There is a "Rose Appointment" marriage agency in the southern suburbs of Taiyuan City, the first floor is a business place, an elegant office used by a female boss, and a pink-toned "love at first sight meeting room" for marriage seekers. The second floor is where the landlady lives.

In order to introduce her son to a partner, Aunt Zhao came to the marriage agency early this morning.

"How did the person you introduced to your son the other day talk to your son?" Spiegel asked.

Aunt Zhao slapped her thigh after sitting down: "Alas-!" My son said he and the girl broke up again! ”

Spiegel was puzzled: "Didn't they feel good about each other when they met me?" ”

"Who said no, but they have been in it for less than half a month, and the girl said that it was not suitable for him, and I wish him to find the girl he likes as soon as possible. My son is thirty years old, and he can't even talk about the object until now, when will he be able to start a family, I'm in a hurry! Aunt Zhao frowned.

Spiegel: "Auntie, do you mean let me find another one for your son?" ”

"Yes, don't bother, please see if there are any other girls suitable for my son." Aunt Zhao is pleading.

Spiegel made a cup of tea for his aunt and handed it over: "I have introduced three girls to him to meet, and introducing one to talk about the collapse of the other, this is not a solution." ”

"Why don't I give you some more money, and you must tell my son to be one." Aunt Zhao said as she took out the money from her pocket.

Spiegel pressed Auntie's hand: "Auntie! No need to add money, my service commitment is to return the money if it can't be said, no matter what, I am responsible for the end! ”

"You are so good, you take the trouble to tell people about matchmaking, no wonder young people call you Sister Matchmaker, anyway, my son's marriage will be handed over to you." Aunt was happy.

Spiegel asked, "Why did your son let you come to me?" Won't he come himself?"

"Alas! After you introduce him, he can't always talk, and he is embarrassed to see you. The aunt explained.

Spiegel thought for a while: "You give me his WeChat account, I will add him as a friend in the name of a strange woman, talk to him privately, see what the problem is, and then introduce him to a girl who can accept him according to his situation." ”

"That's a good idea." The aunt took out her mobile phone to find her son's WeChat ID.

Mingjing, who was busy all day in the matchmaking store on the first floor, went upstairs after dinner to watch TV, but remembered that he hadn't added Aunt Zhao's son as a friend, so he quickly took out his mobile phone.

Aunt Zhao's son's WeChat screen name is very funny, called "brick", is it possible that this kid can't talk about the object, will he give people a brick if he is in a hurry? Spiegel thought it was ridiculous.

After adding up to his friends, Spiegel took the initiative to greet him.

Spiegel: Good evening!

Slab Brick: Hello! You are?

Spiegel lied: I used the WeChat search function to search for people nearby and found you.

Brick: Oh, the first time I've added a stranger as a friend.

Spiegel: Any acquaintance starts out as a stranger.

Brick: Well, you want to add me?

Spiegel: I'm lonely and want to talk to someone.

Banzhuan: I'm depressed and don't want to talk to people!

Spiegel: Isn't the more you don't talk to people, the more depressed you become? Wouldn't it be nice to chat and talk about it?

Banzhuan: No one can understand me.

Spiegel: I can understand you if you say it, do you believe it?

Slab Brick: I really don't want to say it.

Spiegel: Are a lot of things going wrong for you?

Banzhuan: If it goes well, I won't be depressed.

Spiegel: I have experienced so many ups and downs, and I was depressed back then, but now that I look back, I didn't need to be depressed at that time, people always have to run forward.

Slab Brick: Maybe you're right.

Spiegel: I've seen everything now, and I'm happy to live, why are you depressed?

Banzhuan: Others introduced me to me, talking about one collapse and one collapse, do you think I can not be depressed!

Spiegel: So you're depressed because you can't talk to someone?

Brick: No, I hate myself for being stupid! I hate women for being so hard!

Spiegel: I'm also a woman, don't hate me, I'm afraid of you, hehe!

Brick: What are you doing if I have nothing to do?

Spiegel knowingly asked: By the way, what kind of education do you have and what do you do?

After graduating from junior high school, I went to a technical school for automobile maintenance, and after graduation, I worked in a 4S shop for a few years, and now I have opened an auto repair shop.

Spiegel: You just said that women are so difficult to get along with, tell me, which woman is so difficult?

Brick: My mother asked someone to introduce me to three objects, all of which were so difficult.

Spiegel: What is the reason why the first one of the introductions was not negotiated, is it that you don't like people?

Banzhuan finally began to talk about himself: the first one was met last fall, he was working in a typing and copying shop, and he was twenty-five years old. The first time we only met, we had a brief conversation, and then I invited her to a restaurant for dinner in the evening.

