On the way back from work, I saw that the flowers in the park were already blooming, and there were many people strolling leisurely in the fragrance of flowers, only the masks on people's faces were still making the last warning.

After dinner, I opened the marriage website and saw that two ladies had left their contact information. One from Beihai in this province and one from Wuhan, Hubei. Xiao Han first chose the latter to add WeChat friends.

The woman's online name is Pian Pian and she is 29 years old.

Xiao Han: Good evening!

Pianpin: Hello!

Xiao Han: It's a pleasure to meet the beauties of Wuhan!

Pianpin: Aren't you afraid of infecting you with the new pneumonavirus?

Xiao Han: I'm not afraid.

Pianpin: Only people who have no heart and no lungs are not afraid!

Xiao Han: I have a heart and a lung, and I am willing to share a common destiny with the people of Wuhan.

Pianpin: Come on, you dare to say this when you see that the epidemic is about to pass.

Xiao Han: Dare to say it at any time!

Pianpin: You just don't dare to do it, do you?

Xiao Han: Why don't you dare? But if I want to go, the government won't let me go, and the people who let me go are medical staff.

Pianpin: Don't talk about the government, your son won't let you come if you want to, right?

Xiao Han: I can't even see my son now.

Pianpin: Why?

Xiao Han: My ex-wife won't let me see me.

Pianpin: It's not right for your ex-wife to do this. The two of you are divorced, even if you are no longer a thing, but after all, you are the biological father of your son, how can she not let you see it?

Xiao Han: How come I'm not a thing?

Pianpin: I don't know what you are, but I know that divorced men don't have many good things!

Xiao Han: Damn! Men and women are the same, there are good and bad, and as long as there is a divorce, both parties are responsible.

Pianpin: That's not necessarily, I really didn't have responsibility for my first divorce, it was all his responsibility!

Xiao Han: So you've been divorced more than once?

There was silence for a while.

Pianpin: I just said leaky! But it's okay to tell the truth, if you dislike us, we'll stop here!

Xiao Han: I don't dislike it, and besides, I'm not the kind of person who is prone to prejudice. Your first divorce was his responsibility?

Pianpin: Of course, it's not just his responsibility, it's his mother's responsibility!

Xiao Han: People who can often recognize their own shortcomings are mature.

Pianpin: Then you say, what are my shortcomings?

Xiao Han: You haven't talked about your situation and experience, how do I know what your shortcomings are?

Pianpin: Then I'll tell you about it, if you can't tell me what's wrong, you're a puppy.

Xiao Han: Yes, you can say it.

Pianpin: After graduating from university, I went to work in a software company in Wuhan, and my section chief, Zheng Xiaochun, fell in love with me.

Xiao Han: It's an office romance again.

Pianpin: He is two years older than me, he has a strong work ability, wears a pair of glasses, and is polite.

Even though he always took care of me and cared for me, I didn't like him at the time.

Xiao Han: Why didn't you like it at the time?

Pianpin: I always feel that he lacks a bit of manly temperament.

Xiao Han: He is so young, he can be a section chief, he should have his ability, right?

Pianpian: Our department is engaged in voice-activated programming, and there are only three of us including him. He only worked two years earlier, so he didn't have much ability.

Xiao Han: No matter what, it's your leader.

Pianpin: At that time, in order to chase me, he often deliberately arranged overtime and then took me out to eat.

Xiao Han: Isn't that quite scheming?

Pianpin: I could see his intentions from the beginning, but I also like to be invited to eat.

Xiao Han: A lot of women like it.

Pianpin: He would drive me home every time he finished eating, but one time he and I both had a drink and he walked me home.

As he walked down the road, he was out of breath and blushing to the base of his ears. He touched my hand lightly, testing if I let him hold it. I thought to myself, he is so thin-skinned and so timid!

Xiao Han: Hehe, women like thick-skinned men, right?

Pianpin: I quickened my pace, and he was walking with me, and he actually hit the telephone pole and hit the bag on his forehead!

Xiao Han: Haha, I'm distracted from walking.

Pianpin: I rubbed him with my hand, and he dared to hold my hand.

Under the street lamp, he finally said, "I like you!" ”

Looking at his stupid appearance, I couldn't bear to withdraw my hand.

Xiao Han: A jerky romance began.

