Spiegel introduced a girl to Banzhuan, who came to Taiyuan City with her parents to do small business. asked Aunt Zhao to inform Banzhuan to come to the marriage agency to meet the girl, but Banzhuan did not come this time.

Since the last time he communicated with Spiegel on the Internet, at night, he didn't know that Spiegel was the matchmaker of the matchmaking agency and asked to talk to Spiegel, and he felt that Spiegel was the one who could really understand him. Although Spiegel also has a good impression of Slabs, because he has experienced five marriages and had two children, he thinks that there is no hope with Slabs, so he always finds excuses to continue to communicate with Slabs.

That night, I just resigned from Spiegel's WeChat communication, but I saw another person named Bai Fan adding himself as a WeChat friend.

Spiegel: Hello, who are?

Bai Fan: Good evening! You're a matchmaker, right? A friend gave me your WeChat account, and he said that you are a marriage agency, and he has seen a lot. I have a lot of confusion in my heart, and I want you to analyze it, I don't know if you are free.

Spiegel: Who's that friend of yours?

Bai Fan: It's better not to know who my friend is, because I can only open my heart to you if you don't know me.

Spiegel: Got it! However, I myself am also confused about some things, and I may not be able to analyze anything, so let's talk about it first.

Bai Fan: In 2016, I failed to pursue a female civil servant of the same age.

Spiegel: How old were you that year?

Bai Fan: Twenty-four years old, just graduated from university, and has not yet joined the workforce.

Spiegel: Civil servants don't look down on you?

Bai Fan: She actually likes me very much, she always likes to be intimate with me.

Spiegel: Are you handsome?

Bai Fan: I was 1.85 meters tall, and at that time I had a strong physique, thick eyebrows and big eyes, which was the kind that girls envied.

Spiegel: I was physically strong then, but now I'm not strong?

Bai Fan: I've lost a lot of weight now. At that time, when I proposed to marry her, she hesitated and rejected me.

Spiegel: She thinks you're not worthy of her?

Bai Fan: She said that she wanted to find someone who was also a civil servant or a public institution, so that her life would be more stable in the future.

Spiegel: It's realistic! You're very lost after being rejected, right?

Bai Fan: That night, I was wandering alone on the gray road in Datong City, and a petite figure stood under the dim street lamp in the haze.

"Little Jingjing?" I immediately recognized this girl with small eyes, thin lips, and a smile that shows her little tiger teeth, and she was always very reserved and innocent, and she was my college classmate.

"Prince Charming, are you out of love?" She looked up at my face.

"How do you know? Looks like I've got broken love written on my face! "I was a little surprised.

"I really didn't expect that the prince charming in our class would also fall out of love!" She seemed a little happy.

"Today's women regard conditions as more important than appearance, and material things more important than feelings." I bowed my head and admitted that I had fallen out of love.

"In college, you wouldn't look at me at such an inconspicuous grass, can I take a walk with you now?" Xiao Jingjing's eyes were full of anticipation.

I walked quietly with Xiao Jing while looking up at the sky. I don't know if it was covered by the haze, or they were all hidden, the moon was missing in the night sky this night, and only a few stars were lonely.

I felt a little guilty about this ordinary female classmate, in fact, I knew she had a crush on me when I was in college, and I knew that she always looked at me with her little focused eyes when no one noticed, but I always pretended not to know anything.

Spiegel: You only had those beautiful school flowers in your eyes at that time, right?

Bai Fan: But this night, when she looked up with her eyes closed, I lowered my head and kissed her thin lips!

Spiegel: You guys later?

Bai Fan: My marriage to her was beyond the expectations of all my other classmates, and the wedding was very simple and low-key. The female classmate who was psychologically unbalanced actually gave me a handful of grass at the wedding scene between me and Xiao Jingjing.

Spiegel: It means that you, Prince Charming, have married a girl like grass.

Bai Fan: But it was this grassy wife who used the money she earned from her small shop to support me in starting my business!

Spiegel: What kind of store does she open?

Bai Fan: I opened a typing and copying shop near a middle school.

Spiegel: That doesn't make much money.

