Bai Tian is the same as Ning Qian, when he holds his son, he stares at his sleeping little face that is sometimes smiling, sometimes aggrieved, and unpredictable, happy and emotional. He used to think that having children was a natural law of human beings and even the animal kingdom, and it should be ripe and natural, but he didn't expect that when it was his turn, it would be so thrilling. His wife and son have become the most important people in his life, and he is embarrassed to tell his mother during the day, and from the first time he saw his son, he only cared about revolving around his wife and children......

As soon as Ning Qian saw Bai Tian's expression, she knew that he had forgotten to say it, and quickly took the phone: "Mom, the baby has been born, a very cute and healthy little boy." I didn't tell you in time because my body was a little weak before, and I was afraid that you would be worried during the day. Now it's all right, you can rest assured. Congratulations to Mom on being promoted to Grandma! The laughter of the mother on the other end of the phone in the daytime shocked the two of them to put the phone on the coffee table and smile at each other.

"Great, great! I'm a grandmother! I gave birth to a son by day! The Bai family has a queen! I'm worthy of your dad! ”

"I really didn't see it, this old lady still has feudal thoughts." Bai Day, who finished talking to his mother on the phone, couldn't help but complain about his mother.

"You actually call Mom Old Lady!" This is not what the daytime can do when he was always respectful and in awe of his mother before.

"I'm a dad now, can't my mom not be an old lady?" It's really a child's courage to be a man, and when he becomes a father, he speaks more confidently during the day. A small family with children becomes more complete and warm.

Although in parenting knowledge, it is said that small babies can't always sleep with their arms, but whether it's daytime or Ning Qian, they are reluctant to watch the baby hum and chirp as soon as they sleep on their own, and always feel that he is not satisfied, so they quickly pick it up. Babies are also strange: they sleep soundly only when they lie on the chest of their father or mother. Ning Qian watched the baby lie on the chest like a kitten, hugging the baby tightly during the day, the father and son slept soundly, and felt a sweet, warm, itchy stream flowing in the heart, this stream is happiness, right?

When Ning Qian held her son, she really understood what it meant to be "like a treasure" - she had such a clear and clear goal: "Every day in the future, I will love this baby, love the baby, and it will become my next career!" She is practicing every day, constantly accumulating ways to eat, drink and laze Xiaolun more comfortable, and she is also very professional in touching and umbilical cord care. She often sighs: The mother is smarter, more perceptive, and more attentive, and the baby can suffer less!

Do a line, love a line, since you are a mother, you must fall in love with the profession of being a mother, and you must become a professional mother! - This is the goal that Ning Qian has set for herself. Every day when Xiao Lun fell asleep, she searched for various parenting posts on the Internet, looking for parenting methods and shortcuts, and made a thick book of reading notes.

When the baby was full moon, the mother still flew thousands of miles to Beijing during the day, holding her grandson and not letting go. But I still had to go back to help the white sturgeon take care of the child, and when I left, tears rippled down: "I really can't bear my grandson!" However, after the mother carefully observed how Ning Qian took care of the child, she was relieved: "I don't know how many times better than the white sturgeon!" You wife, you really found the right one, you have a way to do anything, and you have a lot of patience with children! Mom said to Daylight.

Bai Day's mother remembered that before they got married, Bai Yan gave her the key to Ning Qian's house in Guangzhou, and asked her to help clean up occasionally, she had never been to Jiang Li Garden, and called the good sisters to go with her, and the sisters were stunned by the high level of the house, and asked if Bai Tian bought it for marriage, Bai Day's mother said proudly: "Of course not, this is my family's coriander bought it before becoming my son's [Liancheng dsw.xyz] children's friend." Our coriander may be dry! ”

From the first time she saw Ning Qian, she liked this little girl from the bottom of her heart, and during the time when she was entangled by Luo Xia during the day, his sinking and pain made her look in her eyes and anxious in her heart, but she couldn't do anything. As long as the day is painful, my mother will worry about it for as long as she wants. It wasn't until I saw that he began to become positive and confident after he went to study in the UK, and he was slightly relieved. Later, when he offered to pursue Ning Qian, his mother was overjoyed, and kept encouraging him, cheering him up, and even giving advice: "Son, boys have to be thick-skinned and persevere, don't chase after them, don't give up as soon as girls refuse." You have to prove your sincerity with your actions! Mom can see that Xiao Ning likes you, but it is indeed you who are wrong, so you have to make more efforts to make up for it and love her more. ”

