188: The premise of filial piety

"Husband and wife are complementary to each other.

The concubine, the color also, the color does not exist, and love will be attached! In the final analysis, it is just a plaything for men to relax in their spare time. The concubine and the concubine are the flesh and blood of the husband, at most more than ten years on their respective marriages, neither can inherit the family property nor take away the family wealth, if the marriage is good, it is a help, why not be tolerant to them when you are at home, be kind, a tea and a meal, a dress and an ornament, and how much does it cost? Only people with small doors and small households will fight back and forth, and they will have no home.

The husband is honorable and the wife is noble, and the wife is virtuous and the husband is less troubled.

My daughters, what my father expects of you, my father can only do his best to let you have more choices than the women next to you, so that you can have wisdom, love, love, protection, feel sorry for yourself, and always put yourself first.

Even if you don't get the favor of your husband, but you can be respected and get the power to run the family, if you don't want these and live a happy life, you still have the confidence to choose and leave, and have the courage to live well with your children.

My mother remembered my grandfather's words, and from then on she was hungry for knowledge in books, and learned how to behave in the world from her travels, and then she chose a person who was mutually pleasing to her, and gave birth to nine children.

My mother still finds time every day to read, write, and learn about what interests her.

Every generation pursues something different, so do you still want to live like your parents?

I want to say to you that anything that happens in the house without touching the law is called a family matter. Home is a place of love and tolerance, and it is something that men and women work together to accomplish.

Men, when you marry wives and have children, and it is your wives who share the hardships and hardships with you, and only they will always stay by your side regardless of poverty, hunger, cold, and sickness, then you can't protect them from grievances and give them a little care and love? Is it a shame to protect your wife?

The law of the empire is that a woman may propose a divorce to a man and receive half of the marital property, except for the woman's dowry, men, do you know? Your fists should be aimed at the outside, not at home, and if your upbringing makes you really unable to hold back, go up the mountain and open up the wasteland, and use your strength to exchange wealth for your family.

Filial piety comes first, but it has a premise," Hua Pei Qingyu glanced at the audience: "The old man is virtuous, and the children and grandchildren are prosperous." The old man is not virtuous, and his children and grandchildren suffer, and the disaster affects three generations. Don't rely on the word "old man" to make waves without scruples, but all those who are not in harmony with their husbands and wives are mostly pointed at by their in-laws to see what you can do.

are all separated, where can they be so idle and be a demon? Do wrong? Do mischief? The well-fed east head and the west family are short! The son does not teach the father's fault, do you want everyone to come to see your family style and virtue?

You are a student of the academy, and I ask you: What if the neighboring Goguryeo pointed fingers at the Chinese Empire, interfered in the internal affairs of the empire, and harassed the border gates? ”

Hua Pei Qingyu pointed to the students who were close to him in the front row and asked.

Student Xi gave a student salute first, and then replied loudly: "Of course, I will not hesitate to call back, and those who offend me will be punished even if they are far away." ”

"That's right! In the same way, live your own life, eat your own food and take care of other people's family affairs, don't you think you have lost a lot?

Children do their due responsibility, the elderly do the duty of the elderly, exchange sincerity for sincerity, and is it not good to be harmonious? You must know that the person you hated at this time, and the person who served you while you were slumped in bed was the same person whom you did all kinds of evil to her. Do you have to wait until you die to go to hell to torture before you regret not being a good person? ”