Today, I arranged a blind date for six men and six women in a row at the marriage agency, and in addition, I also received a wedding invitation from a woman who was originally seeking marriage, asking her to attend the wedding the next day as an introducer! This made Spiegel feel very relieved and had a sense of pride in his accomplishments.

But when I lay alone in bed at night, I felt very lonely. has achieved so many other people's marriages, but he is still alone! Although I have experienced the setbacks of five marriages in the past, I am still looking forward to married life. Normal and healthy men and women, who doesn't want to have a home? Who doesn't want to have a partner who knows the cold and the cold?

At this time, there was a person named Fan Cong on WeChat who added himself as a friend.

Spiegel: Hello, who are you?

Fan Cong: Hello, I saw you on the marriage website, and it's a pleasure to meet you!

Spiegel: Are you asking for marriage?

Fan Cong: Yes.

Spiegel: Would you like to introduce yourself?

Fan Cong: I'm from Linfen City, not far from Taiyuan, where you are; Thirty-one years old, just divorced, with a house and a car, no burden, working as an instructor at a driving school, and a daughter at the age of five with her mother.

Spiegel: What is your height and weight?

Fan Cong: Height 175, weight 150.

Spiegel: You're in a good situation, why do you want to look for it online?

Fan Cong: If you want to find a different place, you can only find it online.

Spiegel: So you want to find someone in a different place, but most people like to find a local area, so it's easy to get to know and meet, so why do you want to find someone in a different place?

Fan Cong: Because I want to leave Linfen.

Spiegel: You have a house and a job in Linfen, why did you leave? Do you want to plug the door upside down at the woman's house?

Fan Cong: If I go to live in the woman's city, I can sell the house in Linfen and buy a house in the woman's city. Well, I'm an experienced car instructor, and I'm welcome at any driving school. Because I have an enemy in Linfen who is always looking for trouble for me, for safety reasons, I want to change my city life. As long as I don't live in the woman's house after I get married, it's not a bad door.

Spiegel: Who is that enemy you are talking about? What's the enmity with you? So much so that it scared you out of your place of origin?

Fan Cong: He's a veteran, he's very small-minded, and he suspects me of having an affair with his wife.

Spiegel: Are you really innocent with his wife?

Fan Cong: Innocent, innocent.

Spiegel: Tell me what happened to you and his wife.

Fan Cong: Last summer, the driving school assigned a few of my students to learn how to drive. Among them, there was a female student named Teng Hong, wearing heavy makeup, wearing a miniskirt, and speaking loudly. Men, when they see sexy women, they are always more enthusiastic, and I am the same, I pay more attention to her than to other students.

Spiegel: Understandably, it's the nature of men.

Fan Cong: Her husband misunderstood, thinking that I had something to do with his wife Tenghong, so he brought a few of his comrades-in-arms to the driving school to settle accounts with me. He said that if he caught me, he would never spare me.

Spiegel: Is it that simple?

Fan Cong: Yes!

Spiegel: You're dishonest! You're too understatement, there must be something wrong with you and his wife!

Fan Cong: His wife and I are really fine, really!

Spiegel: Isn't it tiring to lie with your eyes open? It's better to tell the truth than to talk to me!

Fan Cong: At most, I'm a little closer to her wife.

Spiegel: I don't like hypocritical men! You cheated on Tenghong, for sure.

Fan Cong: ...... Well! I'm sorry, but there were.

Spiegel: It's good to admit it, don't dare to do it and don't dare to say it!

Fan Cong: I'm at fault, but I can't be blamed entirely.

Spiegel: Who else is to blame?

Fan Cong: Blame her, and blame the unlucky car!

Spiegel: Cars?

Fan Cong: Last summer, because she always failed in the third-way exam, she asked me to take her on the road to practice. Because it was a Sunday, the driving school's coach car couldn't move, so I had to drive my own private car to take her to the suburbs where there were few cars and the roads were wider.

Spiegel: What did you accidentally touch her hand, did you deliberately touch someone's little tender hand? A lot of male coaches have this kind of little action!

Fan Cong: Since there are just the two of us in the car, I can teach her by hand, and I don't mind seeing her.

Spiegel: It is reasonable to say that the second test is taught by hand, but if the third road test is hand-in-hand, then you are doing it on purpose.

Fan Cong: I found that you look at problems and speak so sharply, no wonder your online name is Mingjing.

Spiegel: Knowing that I am Spiegel, don't beat around the bush or avoid the important to light!

