In fact, many people are too floating, a person is always floating in the sky, in fact, it will have a very bad impact on themselves, but they often do not really realize how serious such a problem is.

Why? If a person is always floating in the sky, it will mean that the foundation is unstable, and it will also mean that he has acted a little too much to some extent, if he has this kind of strength, he has nothing, but the problem is that many people do not have such strength at all, but they still do this, then it will lead to a result, that is, if they do this for a long time, they will have a particularly huge impact on themselves, and such a huge impact is often beyond their imagination.

Because if we are too conceited, we may not pay much attention to some problems, and if we are not too attentive to solve some problems, then there may be a result or a consequence, that is, to ignore some small problems, ignore some 10 points of vital problems, this small problem may become a fuse, or become the last straw that crushes the camel, and finally put a lot of effort on your own, a lot of pay, and completely deny, when such things happen, Will we know repentance? Will you realize that you are wrong?

When we come to such a time, we realize that it will be a little too late, will it be a pity, after all, we have put in so much effort before, and in the end it still seems to be a failure, what are we doing this for? And why?

Obviously, it is very unworthy, no matter who it is, such a thing is definitely not a reasonable deal, it is definitely a loss-making deal.

Such an unreasonable transaction, it seems that the loss of money will have a great impact on his life, at least when he encounters this kind of thing in the future, at the beginning will feel that some of the past experience is very right to remind us that we are wrong, just like once bitten by a snake, 10 years afraid of the well rope, as soon as I think of his heart, I can't help but send out, it may have been a good opportunity, but because of my own hair to do, As a result, I missed a very good opportunity, no matter who this thing must have happened to, it is 10 points regrettable and incomprehensible.

This regret and incomprehension will inevitably have a great negative effect on ourselves, because this is to make ourselves miss a good opportunity, miss such a good opportunity, to know that our life and our opportunities are limited, once missed and not grasped that is missed, there may never be such an opportunity again, in the future we can only seriously see them red-eyed.

Presumably, no one wants this kind of thing to happen, but if you don't want it, it won't happen so obviously uncomfortable, but you have to use your own hands to avoid such a thing from happening, and if it's a fantasy, if you don't work hard with your hands to achieve it, then there is absolutely no way to let such a thing appear in your life.

Sometimes the reality is indeed so cruel, and the reality is indeed so proud, but do we have any other choice but to face him? Obviously, no, so since there is no other choice, then we have to do it.

At least this is not necessarily a bad thing for us, and even to some extent can still urge ourselves, sometimes we don't force ourselves to be able to know where our potential is, sometimes the environment is not bad and don't let ourselves open up, we may not be able to open up in our lives, if we can't open up in a lifetime, it means that we can't have an enviable attitude in this life, without such an attitude, we want to realize our ideals, Our desire to fulfill our wish is in a way a ridiculous joke.

Some people may not believe it, because they think that it will be related to the realization of their ideals and the realization of their own wishes, in fact, the problem is related to the doorway, that is, ideals and dreams must be a relatively difficult or relatively difficult thing, and to complete such a thing, it means that we have to put in the matching efforts, in order to get a little luck, but if you don't work hard at all, That means that you and what you want to get must be quite connected to some extent, and some people may not believe in being single, for example, we can get what we want without reaching out? Obviously not, unless someone is willing to drip it into our mouths at this time, but when it drops on me, how many people do we have in our mouths? Is it kind of luck that everyone will be willing when we don't open our mouths?

If we don't grasp it well, this kind of luck and this kind of luck can't come to us, and if we grasp it well, then there is still a great opportunity to counterattack and turn the tables.

Life is like this, if we don't advance against the current, we will retreat, but if we work hard to move forward, it is possible to get out of a new situation.

But if you don't work hard to move forward and don't work hard to move forward, then you may be standing still, and at the same time they are constantly improving, which means that we are not in the same place and do not progress, in fact, we are also regressing.

Maybe for some people, they don't know what regression means, what backwardness means, but we think about it, the original life in which we lived, we are almost the same, in the end much better than us, it seems to be too much, at this time what kind of mentality should we use to face them, is it happy or surprised, happy or happy, or is it to feel a little secretly lost?

In fact, if you are a normal person, you have more or less lost and injured lovers in your heart, why do you say that? Because people are a kind of creatures, when they see themselves abandoned by the times, feel abandoned by others, and abandoned by the class to which they belong, they will sincerely feel a loneliness and a kind of pathetic emotion from the bottom of their hearts, and such loneliness and such tragic emotions are difficult to express very easily in a word or two.

