"Parents are the first gentleman of children, and the words and deeds of parents imperceptibly affect children, and parents make the deepest strokes on the blank paper at their ignorant age. The good or bad of parents is directly manifested in the next generation.

The women who say that their daughters are money-losers, are you blind? You are women yourself. Say that the girls are the men of other people's families, take a good look, if everyone has a son, will your son mate with the sow in twenty years? Are you fellow women, don't you know how to treat them well? Only if you treat them well and educate them with good morals, they will be able to educate the next generation of outstanding people, regardless of whether they are men and women equally, so that there will be no unfortunate tragedies, there will be harmonious families, and there will be the back waves of the Yangtze River pushing the front waves.

I said something ugly, you have emptied your belly and lungs for me and think about it carefully, mothers-in-law, your daughter-in-law was not born to you, she was not raised by you, she didn't wear a single piece of your clothes, she didn't spend a penny on you to grow up, but she married into your family but wanted to be filial to you, why? Should she? Does the law of the empire have a woman who needs to be filial to her in-laws?

You have raised sons, and those who should be filial to you, who serve you, and who suffer from your troubles, should be your sons, and they are the ones who should be troubled. What kindness have you done for your daughters-in-law that they should serve you like biological parents? Are your faces older than theirs?

They tolerate you as an old man, and when you are old, your body is not good, and it is not easy to support their husbands, so they are good to you. Don't take their kindness to you as it should be, there is nothing in this world. The yamen should also check the rights and wrongs of the case, not because you are an old man, you can spread rumors and cause trouble, and treat your daughter-in-law as a person!

If you don't have relatives, you don't pay compensation, you don't pay tribute, you don't cede the land, the Son of Heaven guards the country, the king dies, the Chinese Empire has been around for thousands of years, why does this iron law put discord in the first place? The empire cherishes every woman, and the empire hopes that weak women will live in their own land and not have to crawl in other countries to steal their lives, but also because the men of the empire will use their strong backbones to protect every inch of the country, because the dignity of the men of the empire makes them ashamed to send women and relatives in exchange for peace!

It is the duty of the husband to protect the family and the country, and in my case, it is the responsibility of men and women to protect the family and the country. Girls, you have to stand up on your own, you have to be able to say "no" loudly, you have to have the ability to survive, even if it is to dig in the land, you have to find the ability to make your husband's family unable to insult you and wave your fist, you have to find the ability to make you happy.

In this era, women are treated harshly, so you have to seek the mind to be able to live well no matter what the circumstances, don't you want to see the outside world? I don't want to get out of this mountain, whether you choose to teach your husband and children or go alone in the future, whether you choose to be plain or glorious, as long as your choice is not forced, but to obey your heart and go on without shame, because the heavy responsibility of the next generation is on your shoulders, and you have a long way to go.

The Empress Wangtian used her exploits to exchange her feats for the glory of women, and you must also live your value to live in vain as a daughter!

In this life, a woman depends on others, she has to look at people's faces, and she has to look down on others, and only by relying on herself can she be fearless and always maintain her confidence.

Remember, even if you get married, don't give the responsibility of good or bad life to others, he doesn't owe you happiness, why should he give you happiness? Is it because I married you? The idea of marrying a man and marrying a man to dress and eat was thrown away early, why should others support you? If you are supported by others, you must be prepared to be abandoned one day. ”