Lying on the bed, thinking back to the second date with Lulu this afternoon, recalling that Lulu finally let herself shake a warm little hand, Xiao Han's sweetness was still on his face, and at the same time, he was thinking about how happy it would be if he could stay with such a fair lady for the rest of his life! Why was Lulu's previous husband so stupid, how could he be indifferent to such a good woman? How could you give up so easily? But if he didn't give up, he wouldn't have this opportunity.

The WeChat prompt on the mobile phone sounded, and Xiao Han saw that it was a voice request from the Spiegel netizen who admired him.

Spiegel: Good evening, are you busy right now?

Xiao Han: Good evening! I just came back a while and now it's fine.

Spiegel: How are you doing? I guess you've found it, right?

Xiao Han: I'm fine. Why do you think I've found it?

Spiegel: You can hear it in your voice, and for those who seek marriage, those who have a fixed occupation are all fragrant.

Xiao Han: Has my voice changed in any way?

Spiegel: You used to speak with a sense of urgency in your voice to ask for marriage, but now it's a relaxed voice.

Xiao Han: I see that you have become a Chinese female Sherlock Holmes, and you can make inferences by listening to your voice, which is amazing! But what's so good about that fixed career, and you can't make a lot of money, it's been more than 40 years of reform and opening up, isn't it more promising to start your own business?

Spiegel: Although you have a small number of people who have fixed occupations, you have always been superior and enviable. Those who claim to be bosses who start their own businesses, in fact, few people can make money, they are all donkey dung balls with a light surface, and it is good not to be in debt. Part-time workers used to be called temporary workers, and although these people couldn't make a lot of money, at least they didn't lose money, and they were better than self-employed.

Xiao Han: I see a lot of bosses who are younger than me who are very generous and awesome!

Spiegel: Young independent creators are squandering their money.

Xiao Han: How can self-employment be called profligacy?

Spiegel: It's hard for people with seniority and connections to make money in the market, let alone these young ones. They ask their parents for money, saying that they are starting a business, and if their parents don't give it, they don't support him, give it, and let him squander it sooner or later. Some rely on loans, and if they lose money and can't pay it back, they will make others sympathize with him, and if they don't sympathize with him, they will seem unkind.

Xiao Han: Isn't it possible for young people to start their own businesses?

Spiegel: Every surface you see is a surface!

Xiao Han: You're talking too absolutely, aren't you?

Spiegel: There is no absolute absolute.

Xiao Han: That makes sense.

Spiegel: In the case of your marriage, if your profile says that you don't have a fixed occupation, few people will take care of you.

Xiao Han: Is this really the case?

Spiegel: You don't see that most of the marriage requirements for women say "have a stable job" or "have a regular income".

Xiao Han: That's exactly what you said.

Spiegel: How are you doing now?

Xiao Han: I've just met twice, and I feel pretty good.

Spiegel: As long as you don't have a big problem, you'll come together.

Xiao Han: Really?

Spiegel: Actually, success is not in how you chase it, but in your conditions.

Xiao Han: No matter how good your conditions are, how can you succeed if you don't pursue them?

Spiegel: Does that need to be said?

Xiao Han: But the lady I'm in now, I believe she values love!

Spiegel: Faint! Do you really not understand? Now the so-called love is based on conditional favorability first.

Xiao Han: What is "conditional favorability?" ”

Spiegel: At present, she has to agree with your objective conditions first.

Xiao Han: I really think that the marriage she wants is based on love. She said on a small bridge this afternoon: "The best marriage must first have the purest love!" ”

Spiegel: Then look backwards, but don't say to me after a while, "Spiegel, you're right. ”

Xiao Han: This time I hope you're wrong.

Spiegel: I hope I'm wrong this time. But you and she started to fall in love, and you shouldn't chat casually with other women in the future. If tonight is the last time we chat, it proves that you and this lady are developing smoothly and even entering into marriage, and if you talk to me again one day, it means that there is a rift in your relationship with her.

Xiao Han: Can't you chat with others if you have a partner?

Spiegel: Unless you don't love her. Of course, it's not sure that you really love her right now. Even if you talk to a woman when you are with her, it can only be a general topic, and it is impossible to talk for a long time.

Xiao Han: Can you tell us about your past today? I hope to remember you.

Spiegel: What is there to say, I have been in the past step by step.

