Chapter 32: The blind date ends
Volume I
Chapter 32: The blind date ends
Many people talk about the cold state of the world and the warmth and coldness of people, and complain all day long that no one helps them, no one helps them, too many unsatisfactory, too many unsatisfactory.
I would like to advise you that the world is not all cold, and human affection is not only cold.
There is no spring breeze leakage, there is no autumn rain when you lose time, this is the sophistication of the people who come and go, help each other, you have never helped others when you are proud, you must only run into walls everywhere when you are frustrated, you have the cheekiness to ask for people, others do not necessarily have the bearing of not being blamed in the past, there is no good thing in this world that only takes advantage of the advantages and does not suffer losses, and the opportunity to step on your feet is already a great love!
If you don't hear it, will there be something hateful about the poor man? How arrogant and domineering he is when he is proud, and how poor and destitute he is when he is frustrated.
Others say that they have never been proud in their lives, so they have no way to help others.
Being frustrated is only relatively speaking, and people who see frustration on weekdays can also be helped appropriately, but they must not do that kind of thing to repay their kindness.
To help or not to help? How can it help? How much does it help? Is it worth the help? The proportions here are measured individually!
In fact, the most important thing is whether to help or not, with the mind to help others as much as you can, you can take the initiative to help the person who deserves help, even if it is just a fair and just word, it is also a matter of immeasurable merit.
The justice that has been presided over will be remembered by others for the rest of their lives.
If you help the right person, others will spend a lifetime to be grateful.
Let's look at the four seasons in this year, if you do it right, there are you in the spring breeze and you in the autumn rain, if you do it wrong, you can only suffer in the scorching heat and cold winter when you are in trouble.
It can be seen that a drink and a peck, there is a fixed number, and the cause and effect are just a kind.
Life is less than a hundred years, you and I each count with our fingers, how much is left, in ten years, it is difficult to escape the number of palms.
There is not much rest of your life, may you always treat others warmly, and may you always be treated gently by the people of this world.
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Singing can express a lot of emotions, which is reflected in the style and lyrics of the song.
When people are in trouble, a song that fits their mood may even be more effective than a warm and comforting word.
But that kind of self-pity and self-pity, deeply addicted to songs that can't extricate themselves doesn't count, the mood is in line, but it's not the right way to always roll and sink in negative emotions.
Proud people have their own proud way of listening to songs and singing ways, you don't understand, and I don't blame you.
Lin Yun got up and ordered two songs in front of the stage where he ordered songs, one was Liu Huan's "Start Again", and the other was "Ambition in My Chest" by Jackie Chan, a big-nosed lover saint.
After ordering, I came back and continued to chat with Lai Ping, and drank a few beers by myself.
Chen Lan was singing one by one, and from the singing, Lin Yun could hear that this woman was still deeply trapped and couldn't extricate herself, and it was understandable, she suddenly encountered a series of accidents, she was still a good performer, and it was not uncommon for people who couldn't think of it to find a short-term view!
It's not that this product has a temporary mood, and she has the mind to take advantage of the situation, but she just wants to show her feelings, express her sympathy, and try to enlighten the other party, as for whether she can untie the other party's knot, it still depends on her own adjustment.
Men, they always like to show off their charm, and Lin Yun is no exception.
Chen Lan finally finished singing, Lin Yun and Lai Ping applauded vigorously, they really sang well, invested in their feelings, expressed their emotions, and moved the audience, so they naturally deserved applause.
It's finally my turn at this time, I received the warm microphone handed over by Chen Lan, and there is obviously a microphone, but since someone handed it, I still have to take it, this is politeness and demeanor.
"Ahem~Ahem"
Cough twice and clear your throat, this is the basic operation before singing, as for what effect this has on singing, Lin Yun has never thought about it, he won't think about this kind of thing, someone does this, naturally some people learn like this, and they just draw the trick of the gourd.
All the honors of yesterday
It has become a distant memory
Half of my life has been spent hard
Tonight is again in the wind and rain
I can't go with the flow
For the sake of my loved ones
No matter how hard it is, you must be strong
Just for those looking forward to the eyes
If the heart is in a dream, it is there
There is still true love between heaven and earth
Look at success or failure, and be heroic in life
It's just starting all over again
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Liu Huan's song is deep and heavy, generous and tragic, Lin Yunben can be regarded as an old fritter who has a little understanding of life, and he still has a bit of appearance when he sings, plus the vicissitudes of this voice, after singing the song, Lai Ping and Chen Lan also applauded involuntarily.
