Of course, we don't have to be too pessimistic, because there are some things that we can actually try to change, and if we strive for them, we can still avoid them to a large extent. And if we give up at the beginning, it means that we have failed from the beginning, our life may not be so bright, but our life will definitely not be bleak, in fact, our life also has a lot of hope, we must not give ourselves too much pressure.

Don't be overly pessimistic, you can't do anything well, in fact, as long as we try to try, there is still a great possibility that these things want to avoid and want to eliminate.

Of course, 1:30 to change may have played a role, extremely limited, for us to do the most important thing, is to change as much as possible, must be persistent for a long time, this is a good thing for us, if only hold on for a while, a short time, in the end may not play a big role for us.

Because if you persist for a short time, you can only accumulate some quantitative changes at most, and most of the process of quantitative change to qualitative change is a very long time to fly, or the predecessors planted trees, and the descendants took advantage of the shade and drilled a loophole, so we must do such a psychological expectation and such a psychological assumption in our hearts in advance.

We can slowly stand out from it, and we should not look down on ourselves or others.

Behind everything is the inevitable logic of its existence, what we have to do is to understand the logic behind it, and then use it, let them become our help, instead of understanding the logic, openly disobey him, that is, go against him, this is absolutely not conducive to us to achieve our wishes, although with reality, we may feel a little difficult to contact, but if we do not accept it, the consequences may be endless, then in this case, As long as it doesn't go against the bottom line in our hearts, then it's worth it, because when we get better and stronger, we can do it to some extent. To rewrite those rules that we think are not reasonable, so that these better rules can serve us and others, so that others and themselves can gain more happiness and happiness.

In fact, living happily and happily may seem like a very difficult thing in the eyes of many people, but is it actually it? Actually, I don't know why I say that? Because whether we will feel happy, the key lies in our inner expectations of a thing, if we say that the lower the expectations in our hearts, then it must be easier to do it, and after we do it, we will naturally be able to reap the corresponding happiness, so the big key is that we must learn to be content, because for the vast majority of us, it is difficult for us to do those earth-shattering things. The first is because our ability is limited, and the second time we are not in a hurry, with the blessing of the comprehensive factors of the two, we ordinary people are destined to really realize. Such a rewriting of fate is an unlikely thing.

Then it also means that if we set your psychological expectations very high, then in the end there is a high probability that we will not be able to complete it, and we will not be able to reap the corresponding happiness, we may feel very frustrated, we may feel why happiness is so difficult, and we may lose a lot of things because of it, and we may feel all kinds of pain and suffering.

Being under such negative emotions for a long time may have a hard time doing what we want to do, because to do a big thing, we need to have a good mindset to a large extent, and if we don't have a good mindset, it is unlikely that we can do it, because a good mindset helps us to have a sharper intuition.

Being more sensitive directly helps us to catch better things and capture better opportunities, and if we catch better things, we have better opportunities, and we may take advantage of this to take advantage of the east wind and only the green clouds, and then harvest a lot of what we want.

Because ordinary people become the so-called big people in the eyes of people, many times by virtue of not how strong the professional ability is, but by luck and fate, as long as they are lucky, seize a good opportunity, they are likely to rely on this operator to get a good status, after obtaining a good status we can achieve our life ideals, but whether such an opportunity can be grasped or depends on our ability, It's not entirely about our luck, and sometimes luck can explain some, but more often we need to have a certain ability to seize, and the opportunity is quite difficult to obtain, and if you still need to get it without the threshold, the probability is low.

Such a low threshold is likely to cause a lot of competition, when more and more people join this competition, we may feel that it is more and more difficult to accomplish such a thing, and we don't have to panic or fear, because there is nothing to fear about such things, nothing to panic about, this is the direction in which things should happen, what we should do is to learn some experience from it, when we gain some experience and some experience from it, It will help us grasp the future life, if we have a good grasp of the future life, then our life may be able to get a real change, and if we don't grasp it well, then it is likely to miss some good opportunities, once these opportunities are missed, we may feel sorry for it, leaving a wound in the bottom of our hearts that is difficult to repair, but there is no need to remember too much, because life is like this, some are lost to be able to gain, Gaining is also for some kind of loss, so we don't have to mind too much about the departure of some things, it's too difficult to let go, because being in such a state of mind for a long time is definitely not conducive to our physical and mental development.

