"In the nightclub, the image is always the first thing you have to deal with, the main reason is that the nightclub pickle girl can't see the value of the other party to some extent, so the most important criterion is your image. The image mainly includes your dress, as well as your appearance. Appearance is relatively fixed for a person, and the more experience you need to change is in your dress, buy some particularly handsome clothes, and go to the barber shop to do it. If the image is good, the success rate of your pick-up will increase by a large margin. ”

"Our nightclub pick-up is to ensure their success rate, those who look cold, unfriendly girls we still don't need to provoke, find out those girls who have windows, this will improve your success rate. The way to find the target: you look at the smiling and friendly people to talk to; or someone goes to talk to a girl who responds to OK; Or, you can interact with your girl first (e.g., clink glasses or look at each other) and then talk to her, and your success rate will be much higher. ”

"When is the easiest time to get a successful conversation is the next thing we need to think about, don't choose a moment when she has a lively conversation with her friends or a new man in their circle. The best time to do this is when she's bored, waiting for someone or being accosted by the female partner next to her. Talking to her when she is bored and free is also relieving her boredom, and it is generally easy to succeed. ”

The most direct way, just like in the TV series, walked directly to her with a glass of wine and asked, "Beauty, do you mind if I sit here?" Or "Beauty, may I treat you to a drink?" "Wait. As long as the girl thinks you have passed the test, she will agree, and the sister agrees to chat with the sister casually, you can have a drink first, and tell some interesting stories to relieve the embarrassment of the first acquaintance. ”

"In the beginning, what we needed was to build a sense of familiarity with our girls. You can chat with her about basic topics (which is the best way to build a sense of familiarity), such as the bars she likes to go to, such as careers and hobbies. You will become more familiar with her at a certain depth of conversation, and you can slowly approach her, deliberately touch her with your arms, and test her reaction in constant kino. The girl didn't show disgust and could continue to move forward.。 ”

"The girls who come to the nightclub are basically in demand, saying that they are making friends, but in fact, they just want to vent themselves, whether it is mentally good or physical. Since the girl has this need, we will find a way to take the girl, of course, because the girl's anti-slut mechanism can't directly say to go home with me, it's best to take the girl away on the grounds that it's too noisy to have a supper or because it's too noisy and needs to be fun, and substitute the girl into the occasion that she is familiar with. ”

"In the nightclub, the sister needs to follow such a series of steps, step by step, and there is the need for everyone to continue to practice, to experience the details, this kind of sister experience I can't describe in words, only those who do it can understand the mystery."

"So that we don't even have a dime to do with each other. I was going to pick the stars in the sky for you, but I thought about it or forget it, I can reach the stars, but I can't reach you. Why are you so vulgar, you keep posting selfies, so I watched it several times, and my hands were sore. ”

"I've been thinking about it for a long time and I'm not sure, so I'll have to ask you in person next time I dream. I found out that you are a photo fraud, because I am much better looking than the photos. Bet it, if I lose, I'll be yours, if you lose, you'll be mine, why is the phone out of battery so quickly, come and tell me, who did you discharge again? I have to drink before I see you every time, and if you ask me why I'm blushing, I'll say it's because of drinking. ”

Qilin said that he felt that the words of his whole life were finished at this moment, and Pu Xingwen suddenly found that he had listened to all the earthy love words that he wanted to listen to in his whole life.

Hurry to stop him.

"Okay, okay! You've said so much, I didn't get used to it at all, and now it's in vain to listen to it! ”

Kirin, of course, saw that he was not qualified.

"What are you afraid of, this light bulb still came out after a thousand failures. You've only failed a few times! ”

"If you want to go on a date without being awkward, it's best to get off to a good start. For example, starting from the image, boys can wear suits and leather shoes, and girls can have high heels and short skirt suits. But it's best to find out what kind of person the other person is, if the other person is a reserved person, you'd better dress a little more formal, the other party is very casual, you can also dress more casual. Don't go on a date with a suit tie and a sneaker, two people are not the same, the most embarrassing. ”

"The first step is to meet, here is the first time the boy asks the girl out, try to make an appointment in a relatively obvious place, such as the door of an obvious building, or a landmark place, so as to avoid us looking for each other blindly, which will delay time, and if you can't find a girl as a boy, it will be easy to destroy the girl's mood, which is not conducive to the girl's first impression of you and the progress of the next date."