When Bai Tian finally said that she wanted to bring Ning Qian home, her mother was so excited that she didn't sleep well for a few nights, thought about various meeting scenarios, and asked Bai Tian and Bai Qian to cooperate with the rehearsal, Bai Tian responded very positively, but Bai Tian smiled: "Mom, Qian Qian is not so picky, very easy-going, you don't have to worry, she will definitely marry me!" Such a confident son finally reassured my mother. She sincerely likes coriander, and is glad that her son has a good eye and has found such a wife. She knew that her son had been burdened with pressure and responsibilities that were not commensurate with his age since he was a child, and now that he had found an independent, capable and good-tempered wife, he had obviously become cheerful, relaxed and more powerful.

No matter how capable his son is, he can't just do it alone, his wife must be equal, can bring happiness to his son, and can give birth to a son for the Bai family, this has always been the expectation of Bai Day's mother, and now she feels that she really got her wish.

Mom's liking for coriander made Bai Tian happy. This kind of life is what he has always longed for, satisfied and cherished, and it also makes him full of energy every day, and his work is becoming more and more handy and radiant, and soon, he received a notice: he was rotated to Shanghai by the company.

Bai Tian and Ning Qian both liked Shanghai, and immediately discussed that they wanted to buy a house in Shanghai. But Ning Qian is so busy during the day that she can't stop her feet, Ning Qian is in Beijing with such a small baby, where does she have the time and energy to go to Shanghai to see the house? Ning Qian called Polly. When they met Polly, they felt compatible, and in the process of Ning Qian's continuous dealings with Shengbai, the two of them became best friends who talked about everything. Polly is an authentic Shanghai girl, stylish, smart, patient and careful, let her help to find a house, absolutely assured. Polly was extremely efficient, and quickly searched for two real estate projects: one in Pudong and one in Puxi, and told Ning Qian the general situation and address.

When I happened to go to Shanghai on a business trip during the day, I looked at the two houses and described the general situation to Ning Qian on the phone. Ning Qian listened and said to Bai Day: "Your company is in Pudong, let's buy a house here." Bai Bai said: "This house in Pudong, the surrounding living facilities are not perfect, it is not convenient for you to take your baby to walk around, we still live in Puxi, which has a stronger atmosphere of life, which is more suitable for families." Anyway, I'm almost always on the road, and I don't spend much time in the office, so I don't have to think about the distance I have to work. "Listen to the master, buy Puxi. On the way to Hongqiao Airport during the day, I completed the procedures for buying a house and handed over the house three months later.

The family of three moved to Shanghai during the cold spring season, temporarily living in an apartment rented by the company for Daylight. Ning Qian's daily task is to take care of the baby and take the child downstairs to bask in the sun and chat with the neighbors. The small days are warm, but Ning Qian feels more and more bored. After coming to Shanghai, she had a party with friends and former colleagues, and other people got together to talk about work and social hotspots, Ning Qian felt that she couldn't interject at all, so she played with the children on the side. They pointed at Ning Qian and said, "Look at her, how did she become like this?" Ning Qian knew that they were well-intentioned comments, but began to feel strongly that unconsciously, she might have been out of touch with society.

The work during the day is as busy as ever, as long as he comes home, Ning Qian will come up and chat with him warmly, but all that can be said is what the baby ate today, how many times he pulled, and what progress he made. Except for the baby, there seems to be no other topic to talk about. Daytime is very caring, as long as he is at home, he will take on almost all the tasks of taking care of the child: bathing him, touching him, and playing with him, he looks so happy and satisfied, but Ning Qian asked himself: What he needs is just such a wife who takes care of the children at home, and nothing else can be talked about at all?