Fan Cong: Okay, then I'll tell you the truth.

She was so attracted to me, I really wanted to! She didn't seem to mind when I grabbed her hand, so I ......

Spiegel: You've got to get an inch, right?

Fan Cong: Hmm! Later, when it was almost dark, she blushed and said let's go back, so I changed seats with her, and I sat in the driver's seat, and was about to drive back, but found that the car was broken.

Spiegel: It's not that the car is broken, it's that you're going to break down, you must have deliberately broken down, right?

Fan Cong: It's a bit deliberate, but the condition of the car is really not good.

Spiegel: You ...... the car break down as an excuse?

Fan Cong: I said that today is Sunday, and I can't call a driving school to come to the mechanic, and this is a suburb, and there is no repair shop around, so let's go to the roadside shop for dinner first, and then talk about it after eating.

She agreed.

After dinner, I called a friend I knew who repaired his car, but he didn't answer the phone.

Spiegel: You're pretending to be on the phone, aren't you? It's an empty number, right?

Fan Cong: Hmm! I said I had no choice, so I had to stay in a roadside hotel tonight.

She hesitated, then she called her best friend, and then she called her mother-in-law again, and told her mother-in-law that she would be with her best friend tonight, and that she would not go back tonight, and if she didn't believe her, she could ask her best friend. After calling her mother-in-law, she turned off her phone.

Spiegel: Why didn't she beat her husband?

Fan Cong: Her husband is on a business trip, and he will be back for at least a month.

Spiegel: No wonder she is so bold, it turns out that her husband is not at home! What about you? How to lie to your wife?

Fan Cong: I first sent a WeChat message to my most close colleague and friend Jin Song, telling him that if my wife called him to verify, she would help me round the field. Then I called my wife again, and I said that I went to the field with Jin Song on an errand, and the car broke down, and I couldn't go back tonight. I also said that if you don't believe me, you can ask my colleague Jin Song.

Spiegel: I guess you've had experience cheating on your wife.

Fan Cong: In this way, Teng Hong and I opened a room in a roadside hotel.

Spiegel: It's done with the bad results, right?

Fan Cong: This kind of thing, if there is a first time, there will be a second time. In the hottest month of that summer, she was together at every opportunity while her husband was away on a business trip. But when the heat wave of midsummer receded, her husband returned.

Spiegel: Can paper contain fire?

Fan Cong: It's been another month, and the paper is still on!

Spiegel: Caught by her husband?

Fan Cong: No, it was her who made a fuss, and her husband and she thought it was a tummy trouble, so her husband took her to the hospital for a check-up, and it turned out that she was pregnant!

Spiegel: She didn't have children? Don't know how to get pregnant?

Fan Cong: Yes, she and her husband originally wanted to buy a house, move out of her in-laws' house and have children.

Spiegel: It's over, it's exposed! Her husband was not at home before she became pregnant, and no matter how stupid his husband was, he knew that the child in his wife's womb was not his own, right?

Fan Cong: After all, the paper still failed to contain the fire!

Spiegel: You are really, people originally prepared for their wives to have children in the future, but you let your wife get pregnant first, and no one will be in a hurry with you!

Fan Cong: Improper measures.

Spiegel: What measures are not appropriate, you shouldn't have done that at all, lack of morality!

Fan Cong: When I tell the truth, you scold me.

Spiegel: Hehe, okay, don't scold, you can say it.

Fan Cong: Although her husband didn't catch me when he went to the driving school, he made a big fuss about my scandal. The principal talked to me and said that I was taking advantage of my position to have an improper relationship with the students, which is not allowed by any driving school! But the students I taught before had a high pass rate in the exam, so forgive me this time and let me not do it again in the future!

Spiegel: The headmaster is nice to you.

Fan Cong: But the house leak happened to be rainy, and I was complained by the previous students.

Spiegel: What else do you do?

Fan Cong: When I complained that my previous students couldn't pass the exam, I asked the students to give money in the name of the relationship with the DMV.

Spiegel: Wow! And what's going on?

Fan Cong: In fact, many driving schools and many instructors secretly have this situation, and no one reports anything, but because I have a scandal, someone adds fuel to the fire.

Spiegel: Now?

Fan Cong: It's bad now, the driving school had to expel me for the sake of reputation.

Spiegel: Alas! If you know now, why bother in the first place?

Fan Cong: After I lost my job, I went to another local driving school to look for a job, but my story has spread in the local industry, and no one dares to use me.