Spiegel: Oh, how's it going?

Banzhuan: It was the first time I invited a girl to dinner, and I was afraid that she would not be satisfied, so I asked her to order, and she asked me to order. I picked up the expensive ones and ordered four things, which cost me more than three hundred.

Spiegel: The two of them spent more than 300 yuan, is she satisfied?

Banzhuan: When the food was served, she didn't eat a few bites.

Spiegel: Why?

Banzhuan: I thought she was like me, eating alone with the opposite sex for the first time, and I couldn't let go.

Spiegel: What did you talk about?

Slab brick: We were all sitting there stupidly, she took out her mobile phone from time to time to check the time, just half an hour later, the food was not cold, he was leaving, I said I'll drive you, she said......

Spiegel: What did she say?

She said, "Thank you for inviting me to dinner, but I'm losing weight and can't eat big fish and meat!" ”

Spiegel: Then why didn't she say it earlier?

Banzhuan: yes, she didn't order when she asked her to order. In addition, she said: "I can't stand the smell of engine oil on your body." ”

Spiegel: Oh!

Banzhuan: When she got home, she sent me a WeChat message, with only one sentence: "We are not suitable!" ”

When I was about to reply to her on WeChat, I found that she had deleted me.

Spiegel: It's a shame that you spent your money in vain!

Brick: The second person I met was an insurance marketer, who was the same age as me and was very good at talking, so I also invited her to a restaurant for dinner.

Spiegel: How is she?

Brick: I took the lesson of the last time, before going to the restaurant, I took a careful shower at home, took the shower gel several times, thoroughly washed off the smell of engine oil on my body, and then changed into newly bought clothes.

When I arrived at the restaurant, I asked her to order anything, but she ordered four seafood and a sea cucumber soup, which cost me more than 600.

Spiegel: Our seafood in Shanxi is expensive.

Banzhuan: When I was having dinner with her, I took the initiative to talk to her about my future life, but she always talked to me about insurance and how good their company's insurance was.

Spiegel: Why is she like that?

Brick: She said that to be her boyfriend she had to support her work.

Spiegel: Did you buy insurance from her?

Banzhuan: I said I repair cars, if I have car insurance, I can recommend it.

Spiegel: That's right!

Banzhuan: Later, I recommended it to her, but the customers I knew who came to repair the car had acquaintances who did insurance, so I couldn't help her.

Spiegel: That's why she broke up with you?

Slab Brick: Hmm! I've been on three or four dates with her, and I've spent more than 2,000 on meals alone, and I haven't even pulled my hand.

Spiegel: I'm sorry!

Banzhuan: I'm sorry for what you say, it has nothing to do with you.

Spiegel hurriedly said: "I want to say that the insurance person is sorry for you and let you spend money for her for nothing." ”

Bricks: Don't all women say that they like men who are generous? If a man doesn't spend money, a woman will say that a man is stingy, or even that you don't look like a man.

Spiegel: What about those two that came later?

Banzhuan: I just saw this after the epidemic passed a few days ago, and she is a very simple-looking girl who works in a private company. This time I invited her to the coffee shop for coffee.

Spiegel: This time you know how to be romantic, you know how to go for coffee.

Slab Brick: She suggested it.

Spiegel: Oh, you say she's pretty simple, why would she ask to go to a coffee shop for coffee?

Banzhuan: She seems to be familiar with the coffee shop, and someone may have taken her there before.

Spiegel: Got it! How did you talk about it this time?

Banzhuan: I wasn't too nervous this time, and she asked me a lot of questions.

Spiegel: Oh, what's the problem?

She asked me how big my house was, whether my old car was second-hand, how much money I could earn a month, and how much I would pay if I got engaged.

Spiegel: Before you met her, the introducer should have told her about you?

Banzhuan: Yes, but she still asked.

Spiegel: How do you answer?

Brick: I said that I live in a house with my mother of more than 70 square meters, two bedrooms and a small living room, and my car is a customer who wants to buy a new car to obsolete, and it only costs 2,000 yuan. Sometimes I earn 3,000 a month, sometimes 8,000, I'm not sure, but I didn't make any money during the shutdown. If I get engaged, my mother can come up with 80,000 yuan, which is the money that my father paid for his death in the coal mine 20 years ago, originally 300,000 yuan, and spent more than 200,000 yuan when buying a house, if she gets engaged, my mother is willing to take out this 80,000 yuan.

Spiegel: You're real!

Brick: She also asked another question that I was embarrassed about.

Spiegel: What's the problem?

Banzhuan: She said that she wants to live a two-person life after marriage, can she let my mother move to live elsewhere? When I have a baby, I will ask my mother to move back to see the child.

Spiegel: How do you answer?

