"Paranoid personality disorder? What does that mean? ”

Su Yue heard this professional term for the first time, so she felt a little puzzled. However, Nurse Lau was quick to explain her doubts:

"The so-called paranoid personality disorder is a psychological disorder, and many people nowadays have this problem to a greater or lesser extent without knowing it. This type of person often denies his biased behavior and rarely has self-knowledge or reflection on his actions. Even if some people are aware of their own problems, it is difficult to change them, and they are reluctant to accept help from others. So when our psychiatrist was explaining Lu Ze's mother today, he found that she actually had a deep resistance, so he couldn't talk about it in the end. ”

"I see... After listening to you, I think Lu Ze's mother does have a similar situation. ”

Thinking of what Lu Ze's mother had done during this time, as well as her various attitudes towards these things, Su Yue thought that this was consistent with what Nurse Liu said, so she continued to ask:

"But how does this paranoid personality disorder usually come about?"

This is usually the result of a lack of love in family life early on, or a succession of blows or failures in life later in life, as well as certain abnormal situations and self-criticism. All of these causes can lead to stubbornness, sensitivity and suspicion, and sometimes narrow-mindedness or jealousy due to being overly vigilant. ”

"Is there any cure?"

"In general, long-term psychotherapy must be the most effective. However, as I said earlier, his mother's attitude is very resolute, she believes that there is nothing wrong with her at all, so if the person is not aware of her psychological problems, it is difficult for our doctors to intervene in the treatment. ”

"Okay, I understand, thank you, Nurse Liu."

"You're welcome."

It seems that it is impossible to make Lu Ze's mother aware of her psychological problems and actively cooperate with the treatment. At present, her relationship with Lu Ze has reached a dire point, and there is probably no one around her who can explain her.

I am afraid that Lu Ze's mother's psychological problems are more or less related to the sudden death of Lu Ze's father, and the sudden death of her husband has traumatized her heart, so she is sensitive and suspicious, and tries to protect her injured heart in an extreme way.

However, Su Yue knew that she was just an ordinary person, and her abilities were limited, and at this moment, she couldn't even control the affairs between herself and Lu Ze, how could she take care of his mother's psychological problems. However, she also knew very well in her heart that as long as Lu Ze's mother continued to intervene like this, she and Lu Ze would become more and more estranged because of this.

It seems that he is going to be separated from Lu Ze eventually......

Since she was already dead, Su Yue didn't think about it anymore, but she still chatted with Lu Ze for a few minutes every day to calm his emotions. Presumably, Lu Ze can also feel that although the two of them keep in touch every day, the topics between them are becoming less and less, and they are becoming more and more dull.

However, Lu Ze never said anything about Su Yue's cold attitude, and Su Yue did not express his desire to part with him. However, the difference is that Su Yue's persistence comes from her inner reluctance and pity, while Lu Ze's persistence is due to his firm attitude towards this feeling.

A week later, Lu Ze had been transferred to a general ward for further treatment, and this time he was strong enough to survive the clutches of death. Now he is recovering day by day. This made Su Yue finally breathe a sigh of relief, watching Lu Ze recover day by day, Su Yue was also happy for him from the bottom of her heart.

However, another unexpected news happened to come at this time, that is, Xue Keke was actually pregnant!

However, Xue Keke seemed to be very sad because of her father's death, and she washed her face with tears all day long, and she said that she did not want this child. First, because her father had just passed away, she really couldn't adjust her mentality to face this little life that had just arrived, and secondly, because the emotions of pregnant women would have a great impact on the child in her womb, so she was worried that the child would be unhealthy.

In a hurry, Qin Fei had no choice but to rush back to accompany Xue Keke day and night, and persuade Xue Keke to agree to keep the child. Lu Ze and Su Yue also thought that this little life was not easy to come by, and they also joined the ranks of persuading Xue Keke, and finally with everyone's efforts, Xue Keke finally decided to give birth to this child.

So during this time, Qin Fei was busy taking care of Xue Keke's diet and daily life, so he couldn't continue to stay in the hospital to take care of Lu Ze. But fortunately, Lu Ze's current physical condition should not be a problem to take care of himself, so he did not seek anyone's help and recuperated in the hospital alone. However, he did not only care about cultivating his body, and during this time, he has been trying to find ways to move his hukou. And finally one day, he successfully moved his hukou out with the help of acquaintances.

When he excitedly told Su Yue about this, Su Yue only felt a little worried in his heart.

"Lu Ze, is it really good to do this?"

Su Yue felt some inexplicable self-blame in her heart, and saw that she said to Lu Ze with some guilt:

"Actually, I always feel a little guilty in my heart that you did this for our business."

"Su Yue, this matter may have been just for the two of us at first, but now, even if there are no such things between us, I will definitely do it."

Lu Ze's tone sounded extremely resolute, and he continued to say to Su Yue:

"I'm so disappointed in my mother. I couldn't accept that my mother was such a person. Through her actions, I judged that she did not love me, and that I was just an appendage to her. In front of outsiders, she always used me as a tool for her to show off her success, at first I thought it was a sign that she was proud of me, but now I realize that everything she has done has always been for herself. ”

"Lu Ze, maybe your mother is just because she doesn't know it because she has some shortcomings in her heart, so she will do these behaviors to make up for the uncertainty in her heart, just like the psychiatrist said before..."

"It doesn't matter what kind of psychiatrist, what kind of inner missing... No matter how big her psychological flaws are, it should not be an excuse for her to commit these extreme behaviors again and again. Right is right, wrong is wrong. ”

Su Yue was interrupted by Lu Ze's sudden words, but she was powerless to refute it. Indeed, as he said, it is unfair that psychological problems should not be a reason for a person to be free to hurt others. If everyone who hurts others thinks that their mistakes are caused by psychological problems, then the world will be completely in chaos.

"So what's next? Presumably, your mother wouldn't have easily agreed to you if she had found out about this. ”

"Whether she agrees or not, I've moved out now, which means that I don't have anything to do with her legally. I have the right to live my own life and no longer be at her mercy. And..."

I only heard Lu Ze say in a very firm tone:

"Tomorrow I will ask a lawyer to negotiate with her, and I will take my father's inheritance to me."