Spiegel: Is that Tenghong still in contact with you?

Fan Cong: She confessed to me under the pressure of her husband, why is she embarrassed to contact me? Of course, she herself was also a victim of the East Window incident.

But my wife soon found out.

One day, I heard the footsteps of many people outside the door, and then someone slammed the door, I knew that it must be Tenghong's husband who came to the door, so I didn't open the door, and I didn't let my wife open the door, but they shouted outside the door, saying that if they didn't open the door, they wouldn't leave, which scared my daughter to cry. I couldn't help it, so I asked my wife to open the door and let her tell people that I wasn't at home and send the people away. Then I hid in the bathroom.

When my weak wife opened the door, the gang rushed in, asked me if I was at home, and told me to get out. My wife asked them what they wanted to do.

Tenghong's husband yelled at my wife: "Your husband got my wife pregnant, I want to seek revenge on your husband!" ”

My wife couldn't believe it: "How is it possible, my husband and I are very affectionate, how could he do such a thing?" ”

Tenghong's husband was even more annoyed: "Quickly call your husband out and ask him face to face!" ”

My wife's voice began to tremble: "Did he really do that?" ”

Tenghong's husband began to scold, and then said: "If I do this with you, I will also get you pregnant, is your husband willing?" ”

My daughter was so frightened that she hugged my wife's thigh and cried.

Spiegel: You're never afraid to come out of the bathroom?

Fan Cong: If I come out, a few of them won't beat me to death!

Spiegel: Yes, you know that heroes don't suffer immediate losses.

Fan Cong: Fortunately, at this time, the downstairs remembered the siren of 110, and the police came.

Spiegel: You're saved!

Fan Cong: It was my neighbor's house who heard that many people had broken into my house, and he was afraid that something would happen, so he called 110.

Because Teng Hong's husband broke into my house without permission, posing a threat to my family's safety, the police took them all away.

Spiegel: You escaped the catastrophe, but how do you explain it to your wife?

Fan Cong: After the police took those people away, I was very ashamed to face my wife, and my whole back was cold.

The wife sat down on the sofa, covered her face with her hands and didn't speak for a long time, and her daughter, who was no longer crying, pulled her arm and persuaded: "Mom, Mom, those people have been taken away by the police, Mom, don't be afraid." ”

The wife wiped her tears with the back of her hand, then stood up and led her daughter into her small bedroom: "Child, you play in your room by yourself for a while, and I will talk to your father." ”

The daughter nodded sensibly: "Hmm! ”

My wife turned her back to me: "Is it true?" ”

I really wanted to kneel down or find a crack in the ground. I wanted to lie and say it wasn't true, but I felt that it would hurt her more to hide it.

Spiegel: Indeed, let's tell the truth, and ask for her forgiveness!

"I'm sorry, I was impulsive!" I muttered.

She jerked back and shouted, "You're still lying!" Other people's wives have made you pregnant, can it be impulsive? ”

Spiegel: That's right!

Fan Cong: I know I'm sorry for her, so I can only hold her shoulder and persuade her: "I know I'm wrong, you are so weak, don't be angry, I will definitely change in the future." ”

Spiegel: She won't forgive you, will she?

Fan Cong: She shook my hand off with a shake of her shoulder, and then turned her back and lowered her head.

Her voice was very small this time: "Actually-actually--, I've had-have-have-, I've been-, I'm sorry for your business!" ”

Spiegel: What a surprise!

Fan Cong: I didn't hear clearly, I didn't understand, and I couldn't believe it, so I grabbed her arm behind her and asked, "What did you say?" You repeat. ”

Her voice raised a little this time: "I've had cheating, too!" I used to feel guilty and didn't dare to tell you because I still love this home! But since this happened to you, I don't have to feel guilty, and I don't need to ask for your forgiveness. ”

Spiegel: It's good this time, it's flat.

Fan Cong: This time I heard it clearly, I felt my brain tightened, my chest tightened, and I had an indescribable feeling in my heart.

Spiegel: What does it taste like?

Fan Cong: There are bitterness, sourness, and humiliation!

Spiegel almost laughed: It turns out that men wear ......, it's like this, and it's a matter of knowledge!

Fan Cong: I'm really confused, I don't know whether to be angry or relieved.

She slept in her daughter's room that night.

The next day, I asked her who that person was?

