So if we can't accept it, then the only thing we can do is to never let this happen as much as possible.

In this way, we will not have such confusion, in fact, it is not difficult to not have such a thing happen, it is relatively simple, as long as we pay a little attention all the time, then for us such things can be done.

But if we don't pay attention, then this kind of thing is undoubtedly relatively difficult for us, but we only need to firmly believe in one thing, that is, we work hard, fight hard, and don't let him go astray, then we can still do well, but if we don't have this kind of awareness, then once such a thing happens, our hearts will inevitably be all kinds of pain and all kinds of discomfort.

To do a thing conscientiously and steadfastly, then in fact, it is very good for us, sometimes we don't have to let ourselves in every direction, as long as we do a good job in one direction, then it is a good thing for us, because we can carefully observe, in the good side, everyone will do the limit in the aspect, they can be called masters.

Such people will also reap what they deserve, but on the contrary, if we want to do a good job in every direction, but in fact we may find that we are superficial in every direction, are floating on the surface, so that floating on the surface may more or less make those who are not in close contact with us have an illusion, maybe they will think that we are quite knowledgeable, but it, we will inevitably be exposed if we get along for a long time, and do one thing to the extreme, which means that we have more say in this regard, We will be able to solve this problem more proficiently, and we will be able to win from the competition, and we know a little bit in every direction. We will find that it is difficult for us to win in every small direction of competition with others, and this is certainly not the outcome we expect.

In this way, it is difficult to achieve our ambitions to a large extent, each of us definitely does not want to be mediocre, and we all want to be able to do something great in this world when we come to this world, but the most basic foundation for doing a great thing lies in whether we have the ability and value, if we do not have a little ability and no capital, we just rely on words to say that it is useless, because whether things can be done in the end, the ultimate key is whether they have the strength to match, If there is.

Then we have enough value and enough possibility to be competent, and if we don't have it, then if we want to achieve it, then the meaningless is to get a ladder, we don't look down on ourselves at the same time, don't leave ourselves, we must put our mentality in a good enough position, if once out of balance, a wrong mentality will lead us to eventually make a wrong decision, and a wrong decision, But in the end, it will make us feel why we have given so much, and if we fail, we will feel that there is something unworthy, and at the same time, our self-confidence will also be greatly damaged, once a person's self-confidence is completely destroyed.

We will find an amazing fact, that is, we are becoming more and more timid, less and less afraid to try, more and more timid, more and more afraid to try to track us, we are afraid to do nothing, we can only watch some good opportunities slip away in front of our eyes, see those good opportunities, do we not want them to realize from the bottom of our hearts? And no, but why didn't it happen in the end?

In fact, he is also very simple, that is, whether he is working hard enough, that is, whether he is enough to go in the right direction, and if the direction is not correct, if Lu is also not good, and the opposite direction is correct, but he is reluctant to put in a little effort, the final result is the same, so no one is closer to these two articles, and no one is more important, but whether we can form a balance between the two sides, but how to form a balance between the two sides, this is an art and a challenge, People who can write these two things well will undoubtedly do a good job in the end, and if there is no good coordination, then the effect we want will be greatly discounted.

Once we don't get feedback for a long time, then we will feel that we wonder if our method is wrong, in fact, it is indeed wrong, but it is not so outrageous, if this time once it goes to the extreme, then we may deny it entirely, in fact, many things in this world are not flying hundreds, but there are many people who fall into this black and white trap in this black and white wrong cognition, Such a misconception may not have any effect on him for a while, but if we continue to have such a mentality for a long time, we will eventually find ourselves being harmed by such a mentality, and some people do not believe that they are going to be in a hurry, and eventually they may find out. I rashly went to such an extreme, and in the end, I only let myself fall into a state of bruises.

If we feel this kind of damage for a long time, we will really become numb, and at the same time we will become more and more timid, such numbness, such timidity, must be very inattentive to us to achieve what we want to achieve.

Although this truth is simple, but there are very few people who really understand, alas, in fact, there is nothing wrong with such things, because if everyone is extremely rational, if everyone is extremely hardworking, then we will eventually find that we are living more and more difficult in this world, this is because most people are content with the status quo, and some people are in a comfortable state when they study medicine, so we will stand out because of a little effort, such a problem, This kind of thing is something that many people don't notice, but once we have a certain experience, if we look back, we can easily find such a result, such a result and ending is undoubtedly a good thing for us, but in fact it is not necessarily a good thing for all of us, because if too many people are lazy, we will eventually find us. The development of our society will slowly become slower and slower, and if the development of the whole society becomes slower and slower, it is obvious that it will not contribute to the improvement of our social level.

