Su Yue understands that for Li Qianqian, what she wants now is, to put it bluntly, a sense of belonging.

Growing up in a single-parent family, she was not able to get the love and affirmation from her parents, which is the main reason for her inferiority complex. And such an inferiority complex, after experiencing the fruitless love with the pacesetter, is vividly reflected in her current concept of love.

Now she only wants to find a partner who can marry her and form a new family as soon as possible to make up for the lack of family in her heart. And it is such persistent thoughts that often confuse her eyes, making her only pay attention to some appearances of the other party, so that she can't clearly see whether the man in front of her is sincere to herself.

"Su Yue... What should I do now...? I'm really lost. ”

At this time, I saw Li Qianqian tilting her head and leaning on Su Yue's shoulder, and continued to mumble to herself:

"I think... I don't dare to fall in love again. After experiencing this blow twice in a row, I can't believe in feelings anymore..."

"Sissi, if you are confused, why don't you stop and calm down and leave a little time and space for your heart?"

Su Yue put her arm around Li Qianqian's shoulders and continued to explain her heart in a gentle tone:

"Have you noticed that you don't actually love him? What you love is only his kindness to you, and his many external conditions that match you. Because in your heart, the only desire is to settle down early, get married early, and start a family of your own, because you need this sense of belonging. ”

"Hmm... By what you say... I think that's exactly what it is... I feel so lonely living alone. ”

"Sissi, everyone feels lonely to a greater or lesser extent. But we can't be afraid of being lonely and think that it doesn't matter who someone is there for us. If this continues, a vicious circle will be formed, and loneliness will not subside, but will only intensify. ”

"No wonder... After I was separated from the pacesetter, I felt very lonely inside, immersed in pain and sadness every day. That's why I started looking for a boyfriend on a blind date site... Hehe... Thinking about myself, I'm really hungry. ”

"Sissi, don't talk about yourself, fear of loneliness and need companionship, this is a feeling that everyone will have, and this is also human nature. We don't need to reject this trait, because we have feelings, we have needs, and these are normal. Merely... I hope you can understand that loneliness is not a scary thing and we don't need to try to avoid it. Sometimes, only when we learn to truly enjoy solitude can we grow inside. ”

"I think... I can't... I was scared of being alone, scared to death. Because I grew up in loneliness, my parents ignored me and snubbed me because they quarreled all day long, I was fed up with this feeling of not being valued, and I was afraid to be alone..."

Su Yue knows that Li Qianqian has been deeply influenced by her original family since she was a child, and for her now, it is enough to be aware of the problems in herself. And now forcing her to correct her past thoughts and behaviors at once is obviously difficult for some strong people. Habit formation is not a matter of a day or two, so it will take a long time to completely change the habit...

So Su Yue tried to come up with another suggestion:

"Sissi, it's okay, maybe it's a difficult thing for you to learn to enjoy solitude now. But at least there is one thing that I think you can try to change now, that is, when you come into contact with the opposite sex in the future, you can give yourself more time to observe and understand each other, instead of blindly deciding to be together because of impulse. After you break up with your boyfriend this time, you can also give yourself some time to calm down and think about it, instead of rushing to start searching for your next target in order to fill the gap in your heart. ”

"Hmm... I know. After listening to your analysis, I feel that my mind is instantly much clearer, and my heart is not as painful and confused as before. Su Yue, in fact, every time I stay with you, I feel very relieved, thank you. ”

Li Qianqian's appearance looked much calmer, it seemed that she had listened to Su Yue's words seriously, so that she would benefit and be inspired by it. After solving her own problem, Li Qianqian suddenly seemed to remember something, and asked with concern:

"By the way, Su Yue, I heard that Mu Yao is going abroad again, do you know about this?"

"Hmm... I know, he told me. ”

"Did he say when he would be back? This guy is obviously pursuing you so hard, but he left when you need him the most, which is really not powerful. ”

It seemed that Li Qianqian didn't know what was happening on Mu Yao's side, so Su Yue had no choice but to say lightly:

"Maybe he's got some work to do, and I'm with Luze... We haven't broken up yet. ”

"Alas... Su Yue, in fact, after hearing you last time, I also sympathized with Lu Ze's experience. But from your best friend's point of view, I have to think about it, although it may be a bit selfish to say that, but I think as long as there is his mother, it will be difficult for the two of you to achieve results. And Mu Yao is different, his parents we have also been in contact with before, they are both very knowledgeable and enlightened people, not to mention that Mu Yao likes you so much, I think the two of you are a match made in heaven. ”

"Sissi, I understand what you said, I know that Mu Yao is very good and good to me, but I still can't completely let go of Lu Ze in my heart. Maybe it's going to take some time... Let me think about it, I know that it is unlikely that I will continue with him, and I have no luxury of expecting a turnaround..."

"Su Yue, then think about it, I think Mu Yao is sincere to you. Since you've already missed it once, don't miss it again this time! Such a good man, you have to hold on to it. ”

"Let me think again... I promised Mu Yao that when he came back, I would give him an answer. ”

After separating from Li Qianqian, Su Yue returned home and sat on the sofa with a heavy heart and fell into deep thought alone.

On the one hand, Lu Ze, who has suffered a lot but has never been able to touch, and on the other hand, Mu Yao, who has fallen into a career crisis and now doesn't know when he will return...

These two relationships seem to be out of Su Yue's control, and no one knows how they will develop in two completely different directions.

Just when Su Yue was in a daze, she received a call from Nurse Liu.

"Hey, Nurse Liu, hello."

"Hello, excuse me. I called to tell you that our psychiatrist had already counseled both Lu Ze and his mother. ”

"How's it going?"

"Lu Ze's effect is good, and he has begun to actively cooperate with the doctor for treatment. But with his mother, it doesn't seem to be going well. ”

"Oh? How so? ”

"The psychiatrist did a test on her mother, and the results of the test showed that her mother had paranoid personality disorder."