Bai Fan: It was this small-eyed ex-wife who gave birth to a big-eyed daughter for me!

Spiegel: Oh, that's great!

Bai Fan: I had the ambition to open a limited company that deals in digital technology products. Xiao Jingjing didn't have enough money, so I asked for it from my parents, and if the money to buy a car was not enough, I took out a loan to buy it.

I thought that entrepreneurship would be as brilliant and successful as in film and television dramas, and I thought that the company would be noble when it started, and I was angry! But at this time, I found that to run a company, you must be able to operate, you must be able to calculate income and expenditure, you must have a relationship with customers, you must have a market, you must have the ability to control employees, and you must know how to avoid taxes reasonably!

Spiegel: College students who have just entered society are so naïve, like vampires, sucking up their parents' savings, squandering them, and then letting their parents understand you. Not only are you like this, but you also squander the money your wife earns to support your face as a boss.

Bai Fan: But at that time, I thought that success requires dedication.

Spiegel: You've drunk too much chicken soup for the soul!

Bai Fan: The company has only been in operation for half a year before it can be sustained, and all my employees are gone. The landlord not only kicked me out, but also withheld the office facilities to pay off the debt. Not only that, but at that time, I couldn't even pay off the loan for the purchase of the car, and the auto trading company that sold the car took me to court!

Spiegel: The loan to buy a car should be guaranteed by the seller, and the bank will lend the loan, and the bank will not be able to recover from the seller, and the seller will then sue you, the buyer, to recover, right?

Bai Fan: Yes! And the interest and liquidated damages after default are high.

Spiegel: So what do you do?

Bai Fan: What can I do, my parents' money has been exhausted, and I don't dare to go to see them! Or my humble little quietly asked relatives to borrow money to help me pay off the car loan!

Spiegel: Can you turn over as a salted fish?

Bai Fan: In desperation, I drifted north.

Spiegel: Want to make money in Beijing? It's not easy to mix up if you don't have the ability, right?

Bai Fan: I've been to many big companies in Beijing to find jobs, but luckily a company that deals in high-end imported cosmetics hired me.

Spiegel: Why does this company use you?

Bai Fan: Because of the female president......

Spiegel: Female president?

Bai Fan: The female president interviewed the young men who applied for the job. When it was my turn to interview, I sat across from her and her secretary with trepidation in my heart. She looked at my resume, then looked at me with wide eyes and a strange look in her eyes.

I also observed her at this time. She looks like a middle-aged mature woman, about forty years old, loose high-end silver-gray clothes can't hide her slightly chubby plumpness, her shiny black drooping hair is obviously dyed, and the thin eyebrows and charming eyes on her fleshy face are particularly charming, in short, the image of a white rich and beautiful wife!

She coughed lightly and then asked me, "Look at your resume, you have opened a company, you are married, and you have children." Then after you work in my company, will you often ask for leave to go home because you want your wife and children? ”

I replied, "My wife agreed to let me come to Beijing to work hard, just because she hopes that I can have a future and I will focus on my work." ”

She nodded and asked, "What kind of personality are you?" Will they completely obey the leader's arrangement? How do you think about the will of the individual and the will of the leader? ”

I understood what she cared about, so I replied, "The strong side of my character should be reflected in my loyalty to the leader, and only by obeying the will of the leader can I do a good job." I have run a company and know the importance of obeying the leader. ”

She finally asked, "Do you know how to drive?" How many years have you been driving? ”

I said, "Yes, I've been driving for two years."

She smiled with satisfaction, and I was hired.

Spiegel: What position did she give you?

Bai Fan: Give her a drive.

Spiegel: You're only two years old, why did you ask you to drive for her? What about her original driver? Doesn't it look like you're handsome?

Bai Fan: Her original driver asked her to arrange for her to be a supervisor in a foreign branch, and then asked me to drive for her.

Spiegel: It seems that she has ulterior motives.

Bai Fan: After joining the company, I learned that the female president's name is Cai Qin, she is forty-three years old, and everyone calls her Mr. Cai.

Spiegel: What about her husband?