"Does it still make sense to ask these now," she said. ”

I said, "I can't wear ......, I don't even know who brought it to me, do I?" ”

She sneered: "What if you know?" Like that man, do you take a few people to other people's houses to make trouble? Is it honorable to let people know that your wife is cheating? ”

Her words left me speechless for a moment!

Spiegel: Which of you proposed a breakup?

Fan Cong: Of course it's her, she can't accept a cheating man.

Spiegel: Can you accept a cheating woman?

Fan Cong: Me? It's hard to say.

Spiegel: There is a peculiar change in society now compared to before.

Fan Cong: What's changed?

Spiegel: In the past, women often couldn't tolerate cheating on men, either violence or divorce. And now it has changed, if a man cheats, a woman can't accept it. Many divorces are because the man cheats outside, and the woman asks for a divorce. And the woman cheats on the man, and the man generally does not divorce.

Fan Cong: Is that really the case?

Spiegel: That's what I observe.

Fan Cong: Is it because there are more men cheating than women?

Spiegel: No, because as many men cheat as there are women.

Fan Cong: It seems that men are more open to this matter than women now.

Spiegel: Exactly.

Fan Cong: At that time, when I learned that my wife was also cheating, I repeatedly asked who that person was, but she just wouldn't tell me.

She solemnly filed for divorce before the Spring Festival, and I also felt that there was no point in maintaining this kind of marriage, so I agreed to divorce.

Originally, the two of us planned to divorce after the Spring Festival, but when the epidemic happened, we were both forced to stay at home all day.

Spiegel: Hasn't your relationship eased during this time?

Fan Cong: At this stage, we all want to open up and continue to have sex together, but it feels different from before.

Spiegel: How is it different?

Fan Cong: In the past, when we were together, we treated each other as lovers, but at this time, we just treated each other as the opposite sex.

Spiegel: You see what you mean. Divorce after the epidemic has passed?

Fan Cong: Yes, I went to the marriage registry office as soon as I got to work. I didn't expect that there would be a long queue for divorce there, far more than the number of people who registered their marriages.

Spiegel: The number of divorced couples after the epidemic has broken the record.

Fan Cong: After submitting the divorce application, I waited for another month for the cooling-off period, and finally got the divorce certificate.

Spiegel: Didn't you think about the impact on your children in your divorce?

Fan Cong: I have thought about it, but the child is still young, and I can't wait for the child to grow up before divorcing.

Spiegel: That makes sense, too. After the divorce, she took her daughter, so why did the house give you? It is said that whoever takes the child wants a house.

Fan Cong: Originally, I wanted to give her the house because she was raising children, and then I wanted to save money, but she didn't agree. She said she didn't want to live here anymore after the divorce and she wanted to save money.

The day after the divorce, I knew why she didn't want the house and wanted to save money.

Spiegel: Why?

Fan Cong: On the second day of the divorce, she moved into another man's newly bought house with her children!

And at this time, she told me who the man was through WeChat and explained the truth.

Spiegel: Who?

Fan Cong: She said that he had been secretly pursuing her, and he had never found a partner for her man. One night last summer, I called that day and said I wouldn't be coming back for the night, but I didn't expect the man to come.

My wife was touched by him that night and didn't control herself!

Since then, as long as I don't come back at night, that man will come, and I don't come back at night, all with that Teng Hong.

Spiegel: Did your wife call someone else?

Fan Cong: No.

Spiegel: How do people know when you're not home?

Fan Cong: If I don't come back in the evening, I will ask him to help me round the field.

Spiegel: Wow! I see, it's your friend Jin Song! Only he knows when you're outside.

Fan Cong: I never dreamed that he was ...... my wife!

I said how often he used to buy things for my daughter, I thought he was a good buddy! It turns out that he had the idea of beating my wife!

Spiegel: You open a room with someone else's wife outside, and your own wife cheats at home, and she's still your friend, it seems that God is still fair!

Fan Cong: Later, I called Teng Hong with another mobile phone number, and as soon as she answered the phone, she immediately hung up the phone and then sent me a WeChat message.

It is written: You have hurt me! I had a miscarriage and my husband later forgave me and I am now pregnant again, it was my husband's. Let the past pass, and please don't contact me again. In addition, I remind you that my husband will come to you to settle accounts when he has the opportunity, so you have to pay more attention! Take care!

Spiegel: What you bring is the joy of the moment......

Fan Cong: The three men have joys and sorrows.

Spiegel: You've lost your family, you've lost your job, you've lost your reputation, and you've had to start over!

Fan Cong: The price, this is the price!