Ning Qian asked Bai Day, "What is our first relationship?" Bai Tian thought about it very seriously and said: "Lovers, people who love each other deeply and support unconditionally." Ning Qian was very moved, but said: "I hope to be friends, friends who trust unconditionally, support unconditionally, talk about everything, and even soul mates." Bai Tian saw her worry and anxiety in Ning Qian's eyes. He put the baby on the cot, hugged her tightly, and whispered, "Yes, our first relationship is best friends and eternal confidants." Do whatever you want, and I'll do my best to support you! ”

There are two mothers who start their own businesses in the community, and from time to time take their babies out for a spin, Ning Qian especially admires and envy such mothers who have the courage to do the work they like and can arrange their own time to take care of their babies, and will ask them a lot of operational questions: work from home, or work somewhere else? If it is separated, how far is the distance between home and work, and where is the baby placed at work? What industry are you doing? …… The two mothers also know everything, and the common feeling is that with a child, the idea of work will be very different from before: now no matter what, it is the baby first, work is not the most important thing in the heart, but life without work is also extremely boring.

After handing over the house, Ning Qian began to be busy decorating, taking the baby in and out every day, and after spending nearly half a year, the family moved into their own new home. Daylight gave Ning Qian a big hug, praising his wife for being really capable, but Ning Qian felt that her state was getting worse and worse: there is a popular book at the moment, and there is a theory in the book: The three people you are in contact with most often reflect your social state, and what kind of people those three people are illustrate the social circle you are in.

Ning Qian thought for a while: Baby, aunt, and a grandmother in the community who will meet when she takes the baby out almost every day - my world is only so big, even the dearest and most beloved daytime, I have been on a business trip, and I can only see about one day a week on weekends. The more he is engaged in his work and the greater his career progress, the more Ning Qian admires him and feels that he needs to improve. Although she seems to be patient, gentle, and a good wife and mother, she is already extremely anxious in her heart: "I am tired of my current life, and I want to go out to work!" ”

has been hanging in the name of the excellent family and enjoying the benefits of maternity and sick leave, so you can't be ruthless and unjust, and you can resign yourself, right? But the company really seems to have forgotten that there is such a person who eats idle food. Ning Qian thought that this was not good, and inquired: it turned out that she had really not been forgotten, Anna didn't know how many times she had mentioned it, and asked her to go back to work, and the company was also short of people, but Hanson just didn't agree.

Coincidentally, just when Ning Qian was tormented by the desire to work, Peter, the general manager of a headhunting company that she had known for many years, called her: "Aimee, why didn't you tell me when you came to Shanghai?" I don't know until now. Let's meet now! Aimee thought that she had been out of the workplace for a year and a half, and she didn't know a lot of things, and how to plan for the next step, she would definitely have to discuss with Bai Tian, so she asked Bai Tian to accompany her to meet Peter.

The three of them were in the café, and Peter enthusiastically praised Aimee in front of Daylight, as if Daylight was Aimee's next new employer. "I've been staring at Aimee for seven years! Not long after she first entered the excellent family in Hong Kong, I discovered this very special talent, and I have been trying to dig her to other places, but she is guarding a good family and will not go anywhere. Lipton's Lu Yizhu, I introduced him there, he recently changed jobs, and it is also my success story, his package this time is very tempting! ”

"Aimee, it's really time for you to change jobs! Look at you, you are not yet thirty years old, you are already in the position of general manager of the excellent family, you have given birth to a child, you can be a man, no matter what aspect, you are at the peak of your career, and it is the time to sell yourself at the best price. Now the financial and automotive industries are particularly short of marketing talents, and they also particularly like the people of the excellent family, but there are only a few people at your level of marketing, and the supply is very insufficient. This time, you must support me and let me sell you for a good price! ”

Coming out of the café, Ning Qian didn't speak for a long time, and Bai Tian knew that she must have been touched, so he thoughtfully hugged her and walked slowly with her.

"In vain, what Peter said today is all nice words, recognition of me, and encouragement to me, but why, I feel insecure after listening to it? I'm not even 30 years old, I've reached the peak of my career, and I'm going to go downhill with so much life after that? ”

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Part 3: Self-created private enterprises