Bai Fan: Her husband is very powerful, but he doesn't usually live with her.

Spiegel: No wonder she's looking for a handsome guy to be a driver! Her car must be very high-end, right?

Bai Fan: Let's put it this way, there are not many luxury cars like that in Datong City, but they are not the highest level in Beijing.

Spiegel: Of course, Datong can't compare with Beijing.

Bai Fan: Although I was only her chauffeur, I also really saw the world with her, and I also had a very good income, so I was very interested in her, and soon gained her trust. She can talk to her about private topics while I drive, and she can change clothes in the car.

Spiegel: Did she deliberately seduce you when you were changing clothes in the car?

Bai Fan: I try to only look outside the car and pretend to be calm.

Spiegel: You've been away from home for so long, and you're quite determined.

Bai Fan: But that time......

Spiegel: In the car? What did you do?

Bai Fan: Not in the car. On the evening of just over a month after I had been her chauffeur, I dropped her off at her mansion, and she asked me to come in and have some wine with her, and I obediently agreed.

In her palatial mansion, in her elegant little dining room, she had her servants serve a few dishes and two bottles of wine, after which she took them away.

After three glasses of red wine, her fleshy face began to flush, and the eyes that looked at me began to be obsessive and charming! And I felt the blood was running and excited.

She asked me to help her up to the second floor. Her bedroom is decorated in pink tones and pink light and shadow, and the walls are hung with famous body art paintings.

Spiegel: Don't ask, you......

Bai Fan: Actually, I really don't want to be like that, she's so old, I already have a psychological disorder, and no matter the size and skin, it can't be compared with my little Jingjing.

Spiegel: But you're still ......!

Bai Fan: The next morning, when I woke up on the soft waterbed in her bedroom, I rubbed my eyes and was a little dazed when I remembered what happened last night. My beloved wife, Xiao Jingjing, has to work in her small shop for 12 hours a day to earn money to pay off my debts. My daughter was weaned and put into foster care with her grandmother, and I ......!

Spiegel: You can think of your wife and children at this time, and you finally have a little conscience.

Bai Fan: Since then, Cai Qin seems to be more satisfied with me, and she trusts me more, and some things that are not big for her can be entrusted to me with confidence, and I can be more respected by some big bosses, and I naturally have a kind of pride in high society.

Spiegel: Actually, you're a soft eater!

Bai Fan: I admit this, but I have to earn money, no money is nothing in society, no matter how high I am, no one can afford it!

Spiegel: That's true, even if you're a beautiful man. Does she pay you a high salary, though?

Bai Fan: It's equivalent to the treatment of a middle-level supervisor in her company.

Spiegel: Looks like you're satisfied.

Bai Fan: I was satisfied with the first two months, although I lost some dignity, but after all, I have all the money, why not? But her demands day after day, and her wolf-like fervour, made it more and more difficult for me to cope. Besides, no matter how glamorous she is on the outside, but after all, she is still a middle-aged woman's inside, which makes my perception and touch more and more numb, and I almost lose my senses.

Spiegel: Hehe, you can't hold it up, can you?

Bai Fan: It's the red wine she asks me to drink with her every night that makes me a little addicted, and it is only under the aroma of red wine that I seem to have passion.

During the Spring Festival last year, she gave me a ten-day holiday, gave me a 50,000 year-end bonus, and lent me a luxury car to go home for the New Year.

Spiegel: How do you face your wife when you get home?

Bai Fan: My wife Xiao Jingjing saw me driving a luxury car back and wearing high-end clothes, she was very happy at first, and then asked me in surprise: "Why did you lose weight like this?" Is it hard work? ”

In fact, she didn't say that I really didn't know that I had lost weight: "Really? Am I thin? But I usually eat very well in Beijing, and my work is relatively leisurely! ”

When she pressed her face against my chest and hugged me tightly, I confirmed that I had really lost a lot of weight compared to before I went to Beijing!

Spiegel: Huh! You are with that Bai Fumei in Beijing, it is really too hard, it's no wonder if you are not thin!

Bai Fan: Fortunately, the money I earned in the past six months has paid off my family's arrears.

