She apologized to her sister, but Li Keer didn't accept it, Li Keer said: "Put away your pretense, put away your sympathy, we are all the same, we are just selfish people, and we are just by-products of my parents' love." ”

She was silent for a long time, for more than a month, and the two sisters did not say a word. Later, she finally couldn't help but tell her mother about it. It was also from that time that the mother realized how much her partiality had hurt her two children.

For the youngest daughter, her parents gave all their love to her sister, and she hated her sister, because without her sister, she could enjoy the love of her parents.

For the eldest daughter, her parents' doting made her feel very guilty, and she felt that she had snatched what should have belonged to her sister. Because her sister is still so young, she needs the love of her parents even more. The need for parental companionship and enlightenment is even greater.

Therefore, the younger daughter was disgruntled and indignant, and the eldest daughter blamed herself. Originally, the two sisters were able to live in peace, because the younger daughter knew that it was not her sister's fault that this matter. However, because of some inexplicable reasons, the two sisters quarreled, and the youngest daughter said what she shouldn't say in a fit of anger, and she was unwilling to bow her head, and the gap between the two sisters was opened.

Hearing that the two sisters had not communicated for more than a month, she really realized the seriousness of the problem, and if this matter was not handled well, the harmony of the family would never return. She blamed herself for not even noticing.

Since her eldest daughter went to high school, all her thoughts have been on her eldest daughter, from her food, clothing, housing and transportation to daily interactions, she has to ask one by one, I can't wait to be by her side 24 hours a day, and I can't wait for her to do nothing except study.

Although this is something that often happens to parents in the process of educating their children, they are so serious that they have not been improved, and they have not even noticed the emotional changes of their little daughter.

It wasn't until the contradiction broke out completely that she realized that her little daughter was no longer young, and she was no longer the little daughter she knew.

While deeply reflecting, she also began to bridge her daughter's estrangement.

While such efforts have been effective, they have also led to a number of problems. The most serious thing is that during this period, unconsciously, the relationship between the two daughters gradually faded, and family conflicts began to accumulate and become deep-rooted.

As the eldest daughter grows older, she becomes more and more resistant to her 'supervision' education method, and her life without privacy overwhelms her, and the resistance in her heart becomes deeper and deeper, and gradually manifests her unhappiness in her heart into daily interactions.

The youngest daughter lacked the companionship she deserved, felt that her parents did not love her, and felt that her sister had robbed her of her things; Resentment with my sister and dissatisfaction with my parents also gradually accumulated.

Then, because of a little insignificant matter, family conflicts broke out. But in such a smell of gunpowder, she didn't even notice it at all, and always felt that she was doing a good job and was a very good mother. In fact, she is a very poor mother, she does not know both children, and she has no good education for both children.

It happened to be a Sunday, and she asked Li Keer, "Do you want to go to the playground?" Mom doesn't have anything to do this week, so I can go with you, remember that you said you wanted to go a few weeks ago. ”

Li Keer sat at the table, holding a paintbrush in her hand, and replied to her coldly: "Don't go." You have to go yourself. ”

Such an attitude surprised her, and what surprised her even more was her daughter's drawing, the painting on it, not to mention a child in the second grade of junior high school, even if it was her sister in the second grade of high school, I am afraid it is not half as good as her.

Her daughter had such a talent, she felt that she should be allowed to learn to paint, so she asked Li Keer: "Do you want to learn to paint?" I'll find you the best teacher. ”

Li Ke'er paused for a moment, suddenly became angry, broke the pen, and yelled at her: "Are you annoying, can you bother your eldest daughter, don't let me hang around here and affect my homework." ”

She was surprised when her little daughter, who had always been gentle, became like this. She was very angry and felt very aggrieved, she gave her heart and soul for their sisters, in exchange for such incomprehension and bad words. Who can not be cold!

But she finally didn't get angry with Li Keer, and patiently asked her, "What's wrong with you?" Tell your mom that no matter what, she'll work it out with you. ”

Li Keer suddenly cried aggrievedly, and threw all the things on the desk to the ground: "Are you my mother?" I always thought you were just my sister's mom. Take me to the playground, do you know that I told you when I was in fifth grade, and I'm in my second year of junior high school this year. Did you know that I won a drawing competition in the city last year, and I've been taking classes in cram school for half a year. ”

Now, her grievances are gone. Because she didn't know any of these things. Since when did she put all her mind on her eldest daughter, and since when did she stop seeing her younger daughter in her eyes?

