, and there is no way to tamper with our will and our actions.

Therefore, once we fail, we don't have to blame others too much, we should learn more to think and reflect on our own shortcomings, where to think about what we have done, so that we can slowly complete what we want to accomplish, so that we can finally get what we want, otherwise we will not be able to get it in this life. Sometimes in this world, it is indeed so cruel and ruthless, we only have to keep a clear and calm mind, find out the truth of the matter in this complicated matter, and finally let him completely dissect it in the general way, and then at that time we find out the key to the problem, after discovering the key to the problem, we can concentrate the energy of the whole body, concentrate the will of the whole body to let him break through, after the breakthrough we may enter a new sky, We may find a world that we have never seen before, waiting before our eyes to explore, waiting for us to complete.

That world is beautiful, but what we must know is that in the road to this beautiful blood, it may be full of countless difficulties and obstacles, full of countless economies, we can only truly reach that beautiful world after these economies will help to unravel all of them, we can really reach that beautiful world, we can really calm down and enjoy that beautiful environment, the happy experience and comfortable leisure that it brings us. Please keep in mind: Lily, website mobile version computer version, lily free fastest update no anti-theft, no anti-theft, error chapter Ask for a book Looking for a book, please add the lily book friend group QQ group number 548944127