I haven't seen my daughter for half a year, and my daughter recognized me when she saw me, so I teased her for a long time before letting me hug her.

That night, to my wife's surprise and my surprise, we were separated for more than half a year before we reunited, why couldn't I?

Spiegel: Wow!

Bai Fan: I was extremely embarrassed at the time, but Xiao Jingjing comforted me: "You may be too tired, don't worry, just rest at home for two days." ”

Spiegel: Your wife really hurts, that's good!

Bai Fan: In the past few days at home, I drove a luxury car to take my parents, father-in-law, mother-in-law and relatives to a five-star hotel for dinner, and even the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner on Chinese New Year's Eve also made me stay at the restaurant.

I also drove a luxury car to the party of classmates and friends, and I made my boyfriends jealous, and my girlfriends envied, and I felt that I had a face.

Spiegel: What's there to show!

Bai Fan: But until the end of the holiday, when I was with my wife at night, I still "can't do it!" ”

Spiegel: Didn't find out why?

Bai Fan: Find the reason. I think it may be that when I came back this time and saw Xiao Jingjing again, I felt that she was really rustic and too bland, was it because I really didn't feel for her?

Spiegel: That's probably why.

Bai Fan: The 10-day Spring Festival holiday passed quickly, and I was very scared when I went back to Beijing to reunite with Cai Qin.

Spiegel: What are you afraid of?

Bai Fan: I'm afraid that when I'm with her, if I can't do it like I did when I was in Datong's house, I will be disgusted by her.

Spiegel: Hehe! It's possible.

Bai Fan: But even though I'm apprehensive and a little bored with her, how did I find out that I'm doing it again!

Spiegel: Oh! It's true?

Bai Fan: Really! I was relieved.

Spiegel: It's hard for you! But, it's weird.

Bai Fan: The next afternoon, she asked me to go to her husband's place to pick up something.

Spiegel: Aren't you afraid of her husband?

Bai Fan: Although I have been with Cai Qin for more than half a year, I have never met her husband. I was scared and thought about it a lot before I went. Her husband is so powerful, what if her husband finds out that I have an affair with her and designs to harm me? Or as soon as I walked in the door, her husband would beat me up......

Spiegel: Hehe, it's possible!

Bai Fan: I begged Cai Qin to let someone else go for me, and I said I was afraid.

But she laughed, and said to me, "Young man, you don't have to be afraid, just go with confidence, and let him see how the new driver I am looking for you is." ”

Spiegel: Have you been there?

Bai Fan: Go! When I got there, her husband's attendant took me into the office. Standing in front of her husband's big table, I didn't dare to raise my head, poking it there like a telephone pole.

I almost held my breath and said, "Hello! It was Mr. Cai who asked me to sample things. ”

He stood up and walked up to me, and I felt my legs and stomach spin and tremble, and my face turned white with fright.

Spiegel: Haha, coward, a big man with a white length of more than eight meters.

Bai Fan: But his fat hand patted me on the shoulder, then looked me up and down as if he were admiring a handicraft, and then smiled and said, "Not bad! Let's go back. ”

At this time, I was excited: "Mr. Cai let me get something?" ”

He smiled wryly again, then leaned back into the big swivel chair with his big belly, raised his hand up, and the female secretary next to him immediately put a cigarette on his finger.

He waved his hand on the cigarette and motioned for me to get out, and I had to take two steps back and turn away.

Spiegel: Be a thief with a weak heart, a false alarm!

Bai Fan: On the way back, I found myself in a cold sweat. But I couldn't figure it out, it turned out that Mr. Cai and her family either asked me to pick up things, or let Mr. Cai's husband take a look at me. But why is his husband looking at me? Doesn't he know anything about me and Mr. Cai?

Spiegel: I seem to have guessed something, and his husband probably knows everything! However, some things are better not to be broken.

Bai Fan: Since then, my courage has grown, but my health has become worse and worse, and it is really difficult to support it, and she has begun to be disappointed in me.

Just after May Day last year, when she got up in the morning, she said to me: "There is a position of deputy manager in the Tianjin branch, do you want to go?" ”

Spiegel: Looks like you've fallen out of favor!