Xiao Han: People's experience is for memory, in fact, isn't it because people live this life because they have yesterday to have today? If you lose your memory, you don't live, or you live just for the sake of experience! And isn't every memory an examination of the value of one's past? You're right?

Spiegel: You can still say that as a science and engineering person?!

Xiao Han: Don't you want people to listen to those songs that play the piano, whether they are cheerful or sad?

Spiegel: Isn't that the end of saying that you like to listen to other people's privacy? And come up with so many reasons!

Xiao Han: Hehe, you say, I'll listen.

Spiegel: Well, according to what you said, I'll just look back at the road I've traveled.

Xiao Han: Thank you, hehe!

Spiegel: My hometown is in rural Anyang, Henan Province, and I have an older brother above me, who was married when he was 26 years old, but he couldn't marry because he couldn't get a 90,000 bride price. In desperation, my parents hurriedly found me a partner to marry me, so that they could marry my brother as a bride price. I was 19 years old, and I was graduating from high school and going to college.

Xiao Han: Asking for a bride price for marriage is the biggest bad habit in China, which has put many families in financial difficulties! How many marriages are separated by husband and wife because of the bride price! If I were a deputy to the National People's Congress, I would definitely propose to abolish it!

Spiegel: You? This has been the custom for generations, and it cannot be changed.

Xiao Han: You got married before you went to college?

Spiegel: Yes, married to a farmer who is five years older than me, called "Zhu", Heibula doesn't know how to hurt people at all, and his temper is not small.

Xiao Han: Did you have a baby?

Spiegel: I was married for 10 months and gave birth to my son, and after that, his parents and he were much better to me, but ......

Xiao Han: What's wrong?

Spiegel: When my child was less than a year old, he went to Shenzhen to work, and when I came back from the Spring Festival, I found that he had contracted that bad disease!

Xiao Han: What? Bad disease?

Spiegel: It's the kind of disease that men get when they get flowers and grass outside.

Xiao Han: You just said that the apricot disease is over? Is it contagious to you?

Spiegel: Can I not get infected if he has this disease?

Xiao Han: He doesn't know how to avoid you?

Spiegel: He just thought it was a little bit abnormal, and he didn't know he had the disease.

Xiao Han: Then what do you do?

Spiegel: I didn't like him in the first place, do you think I can still live with him if something like this happens? So I filed for divorce.

Xiao Han: Does his family agree? What about the child?

Spiegel: His family and he didn't agree at first, but when his parents found out the reason, they had nothing to say, and he drooped his head. Because reading his family is a single transmission, I didn't insist on having children.

Xiao Han: Did you register before you got married?

Spiegel: At that time, I was not old enough to register, so it was easy to get a divorce. I hugged my son before leaving, and I regretted it a little and cried all afternoon, but I still put my son down and left.

Xiao Han: This is the end of your first marriage!

Spiegel: After that, I went to Beijing alone and looked for a place to see the patient. Because I was embarrassed to go to a big hospital, I found a small clinic in a small alley in Beijing. It took more than 5,000 yuan to finally cure the disease in a month, but the money was also spent, and then I heard that if my slight apricot disease was treated in a large state-run hospital, it would take a few days and spend a few hundred yuan to cure it.

Xiao Han: Who made you embarrassed to go to a big hospital?

Spiegel: Who knew at that time? A person who is ignorant in Beijing.

Xiao Han: You are bold enough not to ask anyone to go with you.

Spiegel: It's not that you're bold, it's that there's no way, I'm afraid that people will know about it, so it won't be a shame for the dead?

Xiao Han: Then why do you have to go to Beijing?

Spiegel: Don't we believe in Beijing?

Xiao Han: There are also deceptions everywhere.

Spiegel: After being cured, I didn't even have the money to go back, so I had to find a place to work in Beijing.

Xiao Han: I've heard that women are easier to find jobs in Beijing than men, right?

Spiegel: That's right.

Xiao Han: What kind of job did you find?

Spiegel: Working as a waitress in a cabaret in a basement turned-cabaret.

Xiao Han: Oh, aren't you supposed to be a ......?

Spiegel: Don't guess, I'm just a waiter, I don't know how to do that kind of thing.

Xiao Han: Does this song hall do that?

