Xia Yu said honestly: "My salary is like this, I can't catch up with you, I have married into your family in the past seven years, and my salary is estimated to be worth this house." The duplex building in Xuefuyuan is earned by your hard work for more than ten years, and the one along the riverside should be left to your parents for the elderly, they have been fortunate for a lifetime, and they should have a house of their own.

However, I suggest that after you remarry in the future, you may not meet a reasonable and ungreedy woman like me, and you had better transfer the house to your parents' names before you get married, so that they will not affect their stable retirement life because of the changes in your marriage. ＂

Zhang Shan was surprised that Xia Yu was determined to divorce, Zhang Shan asked: "Is it because of my angry words last night that you decided to divorce?" In the seven years since we got married, we have quarreled more than twenty or thirty times, and we have quarreled even if we have quarreled, so why should you take it seriously? ＂

Xia Yu said to Zhang Shan unusually calmly: "This is not a decision I made on impulse, this is a decision I made after thinking about it for more than half a year. Do you know Zhang Shan? What is the biggest lesson I have learned from this marriage? ＂

Zhang Shan wondered why Xia Yu had to divorce? Except for the occasional quarrel between the two, their marriage is still very good. Zhang Shan looked at Xia Yu speechless, waiting for Xia Yu's words.

Xia Yu said: "In this marriage with you, I learned that women must rely on themselves to be self-reliant and self-reliant at all times. It's because I didn't work hard enough when I was studying, I only took a 211 exam, and I chose a major that didn't make money. It's because I didn't work hard enough that the job I was looking for in the wrong industry was so average. It was only after the mediocrity that I found such an ordinary husband who didn't love me.

The result of not working hard is that I work hard despite my busy work and still have a very low income, and I have to be busy with things at home after work every day, and I give wholeheartedly to your family, and the final result is that you enjoy my contribution as a matter of course. I also have to put up with you and your mother's picky bones in the eggs, and put up with your dad's vexatious trouble.

I have been working for so many years, and I have worked with you to pay off the mortgage and buy a car and a house, and after seven years, I still ride a battery car.

The money I earn is natural for your parents to enjoy, and taking care of my parents' parents is intolerable, and I don't want to accept your family's robber logic.

In this marriage, there is a huge disparity between my efforts and returns, why should I continue in this marriage that is destined to be disappointed. ＂

Zhang Shan listened to Xia Yu's complaints, a little annoyed, and retorted: "You are still thinking about what happened last night, okay, to be honest, I was not angry last night because you gave the money to your parents, I was angry that there are still two or three months before you pay social security, you give me the money, I take it to the stock market to double, not to mention paying social security to your parents, even if you buy you a good car." If you put money in your card now, aren't you giving it to someone else to use? I'm angry at you pig brain, why are we so stupid? ＂

Xia Yu smiled bitterly: "The money you took from me still has a reason to spit it out, it is a meat bun beating a dog and never going back." I'm not as ambitious as you, I just want to be stable, and I hope that my parents will have a fixed pension every month when they are old, so that they will not be old and have nothing to rely on.

You are so blindly confident, I don't believe in your ability, if you don't do it, you will lose all your money, I advise you to be cautious, otherwise you will regret it. ＂

Zhang Shan knew that Xia Yu had always pursued a stable life and didn't like to take risks, and the two did disagree on this aspect, so Zhang Shan had no choice but to end the topic: "You don't understand this stock, don't talk nonsense if you don't understand." ＂

Xia Yu nodded: "Let's not mention this matter, remember to get up on time in the afternoon and go to the Civil Affairs Bureau together." ＂

Zhang Shan immediately stopped Xia Yu and asked, "What is the second lesson?" ＂

Xia Yu turned his back to Zhang Shan and said: "That is, marriage must not be compromised, and there will be a marriage without feelings, such as us, there is only endless disgust and quarrels." If you really cared about me, you wouldn't have relegated me to nothingness with such a critical eye. Zhang Shan, remember that you must find a woman you love to marry in the future, so that you know how to be humble and considerate, and feel sorry for that woman. It's a pity that it didn't have anything to do with me at that time. ＂

After speaking, Xia Yu closed the door of the master bedroom and took a nap. Zhang Shan looked at the door of the master bedroom, and was stunned for a long time before he got up and came to the small bedroom, tossing and turning.

Zhang Shan didn't understand why Xia Yu really wanted to divorce? It's so calm, not even noisy. Zhang Shan thought about it a lot, and he was also thinking about what would happen to Xiaoyuan and his parents if he really remarried? Is there still a sensible and considerate wife like Xia Yu?

Zhang Shan didn't expect Xia Yu to be ruthless and not want children, so that children follow their mothers most of the time, which is not in line with the routine of women rushing to cry and have children. Zhang Shan has always lived a very peaceful and stable life, but thinking of the upcoming divorce, Zhang Shan was a little scared. I just expressed my own opinions, and I didn't approve of Xia Yu's payment of social security money a few months earlier, why did Xia Yu take chicken feathers as an arrow like this, and he had to get along with himself?