No wonder the two sisters have such a deep conflict, no wonder the youngest daughter has such complaints. All of this is a dereliction of duty on her part as a mother, she only thinks about raising her eldest daughter well, and caring for her younger daughter after sending her eldest daughter to college. However, while she was devoted to taking care of her eldest daughter, the younger daughter had grown up.

"I'm sorry." She couldn't say anything but that.

After Li Keer's grievances were vented, she finally felt a little better and replied to her: "Forget it, don't bother me." ”

She picked them up one by one.

Watching her little daughter pick up those things by herself, the mother's heart ached and she couldn't breathe.

She never dreamed that this little daughter would live like this and live so maturely in the midst of such heavy grievances.

And these have nothing to do with her, what she brings to her is only suffering and grievances.

Li Keer sat at her desk and continued to paint when she didn't exist. Her hands were shaking, and it took her many drawings to complete a stroke, and the paper was torn before it finally took shape, and, compared to the one she had just had, this one was simply a graffiti.

Looking at her daughter like this, she wanted to reach out to hug her, but she couldn't lift her hand anyway, and she was afraid that when she stretched out her hand, her daughter would not hesitate to slap it away.

After hesitating for a while, she still walked to Li Ke'er and stretched out her hand, and gently reached out to hug her: "I'm sorry." "Her voice was soft, sad, and crying.

Li Ke'er was stunned for a moment and pushed her away: "I want to paint, can you go out if you're okay?" ”

At this moment, this mother's heart is like a thousand cuts. It hurt so much that every breath felt like I was going to die. However, all she could say was 'I'm sorry'. However, no matter how many times she said these three words, it was not enough.

Li Ke'er still only said coldly: "If it's okay, can I ask you to go out, I still have a lot of homework." ”

Although her voice was very cold, her mother could hear it, and Li Keer really endured it.

She hugged Li Keer again: "I'm sorry, it's my mother's fault." In the future, my mother will work hard to change it, and she will pay attention to your life. ”

Li Keer said: "No need, I already know how to live on my own, I like my life very much now, just don't interfere with me." ”

How can parents not be sad to hear such words. She was only a second-grade child in junior high school, so how did she learn to live on her own?

However, she didn't dare to say a word of these words, thinking that in the past days, she had never cared about these things for her at all. She sat down next to Li Keer and asked her, "Can you tell me what your life is like?" ”

Li Ke'er rolled her eyes at her, and sure enough, she also said the sentence: "Don't you think it's a bit hypocritical to care about my life now?" I'm already fourteen years old, and I know what I'm supposed to do, so if you're okay, can you please go out? If you don't go out again, I'll go out. ”

Li Keer said it while crying, a little incoherent, but her attitude was unusually resolute. She had no choice but to go out.

The eldest daughter was sitting in the living room, and when she saw her come out, she hesitated for a while, but still asked, "Is Ke'er okay?" ”

This sister is still very good, she educated her very well, knowledgeable and gentle. She sat down next to her eldest daughter and asked, "I'm a mother who has failed a lot, haven't I?" ”

Li Ke'er's sister glanced at her sister's room, which was already closed, but she seemed to hear her sister's cry. Of course, she didn't really hear it, but she knew that Li Keer must be crying.

She hesitated for a while, but finally said, "Well, it's a failure." It was a failure to educate me, and it was a special failure for Kerr. ”

This sentence came out of Li Keer's mouth, and she could accept it, because she did ignore Li Keer, this little daughter, she owed her so much. But when it came out of the mouth of the eldest daughter, it was a little difficult to accept, in the final analysis, she ignored the younger daughter because of the eldest daughter. So, when she heard her eldest daughter say this, she almost died of heartache. It took a while to catch his breath.

"I didn't expect you to say something like this!" She was silent for a while and asked her eldest daughter, "Why?" ”

Li Keer's sister said: "Because you neglected my sister when you took care of me, you planted the seeds of selfishness in my heart, making me feel that everything in this family is mine, and I don't know how to take care of my sister at all." ”

It's really impossible to refute this, there is no doubt that she caused all of this. A few years ago, her husband said that she was too partial, and she also said that Ke'er was still young, but her sister had reached a critical time.