Time
They both need time to figure out what they want, what they want to do, and what their future path will be.
So some things at this time don't have to be broken, and they don't need to be broken.
One must not make decisions when you are impulsive, because the decisions at that time are often irrational, and if you do, you are likely to regret it afterwards.
So, whatever decision you have to make, you have to think about it first, have you decided for yourself?
Can you take responsibility for your own decisions and not let your impulses lead to unacceptable consequences?
Zhuang Yan is a very rational person, so he never acts impulsively.
Even if something like that happened in the family back then, he himself never messed with himself.
A person must know when to strike, when to be patient, to endure when it is time to endure, and to move when it is time to move, so that you can grasp the best time to fight back.
A person who is formally impulsive often does not make it to the end, because in the middle of the way he will pay a huge price for acting on his impulse.
When Zhuang Yan returned home, he found that Zhuang Yi hadn't slept yet, Zhuang Yan looked at Zhuang Yi, "Why don't you sleep so late?" ”
Zhuang Yi looked at Zhuang Yan, "That, I heard that Sister Su is leaving." ”
Zhuang Yan's movements paused, "Who did you listen to?" ”
Zhuang Yi looked at Zhuang Yan, "You don't care who I listen to, you tell me if it's true?" ”
Zhuang Yan looked at Zhuang Yi and nodded slightly, "Yes." ”
Hearing this, Zhuang Yi was a little anxious, "Why, why did Sister Su leave?" ”
Zhuang Yan looked at Zhuang Yi, "She also has her own things to do, I have no right to interfere, let alone influence her decisions." ”
Zhuang Yi looked at Zhuang Yan, "Sister Su is so good, you can't help her if she has something, how can you let her leave like this?" ”
Zhuang Yan looked at Zhuang Yi and raised his eyebrows slightly, "She's leaving, why are you so excited?" ”
Zhuang Yan opened his mouth and said, "I'm not still here for ......"
Suddenly, Zhuang Yi silently swallowed the last few words as if he suddenly thought of something.
Zhuang Yan suddenly became interested, and looked at Zhuang Yidao, "For what?" ”
"For you!" Zhuang Yi complained in his heart, but he still didn't dare to say it blatantly, so he could only hook a far-fetched smile at the corner of his mouth, "No, it's nothing." ”
Zhuang Yan knew at a glance that Zhuang Yi must have something in his heart, but since he didn't want to say it, then he wouldn't force him.
Zhuang Yan has always respected all Zhuang Yi's own ideas, so Zhuang Yi can develop this lively and cheerful temperament now, if Zhuang Yan asks Zhuang Yi with the set that requires himself, then Zhuang Yi will definitely not be like this.
However, Zhuang Yan was really a little curious about this matter, because in fact, Zhuang Yi and Su Nian did not have much intersection, so Zhuang Yi should not be so excited when he heard the news that Su Nian was leaving.
But Zhuang Yi was even more excited than himself, which really made Zhuang Yan feel a little curious.
But curiosity is curiosity, Zhuang Yan didn't ask Zhuang Yi too much, just said lightly, "This matter is a foregone conclusion, don't bother her, you know?" ”
Zhuang Yi hated iron in his heart, "I don't bother her, look at yourself, everyone has been by your side for three years, you are still a bachelor, do you think this is like words?" ”
But these words Zhuang Yi only dared to complain in his heart, if he really said it, Zhuang Yan suddenly remembered to strengthen his requirements, then his happy life would be gone?
He still knows this thing, to be a man, is to know the current affairs, what to say and what not to say, you have to grasp it very clearly.
Zhuang Yan saw that Zhuang Yi didn't know what he was thinking there, so he couldn't help but reach out and pat Zhuang Yi's shoulder, "Talking to you, did you hear clearly?" ”
Zhuang Yi nodded, "I know, but is this matter really not turning around?" ”
Zhuang Yan looked at Zhuang Yi, "I said she has things to do, but I always have a way to get her back." ”
Hearing this, Zhuang Yi's eyes lit up suddenly, "Really, what can you do?" ”
Zhuang Yan looked at Zhuang Yi, "I can't tell you this for the time being, but I have a way." ”
After receiving Zhuang Yan's affirmative answer, Zhuang Yi felt that his heart was much more stable, and it would be good if he had a way.
Zhuang Yan has always done what he said, so Zhuang Yi has no doubt about the truth of Zhuang Yan's words.
However, Zhuang Yan still complained silently in his heart, "I'll just say, there hasn't been any other woman around you in three years, just such a woman dares to stay by your side, can you easily let people go?" ”
Zhuang Yan looked at Zhuang Yi, "Okay, go up and sleep." ”
"There's a lot to worry about when you don't sleep at night."
Zhuang Yi smiled at Zhuang Yan, "I'm going to rest, and you have to remember what you said." ”
Zhuang Yan smiled and patted Zhuang Yi's head, "There are a lot of things to worry about at a young age." ”
Zhuang Yi smiled and ran upstairs, Zhuang Yan thought about what Zhuang Yi said, and couldn't help but shake his head and laugh.
For Su Nian, it is true that she is different in Zhuang Yan's heart, but what kind of emotion is that different, in fact, Zhuang Yan himself does not know.
Su Nian's departure this time is also a good opportunity, let Zhuang Yan think about what that emotion is?
Don't look at Zhuang Yan, he is decisive and calm in the mall on weekdays, but in the end it is all a matter of reason.
And Su Nian's matter is an emotional matter, for this kind of thing, to be honest, Zhuang Yan himself has no score, after all, he used to spend most of his time learning professional knowledge in all aspects, and he had no time to deal with this kind of private emotion.
And even if a girl approached him before, he would decisively refuse.
Therefore, he himself has no experience in this kind of problem, and he needs a time to settle down and deal with it, and to think about the origin of this feeling.
This kind of relationship is probably a habit formed after getting along for a long time, and he may not be the kind of love or something that Zhuang Yi imagined in their minds.
So Zhuang Yan needs this time, and similarly, Su Nian also needs this time.
You must know that two people have been together for a long time, and it is very easy to have feelings, but this kind of relationship is not necessarily love, it may also be friendship, or a further feeling similar to family affection.
That's enough time for them to figure out the answer to this question.