Lin Yun turned around after singing, this Chen Lan actually poured another glass of wine to drink, originally Lin Yun wanted to stop it, but when he saw that Lai Ping didn't say it, there must be a reason why people can have no fear, besides, proper drinking can soothe the nerves, with the feelings of other cousins and mutual understanding, there must be a reason why they didn't stop it.
No, no, this Lai Ping is not waiting for me to stop it.
Don't worry, let's sing it first, this one is here again.
"Pat the dust off your body
Cheer up a tired spirit
The distance may be full of bumpy roads
Maybe you have to go alone
I have long been accustomed to being alone
Few people care and few people ask
Even if no one pays for me
At least I still have a copy of it
Pat the dust off your body
Cheer up a tired spirit
The distance may be full of bumpy roads
Maybe you have to go alone
Don't laugh at me, I'm amorous
Don't judge heroes by success or failure
What happens to people is different
But there is pride and ambition in my chest
Hey, hey
The mountains are high and the waters are deep
Hey, hey
Nor can it stop me from running forward
Cheng hey, hey, hey, hey
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I'm going to take my life seriously."
Jackie Chan is a love saint, what kind of dragon girl dragon mother Deng Lijuan or something, public and undisclosed channels, many scandals are boiling, it is difficult to distinguish between truth and falsehood, but for the matter of dragon mother Wu Qili, Jackie Chan publicly admitted.
"I just made the same mistake that most men make."
This is his explanation, which can also be said to be a cover-up, everyone has a different experience, since there is no way to restrain the law, morality or something is even more powerless.
In this world, there are many stories of "if you are poor, you will be alone, and if you are rich, you will have a group of wives and concubines", and the commanding heights of morality cannot stand up to a few people.
To criticize in the name of morality, it is enough to hit the nail on the head, whether it is into the wood, or until the point is reached, it can also end up with a high reputation. Repeated criticism again and again, nine times out of ten, it is jealousy, resentment, and hatred, but it falls into the inferiority.
Credulity and irritability are the manifestations of trolls, scolding and scolding, and I don't see the poor people in this world who make a fortune by scolding people, and I don't see the rich people in this world being scolded by the poor and scolded to death.
No, there is one person who scolds people to death throughout the ages.
Zhuge Liang, who has a clever tongue like a spring, is a Confucian and wise and close to a demon, has a plot of "scolding Wang Lang to death before the battle array" in Luo Guanzhong's "Romance of the Three Kingdoms".
Romance and romance naturally have an apocryphal component, and it is at the same level as jokes, the world is far away, and it is natural to argue whether it is true or false.
Without further ado, Jackie Chan's romance does not prove that this person is not good, let alone that his songs are not good, although he himself is indeed not good at singing, but since he dares to sing, there must be one or two songs that can be mastered, this is a matter of opinion.
This song "Ambition is in My Chest", Lin Yun personally likes it, likes the lyrics in it, in fact, the meaning is quite profound, there is a little bit of high and low music, so it is a bit unpopular.
But undoubtedly, this lyric is still very in line with Chen Lan's state of mind, and it is also quite in line with Lin Yun's own state of mind.
If you are a person, you have to have ambitions, and men should have them, and the ambitions of most people in this world have long been consumed by the hardships of life, but if you still have this thing, it has not been completely forgotten and discarded, you can pick it up, wipe it, and maybe one day it will come in handy.
Things are not entirely childish when they are young, and the world of adults is not necessarily mature.
What is true is always true, innocence is also true, innocence is also true, this is irrefutable.
Real things can always be praised, so Lin Yun moved someone with his sincere singing voice.
"Lao Lin, sing well, I'll have a drink with you."
Lao Lin is not so old, this woman is pretending to be heroic!
After Lin Yun finished singing another song, Chen Lan, who was already six or seven minutes drunk, came to Lin Yun to drink with a wine glass.
In the private room, sometimes bright, sometimes dim and flickering lights, Chen Lan's face looked more ruddy than when Lin Yun first saw it, maybe it was the effect of alcohol, maybe it was inexplicable excitement, maybe it was just Lin Yun's illusion.
