When a hundred flowers are blooming and spring is in full bloom, the epidemic is no longer raging in the land of China, and the vision in the hearts of people who have been pressed the pause button is like an open floodgate.

Some people choose to go out with their families, some people choose to go to restaurants to eat, and what is even more surprising is that there is an uninvited guest, divorce, who has also quietly mixed into the top few of the list of retaliatory growth industries. The rapid growth and the need to make an appointment in advance surprised many people.

Compared with young couples who are eager to enter the marriage hall, divorced couples are obviously more urgent. Marriage registries across the country are full of people who go through divorce appointment procedures every day!

The "revenge divorce wave" swept the country: an epidemic exposed the pseudo-happiness of 20 million couples!

Some people say that the epidemic has cast a shadow on marriage; Some people assert that the marriage is cursed by the epidemic, but the epidemic shakes its head, I don't carry this pot! The epidemic can survive, but marriage can't survive, it stands to reason that this is a serious social problem no less than the harm of the epidemic, and it should attract enough attention.

Xiao Han thought to himself, how many divorced men have become bachelors like himself? There are more single dogs walking on the street than stray cats and dogs, right?

When I opened the marriage website, I found that there were many new women on it. There is a marriage woman in the same city as herself, her online name is Lulu, she is twenty-nine years old, and she left a WeChat account.

After adding WeChat, the words were simple and polite, Xiao Han directly asked for voice, and the other party immediately accepted.

Xiao Han: Good evening, you are also from Nanning?

Lulu: Hello to you, we're in the same city.

Xiao Han: It's easier to meet people in the same city.

Lulu: yes, but you also need to get to know each other before we can meet, right?

Xiao Han: Of course, you have to understand first.

Lulu: Is the personal information on your dating website real?

Xiao Han: Totally true.

Lulu: What kind of partner do you want to find?

Xiao Han: Seriously, I really don't know what to look for now, I can only say that it is fate.

Lulu: A lot of people say that, but it always depends on the other party's conditions.

Xiao Han: In the real world, it's all like this. What are you looking for?

Lulu: Looking at your information, your conditions are good, if you don't have an abnormal orientation, it should be suitable for me.

Xiao Han: How can there be an abnormal orientation? And what is "abnormal orientation"?

Lulu: It's not normal to my ex-husband who just divorced.

Xiao Han: Oh, can you tell me what's going on?

Lulu: I've never told anyone about him.

Xiao Han: Tell me it's okay, it won't affect anything.

Lulu: I was first introduced to him. His name is Tao Ran, he is one year older than me, and he is a middle school teacher.

Xiao Han: What do people look like?

Lulu: Medium, wearing a pair of glasses, white and clean.

Xiao Han: What is your personality?

Lulu: Sven's.

Xiao Han: Warm man, right?

Lulu: Gentle and warm man.

Xiao Han: You have a crush on him, right?

Lulu: It's not just me who has a crush on him, but even my parents think I'm a good fit for him.

Xiao Han: A man like him is suitable for a woman with a ladylike image, you are such a woman, right?

Lulu: Sort of, anyway, my colleagues at the bank say I'm a lady.

Xiao Han: That's a good guess.

Lulu: Although I am quiet, I can't understand his superficial civilization. I have been in love with him for two years, and at first he didn't take the initiative to hold my hand, but the first time I was cheeky and took the initiative to hand him the hand, and he shook it gently.

Xiao Han: Is he not interested in you or does he not have the courage?

Lulu: I thought he was too reserved.

Xiao Han: Actually, he's not normal, right?

Lulu: What also puzzles me is that his family urged him to marry me, and he always delayed it with various excuses at first, until he couldn't drag it anymore and then seemed to marry me a little reluctantly.

Xiao Han: Why is he unwilling to get married?

Lulu: You'll know when I hear it.

Xiao Han: Go on.

Lulu: On the wedding night, I sat in the living room with a blushing face and waited for him to pull me into the bedroom, and he didn't ask for or move for a long time, but just scratched his scalp in embarrassment.

Xiao Han: Is this his first time with a woman, I'm sorry?

Lulu: It's my first time, but I know what a couple should do on their wedding night.

Xiao Han: In this day and age, there are not many people who have the first wedding night.

Lulu: The red candles on the table were about to burn out, and the sky was almost bright, I couldn't hold my breath anymore, so I mustered up the courage to whisper: "Tao Ran, I am now your wife, and I am your person." ”

Xiao Han: What about him?

Lulu: He lowered his head and said, "yes, yes. ”

I thought he didn't understand what I meant, so I said more clearly: "Husband, tonight is the night of candles in the cave room, you are the groom and I am the bride, should you be like me?" ”

Xiao Han: It's impossible for him not to understand!

Lulu: That's when he said, "Okay, let's go into the bedroom." ”

Xiao Han: When he said that, it seemed that he was reluctant to enter the cave room. Thanks to the fact that you belong to the lady type, if you were a more powerful woman, she would have turned her face with him a long time ago.

Lulu: I'm embarrassed to worry about this kind of thing.

Xiao Han: That's right.

