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This actually warns us not to be willful and depressed to a certain extent, we had better have our own subjective judgment and subjective emotions, not to be swayed by others, if we are always swayed by others, it may lead us to go to one extreme after another, which is definitely not conducive to our development, some people may not believe in this thing, but this is the case, there is no way to avoid it.
Do we have to try suffering and suffering before we understand such a thing?
Is something like this worth it for us? In fact, such a result is obvious and absolutely not worth it, no matter who we are. Whether it is for anyone, giving up at will without trying at the beginning is not only irresponsible to oneself, but also a manifestation of unfilial piety and a manifestation of disrespect for others, why do you say that? Some people may find it difficult to imagine this, but in fact, this thing is also very simple, that is, our parents have placed high hopes on us, they have worked hard to raise us as adults, for anything, not for us to live a better life.
They are the kind of selflessness that we should not think about how to look back at such things? Obviously, people with a little conscience and some conscience will do this, in fact, most people do the same, but in fact, in their daily life, many of their behaviors are caused by it, in fact, they are not the kind of people they imagined, why do you say that? Because if they are really a filial person, then they should seize any opportunity in their lives, and never let go of any opportunity to change themselves, because only by seizing such an opportunity can they become better, become better, and then be able to have the ability to give back to their parents and have the ability to make their parents live a better life.
Isn't this a sign of filial piety? And because of our own personal reasons, because of our own stubbornness, we give up such things in the first place, which eventually leads us to see the reality that we often give up due to ourselves. As a result, we would have had a good future, but in the end we disappeared, don't we feel ashamed of such a disappearance? We don't feel sorry when we think about it, and many friends have high hopes for us, we should have a little response to them anyway, some guests said, we live in the world for ourselves, not for others, indeed we are mainly for ourselves, but what, everyone should have a sense of gratitude, parents gave us of course give us should not just think of what they should give us, and we should also think about whether we should give back to them, Obviously, if we want to be a person of conscience, then we should do it, and in fact being a person of conscience is not necessarily a bad thing for most people, but it is a particularly good thing.
Because people with a conscience are often appreciated by others, if we can be appreciated by others, in fact, to a large extent, such people are equivalent to a certain recognition of us, and after a certain recognition of us, they may give us some sincere help, which may be something we never dared to imagine before.
Such a person has been regarded as a friend by others unconsciously, and if a teacher is selfish, does not consider any of the emotions of others, and does not give a little reward to others, it is not conducive to his all-round development to do so for a long time.
There is a good saying, so that those who have attained the Tao help more and those who have lost the Tao and less help, and we live in this world, and it is impossible not to ask for others, on the contrary, we live in this world, and many things are thought and possible to seek help from others.
But if we find that we have no one to rely on at this time, and what can we do at this time, it is clear that our hearts will definitely be very heavy, and we will also feel that there is no way to use our strength.
If we want to do a good job to use our strength, we must be strong enough, such strength is not only physical strength, but also spiritual wealth and strength, double strength and strength can help us to really improve ourselves, to help us meet more friends, to be able to let more people recognize us, more people to recognize us, we are equivalent to invisibly harvesting a kind of power, Some people may think that friends in such a society are not too snobbish, in fact, they should not think so, the reason why a person is strong is often because he has this very good quality and perseverance character, such a resolute character and quality is the vast majority of us. Admired.
And if a person only has this natural money, and has wealth but no virtue, or neither, in fact, such a person, others may be respectful to him on the surface, but in private it is absolutely very disappropriated, and the friends made in this way are real friends in interests, not true friends, so this warns us, if we say that no matter how powerful we are, how much wealth, but never let ourselves be a talentless and irresponsible person, If once we become such people, then the people around us who are attracted to us are definitely similar to us, or it means that the face is flattering in private, and the anger is like green or sneering. In this way, it is very difficult for us to make true friends, if we can't make true friends, when we are really in trouble, we want to get help, these people will never give us help, not only will they not give them help, but they will also fall into the well and attack us with fists and feet.
How miserable this situation is, no one must say it, and we should also know it.
However, many people are addicted to it and do not know their enlightenment.
