For psychiatrists, it is a basic skill to observe the words and deeds of the other person without 'communication', so as to make a full analysis of the person's personality.

But there is a misunderstanding of this skill, which can not be used to arbitrarily 'sexual' analysis, and its more representative ones are Conan-kun and Detective Sherlock.

Observation can only see a person's inner psychological situation, but cannot analyze what she has done, what she is doing, and where she has gone.

In addition, the kung fu of the Taoist law can see the other party at a glance, but that is a bit of a cheating flavor here, so let's also play a high 'forced' style, and use a purely psychological perspective to analyze the big 'yin' darkness in Director Yu's heart!

That's right, she has a big 'shadow' dark.

The light mature sister in front of her is sitting here, and she looks very relaxed and comfortable on the surface, but if you look closely at her face and eyes, you will feel that there is a trace of nervousness and anxiety in her eyes that cannot be concealed.

Her hand seemed to be spinning the pen with ease, but in fact, her fingers were trembling slightly.

In addition, she grabbed the hand of the armrest of the chair very hard, and the green tendons on the back of her hand burst out, obviously she was fighting against some ulterior 'dark' thing in her heart.

After reading this, and then looking at her 'legs', she has black stockings on her 'legs', and her 'legs' are very good in shape and skin texture, but she is not wearing high heels on her feet, but wearing a pair of light cloth shoes with thick soles.

It's hot, and you can see that she's a very unexpected person. Wearing these shoes in the office, one to show that she likes to enjoy. Second, it shows that she is not in good health.

The physical condition of the 'woman' can be distinguished by the bags under her eyes, yes, the two lying silkworms under her eyes are not full and round, and they are a little droopy.

When I looked into her eyes, I noticed that she was breathing heavily, and her eyes were constantly glancing at a book on the table, consciously or unconsciously.

I glanced at it.

Instructions for Maternity Rehabilitation......

I smiled inwardly and glanced at her again, the very 'explosive' position on her. Then, I took a deep breath, and there was a faint smell of 'milk' in the air, the kind of 'milk' that we liked to drink the most after we were born.

Well, I now finally know why Director Yu is so critical of me, she is sick, and she has terrible postpartum depression.

A 'woman' who has not experienced a normal birth will not know the pain.

After experiencing pain, a small number of 'women' will suffer from symptoms of postpartum depression.

Postpartum blues are the same as the depression and anxiety that arise after recovery from some serious illnesses.

All are based on the most basic human psychology of self-preservation.

That is, why do I suffer so much, why do I go through such a torturous disease, I am not reconciled, I want to get back the pain I have paid, I want to make amends......

The generation of this consciousness is not the product of subjective thinking, but the result of passive, dark consciousness action.

So, when we are in bed, we will see someone who has fallen ill due to some serious injury, or who has not been well healed because of some disease, or who has been cured, but who is unwilling, and then does something very crazy and hurts others.

That's right, they're venting.

And one of the most terrible results of postpartum depression is that the mother kills her own child with her own hands.

It's not without cases, and in society there are many, many such examples.

Including the animal kingdom, that is, some animals give birth to children and then eat them. (This comes from the genes shared by humans and animals, a kind of self-taking, self-compensating genes.) ）

Mild postpartum depression, manifested by frequent anger for no reason, beating and scolding the baby, and losing temper with her husband and family. At this time, as long as more care and care are given, we can help the mother get out of the psychological trough.

But if you are afraid, you are afraid, and the family is not in harmony.

In that case, it would be dangerous.

For example, Sister Yu Shu! What 'revealed' her eyes was anger and depression!

Yes, she needs to be released, but this release is not a desire for an encounter with a man, but the ultimate destruction!

That is, I want to let others, other lives, experience pain ten times more painful than mine, and only then will I feel comfortable in my heart.

But it is impossible for a 'woman' to commit violence against strangers, so it is very easy for her to transfer to children.

So......

I smiled, and then said to the director, "Children are innocent, no matter how bitter adults are, don't embarrass children." ”

To the outsider, this may be a sentence that doesn't fit in with it.

But I believe that Sister Yu Shu, she understands.

Sure enough, she was stunned for a few seconds, staring straight at me with her eyes as if she were looking at a monster.

I keep smiling and try to make my eyes look as deep as possible.

"What do you say? This, how did you 'get' it to the child again......" Sister Yu Shu twisted her head, stretched out her hand and subconsciously held the frame of her glasses, trying to pretend to be calm, but soon, only about 0.5 seconds later, she suddenly cried......

Crying in psychological behavior, one is to indicate the collapse of the other party's psychological defense, and the other is a cathartic behavior.

From the time I entered the house to now, it took only twenty minutes in total.

Within twenty minutes, I cried a college teacher I didn't know.

And when I put it together, I didn't say a few words in total.

Am I awesome? No, because Dr. Zhou of the clinic once said that a very bullish and high-spirited 'female' patient was once cried bitterly by a young Chinese male doctor in three seconds.