Pianpin: Actually, I still haven't figured out whether I loved him at that time.

Xiao Han: Love itself is not clear. Some people think that good feelings are love, some people think that missing is love, and some people think that gratitude is love. Maybe a person doesn't know what love is until they're old.

Pianpin: When you are old, you must know what love is?

Xiao Han: I mean, maybe. Of course, love itself cannot be defined, and love may just be a glorification of people's wishes.

Pianpin: Anyway, he loved me at that time, even if it wasn't vigorous. Before marriage, he did everything that ordinary people should do in pursuit of marriage.

Xiao Han: What should be done?

Pianpin: He took me to meet his mother......

Xiao Han: What about his father?

Pianpin: His parents are divorced, he has been with his mother, he has no contact with his father.

Xiao Han: A typical single-parent family.

Pianpin: In order to marry me, his house was renovated. He bought me an engagement ring, bought a few clothes, threw an engagement banquet, he gave my family a 90,000 dowry, and he took a wedding photo with me. In short, what other people's families do, his family is the same.

Xiao Han: After that, you got married?

Pianpin: Before we got married, I wanted him to let his dad come to the wedding too, but he said he didn't like his dad!

Xiao Han: Don't like Dad? If you don't like it, you can't ignore the blood relationship, right?

Pianpin: That's it! But he said that his father didn't care about him after he was twenty.

Xiao Han: What about him before he was twenty years old? His father's efforts have been cleared by him in his heart?

Pianpin: Who doesn't know that our generation is selfish?

Xiao Han: That's right!

Pianpin: After getting married, the conflicts between him and me, and the conflicts between his mother and me, began to appear.

Xiao Han: What contradiction?

Pianpin: Because her mother lives with us, it always feels awkward. And he always thinks I'm lazy, and he thinks I can't cook.

Xiao Han: From the post-80s generation onwards, there are not many young people who can cook, and the main reason is that both husband and wife work. If you let the woman cook, the woman will say why do you have to do the housework to earn money, right?

Pianpin: That's right! I came back from work with him, why should I serve him? That's what I thought at the time, so he always quarreled with me, and her mother started talking to me on the surface, but then she bullied me with him.

Xiao Han: Actually, which mother doesn't protect her calf, and her daughter-in-law is not related by blood after all.

Pianpin: Before I got married, he had such a good temper and was obedient to me, I thought he would spoil me forever. He and I had our first quarrel less than a month after we got married, and we had two arguments for the next three days, and his mother always added fuel to the fire. You say, can I still live with him?

Xiao Han: So you're here?

Pianpin: I filed for divorce less than a year after I got married!

Xiao Han: It's too sloppy, isn't it?

Pianpin: Is it necessary to have a marriage that fights all day long?

Xiao Han: Does he agree? Spent so much money.

Pianpin: At first, he didn't agree, but then I promised to pay him back half of the bride price, and he and his mother also thought that my daughter-in-law was not good, so they agreed.

Xiao Han: You really treat marriage as a child's play! It's a bit of a mess too.

Pianpin: menopause, and I haven't had a man for a long time, and I'm not mentally normal!

Xiao Han: Are you not responsible?

Pianpin: What are my responsibilities? The mistakes are all in him and her mother, marrying such a good daughter-in-law as me doesn't know how to cherish!

Xiao Han: Then do you honor his mother? Do you cherish your marriage?

Pianpin: I ......

Xiao Han: If you were him, and his daughter-in-law didn't do housework and didn't honor her mother, what would he think?

Pianpin: When I was not married, my parents were reluctant to let me work, and I didn't marry to be a babysitter!

Xiao Han: Nanny? Now young daughters-in-law say that, right? Terrible! The virus of new ideas is even more terrible than the new crown epidemic! When it comes to doing housework, it is said to be a nanny.

Pianpin: Then you tell me, I also graduated from college, I can also earn money, I don't have to marry in my mother's family, it's good, why do I go to serve others after I get married?

Xiao Han: This ......

Pianpin: What era is it? You still have machismo, are you an old man?

Xiao Han: Why did that person get married?

Pianpin: Big brother-! Don't educate me, in this era, women have themselves!

Xiao Han: What about the foundation of the family?

Pianpin: Aren't you single too?

Xiao Han......

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