Chapter 674 It's better to ask
I'm actually very confused and confused about this conversation, because this thing has really suddenly found a point in time, and this point in time is really difficult for me, because I really didn't know him 10 years ago.
It's a very difficult problem to explain, very, very difficult, and it's very sad, and it's really a very big bottleneck and a bigger confusion for me.
If I only follow this understanding, then would I be the girl in my heart?
Which girl would have been 10 years ago? Am I another girl? So who would show up in this way?
Is it going to be a substitute for someone else, or whether I'm not his only one for a long time, there is a only one before me.
So for this, I think this matter is really difficult to solve, if you really look at this matter and that, I think this matter may be a more painful process for the whole enterprise.
Annana seemed to realize the seriousness of the problem, or she suddenly felt that the problem was a little abrupt, and she could only hug me and subconsciously comfort me.
"Miss Cat actually doesn't have to worry too much, these things are really not particularly sad things, in fact, this is just a joke, that is, it won't feel special, there is a question, he is rejecting me in a way, rejecting me in a very tactful way, so you don't have to think too much about this matter, and you don't need to understand these things too much."
I gave him a big smile and I want you to tell her that I don't particularly care about your problems.
In fact, relatively speaking, it is very influential here, if you follow the rhythm of the whole thing, you should not have to do it to affect your mood.
If you follow the rhythm of the whole thing, I think the matter has been handled very well, if it is really necessary to deal with some kind of detail, I think it would be better if I went to the person to ask questions face-to-face?
I said to Anna with a smile.
"It's not a big deal, this kind of thing is really, in fact, it doesn't matter what year we met, now we should cherish each other's current lives even more, so who will know him 10 years ago, no one can control a life before, this is a choice and a right to freedom in everyone's life."
Anna felt a sense of relief, maybe she felt that I was in good shape now, so I felt that there was a feeling of relaxation.
"Actually, it's not a big deal, if you're really like this, the idea is the best, because you're like you just said, 10 years ago, who can grasp it, it must appear all the time in someone's life?"
"Life will be at different stages of life, and this phenomenon means that what each of us does in this process cannot interfere with and influence others,"
"So we have to do it now, that is, to cherish each other's best life now, I feel 100% confirmed, that is actually very much like you, this is an undoubted plan, we don't want to be too mediocre in this small detail."
"You can give me another brilliant one, let me think that you think it is a very beautiful thing, in order to feel a very integrated life, hello, I believe that you can do a little bit in this regard, and you will be able to do this thing, this is what I have to confirm the whole process."
For this, I really just try to look at Anna with a big smile.
It's that I still have some bad feelings in my heart, because it is true that after so many years, I have a completely new trust in him, or a complete dependence.
Ok, I don't want to dwell too much on this matter now, because what I want to do now is still the most important thing at the moment, if I have to dwell on this kind of thing, wouldn't it become a timid and little daughter-in-law of my mother-in-law.
It's not my style, and of course you're not what I intended.
Some things have to be particularly funny, to make the whole thing very perfect, so that this thing can reach a natural level, this is what I should do, as long as I accept to complete this thing, then as long as I have a sense of responsibility to drag this thing to perfection, this is the most important thing, not to be perfunctory.
About half an hour passed quickly.
Because at this point we continue to do more of our things, and in this regard, I have to calm down and learn more from her.
Actually, I don't know how to confirm this, and I don't know how to let go, but I know what kind of way and what kind of understanding I should use in this process to do better, but I think it would be better to think about more things according to the current understanding.
Anna has now regained her memory to how to train me to speak, I don't know what she thinks, but now her whole focus is on training.
It seems that everything that happened in our chat just now is not there, or this kind of content is not particularly important, but how we arrange and arrange the things that are happening now and do them seriously.
I finally know that this thing means a result, it means an important conversation, and I will go back and deal with this matter as soon as possible, if it is dealt with, it may be better, if it is not dealt with, then the whole thing will encounter a very big change.
Anna said: "Miss Cat, in fact, you are a very smart girl, and this kind of thing is not particularly cumbersome for you to learn the difficulty factor, of course, you need to learn time, because after all, this is a professional knowledge, these times need to be slowly precipitated, with a combination of time and theory, so that you can completely master this mantissa well." ”
I nodded, and took notes as much as I could, as she tried to be as detailed as she could.
Anna said: "There is also the theoretical knowledge of this piece, we should go through it today, and we should understand what is called in and out, what is included and what is called sum. You only need to know these three specific data, how did they get these three data, how did they evolve, and what kind of results will their data separate from each other in a day? ”
I nodded.