Because it's basically a thing that's hard to quantify.

In fact, the only thing we can do in this, or the best thing to do, is to think about why we are lagging behind, what is the reason for our backwardness, after finding out such a problem, we will solve the reason, and then think about how to avoid such a thing from happening, to avoid such a thing from happening, so that we can no longer be so mediocre, this step by step link of continuous logical thinking, continuous reasoning, In the end, to get an answer that is close to the truth, this is what we should strive for.

But sometimes the reality is not as we think, we may think too simple and think too beautiful, but in fact, what happens must be more than we imagined, there must be something we didn't expect to happen, for such a thing to happen without a blow, it must be better, but even if it doesn't happen, don't fall into a self-aggrandizing mentality for a long time, because life is not smooth sailing, if we have such a mentality, maybe there will be a sudden mutation, Then we may be taught a great lesson that should not have been learned, and which can have been largely avoided.

So if we can really avoid it as much as possible, then we must try our best to avoid it anyway, don't let this kind of thing happen in our own lives, because such things are really unnecessary, we can do better, we can completely not see this thing happen, but in the world because of our own ridiculousness, through our own ignorance, but because of our own ignorance, it happened, others look down on us, we also look down on us, What we have is a small mistake that has happened, and it will be over after a good reflection, but the problem is afraid that it will become a big mistake, what should I do? Is it useful for us to reflect after the enmity? Obviously, it is useful, but it is of little effect, because making a big mistake means that we have to take responsibility for it, and that responsibility is often for ourselves. It is an unbearable weight, and what you let us take over carefully is actually to some extent to welcome the bleakness of our life's life.

The only thing we can do is to face such a bleak life, live one day at a time, some people may think that this is too pessimistic, how can they encounter this kind of thing?

Therefore, the thing that must be said here is that if a person is too complacent and arrogant, he will eventually fall into the abyss that he cannot turn over, and if he still thinks like this at this moment, he is actually in danger now.

If you swim in such a dangerous situation for a long time, you can't guarantee that the ship will capsize one day.

Therefore, if we can understand this truth, then we must have a kind of fear from the bottom of our hearts, he can feel the fear of emotion, so that the fear of emotion is right, this is our purpose, we just have to have a better awe for everything, only after having a better awe of some things, we can go better, go farther and walk more steadily.

Don't think that such a thing is impossible, on the contrary, such a thing will definitely have a great impact on us.

If we blindly want to be unlucky, but blindly want to try to experience that kind of stimulation, then in the end we may laugh all over the body, at this time we want to heal again, in fact, it is very difficult, because wanting to heal is not only physical damage, but also spiritual torture and discomfort.

Maybe the physical torture and pain can be healed quickly, but the psychological trauma and then the healing is not so simple.

Maybe it took a lot of energy and a lot of time, at most there is no way to talk about it, such a thing exists, and it is widespread, because for each of us, the more you control yourself, don't think about one more thing, and finally the more you can't help but think, such a thought is difficult to stop, maybe you are also trying your best to eliminate him, but the more difficult it is to eliminate, if on the contrary you treat it as a thing that you don't care about, it may be relatively better to solve it. Although the truth is simple, it is still difficult to do in fact, which to some extent can be regarded as a kind of mindset of having no desire and no desire to look down on everything, and the mentality of looking at everything is not something that everyone can do, or in other words, there are very good people with such a mentality. To be able to do it, and if you want to really do a good job, you may be inadvertent, a lot of torture and grinding, the mind can not rise to such a level, then relatively speaking, there is no way to overcome such a problem, of course, we must not think that this thing is difficult not to do, if you don't do it, then there is no chance, but the best way is to eliminate it from the root, to avoid it from the root, so that it is the best thing for each of us.

However, don't overestimate your strength, feel that you want to experience everything, feel that you want to go to the supermarket for everything, but you don't know that once you try something, there is no way back, and not trying is the most rational and best way for each of us, don't feel that you haven't tried it, you can't help but want to try it sneakily if you feel curious from the bottom of your heart, but you don't know that some things are really endless, once you fall into the abyss, And then it may not be such a simple thing to get in, maybe once he gets in, it is a thing that there is no way to get up, so if we can avoid it, we must do it ourselves no matter what. Avoid it, this is the most rational approach for us, we must not overestimate our ability, and do not overestimate our own strength, once overestimated, you may end up falling badly.

It will hurt deeply, such a deep hurt, I don't know how much time and energy we have to spend to solve, some people can't do it in their lifetime, the fact is that, whether we believe it or not, he will not change with our subjective will, the only thing we can do is to believe in such a thing.