Chapter 12 From a colleague to a friend.
Jenny nodded, her eyes looking a little different from when she first came in.
"I'll apologize to everyone when I go out."
"I'm glad you think so."
"If I still can't get along well with everyone, can I still find you?"
"I'll let everyone get along with you, and when they come in, I'll have my own way."
"It feels like your routine is deep."
"In these days, if the brain is used in the right place, it will be smooth, and if it is used in the wrong place, it will cause public anger. My routine is not deep, in the past, because of all kinds of naivety, those lost were deep. β
"Definitely. Then I'll go out first. β
"Okay, adjust your mood and call Amy in."
"Hmm..."
Bonnie continued to keep her head down at this moment and slowly took out her phone. I probably basically read all the unread WeChat messages, and then replied to a few more important messages. There were sporadic knocks on the door.
"Please come in. Why are you here to join in the fun? β
As soon as Bonnie looked up, she saw the creek.
"Someone can apologize, she wants to see how you brainwash me."
"If I can brainwash, the first one won't wash you into a hard-working little bee?"
"Hee-hee."
"Get me something to drink, just ice."
"Wow. Right away. β
"You're not really going to brainwash me, are you?"
Amy glanced uneasily at the creek's back.
"Sit down, it's like the real thing."
"Xiaolan, listen to me."
As soon as Amy sat down, she couldn't help but open her mouth.
"You say, you say."
"We didn't really bully her."
"I know."
"You know? How would you know? Did anyone tell you? β
"Amy, if you're going to bully a newcomer, how can you be so low-key? It's been known to everyone for a long time, right? β
"That's it." Amy jerked back and leaned her entire weight back in the chair.
"That's not right!" Amy jerked into Bonnie's eyes again.
"Don't get so excited..."
Bonnie tapped Amy lightly on the shoulder.
"Anyway, I might sometimes look at her unpleasantly. Then speak somewhat directly. As a result, she thought that I had formed a small team and deliberately alienated her. β
"As expected..."
"First of all, I'm not that boring, am I? In addition to occasionally complaining about her clothes, I didn't give her snacks when I brought them to the company, and I didn't call her when I went out to eat, and..."
"And huh?"
"Almost, it's all trivial anyway. But I really can't get close to her, and I get angry when I look like she looks like someone owes her. β
"You can be quite strong sometimes, that's the truth."
"Do you think so too?"
"Not long after she came in, she was not familiar with many things, and naturally many behaviors were cringe, which is normal. When I first joined the company, I didn't dare to talk to you. β
"Why can't I see that?"
"That's when I was embarrassed. But in fact, not many people can be as shameless as me. Bonnie laughs.
"So how did you convince her to apologize to us?"
"I told her shamelessly, if I can't persuade her, I will be very faceless, let her give me this face."
"No kidding. It's not funny at all. β
Suddenly, there was another knock on the door.
"Well, I should say that our group doesn't have a lot of face. Come on in. Amy looked down and couldn't help but snicker.
"I was going to get you a drink from the fridge just now, but it didn't work, and Jenny ran out to buy this for you."
Creek placed a jar of juice on the table.
"She also bought a lot of them and shared them with everyone."
Brook placed another can in front of Amy.
"Are you really going to brainwash? What's going on? β
Amy looked at the juice in front of her in surprise, a little incredulous.
Bonnie slowly opened the juice and looked calm.
"Is it difficult for one person to have a good relationship with another person?"
"Isn't it difficult?" Amy turned to ask Brook with a confused expression.
"As long as the person has friends, it's not difficult."
"Hao Xuan...," Xiaoxi turned to look at Amy again, "Are you all talking at such a high level?" β
"It's not... Just a second before you came in, we were still discussing the topic of shamelessness and shamelessness..."
"Uh-uh..."
"Jenny has always felt that you don't welcome her and are hostile to her, so invisibly, her emotions gradually changed from cowardice to a little strong. And Amy, some of your actions from time to time have further contributed to this emotional outburst. β
"I... Me? β
Of course, you may have the right to choose to be friends with your colleagues, or you may have the right not to choose to be friends. That's what I told her. The most important thing is that you want her to be at least at the level of your colleagues.
Obviously, from what you just said, you do not like her very much, so her instincts are correct. β
"But I didn't bully her. Why does she always look aggrieved. β
"In Japan, you also call it 'workplace harassment', okay?"
"Uh-uhhh
"Don't you know that 'cold violence' is also a means of bullying?"
"'Cold violence' is a bit exaggerated, isn't it?"
"It depends on how you define Luo."
"Do you think I am?" Amy looked at the creek.
"All I can say is that it's easy to tell which colleague you like and which colleague you don't like on the surface."
"Even so, can't I choose to get along with my more compatible colleagues?"
"Yes. Absolutely. Seeing that Amy seemed a little excited, Bonnie opened the juice in front of her and handed it to her again.
"Actually, you and her, you're not wrong. I appreciate that you live openly and honestly, and you don't hide the likes and dislikes of the people around you at all. So, actually, I don't have anything to say to you. β
"Huh?"
"I just want to say, Jenny, after all, it's not long after all, what do you think of her, can you be more objective? Or if you have any grievances against her, can you be more sincere and say it directly? That way, she won't be guessing what you're thinking all the time. β
"Actually, I don't really hate her, I just think she's a little out of place with us."
"It's normal, when I first came in, I also found it a little difficult to get along with you old fritters."
"Bonnieβ" Creek looked at Bonnie with some surprise.
"But I just think that I didn't get along well afterwards?"
"We have such a hard time getting along with each other?"
"Actually, to be honest, I don't feel comfortable getting along right now."
"What?!"
"Calm down. When I say it's not easy to get along, I don't mean there's anything wrong with you. I just think that the relationship between people needs to be maintained with a lot of effort in the first place.
Also, it's like falling in love. You don't like it at first, but you may get along and feel acceptable, and this possibility is also possible, right?
Some people may fit your standards perfectly, but they may fail you elsewhere.
You can see it now, Jenny wants to try to change, are you also giving me a face, and I should get to know this person again when I go out? β
"You are indeed very brainwashed, I have nothing to say."