Before, they didn't know each other at all.

In fact, for mental patients, their hearts are not painful, and their emotions are in a state of critical explosion at any time.

For example, when I came in, this sister arranged all kinds of harsh requirements. That's actually a rather abnormal pathological manifestation.

As for now, I've poked her in the underbelly.

So, what's next......?

"I'm sorry!" Sister Yu Shu took off her glasses, pulled a tissue, wiped the tears from the corners of her eyes, and then she looked out the window, took a deep breath, and muttered: "It's really tiring to be a 'woman', really, sometimes, since you die, but in the bottom of your heart, you are unwilling to ......"

Well, now I'm finally talking box, and then I, as a psychiatrist, have to endure the nagging of 'female' people.

'Women' love to nag, just like men love to watch football, it's all nature'.

Then, for the next two hours, I listened to the sister in front of me tell me how she and her husband met and how rich his husband was, but after getting married and spending three years of happy life, she found out how much her husband likes to play.

What made the eldest sister most angry was that she found that among her husband's **** sisters, there was actually a 'girl' student at the school.

And it was just after she gave birth, she was found.

Then, without reservation, she told me that she really wanted to strangle the child with her own hands, and then jump off the stairs with her man in her arms and break it to pieces.

I glanced at the BMW X6 keys that my sister had in hand, and I said, "Is that car yours?" ”

Sister Yu Shu smiled: "Yes, the gift that the dead man bought me." ”

I smiled: "If you are not financially independent, don't say these words, your ideas are extreme, that's not right, fortunately, your depression is not very serious, if you believe me, I will help you get out of the 'yin' shadow ...... soon"

In fact, if you say anything about getting out of the 'shadow', you just want to open it.

'Female' people are not financially independent, and large 'spending' expenses need to be supported by men, so don't blame men for 'spending' their hearts.

The prescription I gave to Sister Yu Shu is very simple, a trip, close to nature.

Then, do more yoga and meditate. You don't have to ask for a posture in place, but you want your mind to relax.

I spoke very carefully, explained every detail, and it was really heartfelt and profound.

As a result, I spent another hour.

It's past three o'clock in the afternoon.

Then, I found that Sister Yu's complexion was much better than what I saw when I first entered the house.

"Thank you, Dr. Lei, your words are really sweet and make me feel very useful. Thank you so much, by the way, which clinic are you from. ”

Sister Yu handed me a glass of water, and her eyes were full of anticipation.

I smiled: "Director Yu, I'm here to apply." ”

Belch......

Sister Yu Shu was stunned for a moment, and then she laughed.

"You look at my 'sex'......" she shook her head, looked at me with an unhappy gaze and said, "Okay, absolutely no problem, I'll help you with the onboarding procedures right away." ”

The next step was very smooth, and I successfully entered this university and became a young counselor.

At the same time, I learned that Director Yu has a very good background, and she became a deputy director of the Academic Affairs Office at a young age. Of course, this background has a lot to do with the husband's family that she loves and hates.

Because, I helped Director Yu open her heart, and at the same time mastered the unspeakable little 'yin' darkness in her heart.

Originally, I had to live in a two-person graduate dormitory. Now that there is such a relationship, I have been assigned to a single dormitory area for international students!

And all of this is all based on psychology. As for psychology, in the words of our university teacher, it is actually a big vernacular, a big fool!

As for being a little more profound, it has a little bit to do with Taoism.

I got my meal card, went through the formalities, got my work ID, and went to my office to take a look.

The office is not big, there is a 'bed', except for a desk, a telephone, and a computer.

My job is to answer the students' phone calls, and then invite the patients I think are seriously ill to my room and talk about them in detail.

In the evening, when I got off work, Director Yu wanted to invite me to dinner, but I refused!

Then, she asked for my phone number and said goodbye to her.

Next, I thought about thinking about the supermarket on campus, and making a 'bed' and 'wool' blanket or something.

So, I went to the supermarket to buy it, bought it, packed up the profits, I didn't go to the campus cafeteria to eat, but left the campus alone, went outside, found a spicy tang, and went to eat that nostalgic taste.

Yes, what my brother eats is not nutrition, nor is it healthy, what my brother eats is the past, and there is taste.

The campus is spicy, an existence that people miss infinitely.

The shop is not big, and listening to the owner's accent, it seems to be opened by Sichuanese, so I ordered a spicy tang and ordered a 20 yuan 'meat' skewer, plus a bottle of cold beer.

A few things, while eating, while reminiscing about the past.

I was eating, and suddenly, the conversation between the two 'girls' behind me came to my ears.

"Hey, when are you going to ask for a Buddha card?"

"I didn't invite it, why do you want that."

"You don't know...... But it's spiritual, really, I'm telling you......"

I looked at it, hey, there is a 'door', a Buddhist card! Hehe, it's kind of interesting.