Elder Zhang Shan looked at Xia Yu with a smile and said, "I knew that you would take care of yourself." Even if I didn't call and care about you at home, you would still be fine. ＂

Xia Yu snorted lightly and continued to play with his mobile phone, and then said proudly: "This gold bracelet is hard currency in any era, and it is much more solid than the bubble of your stock market." ＂

Zhang Shan no longer mentioned the matter of letting Xia Yu use money to speculate in stocks, and Xia Yu sought stability Zhang Shan also understood.

Then the couple looked at each other without saying a word, and when Xia Yu was lying on the bed and preparing to fall asleep at night, Zhang Shan, who had washed up, walked in in a nightgown, lifted the air conditioning quilt, hugged Xia Yu, and said expectantly: "Let's have a second child." ＂

Xia Yu, who was originally extremely relaxed, heard Zhang Shan's words and instantly became cloudy, broke free from Zhang Shan's embrace, sat up and leaned on the head of the bed, and asked, "How did you have this idea?" ＂

Zhang Shan directly pillowed his head on Xia Yu's lap and said: "You see Xiaoyuan is four years old now, our age is also here, it is just right to have a second child, and we will be older in a few years, you are an older mother, and older mothers are at great risk."

Many of our colleagues and friends have already given birth to a second child, we are young, and now we have two children together, which is also relatively safe, and I want a daughter. ＂

Looking at Zhang Shan's expectant eyes, Xia Yu thought that Zhang Shan's genes were good, if he really gave birth to a daughter, then his little girl should be a beautiful embryo. However, thinking of many problems in reality,

Xia Yu directly refused: "After Xiaoyuan was born, I was very tired because of work and family matters, and I didn't have a good rest, I was really tired, physically and mentally exhausted." Xiaoyuan was finally more than four years old, and I could barely relax. Now another one I'm afraid I'll be exhausted and I'll get depression. What happened last time scared me, I really don't want to have a second child. Didn't you say it's up to me? Well, let me tell you, I don't want to have a second child. ＂

Zhang Shan hugged Xia Yu's thin waist and said disapprovingly: "My colleagues have now given birth to a second child, one child is to be raised, and two children are also raised." As long as I was fortunate enough to survive a few years. ”

Xia Yu didn't answer Zhang Shan, and asked calmly: "Let me ask, have you bathed Xiaoyuan once a year?" Have you ever attended a parent-teacher conference school event in their class? Have you ever chosen clothes and shoes for Xiaoyuan?

If you haven't done anything, you'll excuse yourself on the pretext that you're busy with work, and you'll leave everything to me. Do you know why your sister and brother-in-law didn't have a second child? It's because your sister can't take care of the two children at all.

You tell me, I really want to have a second child, this child is born, who will help me take care of the child, your mother or my mother? ”

Zhang Shan said slowly: "Look, my mother has just had major surgery and needs to recuperate, even if it is too tiring to take care of the children, there will definitely be no way to help." Look, do you want to call your mother-in-law and ask her to take care of you for a few years? ”

Xia Yu hummed softly in his heart, Zhang Shan, Zhang Shan, you really have a loud abacus. My own mother has nothing to do to play and dance, let my own mother's mother take care of your family as your mother, why didn't I find out that this man was so selfish before?

Xia Yu directly refused: "My mother won't agree, I haven't talked to her for half a year, your mother needs to rest, my mother can't be trusted, you still have to dispel the idea of having a second child." ”

Zhang Shan was surprised: "Why haven't you talked to your mother for half a year, what's going on?" ”

Xia Yu said directly: "My mother knew that your mother had surgery and lived separately from us, so she called directly and said that she would not come to take care of me, and I fell out in a fit of anger, so we have not been in touch since the Spring Festival." Don't expect her to come, my brother is about to get married, and my mother-in-law is definitely going to take care of my brother's children.

Even if she reluctantly agreed to help me take care of me for several years, when she had to leave, you asked me to come back from work every day to pick up the old man first, and then pick up Xiaoyuan, and after I got home, I had to cook and supervise Xiaoyuan to do homework by the way, and when it really came time, I would definitely be tempted to jump off the building and jump into the river. ”

Zhang Shan had no choice but to say, "Isn't there still me?" Do we raise children together? ”

Seeing Zhang Shan so ashamed, Xia Yu really didn't count on it: "Counting on you, counting on you to cook, or counting on you to wash dishes?" I might as well expect you to give me more living expenses, and I'll hire a nanny to help me take care of the children. ”

Zhang Shan was a little depressed: "It hurts my heart that you talk like this." ”

Xia Yu: "Hurt your heart, you make me feel cold a lot of things, we originally had a second child, just because I was too tired, and I had an unbearable miscarriage with abdominal pain at night, and I went to the hospital to check the miscarriage at that time, what did you do?"