Bai Fan: I can't make money by not working by her side, which is what I can't ask for, but I still have to pretend to be attached.

I tried my best to control the joy in my heart, and tried to show reluctance: "Sister, if I am not by your side, I will miss you!" ”

Spiegel: It's disgusting to say such things to a woman so much older than you!

Bai Fan: When she heard me say this, she was not moved at all, but became official: "You have performed well in my company, kept to yourself, and maintained a good working relationship with the president of my company. When you arrive at the branch, you have to cooperate with the branch manager. You are still young and have a bright future! ”

Spiegel: She's reminding you in disguise, don't talk nonsense in the future, just treat it as if you were just a working relationship before.

Bai Fan: But I didn't react at the time, and I was very shocked, because she only got dressed when she gave me this official tone!

Spiegel: The contrast is too great, you can't accept it for a while, right?

Bai Fan: But soon I calmed down, immediately retracted my consternation, stood up straight, and turned into a solemn expression: "Dear Mr. Cai, I must remember your entrustment and do a good job in my new position!" ”

She nodded in satisfaction.

Spiegel: After that, you went to Tianjin?

Bai Fan: In the position of deputy manager of the Tianjin branch, I have no real power, mainly in charge of the work of the marketing and public relations department.

The female manager of the market public relations department is called Pan Jie, with a slender figure and a height of one meter seventy-five! The silver-gray professional skirt suit makes her look very standard, her black hair is fragrant, her face is as white as jade with a professional smile, and the eyes in her big eyes are always full of warmth.

Spiegel: Do you have a crush on her when you praise her so much?

Bai Fan: When I was wearing a light blue suit and she was standing with me, people always joked that she and I were like a natural pair.

Spiegel: No, you are 1.85 meters, she is 1.75 meters, and she puts on high heels, you are indeed a good match. Does she have a husband? You just stopped eating soft rice, don't fall into it again, don't forget that you still have a wife and children at home!

Bai Fan: She is divorced and has no children. In the face of her, I also warned myself that I can't do anything to be sorry for my wife Xiao Jingjing anymore, no matter how good Pan Jie is to me! But......

Spiegel: But what?

Bai Fan: Last summer, Xiao Jingjing brought her daughter to Tianjin to see me, and she stood in front of me, and other people's eyes showed a strange look. I knew what they meant, but they didn't understand how a handsome guy like me could marry such a short, small-eyed wife!

That time, the manager invited our family of three, and Pan Jie was the companion.

I don't know if Pan Jie was intentional or unintentional, she stood quietly with me and Xiao Jingjing, who was holding my daughter, and other colleagues took a photo by the way, and then sent the photo to me. I looked at the picture......

Spiegel: You're out of balance, aren't you?

Bai Fan: Judging from the photos alone, I am too similar to Pan Jie on the left, and there is no better match. And Xiao Jingjing, who is holding the child in a daze on my right, is not like my wife at all, but like the Filipino nanny I hired with Pan Jie!

Spiegel: Do you just look at your appearance?

Bai Fan: And when Xiao Jingjing lived with me in the rented house in Tianjin this time, I found that I was in the same room with her, and I still couldn't!

Spiegel: What does your wife think?

Bai Fan: Although Xiao Jingjing was a little disappointed this time, she was more concerned about my body, and she advised me to go to the hospital for a check-up. But I still thought I just didn't feel anything about Xiao Jingjing anymore.

Spiegel: It doesn't seem that simple.

Bai Fan: After my wife and children left, Pan Jie and I became more intimate, and we often walked together by the Haihe River at night. Sometimes I would sigh softly, and she would take my arm and put her head on my shoulder, and passers-by would be amazed to see us.

Blame the early autumn drizzle was too sensational, under the ancient willows by the river, I held Pan Jie's thin waist and wide crotch with both hands, couldn't resist the temptation, and kissed her forehead.

Her eyes were so obsessed at this time, and tears like dewdrops slid from the corners of her eyes to her cheeks.

