No.146 It was a straw that crushed the camel
Friends broke up.
The friend who put five years of youth on a boy.
In the end, they broke up.
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She came running for comfort and asked me to have two drinks with her.
I handed her a Coke, let's drink Coke, it's not safe.
We sat on the beach with her head resting on my shoulder and was silent for a long time without speaking, which was not her style.
The sea breeze in August is already a little cool, and it is very comfortable to blow on people's faces, and it is as comfortable as if it has never been troubled.
We sat quietly on the beach for a long time, and the wind blew until the sky was flushed, and the sun was about to go home.
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01
I wasn't surprised at all by their breakup.
I've seen them go from being like a knee to a fight, to a breakup, to a reconciliation, to a fight.
My friend said, in fact, I already knew that we were not suitable, I just wanted to endure it a little longer, trying to change him, and the relationship for so many years could not be said to be scattered.
It wasn't until recently that I found out that our three views really didn't match, and I didn't want to try to endure and save anything.
If you've had enough of the disappointment, leave.
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02
Xiaoxiao's boyfriend has graduated for more than a year, and in less than two years, he has changed several jobs, has no savings, and even owes online loans.
Xiaoxiao has not yet graduated from college, she is a very self-motivated girl, she will do various part-time jobs during school, and she has also saved some money.
She would even take out the money to help her boyfriend pay off his debts.
They had a good relationship when they first got together, and her boyfriend would do all kinds of part-time jobs at school, and would come to her on holidays and give her small gifts from time to time.
We all envied her at that time.
But since the boy graduated, it seems that everything has changed.
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This sudden change made her a little overwhelmed.
He no longer remembers those anniversaries, no longer takes Xiaoxiao's words to heart, and always makes excuses that he is busy.
Play games, go to an internet café.
I drank with my so-called colleagues day and night, and the money left over after work was not even as much as I did part-time at school.
Xiaoxiao once scolded him hysterically on the phone, but what the boy didn't know was that on the night when he didn't answer messages on the phone and didn't reply to him, he drank too much and fell asleep, Xiaoxiao was worried that he didn't sleep all night, so he had a bastard on the phone.
Xiaoxiao worked part-time in the restaurant during the day and was very tired, and when she came back at night, the boy didn't say a word of concern, and he was drinking when he asked.
Later, he even yelled at her more than once for the game.
I saw a paragraph on the Internet describing Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen.
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"It's not so much that they're partners, it's more like an immature mom reprimanding a naughty dirty child."
In this sentence, I seem to see their shadows.
I watched them arguing hysterically again and again, hiding under the covers and crying again and again, giving him opportunities again and again, and wronging myself again and again.
I feel very sorry for the girl in front of me.
In her 20s, she could have lived a carefree life, talked about a romantic relationship, and had an infinite possible future.
But now it's the heart of a mother.
The end of a relationship is never because of a quarrel or ignorance, but the accumulated disappointment that crushes the last decency between each other.
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03
All the boys' papers during his time in school were formatted by Xiaoxiao for him.
During the epidemic, Xiaoxiao asked boys to learn office software and improve themselves while they had free time.
But the boy only said one sentence: It's useless to learn, and it's useless to work.
Turned around and started playing.
Maybe this was the straw that broke the camel's back.
Love and reality will one day converge, and under his childish words and deeds, it is likely that he is a heart that directly eliminates responsibility and responsibility.
No bickering, no blocking.
Just one sentence: let's break up.
ended a five-year relationship.
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