Zhang Shan thought about it for a long time, and even remembered that when he first got married, his mother Li Man had just lived under the same roof with Xia Yu, and the relationship between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was still very harmonious at the beginning, Xia Yu was very diligent and filial, and his mother was also very satisfied.

But one day, his mother Li Man said behind her back that Xia Yu was not saving at all, and he was spending money lavishly. I didn't have a brain at the time, so I followed my mother Li Man's statement, and raised Xia Yu's question in front of Li Man, but Xia Yu directly slapped the table and didn't eat, scolded himself and Li Man, and argued that the mother and son bullied her. Of course, Xia Yu's noisy also annoyed him and his mother, so he made a fuss. In the end, the noisy face is red and the neck is thick, and they don't want to let it go.

Xia Yu also said very calmly: "Your family's requirements are too strict, and you have always been lenient with yourself and strict with others. Zhang Shan, Aunt Li, in the future, I will show others that I can't climb your family, it's my problem. Take advantage of the fact that you and Zhang Shan have just married and have no children, so let's get together early and leave early. ”

Xia Yu's words made his mother Li Man's face darken, and she was more afraid of it, Xia Yu directly dragged herself with various documents and hurried to the divorce. At that time, Xia Yutian was not afraid of the spicy energy that scared himself and his mother Li Man. Seeing Xia Yu's posture that he wanted to divorce ten cows and couldn't pull it back, he had to call Xia Yu's parents immediately, and after Xia Yu's parents came to persuade him, Xia Yu reluctantly accepted not to divorce.

That time, after Xia Yu's pungent temperament made his mother Li Man see it, he didn't dare to pinch Xia Yu anymore, so he had to look at Xia Yu's face and act. Since then, in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Li Man, Xia Yu's east wind has completely overwhelmed the west wind of his mother.

Zhang Shan also understood that Xia Yu had the courage to divorce at any time, even now that Xiaoyuan is four years old, Xia Yu is still so willful.

Zhang Shan was in a very annoyed mood, if he wanted to leave, it was better than torturing each other like now. Just after Zhang Shan made a decision in his heart, Xia Yu shouted outside: "Have you woken up, hurry up, go to the Civil Affairs Bureau early to withdraw your certificate, and there is still time to move your salute out at night." ”

Zhang Shan got up with his tired nerves, looking at Xia Yu who was rushing, Zhang Shan felt uncomfortable, and asked slightly angrily: "If you are a mother, you can bear to abandon your children and live a free life by yourself." You're so ruthless. ”

Xia Yu objected: "It's not that I don't care about the children, but I just let your parents take care of them when I go to work, and I will take care of the children as long as I have weekends and holidays." Compared with this father who neither pays money nor contributes, he knows how to be a shopkeeper in the name of raising him. I said we raise children together. ”

Zhang Shan clenched his fists and said angrily: "No matter how good you can speak, you can't change your sin of abandoning your husband and children for your own selfish desires." You selfish and willful woman are simply unworthy of being a mother. ”

Xia Yu snorted lightly: "What?" I'm going to be like other women crying and screaming for custody of their children, so that you can live a happy life. Why should a woman take her child to raise her child to adulthood, let your father steal the ripe fruit, and then call you father affectionately and filial piety.

Besides, these good times and adversities are tempered, why should I wronged myself to fulfill the child and you. I can't make myself happy, I can't be selfish. Let me tell you, the third lesson in marriage is that women must be selfish, and they must learn to be calculating to be happy, so I should not be a good wife and mother, but be selfish and enjoy.

As long as I love Xiaoyuan well and let her feel the mother's love, even if I get divorced, this child can grow up happily. And if you remarry, your children will live with me, what's not to do? ”

Zhang Shan listened bored, and said angrily: "Anyway, it's all right for you to say horizontally and vertically." Let's go, let's get a divorce. ”

The couple are not natives of the city, so if they want to divorce, they need to drive half an hour at high speed to get a divorce. The climate has just entered the high-speed sky, and the sunny sky and scorching summer day just now have turned into the current dark clouds, lightning and thunder. is just like Zhang Shan and Xia Yu's current mood. Xia Yu looked at the blue sky and white clouds behind him, and the dark clouds in front of him. The crackling raindrops hit the window glass and went up with the wind speed, which was quite spectacular.

Since Zhang Shan went out, he has been sullen and doesn't say a word, Xia Yu is thinking that the fate of the couple is due to this, and it will be strange to see everyone in the future. Seven years of husband and wife, in all aspects, Zhang Shan is actually good. It's just that Zhang Shan has no feelings for himself and is too mean. This is the reason why Xia Yu is cold. Xia Yu thought that it was actually quite good to have no men in this life, except for taking care of Xiaoyuan, he didn't have to serve men, and he didn't have to pay attention to his in-laws and a bunch of relatives in their family, it was so comfortable.

Just when Xia Yu wanted to live a lonely and self-reliant life after the divorce, Zhang Shan suddenly said gloomily: "You can't afford to have someone outside?" I can't wait to get a divorce. ”