An'an gradually became familiar with his work, as if it used to be an ocean, and he didn't know where to sail, as if he would drown in it and disappear without a trace. But now it is like a river in front of it, although it is meandering, but as long as it goes downstream.

A girl in an office with An'an, named Yang Yan, is two years older than An'an. Compared with An'an, she is simply an old man. Every day in the office, drinking tea and playing with her mobile phone, only when the leader needs her, she will run around like crazy, wandering around in different offices.

Her favorite thing to do every day is to complain to different people that she has endless work, and even after work, she will bring her laptop home and say that she will work overtime at night. But in An'an's eyes, she only saw that she was obviously very relaxed, she arrived at the office at eight o'clock in the morning and ate breakfast all the time, and when she arrived at the hotel, she began to eat fruit, and occasionally other colleagues came to the office and might have to chat for a while.

Between the leader and her colleagues, her relationship also seems to be handled easily, and An Shore envies her interpersonal relationships, at least she imagines that if she is like her, it will not be too difficult to deal with things. Unlike her, she doesn't know anyone, and if there is really any problem, she can only find the leader.

However, she also doesn't like those colleagues, those who smoke every day, talk unobstructed, and spit everywhere, and from the bottom of her heart she still wants to stay away from them.

For the leaders, An'an kept a distance, only respectful, respectful, nodding, and gladly accepting the tasks assigned. So the leader also kept a polite distance from her.

The leader will always shout Yang Yan's name in the office, but he will never call An'an's name. Every time she called Yang Yande, she would be startled, and An'an would be even more frightened. Yang Yan always has to run to the leader's office. An'an couldn't help but think: how nice it is to make a phone call, it's too scary to shout so loudly.

If An'an needs to do something, the leader will go to An'an to set up a company, stand beside her and explain her things, or call her to run a company and ask her to come over.

There is a set set of patterns for people to get along with, but this set of patterns is more like a mirror. Everyone treats different people differently and will look different.

After a long time, Yang Yan became familiar with An An, so he began to command her. Sometimes she has a lot of files to enter into the computer, so she will ask An'an to help, but she is there looking at her phone and munching on Apple.

"An'an, you help me take this document and sign it for Mr. Liang on the fifth floor opposite, and then take it back, I'll go out later."

"Huh?" An An was a little inexplicable, why didn't she do it herself to find the leader to sign, and asked her to go? She bit her lip and wanted to tell her that she wasn't her boss, she was just in the same office, and she was in charge of different departments and jobs, and she shouldn't have been so smart about her at all, but she couldn't open her mouth.

"You can help me go, I'm too busy here, and these documents will be submitted in the morning." She walked over to An'an with the document as she spoke, and naturally put the document on An'an's desk, "I'll leave it to you, thank you!" I'm too late. As soon as the words fell, she returned to her position, facing the computer, no longer looking at An An, and there was no room for her to speak.

An An looked at the document in her hand, helpless, if she wanted to return it again, she didn't know what to do? There was no way for her to hand over her affairs to others so naturally like Yang Yan, and she couldn't even naturally refuse her request.

Because it's not once or twice, there are some things that she is really embarrassed about, and she doesn't want to face them, it's obviously not her job, but why does she do it? Thinking to herself, she grabbed the papers and walked out of the office.

Go through the hallway to another building. When I entered the door, I saw the cleaning aunt mopping the floor, and the tiles were wet and reflective. An'an stood still, looked around, walked to the side and took the mop by the wall to the door, stepped on it a few times, rubbed the sole of his shoe with the mop and tried to wipe the dirt and dust off the soles.

The cleaning aunt was very surprised, and smiled and said to her, "It's okay, it's okay!" You just come in. ”

"No, if you go in like this, it's all footprints, and you'll be dragged in vain."

"It's okay, they're all stepping on it like this, it's okay, it's impossible to mop the ground and not let people walk."

An'an polished his shoes, carefully stretched out one foot and stepped on the tile, lifted his foot to find that there was no dirt, and then put down the other foot. As I walked forward, I looked back to see if I had left any footprints.

"Slip carefully!" Aunt Cleaning said.

"Well, it's fine!"

This scene happened to be seen by the passing leaders and smiled.