Suddenly, she turned her back and hung her head: "Is it possible for us in this life?" ”

I closed my eyes and gritted my teeth: "I'll go back and get a divorce!" ”

Spiegel: You-you-! How can this be!

Bai Fan: That night, I begged Pan Jie to go to my place, and she said, "Wait until you get divorced!" ”

Spiegel: She doesn't want to be a junior, does she?

Bai Fan: Until the Spring Festival this year, I returned to my home in Datong. Xiao Jingjing taught her daughter: "Hurry up and shout Dad, Dad, Dad!" ”

The daughter babbled: "Daddy-Daddy! ”

At this moment, I, I picked up my daughter!

The sound of firecrackers on Chinese New Year's Eve brings the epidemic of the Year of the Rat!

Our company vacation was extended indefinitely, and during this time I had to stay with me quietly twenty-four hours a day.

Spiegel: Are you doing it again?

Bai Fan: No, no! Not only was I very depressed, but even Xiao Jingjing was disappointed.

After trying hard a few times that night, seeing that I still couldn't do it, she sat up and covered her face and cried: "Don't you like me anymore?" ”

I really can't explain it, I just feel guilty!

I mustered up the courage to mumble for a long time before saying, "Quietly, let's get a divorce!" ”

She turned her back and hugged her daughter and sobbed all night!

As soon as it was dawn, she hugged her daughter and rubbed her eyes and said to me, "I promise you!" ”

At this time, I was at a loss, and my mind went blank!

After the epidemic passed, Xiao Jingjing and I went through the divorce procedures, and everything in the family, including our daughter, belonged to her.

Back in Tianjin, Pan Jie could tell from my expression that I had become single, and that night, she went with me to my residence!

Spiegel: Okay?

Bai Fan: What the hell is going on? Why can't I do it!

Spiegel: Don't you ......?

Bai Fan: Pan Jie saw that I couldn't do it, so I didn't say a word, got dressed, picked up my handbag and left!

Spiegel: Ahhhh

Bai Fan: I'm dumbfounded, so I really can't do it?!

The next day, as soon as the hospital started work, I rushed to the hospital's andrology department. After the examination, the doctor told me that it was caused by a long-term overdose of stimulant drugs in the past!

But I don't remember using that medicine, huh? Not to mention the overdose?

I suddenly remembered with Cai Qin, a rich woman in Beijing......

Spiegel: Isn't that the red wine?

Bai Fan: Definitely! I said I was obviously bored with her at the time. But it still works? Definitely!

After coming out of the hospital, I drove directly to Beijing, but when I arrived in Beijing, I couldn't even enter the door of her company, only to see her luxury car drive in, and the driver who got out of the car to open the door for her was a young strong man who was much stronger than me, and she got off the car in a green satin cheongsam, shook her curly hair, plump and demeanor, carrying a red handbag, raised her head and walked to the office building without squinting, and the hostesses on both sides of the door bowed down to greet and open the door for her.

Spiegel: Are you dumbfounded?

Bai Fan: I quit my job, I went back to Datong, but I was homeless.

Spiegel: You can live at your parents' house.

Bai Fan: I didn't dare to tell my parents, and I didn't dare to face them.

I rented a room across the street from my quiet typing and copying shop, and I wanted to see her through the window every day.

Spiegel: Do you still love her?

Bai Fan: But I saw that there was an inconspicuous takeaway guy like her who often brought her food, and I saw a takeaway guy handing her takeaway at the door, and I saw her take out a handkerchief to wipe the sweat on her forehead.

Spiegel: Perhaps......

Bai Fan: Perhaps...... Wish......!

Spiegel: How are you feeling?

Bai Fan: Experience it for yourself!

Silent for a long time!

Spiegel: By the way, I remembered, is there a person from Tianjin, named Chang Hong, who gave you my WeChat ID?

Bai Fan: I guess your past experience is even more tortuous than mine!

Spiegel: Life is actually writing books with your feet, even if it is your own book, there must always be chapters! What else would you read?

After all, we are still young, and there will be more content in the future, which may be exciting or twisty.

Look back!

Bai Fan: Okay, let's look back!