"For example, if you say that you are a girl who is beautiful, has good grades, and has a good family background, you will be very happy at first. But when you find that no matter how hard you try, you can't seem to be as good as her, I still can't accept it. ”

"A typical big man with an inferiority complex."

"I don't believe that if a girl is paid several times more than you, you will have no idea."

"If she has the strength, I don't think there's a problem."

"Well, we can't prove that argument right now, so I'm not going to argue with you."

"I want to find someone who has a plan for his life, instead of indulging in material comforts or his own face all day long."

"Huh. What a high ideal. Sanjin was a little unimpressed.

"Isn't it?"

"We are all laymen, we like it if we like it, we don't like it if we don't like it, we don't pay so much attention to it. Why do beautiful girls have to be very superficial, when you compare your appearance with your ideals from the beginning, you already have a certain prejudice against certain groups of girls.

Can't a girl with ideals spend time and money on material things? Or do you think that only ordinary-looking women can be wise? ”

"I didn't expect you to see it so clearly? I'm a little ashamed. ”

Zhao Xin pulled the back chair to Bai Feng's side, and suddenly looked serious.

"You think you've seen it all, but you're the insider. Some girls pretend to be gentle, innocent, and weak, do you think those boys can't see it?

Your sweet brother, the person who is called is happy, the person who is called is also happy, everyone is happy, isn't the society very harmonious? Do you have to be like you, are you sure I'm older than you? Maybe you're my sister? This way of speaking is unpleasant to everyone in the end. ”

"I'm not so white-eyed."

"You're pretty much there."

“......”

"So, you stuff."

Sanjin pointed his finger at the contents of the computer screen.

"How much is what others want to tell you, and how much is true, can you really judge? This kind of data collection and analysis was not rigorous from the beginning. ”

"So what do you say?"

"Of course, it still depends on getting along with each other! No matter how perfect a woman is, you may be discouraged by one of her mannerisms. ”

"I'm planning to go back as soon as possible. For developers, foreign jobs do have access to a lot of front-end technology, but in fact we don't play a big role. ”

"But don't worry too much, maybe you can meet a pleasing foreign girl at work tomorrow, and you don't necessarily have to go back to China to find it." Sanjin smiled and said, "Besides, don't you make yourself seem like you want to get married, okay?" It's going to scare people. ”

"Today's girls don't want to find a reliable one, can they get married as soon as possible? I thought that people like me should be married as the premise, so I have never avoided the topic of marriage. ”

"Then you'd be wrong. Girls don't get married when they reach the age of 30, it seems that they can't find a partner, but in fact, to put it bluntly, they don't want to get married. ”

"I don't understand."

"Do you know why men don't get married when they reach their thirties and forties, and there is less pressure on the social level than women?"

Bai Feng thought about it, didn't intend to answer easily, and shook his head.

"Well, because men's economic conditions are generally better than women's, in the case of traditional families, there are parents who save money to marry their wives in the back, and there is no such thing as old age and decay, and there is no problem of having children at the right age."

"So what?"

"If you look at it from this level, if a woman, her economic conditions are not bad, and the property of her parents in the family is ultimately all hers, although she is over 30 years old, her appearance is still in the state of 20 generations. As for children, let alone having children, they may not be interested in children at all. ”

"Hmm..."

"She is married, and she has to take care of another person, and even think about having children for him, which is equivalent to taking care of at least two people. If you can't give her enough to wait, why should she marry you? ”

"How do I feel that you suddenly seem to be very thorough? Did you go through something? ”

"It's... I think it's a very real problem that at least as a modern person of school age, you have to understand. That is, most of the superiority is just what you think, and it does not mean that it is true. ”

"So you analyze, what is the mentality of the girls who are willing to go on a blind date with me now?"

"Since you are so sincere in asking, I will reluctantly answer you."

"you." Bai Feng gave three gold glances.

"First of all, they don't have to be voluntary. In the first case, you have to convince her of the benefits of her marrying you. ”

"Of course, I don't deny it."

"Secondly, there are those who think they are very good and want to find a better man to marry, so they hope that they have a boyfriend overseas."

"Uh..."Why is it getting more and more not on the right path.

"Moreover, it is fantasy love, most of which are the sequelae of watching too many romance novels or TV series, and I want to find someone to simulate love."

"Isn't there a normal person who wants to get married on a blind date?"

Bai Feng couldn't listen anymore, and couldn't help but ask on the way.

"If you want to get married, will you still wait for you?"

This time it was Sanjin's turn to roll his eyes.

"Forget it, I must have been blinded by something just now, so I thought for a moment that your image was a little tall."

"You believe me, you're going to go through a long phase, and you're going to slowly doubt yourself..."

"Okay, okay, if I listen to you again, I really doubt myself."

"Look..."

Sanjin was ready to give up, turned his head and prepared to continue his work.

"You're obviously still a single guy, how could I be so naïve as to think of listening to you."

"Me? I have a girlfriend. ”

Sanjin suddenly turned his head and looked at Bai Feng with curious eyes.

"Huh?! So you've been yelling all day long about finding a girlfriend? ”

"Don't you know the first do's and don't you know about the rules of dating?"

"Who invented this joke?"

"Don't believe guys who say they don't have a girlfriend and girls who say they have a boyfriend."

“.....”

"Are there many more precautions like this?"

"Of course."

Obviously, Sanjin is very proud of himself.

"Forget it, I think if I listen to it any longer, I will be led away by you."

Bai Feng glanced at what was written on the computer monitor again, although he didn't want to admit it, but more or less, he felt that he was indeed a little bored. Especially when looking at those hobbies, most of them first say that they have no interests, and when asked, they will simply answer that they occasionally listen to classical music, like to travel and read books.

"I suddenly sent a guideline as well."

"Oh?"

"Girls who haven't married at the age of 30 like to say that they are boys and are not welcome."

"You're starting to get to the point."