"Just this one, don't drink it when you're done."
"Hmm."
"Lai Ping told me about the blind date and yours."
"Hmm."
“……”
This woman, hey, no matter how much, thinks too much and her brain hurts.
This Chen Lan, until the end of the singing, did not drink again, in fact, drunk or not, it's really hard to say, maybe it seems to be drunk or not.
But it seems that his mental state has indeed improved, perhaps this is another delusion of Lin Yun, because people like to habitually highlight their own importance in social interactions, especially men.
In fact, Lin Yun also understands that according to what Lai Ping said, for Chen Lan, there is a shadow of some people in him, that's all, this kind of thing is inexplicable, but it will also disappear inexplicably.
Whatever, the shadow is the shadow, it can be the shadow of some people, it will affect Chen Lan, and it can make her rekindle her hope in life, why not, to be honest, Lin Yun is a little faintly looking forward to Chen Lan's return to his former appearance and mental state.
Men, they all love to look at beautiful women, and some men can't stop wanting artificial beauties, let alone natural beauties.
And Lin Yun still likes things of his true colors to some extent, besides, Chen Lan is less than thirty years old, as long as he can eat, sleep, and laugh, it won't take long to recover.
It's not easy to grow something out of nothing, and it's just a quick opportunity to recover quickly.
Women need full emotional nourishment to be radiant, so women need men, which is the truth that lonely yin is not born, and only yang does not last.
It is difficult to have real friendship between men and women, and even if there is, most of them are helpless to retreat.
Singing until more than four o'clock in the afternoon, this time it was Lai Ping who proposed to leave, because after four o'clock in the afternoon, the business of the braised vegetable store began to improve, and people who got off work would come to buy some tables to enrich their dinner, including some small restaurants would also buy a little.
Since everyone is busy, then go home separately, Lai Ping originally intended to drive Lin Yun home, Lin Yun said that if he wanted to walk by the river, people would naturally not force it.
If it weren't for the fact that this thing really wanted to go around the river, maybe it would really be in the same car with two beautiful women.
From the zebra crossing, cross the horizontal riverside avenue, follow the road between the two high-rise buildings facing the river, and then cross the sightseeing road that runs along the flood control embankment to the riverside wetland park.
Before five o'clock, the sun had lost the majesty of noon, and the gusts of river breeze blowing from the river were indeed pleasant.
There are bicycles that are ridden by two people in front of the front and back, bicycles ridden by three people in front and behind, and four-wheeled bicycles ridden side by side, and there are quite a lot of people riding them, including couples, husbands and wives, and maybe men and women who seem to be couples and couples, who knows, these people ride bicycles past Lin Yun from time to time.
This is an open wetland park, the construction time should not be long, because this place two or three years ago Lin Yun came, at that time there was no park, including one of the high-rise buildings next to it, at that time this house was only a hot construction site, only half of the height was built, and now almost all occupied, next to the sales department has also become a park management office, although this park is not charged, but still need people to manage and maintain.
The wetland park has a clear sense of hierarchy from high to low, interspersed with several walking paths and cycling paths, the materials for road construction are different, there are stone paving, there are stone fragments, there are colored permeable concrete, Lin Yun even saw a section of round and well-proportioned small pebbles inlay, this kind of road is very popular in recent years, several middle-aged men and women barefoot through the massage on it.
Those who are accustomed to this intensity, do not change their face and walk through quickly and repeatedly, and those who are not used to it, take two steps and grin, bend their legs, and shout.
It is rumored that some acupuncture points on the soles of the feet are in charge of the kidneys, which made Lin Yun a little eager to try, but before he could get to that place, Lin Yun fled in the wilderness.
This grandson was a little bit of a cleanliness habit, especially when he accidentally smelled the smell of the feet of an unknown uncle and aunt wafting in the wind, and he lost interest all of a sudden.
Holding his breath quickly, he fled the place.
You can't blame others for being uncivilized, only a few people have foot odor that is caused by unhygiene, and most of them are born or sick.
Yes, even if you are sick, people who are not sick will not do this.
Forget it, go back, Lin Yun, who was not interested, decided to go home.
When Lin Yun returned home, his father had not yet returned from the store, his mother had started cooking, his daughter was fiddling with toys on the sofa, and she met her mother in the kitchen, and she talked about eating and singing, and also said about the misunderstanding, of course, Chen Lan's past would definitely not be said.