Obviously, the improvement in our quality of life, our standard of living and our material level is slow.

We also need to have a full understanding of such things, why do we say this? Because anything happens must have its reasonable reasons, many times we see such a phenomenon, although the focus is tricky, but can not be rushed, because for what kind of life everyone has the right to choose independently, as long as this kind of life does not hurt others, we have no right to interfere with others, in point 2 many things it is a slow progress process, if we want to achieve the growth of the target all of a sudden, then the final result will undoubtedly make people feel very bleak.

Well, we must respect the objective laws of things, and we must develop slowly, so that if we develop slowly, if we conform to the core of the development of things, it is actually the best way.

However, many people are difficult to have such patience, because what we like most is that we can get what we want to get immediately, and if we want to get something, it takes us 10 years or even decades of hard work to be able to develop, then many people have already given up halfway, because such a long time of persistence is a difficult thing for them, and it is indeed such a long time of persistence, who is a difficult thing to adhere to, but, We also have to learn to think dialectically and dialectically look at the final completion of a thing, it may be difficult, but we can set small goals little by little to achieve a small goal is very simple, when a small goal is realized, we can feel a sense of achievement, so that the slow sense of achievement continues to accumulate, which is also a good thing for us, this small sense of achievement is enough. Supporting us to go the whole way, and then let us slowly and finally strive for the fruits of our victory, it is a pity that many people do not notice this.

They just feel that if it is difficult to do, they give up, and never imagine changing an attitude to look at such a problem, but they do not know that if they change their attitude to look at such a problem, in fact, such a problem will be solved for you, and it will not seem so difficult.

But it's a pity that not everyone has such a wise mind, it is precisely because each of us doesn't have such a full mind, so we have to continue to learn the strengths of others, slowly accumulate, to master what we should master, to learn the knowledge we need very much, to our day by day continuous accumulation to our day by day so that they can be stacked up, we look back, we may find that we have unconsciously learned so much, And continuous learning, will gradually change from quantitative to qualitative.

After the result of such a quantitative change caused by the qualitative change, we will be sincerely happy, we will look back at all our past efforts, we will find that the original one's contribution is not useless, but only a long time to form a big effect, but such things will be more or less realized, we will feel that the natural satisfaction is indeed a lot of things, it is not a short period of effort to be able to see the results, but really need a long time of accumulation to be able to do, In this process, we may encounter a lot of experiences, there will be a lot of ups and downs, such ups and downs may make us feel regretful, may make us feel pain, but we must turn grief and anger into strength, not the pain of the past, it is true that regret and pain are very uncomfortable, but do we have to be immersed in discomfort all the time. Middle?

It's okay no, in fact, there are many options for us to choose from, and the plan to teach you is to leave this sadness and pain as soon as possible, and then devote ourselves to our new life as soon as possible, we must reflect on the past, those regrets, those regrets, we have to learn from the experience of failure, and then these failed experiences will become a new beacon for us to move forward, or a risk marker, because we have accumulated today, There is a high probability that we will not go down the same path when we encounter the same thing in the future.

If we can make mistakes on a problem without repeating it, it is actually a particularly good thing for us, because at least it can save our time, so we don't have to waste our emotions, you must know that for each of us, time is extremely precious and extremely limited, for each of us, our life is to find what we should do in this extremely limited life, and then harvest the most joy from it. Let our lives be more comfortable and comfortable.

Then we need to continue to plan step by step, step by step to calculate, so that there can be the results we want, if we don't want to see the worst way of development, but also want to see the closest to the results we want, then we have to do this, of course, this is full of many variables, even if we do everything to plan better, but in the end it is still very likely to deviate from our plan, then such things have to warn us, We must constantly revise our goals and our direction, and constantly revise our goals and directions, so that it is best to look at the development of things in a changing way.

However, in fact, many people look at it from the point of view of sperm, when they make a plan, they will always implement it unchanged, and after this implementation, they find that the effect is not so ideal, they begin to complain that they are too stupid, or say what, but he has never reflected a problem, that is, what is formulated now is only suitable for now, because the whole world is changing dramatically every day, and sometimes the change is very small. But sometimes the changes are huge, so we have to constantly correct the course and direction. Please keep in mind: Lily, website mobile version computer version, lily free fastest update no anti-theft, no anti-theft, error chapter Ask for a book Looking for a book, please add the lily book friend group QQ group number 548944127