However, Tian Guifei's current second brother and sister-in-law, they don't treat their daughters like this. They really love their daughter Qin Xiaoju very much.

On the one hand, the three brothers of the Qin family, the second family of two, have only one daughter under their knees. The implication is that the son is also "her", and the daughter is also her. Anyway, there is only one child, Qin Xiaoju.

On the other hand, it is the second of them, obviously among several brothers. Their behaviour and way of thinking are obviously slightly better. After all, the two of them are much smarter than the eldest and the elder. They also know that it will rain and their mothers will marry.

Sooner or later, the girl will be married to someone else. But to whom and how? There is definitely a way to pay attention to this. It's not that he is a scumbag, so he marries his daughter. Doesn't that push the girl into the fire pit? didn't say that the other party had three or two stinky money, so he recommended himself and went to kneel and lick others in vain. Love is not something you can buy if you want to. The fate of two parents who don't really love each other, the words of the matchmaker. Marry your daughter to someone else. Isn't that a very undignified life for a girl to marry?

The two of them are also from the past. They know that the views of sons and daughters on mate selection are different.

For men, whether it is a high king, or a beggar in rags, whether it is a stinky boy who has not dried up, or an old man who is dying, they all think the same. That's what you want is a beautiful woman. There is no normal man who does not like beautiful women.

However, there is still a difference in women's concept of mate choice.

Except for the little girls in the cardamom years, because of the lack of life experience, they deliberately think about love too beautifully, women with a little experience, their concept of mate selection is often from a realistic point of view.

For example, a man's character and background. And the living environment. This is the scope of a woman's examination before she gets married.

Because, after a woman marries, she often needs a happy harbor. What is often needed is a stable environment. Instead of being upside down, following men to endure hardships.

The second Qin Bao is a family of two, after all, they are also smart people. They know that the most critical element in cultivating their daughters is vision, and they must treat their daughters as their heads.

When a girl is in her mother's house, she is very tired. Then in the future, even if you go to your in-law's house, it is easy to develop a weak character that is submissive.

Female babies who often work hard with their parents. After arriving at his in-law's house, he was still very hard. It's not because he's born to work hard. It's because her vision is not high, but she has developed this kind of hard-working servility, and at the same time, the way of looking at problems is relatively one-sided and simple.

However, if a girl follows her father, she will be more favored and loved. Then at least her starting point in life will be much higher than that of other girls. At least her vision will be much higher. If Wu Dalang didn't send a baked cake for nothing, she was overjoyed and followed others.

The second Qin Bao is a family of two, and they also have a lot of experience in educating their daughters, and they know that the happiness of their daughters' lives often depends on their family background.

If a girl's father is very good, then her vision for mate selection will not be too bad. Because of the bits and pieces in life, how to get along with men? Many things can often be seen in the father. At least the ghostly routines of the scumbags will only coax the kind of little girls who don't know current affairs. However, for everyone who has been pampered since childhood, it doesn't work at all, because of the routine used by scumbags, smart girls are not surprised, they just don't want to say it.

The second Qin Bao and his family think that their daughters should be rich, of course, it is not infinite material satisfaction. It's spiritual nobility. At least let her feel loved and pampered from an early age.

Because there is a generation gap in communication between generations.

The two of them, Qin Bao, felt that the way to educate their daughters was a positive operation.

Of course, their education method made Qin Xiaoling's grandmother He Shi worried and dissatisfied.

Mrs. He thinks that the education method of the second son and the second daughter-in-law is just fooling around, and they are pampered as they are now. If the granddaughter goes to her mother-in-law's house in the future, she will definitely be counted out by her mother-in-law's family and lazy, and if she doesn't let her granddaughter suffer now, then she will suffer in the future. Now, let life hone her more. After going to my mother-in-law's house, I will have the responsibility and the ability to take charge of myself.

However, the two of them disagreed, they refuted the old lady He, they said, although it is natural for a girl to marry. However, when a girl got married, she used to find a harbor of love. It was not given to others to be used as cattle and horses. As long as the girl has basic tea and rice, she can control it. There is no need to treat the girl as a son, she has to carry it on her shoulders, this is not necessary. Moreover, it is not fair to the girl.

The old lady He, in line with the perspective of people who eat more salt than you eat, and who have crossed more bridges than walked, have made a lot of attacks on her son and daughter-in-law.

He also took the life of her father, who was Qin Bao's grandfather and grandmother, doing housework and farm work when she was a child, as a realistic teaching material, and told her son and daughter-in-law about it. thinks that the education method of the two children is pampered. It is to give them the Qin family a dark touch.

The second Qin Bao felt very aggrieved. After all, the two of them only have one daughter. So all the love is given to the girl, and there is no problem at all. However, the old lady was still in the spirit of secular prejudices. It's just a little bit ""don't wait to see" "granddaughter Qin Xiaoling." And the idea of patriarchy is still deep-rooted.

Because the old lady He taught her children with this attitude. He felt that his daughter also needed to be honed. In this way, when I go to my mother-in-law's house, I can not be bullied by my mother-in-law's family, and I can eat with a straight waist.

The old lady He treats her daughters-in-law relatively loosely. However, treat your own daughters and sons, or treat your grandchildren. Her attitude is relatively straightforward. That is, to be strict with children. Strict is love, loose is harmful. If there are no strict requirements and living standards for children, then children will not be able to grow up healthily.

Therefore, He reminded his sons and daughters-in-law more than once. Educate your children with some care.