There are some things that really can't be said casually, and if they don't succeed, they form an impression in the minds of the elderly, and it will be a bit difficult to do in case the future really develops unexpectedly.
Even if it's to be friends, these things shouldn't be advertised everywhere.
After Lin Yun finished reporting, his mother began to tell Lin Yun again.
"Your brother will come back to pick you up in a while, and you can go back to the countryside to eat in the evening, there will be a lot of people tonight, and it will be very lively."
"Okay, when will the second child come back to pick it up?"
"It should be almost there."
"Then what are you cooking for?"
"Your father and I won't go, Xuanxuan won't go either, there are too many people and there is no place to live."
"Okay, I'll go get the charger."
Lin Yun walked through the corridor, returned to the bedroom, and found the mobile phone charger from the computer bag, now people are more and more inseparable from mobile phones, and the lack of mobile phone power is more uncomfortable than being hungry.
I carried two more packs of cigarettes, I wanted to carry a bag, but after thinking about it, I still forget it, it's not such a big business, and I don't have documents or money, it's really unnecessary, two packs of cigarettes and a charger, stuffed a little, and the inside of my trouser pocket can barely fit it.
Lin Yun played with his daughter on the sofa and waited for the second child to pick him up.
"Dad, look at the house that Xuanxuan built."
"It's beautiful."
While praising Lin Yun, he found an opportunity to push his daughter's house to the girl's house, what is wrong with the girl's family, and which house is it to build.
This repair and construction of a house should not be the work of a little girl, and it is not good when she grows up, and she has to dispel this idea as soon as possible.
After a while, the daughter made a strange thing out of the blocks
"Dad, look at the bridge Xuanxuan took."
"It's too ugly, this bridge is useless."
Lin Yun suddenly felt a little irritable, and overturned the so-called bridge that his daughter had built.
The daughter cried as soon as she wowed, Lin Yun was too lazy to coax, rabbit cub, it is not good to build bridges and pave roads, this TMD is not a human job, Lao Tzu is to love you, and you will understand when you grow up.
This Lin Yun's spirit has committed again.
Poor Lin Yun's daughter is only two and a half years old, how can she understand her father's hard work, she is crying sadly at the moment, seeing that Lin Yun has no intention of coaxing her, she jumped off the sofa, cried and put on her shoes to find her grandmother.
Within a minute, the grandmother came over with her daughter who was still sobbing.
"How did you be a father, just two days after you came back, you made your daughter cry."
"Hey, hey."
"Xuanxuan, go and hug your father, he won't dare to bully you, and then bully grandma to help you beat him."
Lin Yun smiled, and he also felt that he was too much, this child who is less than three years old, what can you ask of her.
"Come on, Daddy, Daddy hugs, it's Daddy's bad, Daddy shouldn't push your bridge to"
Also, what can the little girl know, this Lin Yun really thinks too much.
"Dad has to rebuild a bridge for Xuanxuan."
“……”
Lin Yun was speechless, why is this little girl so desperate, forget it, child, it won't take long to forget.
"Come on, Dad won't build a bridge, Dad will show you your phone."
There is no child who doesn't like mobile phones, although grandparents are usually more restrictive, but now there is no way to coax their daughters.
The little girl cheered.
broke free from his grandmother's arms, took a few steps and threw himself on Lin Yun on the sofa.
"Dad, Xuanxuan wants to watch the excavator on her phone."
Your sister, who is this influenced by, it's not a house or a bridge, but also a digging machine, can't you watch some cartoons like a normal little girl? Even if it's jubilant!
No, it won't work like that.
"Dad will give you the Monkey King, okay?"
"Okay, okay, Xuanxuan likes Monkey King the most."
Thankfully, there was salvation.
Seeing that the little girl didn't cry anymore, the grandmother acquiesced to looking at her phone and went back to the kitchen.
Every parent doesn't want their children to follow their own old path, especially Lin Yun's hard work, which parent doesn't want their children to take a Yangguan Avenue that is flat and flat.
All the hardships of life, all the hardships and hard work, all the uprooting, all the bitterness and bitterness, are worth it for Lin Yun, but this worth it is a premise.
Child, I hope you will no longer grow up to be as humble as your father is now.
