Chapter 13 How to advance and retreat
13. What is the situation
Maddie didn't think about this when he first had that kind of relationship with Shanshan, he felt that it was just an unexpected opportunity for him to have Shanshan in Shenzhen, and he had a lovely lover, so that he would not feel lonely during his time in Shenzhen. Maddie thinks that Shanshan just wants to find a lover like him, two lovers you need me, I need you, it's okay to live with each other for a while, and when Shanshan is tired of him or wants to get married when she is older, he will help her find a partner, and just marry her like her own sister......
However, Maddie didn't expect Shanshan to move her true feelings, and now the nature of the problem has changed, Shanshan is unwilling to leave him, Shanshan is not satisfied with the current lover relationship, Shanshan uses her life as a bargaining chip to give him a problem, forcing him to marry her.
This puts Maddie in a dilemma.
- Enter, Maddie has to give up the family and Yan Yu in the Northeast, and then marry Shanshan.
- Quit, Maddie has to explain the truth to Shanshan, and then break up with her.
The problem is that Maddie is reluctant to Yan Yu and the family in the Northeast, nor Shanshan, and the nest that he has been operating in Shenzhen for more than a year. He didn't want to kill himself either. He knew that he couldn't delay any longer, and he had to choose between Yan Yu and Shanshan.
The question is how to choose?
"You go back first, Shanshan, let me think about it......" he said to Shanshan.
"Well, you'll have to give me a clear answer tonight."
Shanshan left first.
Maddie herself is still sitting on the beach.
The sea in front of you doesn't care about all the tragicomedy that happens in the world, because those tragidramas are as insignificant to the sea as those little shrimps in the sea. The sea is still in the middle of the heavens and the waters. As the sky grew darker, the sea seemed to condense, and a high wall surged up in the distance on the horizon, pressing down on Maddie's heart.
Maddie continues to think that the choice seems to be many:
The first option is to break up with Shanshan now, like all managers who have had an affair, generously give Shanshan a loss of youth fee to help her arrange her future life, and from now on go their separate ways, no longer contact, so as not to have a deeper relationship with Shanshan after a long time together, and cause more pain to Shanshan......
But no!
Maddie thought to herself; Shanshan can't do it, Shanshan is not a woman who sacrifices her virginity to a man for money, she really loves you, she wants you as a person instead of money, if you use money to solve the problem, it is an insult to Shanshan, it will only hurt Shanshan's heart more, and really force Shanshan to go to the sea. It seems that it is impossible to leave Shanshan, and it is impossible not to marry Shanshan.
The second option is to go back to the northeast to explain all this to Yan Yu, divorce Yan Yu, and then marry Shanshan......
This is not good, Maddie does not want to divorce Yan Yu, because Yan Yu also once sacrificed his youth to love him, and after marriage, Yan Yu is loyal to him to that family, and he has no reason to divorce Yan Yu. Besides, Yan Yu will not agree to divorce, because Yan Yu always loves him.
Moreover, more importantly, Maddie did not dare to file for divorce from Yan Yu, because Yan Yu held an important secret in his hands, and once that secret was exposed, it was enough to destroy him a thousand times. If he proposes to divorce Yan Yu, Yan Yu, who is hostile, will disclose that secret to the world, and he will be ruined and his life will be difficult to protect, what kind of marriage and divorce can he say? It seems that it is impossible to leave Yan Yu, and it is impossible to divorce Yan Yu.
The third option is not to divorce Yan Yu, but also to marry Shanshan, which is what people call bigamy...... Bigamy! Maddie was taken aback by her own thoughts, isn't that a crime? Monogamy is now practiced in China, and bigamy is not allowed under Chinese law, even in the Shenzhen Special Economic Zone, and according to the law, bigamy is punishable by more than two years in prison. It seems that bigamy also did not work out.
At that moment, Maddie's mind was in turmoil.
Tie the knot. Divorce. Bigamy...... Bigamy. Divorce. Tie the knot.
These three distinct and connected concepts recur in Maddie's mind, intertwined into a web of contradictions that are unclear and unorganized.
Maddie mentally weighed:
Marriage involves the law.
Divorce involves the law.
Bigamy is more about the law.
And the law is unforgiving.
However, the law is not seamless, and Maddie didn't take advantage of the loopholes in the law to succeed in dealing with the Xinfang issue back then?
From this point of view, what may not be allowed in the eyes of the law is feasible in reality. The question is how to exploit the loopholes of the law.
Perhaps bigamy is the best way to resolve the triangular relationship between him and Shanshan and Yan Yu.
Because only bigamy can ensure the common realization of the interests of Shanshan and Yan Yu - no, no, it is to ensure the common realization of the interests of Yan Yu, Shanshan and him.
Maddie even thought to herself: Now that some self-employed contractors who look like dirt buns and kill pigs and sell meat have three bedrooms and four concubines, why can't I, the general manager of a dignified state-owned trading company, have two homes? I have brains and strength than those dirt bun foremen, and I will do things better.
If it's arranged, it won't happen.