15. Reasons for different perspectives

Don't let the dolls develop the bad habit of stretching out their hands for food and opening their mouths. We must let him learn to be self-reliant from an early age.

I didn't expect my sons and daughters-in-law to be very filial to my mother. However, when it comes to the next step of education, it's not just the second son and second daughter-in-law. Including, the eldest son and daughter-in-law, and their attitudes are the same. That is, the mouth promised to be very sweet. However, he still did not follow the requirements of the old lady He to educate his children like that.

Because, the eldest Qin Sen, including the second Qin Bao, they also grew up with hardships since they were children. Therefore, they can also feel the difficulties of their children. I don't want my children to experience the warmth and coldness of society too early, and I don't want them to suffer too much. As long as the children can grow up healthy and healthy, that's it.

For this reason, the education methods of sons and daughters-in-law are self-contained. I am not interested in the old lady He's old-fashioned educational concept at all. So, there is a bit of a taste of yang and yin.

The old lady He couldn't get used to the pampered attitude of the two of them towards their granddaughter. More than once, she refuted and complained to her son and daughter-in-law, and once, she even became angry.

The old lady He was furious at that time:

Why can't a girl work? Not working now. Is it true that when you go to your in-laws' house, you go to enjoy happiness? To be Mrs. Kuo? We're workers. Labor is the most glorious.

Maybe I think the old lady said too many times. Maybe I think what the old lady said is a little pale. There were several times when the second child, Qin Bao, couldn't help but talk to the old lady. In the end, the mother and son broke up unhappily.

Later, the old lady He sighed. He said to himself:

My old woman is getting old. It's too busy. No more in the future.

Although, the old lady said so, but she usually saw her granddaughters and grandchildren have something indecent. Maybe do something that she doesn't think is right. She still disciplined. Sometimes he even disciplines his grandchildren in front of his daughters-in-law, scolding them when they scold them, and count them when they fall.

The old lady Ho's view is that both her sons and grandchildren are her dearest people, and it is her duty and responsibility to discipline them.

Of course, she just loves and hates her children, including her grandchildren.

OK.

Qin Xiaoling's mother, Fei, is not a woman with soft ears, and she doesn't listen to what Qin Xiaoling's grandmother He said at all.

Fei is a very flamboyant woman. Therefore, in the usual ears, the girl Qin Xiaoling is not a good girl in the traditional sense, on the contrary, she is very assertive. You can do what you want, and you can say what you want. and not be bound by those hypocritical three obedience and four virtues.

"Not really!" Qin Xiaoling said in a very high voice. Just now, she was indeed choosing vegetables with her aunt Qin Ju. When I picked the vegetables just now, it was obviously my aunt Qin Ju who picked them in the wooden basin. She just mixed it up. Now grandma thinks that the cabbage is not clean. It was my aunt Qin Ju who was originally counted. I didn't expect my aunt to throw the pot at her.

This made Qin Xiaoling very unhappy, although the relationship between the two aunts and nephews was still very harmonious. She usually likes this aunt Qin Ju, who is not a few years older than her. However, on the issue of principle, Qin Ju is not sloppy at all, why should her aunt do something wrong and shift the responsibility to her. If you play like this, will you be able to play together in the future? It's too much. Qin Xiaoling secretly thought in her heart, she didn't carry this pot.

"Anyway, if you don't pick the vegetables cleanly, you just can't do it. Whether it's your pick or your aunt's pick. It doesn't matter anyway. The important thing is that you're all big girls already. Sesame mung beans can't do any small things. It's also embarrassing to prevaricate with each other here. The old lady He was obviously a little unhappy.

The old lady He does not favor her daughter Qin Ju or her granddaughter Qin Xiaoling. Rather, it holds the view that the palms of the hands and the backs of the hands are all meat. The aunt and nephew each played 50 boards.

Since, both people are unwilling to bear the mistakes, they both blame each other for their mistakes. Not with this. You can't admit your mistakes openly. This is originally a mistake, as her daughter and granddaughter, she has been shirking responsibility since she was a child. Well, she just needs to be able to struggle for a day. She wants to blame the younger generations for these bad habits. Avoid them going astray. Necessary criticism, for Mrs. He's old lady, she feels that this is another kind of love for the younger generations. That is to let them be right and straight from an early age.

However, the two aunts and nephews were still chattering and entangled with each other. Although, because of the adults, it is impossible for the two big girls to be fully martial. Because, they are closely related to each other. Between each other, it is impossible to accuse Sang of scolding Huai. However, unwilling burial and complaining are inevitable.

"Ling Wazi, I've told you several times, you just don't listen, these toon leaves, as long as the most tender buds, the leaves are relatively hard, and the petioles behind the leaves have to be pinched off, and you don't listen. At this time, he complained that I was coming. This time last year, when I was cooking, I made all the toons and vegetables. Why didn't your grandma criticize me? ”

Qin Ju usually looks good when she is pleasant, but when she is angry, she has a pair of eyes, and her eyes are gurgling, not to mention that there is a breathtaking power, and her eyes are full of the shadow of the old lady He.

Of course, Qin Ju, as the daughter of the old lady He, has the shadow of an old lady, which is also completely reasonable.

Qin Xiaoling is usually pampered by her parents like a princess of a country, so she is lazy in life. Clothes come to stretch out their hands, and food comes to open their mouths. In short, her hands-on ability is very poor, but she also likes this, her aunt Qin Ju, who is not much older than herself.

Qin Xiaoling, if you have something to do, go to Qin Ju's side to join in the fun.........

In fact, her aunt Qin Ju also loves her because of blood relationship. Actually, I also feel that my niece is too lazy and not very good.

Sometimes, in order to please her aunt, Qin Xiaoling will also be attentive with peace of mind. Helping my aunt with everything is like a fart.

Although it was her niece, Qin Ju felt that her niece Qin Xiaoling was too stupid. It's really stupid and cute, a pair of white hands, as if they wear gloves all year round. It's not the material for work at all. A ten-year-old child, I don't know how she can be so stupid.