Banzhuan: I was very angry in my heart, but I didn't dare to show it, so I could only explain it to her.

I said that my father died in the coal mine when I was less than ten years old, and my mother has never remarried for me, and now that she is old, the house is like this, where can she move to?

Spiegel: Her request is indeed excessive, but women nowadays like the two-person world.

Banzhuan: I saw that she was quite unhappy with me, so I started to get nervous again, and I didn't know what to say after that.

After less than half a month, I invited her to a few more meals, and every time I invited her, she still didn't treat me warmly even though I paid for her. The day before yesterday, when she got off work, I went to the door of the company where she worked to pick her up and find a place to eat, she seemed to be very afraid that others would see her with me, she went out by herself, and when she couldn't see an acquaintance, he got into my car, which made me feel very sad.

After this meal, I asked her when she would come home with me to meet my mother, and she said that her personality is very different from mine, and she can't talk about it, just suitable for being ordinary friends, and she wishes me to find the object I like as soon as possible.

Spiegel: Even a female worker is like this, and the girls are really like that now!

But I want to say something that I shouldn't say as a woman: most women spend men's money and feel that it is justified, and there is no favor in a woman's heart. When she looks down on you, you invite her to eat delicacies from the mountains and seas, she still looks down on you, wipes her mouth after eating, and leaves after eating, and she will not remember any favors from you when you break up.

Brick: But what can I do? If I don't spend money, people will say I'm stingy.

Spiegel: If you have a good heart, you will definitely meet a woman who likes you.

Banzhuan: When will I meet, my mother is heartbroken about my heart!

Spiegel: You do a good job in your car repair business, earn more money, and don't tell your mother what happens.

Slab Brick: This year I will also pay in installments for a new car testing equipment, and I want to increase the turnover.

Spiegel: That's right!

Banzhuan: I'm still depressed, why is it so difficult for me to find a daughter-in-law? The girls I've met have said I can't talk and I'm not welcome.

Spiegel: What you just told me is very good, quite able to speak?

Banzhuan: This is because I am now deducting words from you on the Internet, and in reality, I stutter as soon as I talk to the girl, and I have no confidence at all.

Spiegel: Do you have a lot of friends in reality?

Slab brick: If the customer who comes to repair the car is not a friend, I don't have a friend.

Spiegel: Oh, why is that? How can you not have friends? Is there any reason?

Slab Brick: I've never told anyone about that, not even my mother. Because I don't know you, and it's a button communication, I dare to tell you.

Spiegel: It's okay, you can talk to me casually, I can understand you!

Brick: I'm going to spit out bitterness today.

Spiegel: Tell me about it.

Banzhuan: I was a boy with a very low self-esteem since I was a child.

Spiegel: Why low self-esteem?

My father was a coal digger, and he died when I was in the third grade of elementary school.

There is a son of a coal boss in our class, he is the head of the class, and other classmates envy his family for being rich and revolve around him. And he was nurtured by his family, and he looked down on the shearers, and even more so on me, the son of the shearer, not to mention that my father was still dead.

Spiegel: It is really unfair for the coal boss to make money by selling coolies as a coal miner, but in turn he looks down on the coal miner, and the son of the coal boss also looks down on the son of the coal miner. Have you ever fought with him?

Brick: I really wanted to fight him, but he always avoided me. He ignored me, and I didn't even get a chance to fight him.

Because he ignored me, the whole class ignored me.

I remember one time during recess, he took out an electric Transformers toy to play with on the playground, and the other classmates were playing around her, and I walked over just to see it. As soon as he saw me coming, he immediately took his toys and took his classmates to play elsewhere, flashing me there.

Another time, the male classmates in the class were divided into two teams to play ball, and when I saw that there was one less person in his team, I took the initiative to ask to join his team, but he would rather have one less person than let me join.

Every time he got out of school, he walked around a group of classmates, and I had to walk alone and kick the stones.

Both male and female classmates in the class looked at me like a plague, as if they were isolating me.

Spiegel: Do you homeroom teachers know? Does he not care?

Banzhuan: I think he looks down on me too! Because other students make mistakes, she will criticize them harshly, and if they are late for a while, they will be punished, and he will not ask if I miss a day of class.

Spiegel: Why is this teacher like this? Isn't it also a snob?

Banzhuan: At that time, I often wondered, is there something I didn't do well? If it's understandable for a person to look down on me, why is everyone isolating me?

So I began to take the initiative to help my classmates, and even gave my classmates small gifts for no reason, but even so, my classmates were still unwilling to take care of me, and none of the classmates I gave small gifts knew my feelings, let alone returned the gifts!

Spiegel: Did the teacher comment on you?