Spiegel: Yes, there is, but generally it is just to accompany the singing, and the guests can take it outside if they want to do that, but most of the people who do this are Northeast women.

Xiao Han: Where did you live at that time?

Spiegel: The cabaret hall provided a dormitory for a few of our waiters.

Xiao Han: How long have you been there?

Spiegel: Less than a year. In the autumn of that year, a few Henan people came to the song hall to play, and they respected me when they heard my accent was also from Henan, and one of them, a middle-aged man named Lao Deng, was particularly interested in me, asked me about my personal situation, and then asked for my contact information.

Xiao Han: Did you give it to him? What does he want to do?

Spiegel: For the sake of the countryman's face, I left him his mobile phone number, and the next day he called me to ask me to go to the restaurant, saying that he wanted to invite me to dinner. I said that although we are fellow countrymen, we didn't know each other before, what do you ask me to do?

Xiao Han: yes, why?

Spiegel: He said he wanted to introduce me to someone who was about the same age as me and had a long-term hukou in Beijing.

Xiao Han: Oh, it's a good thing, is it true or false?

Spiegel: It doesn't matter if I want to go to a meal, whether it's true or not, he can't do anything to me anyway.

Xiao Han: Besides, you need to remarry too, right? Maybe you will meet a wishful man.

Spiegel: The next day, Deng took me to a small but elegant restaurant. He introduced me to a long, white-looking young man sitting next to him. This lad called

Xiao Yong, it's very polite to listen to him.

At the dinner table, Lao Deng asked me many questions, and after eating, Lao Deng sent me back, but what made me unhappy was that Xiao Yong didn't stand up to see me off when I left.

Xiao Han: Is he looking down on you?

Spiegel: On the way, Lao Deng asked me seriously, did this little brave win?

I said it was nice to look at people.

Lao Deng said that Xiao Yong was his son, and he bought a house for Xiao Yong in Beijing's Third Ring Road.

Xiao Han: If you can afford to buy a house in Beijing's Third Ring Road, you must not be an ordinary person, right?

Spiegel: Of course not ordinary people!

Xiao Han: So what does he do?

Spiegel: Don't interject! Listen to me.

Xiao Han: Okay, you say.

Spiegel: Lao Deng said that if I follow his son Xiaoyong, he will not only buy me a car but also give my family a 200,000 dowry! In addition, if he can register his marriage with his son, have a child, and live for more than five years without divorce, he can transfer this house in Beijing to me and Xiaoyong!

I was puzzled, so I asked him, "Your son is not bad, and your family is so rich, why do you want him to marry me, a divorced woman who has given birth?" ”

Xiao Han: "Yes, I was also about to ask. ”

Spiegel: Lao Deng stopped the car, lit a cigarette and took a few puffs before frowning and said to me: "Xiao Yong is lame, born with a disability in his right leg!" ”

Xiao Han: I see!

Spiegel: I didn't reply to this at the time, I thought about it for several days, and the old Deng called me every day to do my ideological work.

Xiao Han: Although Xiao Yong has a disability, you are reluctant to give up his family's strength, right?

Spiegel: Why do you talk so much? Shut up!

Xiao Han: Yes!

Spiegel: But one day, a Jilin girl in our song hall gave her first night just for 1,000 yuan, which made me make up my mind!

What's wrong with him being lame? How many able-bodied people can't afford to buy a house in Beijing even if they earn money for eight lifetimes, just like my ex-husband, the money he earned after a year's work is not enough for his own trouble.

Xiao Han: So you're here?

Spiegel: I agreed to Lao Deng, quit my job in the song hall, married his son, and Lao Deng became my father-in-law. He made good on his promise, bought me a car, and also gave me 200,000.

Xiao Han: What about Xiao Yong's mother?

Spiegel: Yong said that his mother and his father divorced, and now his mother has remarried.

Xiao Han: Oh!

Spiegel: I was very happy when I wore high-end clothes, hung high-end jewelry, and drove a brand new red car back to my mother's house in Henan to visit my family. When the villagers learned that I was married to Beijing Kuoshao, they were almost envious of me!

I bought a whole bunch of stuff again and went to my ex-husband's house to visit my son. At this time, my son can talk and walk, but he will only call grandpa, grandma and dad, but not mom!

Xiao Han: Damn!