You actually left me and let me, a woman who had just had a miscarriage, drive home by herself. Zhang Shan, speaking of this sad incident, I made up my mind, why should I give you another child, I have had enough of this kind of grievance twice, why do you want to let yourself suffer for the idea of your so-called second child? If you want to give birth to us, then divorce, go find another woman to give birth, I wish your family a happy and happy family. ”

Zhang Shan directly let go of Xia Yu, turned his back to Xia Yu, and said a little angrily: "If you don't give birth, you won't give birth, and you actually get divorced, every time we disagree, you will be angry and divorced, you are simply too naïve." ”

Zhang Shan's desire for Xia Yu was coldened by Xia Yu's rejection, and now he doesn't want to do anything, he just wants to sleep well.

Xia Yu also understood that Zhang Shan actually wanted to have a second child, not only to catch up with the trend of having a second child, but also to stabilize the relationship between the husband and wife, but Zhang Shan couldn't understand Xia Yu's physical and mental exhaustion.

Xia Yu saw Zhang Shan sulking with his head wrapped in a quilt, Xia Yu couldn't move with emotion, he could only understand it: "You see that Xiaoyuan is a boy, and you don't have patriarchal thoughts, let's cultivate Xiaoyuan well, isn't it good to train him to be a talent."

You see, isn't your sister the only child in their family? They don't have to have a second child, a boy to inherit the family business, and inherit the family lineage. Your multimillionaire cousin in Shenzhen didn't raise only one daughter in someone else's family, and it wasn't good to train her daughter generously and be admitted to a key university.

Didn't your sister say that a child will give birth to one, and it's good to train one well. ”

Zhang Shan was still angry and retorted: "Why do you only look at others giving birth to one, you don't look at the second child in their family, I also want Xiaoyuan to have a companion." Someone to play with him, don't harass me by calling four or five times a day every time I go to work. ”

Xia Yu looked at Zhang Shan and was still stubborn, and only said: "Xiaoyuan is a boy, I will definitely have the obligation to take care of my grandchildren as a grandmother in the future, if I have a second child, if I am still a boy, the two boys in the family will definitely jump on the roof and uncover the tiles." Not to mention, because of these two boys, I may have a nervous breakdown and depression.

On the bright side, if these two boys are grown up, they will mix well. After they get married, they will have children of their own, and when the time comes, one will have two.

Let's not talk about how we get along with our daughter-in-law, I don't expect a virtuous daughter-in-law like me, but I only take care of four grandchildren, how can we have a leisurely retirement after retirement. This in-laws and grandparents have to tire us to death. ”

Zhang Shan asked rhetorically: "Maybe the second child is a girl we all want." ”

Xia Yu was even more depressed: "Give birth to a girl, we like it, your daughter must be beautiful and naturally beautiful." But a beautiful girl is a hundred times more worried than a boy, and she must be taught self-esteem and self-love, learn to protect herself, and teach her to have bright eyes and not to be deceived by boys because she is blind. It's so tiring to think about it.

Zhang Shan, you should dispel the idea of having a second child, if you really want a child, go and have sex with a woman outside. ”

Listening to Xia Yu's absurd words, Zhang Shan didn't speak sullenly. Zhang Shan knew that he couldn't persuade Xia Yu to have a second child, so he had to accept the status quo. After reluctantly reconciling with Zhang Shan, Xia Yu took Xiaoyuan back the next day.

When I left my in-laws' house, my in-laws were happy, it seemed that Xiaoyuan was not less naughty at my grandparents' house this week, and the angry grandparents were blowing their beards and glaring. I've been looking forward to this naughty leather maker coming home to find my mother.

Xia Yu and Zhang Shan live a lukewarm life like this, in fact, whether the couple is sweet or plain, they are actually living together.

Xia Yu sometimes thinks that every time Zhang Shan picks bones and poisonous tongues in the eggs to attack and criticize himself, Xia Yu begins to resist and fight back in even worse and ugly language, hurting others and hurting himself like this.

Xia Yu sometimes wonders if Zhang Shan's attitude towards himself is so cold, is it because the two got married on a blind date, the two have no emotional foundation, but they just look at each other and barely get into the eye, and it just happens to be time to get married, so the two of them make do with it.

At the beginning, the two may still appreciate each other's advantages, but as their married life continues, the shortcomings between the two are exposed.

It just so happened that there was an inevitable contradiction between the two, and as the contradictions accumulated day by day, the two would one day break out.

Xia Yu couldn't help but ask Zhang Shan once: "When you used to go to school and just worked, did you have a girl you particularly liked and were willing to pay a lot for her?" ”

Zhang Shan pulled the rice and looked at Xia Yu very strangely, how could she have such an idea, could it be that she felt that she was messing around outside?

Zhang Shan replied inexplicably: "No, I was a poor dick full of inferiority complex at that time." How can I have the right to fall in love, love is a luxury for me. ”

Xia Yu was disappointed: "Is it really not?" I've always wondered if we hadn't missed the eye when we went on a blind date, and you married a woman you loved very much, would you have humbled her in all aspects and wouldn't have treated me like sarcastic. There is no consideration and humility, no care, no care. ”