Banzhuan: Teachers and classmates say that I don't fit in! I really didn't know how to get along with my classmates, it made me less and less confident, and what I saw at home made me completely lose my dignity.

Spiegel: What do you see?

When I was in the fourth grade, one morning when the class was organizing a group activity, I saw that there was no one to partner with me, so I skipped school and went home early. I took the key to open the door and entered the house, I heard the sound of panting in my mother's bedroom, and I opened the crack in the door and looked in, and I saw ......

Spiegel: Ahhhh

Brick: I know that man, the uncle who sweeps the streets outside our gate!

Spiegel: You should understand your mother, she was not old when your father died, and she didn't find a wife until now in order to pull you!

Slabs: I saw this scene and quietly retreated without disturbing them. I slipped through a grove by myself until my stomach growled. When I saw my mother, I pretended not to see anything, I didn't know anything, but since then, I have become really withdrawn, I don't want to talk to anyone, I don't dare to look at anyone, I don't want to go to crowded places.

I finally survived to junior high school, entered the new school gate, and the classmates were all new faces, and I very much hoped to start anew, get along with my classmates, and do activities together, but ......

Spiegel: What?

Banzhuan: Junior high school students like to compare the status of their parents, the conditions of their families, and whose mobile phone is high-end and whose is generous.

Spiegel: Every school student is like that!

Banzhuan: My mother was washing dishes in a restaurant at that time, how can I compare with other classmates? So I was isolated again.

Naturally, I can't study well in this state, let alone university, I can't even get into high school, but fortunately, I like machinery, I like cars, and I can disassemble and install complex instruments when I think about them, so after graduating from junior high school, I entered a technical school to learn car maintenance.

Spiegel: It seems that you have a talent for car repair, and this is a good job for you.

Banzhuan: In the technical school, I concentrate on my studies, and others ignore him. However, the students in the technical school are not as snobbish as the junior high school students, because the students who go to the technical school are all students who have poor academic performance in the past and have poor family conditions.

Spiegel: That's fine, don't look down on anyone.

After graduating from technical school, I first worked in an automobile 4S shop, then studied technology, and then opened my own shop.

Spiegel: Actually, you have a lot of advantages, and your heart and eyes are quite good.

Brick: But I just can't learn to make friends. Over the years, I have been interacting with people in society, all of which I have paid for others, such as inviting guests to dinner, giving gifts, helping others to work, etc., but I have never been rewarded.

Spiegel: In fact, the current interpersonal relationship does not depend on how much you pay, but on whether you have status, if you make the store bigger, make a fortune, and become a big boss one day, then you don't need to slap others, and the people around you will nod their heads when they see you.

Slab Brick: Well, that's right, so I'm working hard now. But what bothers me the most now is that I can't talk about a girlfriend, and the women introduced to me by others look down on me.

Spiegel: After hearing all this from you, I think you will definitely be successful in the future, and you will definitely find a girl who you like and understands you.

Slab Brick: Thank you, borrow your auspicious words!

Spiegel: Actually, it's not that you can't speak, you also like to talk, it's just that you haven't met a girl who appreciates you before.

Banzhuan: Yes, I would like to have a woman who understands me and talks to me often, gives me confidence, and cares.

By the way, this sister, you are the first woman I have made to say so much when I am so old, you are the only woman who listens to me, can I know you in reality? If I had a woman like you as my daughter-in-law, I would have no regrets in my life.

Spiegel: Don't talk nonsense! I understand you, but it's not possible.

Banzhuan: I guess you have a husband, right? In fact, I dare to say this on the Internet, in reality, I am as timid in front of women as a mouse in front of a cat.

Spiegel: I don't have a husband right now!

Brick: No husband? Really? It would be nice if there weren't.

Spiegel: You hear me clearly, I mean I don't have a husband now!

Slab Brick: That means you've had it before?

Spiegel: Yes, there have been before, and there have been more than one.

Slab bricks: more than one? How many are that?

Spiegel: I don't want to lie to you. I've been married five times and had two children!

Slab bricks: five? Sky! Compared to you, I'm a blank slate!

Spiegel: Scared, huh? You can't marry a woman like me if you've never been married, and even if you want to marry, your mother won't agree!

Slab bricks: I ......

Spiegel: By the way, I can introduce some owners to you in the future.

Slabs: Thank you in advance!

Spiegel: I'll do my best to help you find a girlfriend!

Banzhuan: You moved me so much! We're just strangers, why are you helping me?

Spiegel: Don't ask, it's not too early, you still have to work tomorrow, so rest early.

I believe that you, a former victim of cold violence, will have a good wife and many friends tomorrow.

Banzhuan: You make me feel no longer depressed now, and I will fall asleep with your blessings smiling!