Lulu: He and I were both lying on the bed with our clothes on, and he turned his back to me!

Xiao Han: How can there be such a groom!

Lulu: At this point, I was sad and started sobbing.

When he heard me crying, he turned around and asked me, "Why are you crying?"

I said, "Tao Ran, don't you like me?" ”

He snorted a few times before smiling bitterly and said, "It's not that I don't like it." ”

I asked him, "Then why didn't you make out with me on your wedding night?" ”

Xiao Han: What did he say?

Lulu: That's when he turned off the bedside lamp......

Xiao Han: It's finally the first time.

Lulu: After marriage, my life with him was very dull, that kind of thing only once or twice a month, and there was almost no other intimate behavior, we were always polite to each other, although there was no quarrel, but the relationship was not like a husband and wife at all, but like a partner.

Xiao Han: This is in line with your ladylike personality, but after all, it is not normal.

Lulu: I also realized that I was not like a normal couple with him, and I felt more and more that he was indeed a little abnormal.

Xiao Han: What else did you find?

Lulu: I found out that he had an extraordinary relationship with one of his friends!

Xiao Han: He was having an affair?

Lulu: But this friend of his, not a woman, is a man.

Xiao Han: Do they have something excessive?

Lulu: This friend of his's name is Qu Mo, he is burly, three years older than him, and he is younger. He said that he had a very good relationship with Qu Mo when he was a child, and Qu Mo always covered him.

Xiao Han: It's nothing, is it?

Lulu: But as long as Qu Mo's wife is on the night shift, Qu Mo asks my husband to go to his house to sleep at home, and my husband likes to go there very much.

Xiao Han: Oh, it's a bit unreasonable to go to your friends instead of sleeping with your wife.

Lulu: If only he really just spent the night with someone. I'm naïve and don't usually think much about it, but I found out that they ......

Xiao Han: What's wrong?

Lulu: Once I went back to my mother's house for a few days, and when I came back, I opened the door with the key and entered the house, and I saw that they were ......

Xiao Han: What are they doing?

Lulu: I was really stunned, I didn't know whether to be jealous, I didn't know whether to be angry, I just felt my scalp tingling, and I was very shocked.

Xiao Han: So that's the kind of relationship they have!

Lulu: I understand why he always doesn't like to be intimate with me, and I haven't seen him lustful for other women, because he doesn't like the opposite sex at all.

Xiao Han: Actually, there are a lot of people of this type in society now, people used to see this kind of person as an outlier, but now people's concept has changed, and they don't think it's abnormal, but it's irresponsible for marriage.

Lulu: I can't understand it, and I can't accept it!

Xiao Han: What do you do?

Lulu: When they saw that they had been discovered by me, his friend Qu Mo hurriedly got dressed and ran away, and Tao Ran lowered his head and confessed the facts. I don't know what to do with this kind of thing.

Xiao Han: What can I do? Since he only likes the same sex, your marriage has no meaning, divorce!

Lulu: He and I are both very decent people in the eyes of outsiders, and both parents are very satisfied with us, how can I divorce him just like that?

Xiao Han: You love face too much.

Lulu: So we continued to live together at that time.

Xiao Han: How did you break up later?

Lulu: During the pandemic, we couldn't go to work, and he and I had to stay at home all day, but instead of having a good impression of me, he became more and more bored with me, and I became more and more disappointed in him.

Xiao Han: There is no emotional foundation and no complementary interest orientation, the more time you spend together, the more troubles you have.

Lulu: The last straw that broke up our marriage was his phone call with Qu Mo.

Xiao Han: Did you hear that?

Lulu: I was cooking in the kitchen that day, and he hid in the bathroom to talk to Qu Mo, and I overheard it. He told Qu Mo that he was miserable with me, and he said that he only had him in his heart!

Xiao Han: It seems that the relationship between them is too deep.

Lulu: At that time, I was completely desperate for this seemingly divorced marriage, but I pretended not to hear anything on the surface, and I waited until the epidemic subsided and I could go out before I solemnly filed for divorce with him.

I said: "Tao Ran, I know you don't like me, I know who you like, I know that you are very depressed, I want to give you freedom, and I don't want to be the façade of your harmonious family, let's separate!" ”

Xiao Han: Did he keep it?

Lulu: He sat on the sofa and held his head and thought for a long time before he said apologetically: "Xiaolu, I'm sorry for you, I agree to break up, I hope you can find a good man in the future and live a normal life!" ”

Xiao Han: Then I went to the marriage registry office to make an appointment for divorce, right?

Lulu: Yes, I just made a divorce appointment a few days ago, and I can officially get the divorce certificate after the hesitation period.

Xiao Han: Your personality and conditions are very good, and you are kind-hearted, so it will not be difficult to find in the future.

Lulu: I hope so.

Xiao Han: When you get the divorce certificate, shall we meet? See if there are any eye edges.

Lulu: Yes!

Xiao Han: I hope I can make you feel satisfied when the time comes.

Lulu: Let's do it and cherish it. It's not early, so let's rest.

Xiao Han: Okay, lady, good night!

Lulu: Good night!