An An went straight upstairs and did not see the leader. Aunt Cleaning couldn't help but say to the leader: "It's the first time I've met this kind of little girl, it's really cute." ”

The leader smiled, "If we all do this, you can go home from work after delaying it once." ”

"That's not what I meant, it doesn't matter how many times I drag it, her action makes me feel comfortable. At least respect me. You've got a good girl this time. ”

"yes."

"I wonder if I have a boyfriend?"

"What? Would you like to introduce her? ”

"yes!"

"We have a lot of boys here, and we don't have to worry about no one." The leader also quipped.

An An walked to the door of the office, and they were hidden, so he stepped forward and tapped lightly.

"Come in!"

"Mr. Liang, Yang Yan asked me to sign this document for you."

Mr. Liang stretched out his hand, and An An handed over the document to her. He frowned and looked at it and said, "This document is not right, you let her bring the document herself!" ”

"Oh!" An'an thought to himself, what a trip for nothing.

Back in the office, An Shore returned the documents to Yang Yan.

"What's going on?"

"I don't know, I said that the documents were wrong, so I asked you to take the documents with you."

"How could it be wrong? You didn't make it clear to him, just sign it. ”

"I said it. She knows it's your file, and I made it clear. ”

"Okay. Then you can help me adjust the format of this document on my computer and send it to the leader's mailbox, and I will do it soon. After Yang Yan finished speaking, he left.

It's going to be soon! This sentence echoed in An'an's mind, and she shook her head, what does it have to do with me soon? Why should I be responsible for her work, I also have my own job. After a repeated struggle of thoughts, An'an still got up and walked to her place, sorted out the documents, and sent them over.

In An An's heart, sometimes it is a matter of effort, although she knows that this is not good, but she can't help but help. It seems that if she doesn't help with this, it will bring some trouble to Yang Yan, then she will be too careless.

However, An'an's silence and tolerance only made Yang Yan more and more unscrupulous, and asked her to help with things more and more times. For all this, An'an has always dared to be angry and dare not speak.

So An'an could only talk to Regeneration about work on his rest day to relieve the hardships in his heart.

"I warned you from the beginning that you don't do anything that doesn't fall within your scope of work. The first time you said yes, she will keep calling you in the future. ”

"So what am I going to do now?"

"First of all, it's important that you learn to say no."

"How can you refuse? Am I just saying I'm not happy that I'm not available? I'm in an office with her, and it's hard to look up and see her. ”

"You have to correct your mentality, you're here to work, not to make friends and relatives, right? Don't be embarrassed, say no when it's time to say no. What you have to do is not to maintain a good relationship with her, and it is not for her to pay you a salary, colleagues are mutual, and you don't need to maintain the relationship alone. ”

"I know what you mean. But now she often asks me to do things, and I am used to it, and I don't know how to refuse. ”

"Do your own work slowly, and if she asks you to do something, you say that the business at hand is not done yet, and you will talk about it later. Anyway, no matter what she asks you to do, you can't do it right away, you have to transfer it and give her a feeling that you're not on call, understand? ”

"Hmm." Listen carefully.

"Even if you really can't help it, if you want to help her, you can only help by the way, and you can't delay your own business, even if it's by the way, you can't often do it. Sometimes you can say that I can't do it well, I can't finish my own business, and so on, and be milder, so that a tactful refusal is not so harsh. But you must not accept it silently, you must learn to say no. ”

Refuse. This is a big issue in An'an's life. Because these two words have never been rejected in An'an's dictionary. These two words have probably been ruthlessly kicked out of the dictionary of her life since she was a child. From childhood to adulthood, the life of absolute obedience to orders made her lose the ability to resist, and she did whatever people said, and she did what they arranged for her. In the eyes of her relatives, she is completely a child, honest and easy to bully.

But she's not stupid, she just doesn't know how to refuse, she just endures it silently every time, and it's actually a sad thing to endure.

"I know that if you want to do it right now, it will be difficult, but you must first know for yourself, you have to think about change, you have to be willing to listen to what I say, it is difficult to refuse, but it will be more difficult not to refuse, in the future, you will meet people like her anywhere, and even more people you can't understand, when they ask you to be unhappy, you can refuse."

"I know, I'll try."

"If you have any questions, you can call me at any time, if you don't know how to deal with it, I will tell you how to deal with it."

"Okay."