Maybe we can't get the life and life we want, but we should never waste too much of our mood on some small things, we can completely let go and meet more and better things in our lives, we can do other things, and other things are not necessarily a good thing for us.

On the contrary, by doing something else, we may be able to gain more and more things, which is undoubtedly a better thing for us, so why should we not do it? It is true that sometimes life will not develop in the direction we set, which means that it is normal for us to encounter some difficulties in this kind of thing and receive some magic, the only thing we have to do is not to treat such a thing as a big thing, because we recognize them as bigger, then in the end our hearts must be more difficult to let go, just when we identify such a thing as a not too big thing, Then for us, we may be able to face it better, deal with it better, and after dealing with it, our fate may be reversed today.

As for how far our fate will be reversed, we may not be able to predict, but as long as we do it well, then things will definitely do our best to develop in the direction we want, but in this we should still remain absolutely vigilant, if we are too careless, then it is very likely that the track that was originally going in the direction we predetermined may be deviated, and after a little deviation, things will develop in which direction, which may not be too clear, so for us, the main thing has not yet been finalized, then we must not take it lightly, and this also warns us from the side that as long as things are not finalized, then there is still room for change, and there is room for return, which means that the things we see now may be such an ending that we don't want to see, but as long as we persevere, as long as we treat it well, then our life may not be like this, We must persevere, do as much as we can, do the best we can, do better things, so that our lives may be because of our decisions. And becoming wonderful or so wonderful is not your luck, but your ability to exchange it.

Because behind any accidental thing, there must be its inevitable law and its inevitable cause, and this inevitable reason is our long-term. The accumulation of long-term non-abandonment, the persistence of long-term non-abandonment, this is because there are these things in us to become so good, and if there are no these things to bring, we want to do so well, then it is undoubtedly an unlikely thing, we must be clear about one thing, that is, our life is step by step step out of the step, not to say that a huge turning point has occurred all of a sudden, which means that the good fate of our life needs us to continue to accumulate step by step, By working hard step by step, we will be able to turn them to the future we want to see the most, and if we do so, we don't have to be too discouraged if we don't get to such an outcome.

Why? Because that's the way things are, if you don't pay, you must not reciprocate, but if you pay, you won't necessarily get a return, so does it make sense for us to do this? Of course, there is, because as long as we pay the greater the possibility of getting a huge return in the end, and then we don't pay, then the probability of getting is very small, and it can even be said that it is impossible at all, which means that our efforts are to a large extent to buy a great possibility, and it is true that in the end it may not be able to be realized, but it will definitely not be too bad, because the world will not treat people who work hard.

Those people in the world that make us envious, maybe they have a very amazing talent, but more of them have ordinary people, can not imagine his perseverance, they are not as chic as we want, in fact, the problems they have to face are far more entanglements than we can imagine, and want to solve such entanglements, want to solve them without leaving any troubles, if you want to solve them comprehensively and thoughtfully, you actually need wisdom, and this taste is not innate. But it is necessary to constantly polish yourself again and again, and after continuous experience again and again, you will have such wisdom.

And if you let ordinary people do it, it is very difficult to do it, it is difficult to do it, not because their ability is much worse, but more because they don't have that experience, they don't have that kind of experience, so it's difficult to do it, and if we all have that kind of experience and experience, we may not be so handy, but it will definitely be much better than now.

This warns us that in fact, what kind of experience we have is very important, and the biggest reason for what kind of experience we have is that our choice lies in our own heart, how to choose, then what our life is like, what our experience is like, and how to choose behind it is more a reflection of a person's wisdom and reaction, the most real thoughts of a person's heart, and if a person is said to have his innermost thoughts is dystocia is a lot, Then they will inevitably choose those things that can be done without any effort, things that can be done without any effort, which means that they are very simple, which means that the rate of return is often very low, and we often do not get any substantial improvement after doing it, and we are likely to have a lot of such things for us, but we will find that they are not as good as others. We don't have to accumulate or be jealous of what we gain by doing something a little bit difficult, because we get at least one piece of information from it.

And this piece of information is quite useful and quite critical, and that is: As long as we work hard and give, in the end we will be able to become different, and we will be able to do our best to get closer to the person we want to become.

Some people may think that this is chicken soup, but in fact, it is true, and we have not tried people who have not worked hard, so it is said that this is not a good thing. Why don't we answer after trying and practicing it all our lives, this kind of persuasion seems to make more sense.