"Remember! If you're afraid of an awkward date, it's a good idea to think about what you can talk about. For example, a trip you have had, an interesting story at work, and a recent movie can be your talking point. But it should be noted that the topic should be light-hearted and pleasant, don't come up and talk about the heavy topics of your ex's love history, and remember, you are dating for the first time, and people are not familiar with you yet. ”

"In addition to the topic of chat, you may wish to prepare some small games beforehand, such as a small magic trick with playing cards and coins. The main purpose is to participate in the game with each other and relieve the awkward atmosphere. Remember not to be too presumptuous and force the other person to play the game with you. When two people accomplish something together, they interact with each other in the process, and the relationship will go further. ”

"When it comes to hobbies, it's quite wide. If the other party is a very reserved girl, and she is more modest, it doesn't matter if she says that she has no hobbies and specialties. You can guide her, for example, if you are given 5 million and you are asked to travel, where will you go to play? What will you buy? There are many hobbies and hobbies, such as singing, dancing, climbing, fitness, etc. It doesn't matter what her hobbies are, the important thing is to open the conversation box so that the two of them have something to talk about. ”

"Remember that the content of the chat must not always surround the girl, first of all, it will give the girl too strong purpose, the girl will feel pressure, so that she will begin to avoid and dislike you, try to chat with the sister has something in common. Work is a common denominator. There is also to show yourself, in the story you are telling, please try to show your high DHV story as much as possible, tell interesting and infectious things, and mention the girl by the way when showing yourself a certain amount, for example, I have been to this place is particularly beautiful, and you should go with you if you have the opportunity. This is a good way to communicate and bring you closer to your sister and build attraction and emotional resonance. ”

"If you have the conditions before flirting with a girl, you can learn about the woman's interests and hobbies in advance, so that she can talk more about this topic when she is dating, so that the girl will have a good impression of you. For example, when chatting, you can hint at juggling: if there is an afterlife, let us be the right little mouse, stupidly fall in love, live a stupid life, snuggle purely, and be stupidly together. When the snow and ice covered the mountain, we nestled in the warm grass, and I put my arms around you and fed you rat poison. ”

"Don't be too demanding of perfection in all aspects of yourself when flirting with girls, often self-confidence is the most important thing. Worry about this and worry about that when you flirt with your sister, you lose half of the momentum in the first place, even if you are excellent in other aspects, girls will think you are unreliable. Besides, flirting with girls is originally a process of promoting yourself, as long as you show your sincerity, you don't care if the other party accepts it or not, you should enjoy the process of flirting with girls. ”

The second is humor, don't say anything that sounds self-flattering or flattering on a blind date. For example, emphasizing "I have a graduate degree" and "I have a house and a car" as soon as you open your mouth will make women think that you are too superficial. Secondly, "I think you're the most beautiful person I've ever known" and other things are relatively unsuccessful openings. When chatting with women, men can prepare a few healthy jokes in advance, so that both parties can enhance understanding in a relaxed and humorous atmosphere, sincerely express their personality and hobbies, and politely ask each other about their interests, which will help both parties to communicate and understand. ”

"Although flirting with girls is provocative and requires you to exert your personal charm in a timely manner, not all words can be said, especially yellow jokes, or excessive boasting of yourself. Your past life and emotional experience need to be slowly understood after in-depth interaction between two people. If you "sell" yourself too much when you meet for the first time, it may make the other party resist and be reluctant to have in-depth relationships with you. So when you meet for the first time, you should grasp the degree and just say a rough idea. The more mysterious the person, the more interested the other person will be in you. ”

Pu Xingwen's head was crooked, remembering what Qilin said, and he really couldn't react for a while.

However, Qilin's time did not wait for anyone, and he continued to speak.

"When launching a flirting action, it is important to pay attention to the importance of first impressions, which will go a long way in the success rate of flirting. The specific first impression can be the image, personality, behavior, etc., and there is the concept of the first cause effect in psychology, that is, once the first impression is established, the subsequent information organization and understanding will be completed according to the first impression. The proximate effect is when the newly acquired information has a greater impact than the originally obtained information. Generally speaking, proximity effects tend to occur between people who are familiar with each other, especially those who are close to them. The first cause effect is easy to occur between unfamiliar people, and in the process of flirting with girls, the first cause effect is more obvious, and in the process of future interactions, the proximate effect is more effective. ”

As he spoke, the unicorn touched Pu Xingwen's dog's head.

"Although you don't usually look good, people are not good, and you don't do anything, but as long as you use these routines, that girl is simply handy!"