If they are stupid, in fact they are not the opposite, they still have extraordinary wisdom, but they seem to be born with a certain nerve in this regard, there is no way to think or directly on them to reflect on themselves can be imagined, but because of the personality of the reason they don't want to think, only used to enjoyment, so naturally they don't realize it, if they really want to try, it is absolutely possible, you let such a thing happen we will regret it, Does it make much sense? In fact, it doesn't make much sense, thinking of such a thing may only increase the ambition in our hearts is just sadness, the real thing is so simple, but many people don't understand.
If we can understand these things early and in time, then it is definitely a great help for our life, so what we can find is that those big people who have risen from the bottom often have a very valuable quality, because they have experienced that kind of thing, and understand that some things are not as beautiful as imagined, so they will have so many enviable qualities.
Because if they don't have such a good character, it often determines that they are likely to be unable to go to such a high position, this is because they have such a good quality, with the help and appreciation of many people, so they slowly rely on their own and others' strength, step by step towards the success of life, after embarking on the success of life, such people are often very grateful to others, but also have a good heart, they will pass away Shanyi, will dedicate their love, To give to those who really need help, and then form a virtuous circle, so that the whole world falls into a good atmosphere of mutual help, once a person has adapted to this environment from a young age and is accustomed to this atmosphere, their childhood can heal them for a lifetime.
Whenever there is something difficult or something painful that they don't want to think about, once they recall the joy of their childhood and the cooperation of their childhood, they feel a sense of healing, which is wonderful, but definitely there.
Some people may have heard the saying that a lucky childhood can cure a lifetime of unfortunate childhood, and it may take a lifetime to heal.
It is also a reflection of what is going on in this world.
If we can get a good temper and be in a good atmosphere from childhood to adulthood, then each of us will not perform too the contrary, we will be able to perform well.
Therefore, it tells us that we must strive to make ourselves excellent, and after becoming excellent, so that our next generation can experience this kind of life as much as possible, and then let this advantage continue to be maintained, and warn them that we must help those in need within the scope of our ability, so that the whole world will become better because of the accumulation of the strength of each of us.
When the whole world becomes a better place, once we are lost and frustrated, we will suddenly find that someone will suddenly stand up to help us, and we will feel a warm heart from the bottom of our hearts.
Such a thing may sound like a utopia, and it may seem unlikely, but to say that we are so small in the first place means that we were wrong in the first place, because how can we deny such a thing if we don't try? Why can we be sure that this is a dystopian thing?
Therefore, we must have good in our hearts, and then work hard to release this beauty to others.
Let everyone feel our enthusiasm, let everyone feel our desire, pull them to struggle with us, go chic together, there is great power in many people, only after there are more people standing on the same line with us, we can have more powerful power to transform the world, make this world more beautiful.
And if we just rely on our individual abilities, if we want to do well, it is actually very difficult.
Instead of doing this, we should change the way, another way, at least more and bigger so that our personal talents can be fully played, so that we can really make the best use of things, because each of our talents is different, each of us has different strengths, and a group of people with different talents and abilities together, then we can learn from each other's strengths, and send the most capable people to do what they should do the most. In this way, the efficiency of things can be greatly improved, and when the efficiency of things is improved, it means that we have to put in less effort to do less useless work. As adults, there may be no way to avoid not doing useless work, but doing less feels like we should pursue. This kind of thing happening is a good thing for any of us, but some people may not be able to understand, or there is no way to let go of their own value, resulting in themselves may spend a lot of time on it, maybe each of us has extremely limited time, we do this is extremely cost-effective, but also a kind of irresponsibility to themselves, but they don't realize that when they realize it, they think and think about it, They will feel how stupid they were at the beginning, how much they wish that time could be retraced, to be able to go back to the past, but they don't know that time will not change with our will, and what we can do is that. Accomplishing certain things at the age when you should do certain things the most, and not waiting for time and years to be missed, and finally feeling all kinds of regret and pain, such a feeling of slow pain and regret is not very useful, and it is also a very irresponsible performance.
Because if we think about it, it will never happen like this, so the most important thing we should do whenever and wherever is not to give up thinking, once we give up thinking, then our fate is very likely to be changed by us, and this fate must be in a bad direction, probably if you develop in a bad direction, how many people can accept such consequences? Obviously, the vast majority of people can't accept such a result, but if you can't accept it, can you not accept it, obviously not. Please keep in mind: Lily, website mobile version computer version, lily free fastest update no anti-theft, no anti-theft, error chapter Ask for a book Looking for a book, please add the lily book friend group QQ group number 548944127