Spiegel: I left 10,000 yuan for his father to take his son with him, and then I hugged and kissed my son who was stunned, and turned around and drove away! As a result, the car had not yet driven out of the village, because of tears covering his eyes, he hit the stone pier at once, and the front bumper was destroyed!

Until now, I feel sad when I think of my son!

Xiao Han: Understood!

Spiegel: I finally got pregnant half a year after I married Xiao Yong, Xiao Yong and my father-in-law Lao Deng cared for me very much, especially Lao Deng, who tried his best to nourish my body, didn't let me do any work, and hired a nanny who was good at prenatal education and baby care to serve me.

Xiao Han: He is for the next generation of his family.

Spiegel: At the time, I thought it would be nice to go on like this. Give birth to the child, teach the husband and children, live a prosperous life in Beijing, and send some money to my hometown son in private, and I will be content.

But misfortune happened!

Xiao Han: What's wrong?

Spiegel: When I was almost six months pregnant, Lao Deng went in!

Xiao Han: Damn! What sin?

Spiegel: It turns out that he is a tomb robber and smuggles cultural relics!

Xiao Han: Wow, this is a felony!

Spiegel: I said that when I asked him what big business he was, he always wouldn't let him ask, and then I realized that his money was not good!

Not only was he imprisoned, but all his property, including this big house in Beijing, was confiscated by the court.

Xiao Han: Retribution!

Spiegel: Look at my life! Bumpy huh?

Xiao Han: It's unlucky, the good days didn't last long. What did you do after that?

Spiegel: The money is gone, the house and car are gone, I have a big belly and I can't go to work, and Xiaoyong is disabled. In desperation, I went with Xiao Yong to Xiao Yong's mother, and Xiao Yong's mother was really good, she not only took in Xiao Yong and me despite the opposition of her remarried husband, but also cried and went to visit Xiao Yong's father in prison!

Xiao Han: Alas, it seems that the original husband and wife still have a deep relationship!

Spiegel: However, Xiao Yong's mother divorced again because of this!

Xiao Han: Of course her second husband wants to divorce.

Spiegel: That's when I went back to my parents' house. When my parents learned the truth about my current situation, they said that they would let me kill the fetus in my womb, and that they would divorce Xiaoyong if they said anything.

I thought about what my parents were right, how could I live with the disabled son of a grave robber for the rest of my life? If I give birth to a child, the child will not have a good life in the future.

Xiao Han: But you divorced at this time when Xiaoyong was the most difficult, and beat you and his son, it's too much, right?

Spiegel: I also said this to my parents, but my father said that in Anyang, robbing tombs and digging up ancestral graves is a lack of virtue to cut off children and grandchildren, Xiao Yong was born with a disabled leg, it may be his father's lack of morality, and other things can be sympathized, just this is not good, and he can't say anything to give birth to a child with his blood.

Xiao Han: Don't say it, your dad is really sensible, and what he said is right! Although the child is innocent, the person who digs the grave of the ancestors really should not have a queen! Even those who dig up ancestral graves under the banner of experts deserve retribution.

Spiegel: I'm also thinking, if I really give birth to this child, Xiaoyong is disabled and can't support him, and I have a son with my ex-husband, how can I raise this child? So I listened to my parents and asked someone to beat the child out in the hospital!

Xiao Han: That's the only way to do it. Divorced?

Spiegel: When Xiaoyong and his mother heard that I had killed the child, they cried and cried, and they had to agree to divorce.

Xiao Han: I really don't know what to say, I always feel that you are helpless.

Spiegel: How many ups and downs there are in life, how many helplessness there are, especially for women like me!

Xiao Han: What happened to you after you divorced Xiao Yong?

Spiegel: Let's not talk about anything else.

Xiao Han: Shall we talk about it tomorrow? I still want to hear it.

Spiegel: No, you have a partner now, you shouldn't be disloyal to your lady by chatting with a woman like this, you finally found the woman you like, cherish it!

Xiao Han: But I ......

Spiegel: I have a lot of things that I have experienced and heard from others, and I will tell them to other lonely people.

Xiao Han: Okay, then I've been concentrating on a heart-to-heart relationship with Lady Lulu recently. May your new audience get a glimpse of the good and evil of human nature and the true meaning of marriage from your narration!

Spiegel: Good dreams, architect!

Xiao Han: Good night, marriage analyst!