I hope you can be free to fly your dreams when you grow up.
It is not sad not to have dreams, and it is the saddest thing to not be able to pursue dreams if you have dreams.
Lin Yun was cranky for a while, and with a wry smile, the little girl leaned on her father's arms and held her mobile phone and watched happily.
Hearing the knock on the door, it should be the second child coming back, Lin Yun took his daughter aside, stood up, and went out from the living room to open the door, but the kitchen was close to the door, and the mother had already opened the door.
"Boss."
"Hmm."
The two brothers have no language, they are adults, they have their own families, they have their own things, men, they are more deep and introverted when facing their families.
"Do you have anything with you?"
"I didn't bring it, I took a charger, just overnight, it's not too hot on this day, there is no need to bring a change of clothes."
"Alright, let's go."
Lin Yun took the time to coax the little girl, put away the mobile phone, turned on the TV for the little girl, and the two brothers said hello to their mother and went downstairs.
Lin Yun's brother is called Lin Feng, two years younger than Lin Yun, taller than Lin Yun, and more handsome than Lin Yun.
This kid has done everything in the past few years, and in recent years, he has slowly gotten on the right track, and he has earned some money as a small boss, undertaking small projects on the construction site, and making some money.
In the past few years, more than half of the ten men who have been engaged in the industry are related to construction sites.
Don't believe it, infrastructure madness is not a joke, and the capital environment with big in and out has created batches of big bosses and small bosses.
This is an era of winning by quantity, a single project with a large amount of work, do not need to earn too much, two or three pieces, but the volume is large, the accumulation of small amounts, every construction site will have someone to earn money, someone to withdraw, someone to come in, and so on.
Of course, it is not without risks, in recent years, the construction project is no longer profitable, the profit margin has been greatly compressed, no longer as extensive as in the past, the era when fools can make money is gone, but as long as the management is good, it is still profitable, if the management is not good, hehe, losing money is your own inability.
Since it is contract management, mutual or abide by the basic spirit of the contract, most construction projects from top to bottom are reasonable to compress profit margins, layer by layer to make less money.
There are also shameless and unscrupulous project managers or persons in charge, blindly pursuing the lowest cost, regardless of the life or death of the people below, so that the subordinates do not make money, or lose money, and even purchase substandard materials, but that is a very small number, and most of them occur in private enterprises, which is an exception, and has not yet spread into the norm.
This kind of shameless and unscrupulous manager, extremely detached from the masses, often puts on a high-minded appearance, and concentrates on compressing the profits of the small bosses below, and if the small bosses do not make money, the workers will definitely not get the full salary, so from time to time there will be some group incidents of one kind or another.
The construction site is a place where dragons and snakes are mixed, and it is not known which worker is the small boss of the past and has fallen here, and which worker may become the small boss or big boss in the future.
Besides, workers who rely on strength and skill to eat must not be treated badly, and only when you see their work can you understand their pain and bitterness.
You don't need to experience it yourself, you just need to spend a day to see the daily life of a worker, and you can empathize.
Maybe one day, when this group of people in their forties, fifties, or even sixties can no longer do it, there will be no one to spend on you.
Workers are meant to create value, and in addition to paying the full amount of wages as agreed, they should be respected, which is understandable and natural.
Lin Yun's younger brother is a pretty good little boss, the two brothers have similar personalities, and they can't see others suffering hardships and losses, so the workers are willing to follow him, so they can slowly accumulate a little wealth.
In fact, this is a very simple truth, workers are the creators of wealth, as long as you can get a job, as long as the workers are willing to help you do it, you will always make money.
Lin Yun sat in his brother's car, chatting with each other.
"How's it going?"
"No, I can't get the balance in several places."
"Have the workers been paid?"
"It's all sent, it's 80% for the time being."
"So difficult?"
"The houses are mortgaged, and I'm looking for a buyer to see if I can sell them."
"Is it that serious?"
"No, I bought a new set of 150 square meters, and I'm going to take my dad and mom over to live."
Good guy, scare Lin Yun, if you really sell the house, then there is really no need to continue.
"Did they say yes?"
"If you don't want to live or die, or you will persuade you again."
The scenery outside the window and the road are rapidly reversing, and the car is moving forward at a rapid pace, and it will take less than half an hour to reach the destination.