"I know what this means, that is, after the data evolves every day, and then check with the bookkeeper, if you find a problem at any time, it may be that there is a problem in which link, right? If anything happens to this issue, let's discuss it again, and I'll check whether it's right to do it? ”
Anna clapped my hands happily and laughed loudly.
“Yeah good job! That's how you understand, if you check that thing carefully, you will find that they are no problem at all, and you will find that every time their data is made a very stable word, you can even use a drawing data to depict it, maybe it will be better, then you will be able to find all the information dynamics, and then the whole information will not be as complicated as you imagined, you can choose according to this curve, you can know whether you can make more money from trading! ”
I seem to be really confused by something, but I don't want to miss his business, because I know that this thing still needs to be practiced slowly, slowly understood, and slowly learned.
It takes a process, and I need that process to get to a situation like this.
For this statement, I think this thing is okay according to the normal understanding, if it is not understood normally, then this thing is difficult to operate, but I believe that for this kind of thing in the future, it may not really make me care too much about me, just look at the ledger.
I'm a little absent-minded now, because it's really because of this conversation with Anna, how can I relax so easily, because this has caused me a lot of confusion, and it's really a big problem for me, if the whole normal situation is concerned, then this thing really makes me more sincere.
Ah, Anna could see what I was thinking, or if she understood my current mood swings, and maybe she could understand it.
Anna said: "Miss Cat really doesn't have to think so much about this, and you don't have to worry so much. Because many things come naturally, the fate of the thing is yours, and it will eventually be yours, if it is not yours, it will not be yours. If there are really so many things, according to these understandings, then in fact, you don't have to think about it so much, this kind of thing is a very normal thing for anyone, don't take this thing as your own psychological burden, if the psychological burden under the economy, you will also feel that you are very stressed in the process. ”
I barely made her smile.
Anna continued, because he felt that this thing might be because she was the one who came out, so you thought about my emotions, and in the end maybe she would feel that she could see it, or that she had more ideas, and might want to comfort me more.
"Miss Cat, you really don't need to do these things, you have to know that Mr. loves you very, very much, there is no doubt about this, he once gave up some of the rich living benefits overseas for you, he actually likes a way of life in the West very much, but he has come all the way back to China for the girl he likes, you know? I once asked him this? ”
"Yes, I once asked him this, I asked him why he didn't want to go back to China, and he told me that there was a girl she would never give up, that was her lifelong girl, and I believe that this girl will definitely be the source of her happiness......"
I finally looked up at her, there was a sentence I had always wanted to ask, but now I finally blurted out and asked her directly, because it was a sentence that was hidden in my heart for me.
I asked, "Then I ask you, if it's you, why don't you tell you, he liked a girl 10 years ago and likes you now, if that's the case, what kind of reaction will you have, how will you feel"
Anna was beaten again for my problem, did she go, it seems that she is also a perfect girl, and she is an emotional cleanliness in terms of love and feelings.
Anna really thought about it, and I asked a question just now.
Then she carefully considered every word, told me her thoughts and one of her understandings, very carefully.
"If I encounter your situation, I stand in your position, when I hear the news, I should be sad at first, that's for sure, because every girl always thinks that her man, her husband, and her love is herself, no matter the past and the future, this is undoubted, but this is the first reaction of our girls"
"It can be understood as the applicability of our girls or as a sense of responsibility for our girls, no matter what, but this is the most real reaction, so I understand, your emotions, I think this kind of emotion is normal, in fact, there is not a particularly big problem."
"If it's like what you say, then I might ask my husband, I want to ask about this 10 years ago, because for me, I might have completely ignored him, maybe I just took it as a joke, but deep down I might have thought about it, maybe I would have asked it a little more clearly, because it always felt like a bone spur in the throat."
"However, when this bone spur is not pulled out, in fact, it is best to have some regrets, or these things will always affect the feelings of both parties and affect the trust of each other, and over time this thing will slowly form a poison, and slowly volatilize in the years......"
"If you have a lot of doubts about this question, or if you don't know it very well, I suggest you ask the gentleman, and maybe this question will clear you ...... clouds."
"It's really better for you to go here and guess what to do, maybe it's better to ask really, of course this is my suggestion, I don't know if you like this way, because I don't like to hide it."
I finally nodded, in fact, these things are also things I want to say.
In any case, understanding and knowing the truth is the best.