Chapter 182: The New Courtship Plan
Love on the Internet is dreamy and romantic, tormenting and cruel.
But there will still be many people who choose online dating. Because here, there is something that is lacking in our lives. Or, online dating is often chosen because it is easier to come by than real-life love.
Late one night, after Hu Shanshan finished correcting her homework, she sent me a WeChat message and asked, "Lu Xia, do you know why I like you?" ”
"Because I'm handsome!"
"You're lying to yourself? Ruthless! ”
"Isn't it? I didn't hear you like me before I appeared! Aren't you impressed by my world-class looks? ”
"Then do you know why I agreed to run with you?"
When two people in a network decide to meet in real life, there is a very important line of defense that needs to be broken, and that is trust. I think it's very valuable to be trusted by a stranger I've never met. After all, there are too many traps for this fraud in the real society, and there are countless versions of the news of Benxian in distress circulating on the Internet.
Putting that aside, even if the other person is someone you can trust, you can consider the purpose or meaning of the trip before you show up. Is it really just a meeting and a meal together? If an appointment between a man and a woman of appropriate age insists on having no other thoughts, it seems to be against his will.
Therefore, another necessary factor before the appearance of the Ben is that it is good to be blessed, even if it is a stranger who is destined to save the side, it is also difficult to take this step without a relative favor.
I don't know how much Hu Shanshan trusted me at that time, but she must have had a good impression of me.
Favor and trust are slowly accumulated in daily conversations. Your words and deeds determine the factors that the girl on the other end of the network cable makes to make the decision to appear.
Hu Shanshan said to me again: "Lu Xia, I agreed to run with you because I didn't eat breakfast, and you sent me a red envelope of 10 yuan." ”
"Yikes! It turns out that 10 can buy such a beautiful karma! ”
Hu Shanshan smiled on the other end of WeChat, and slowly snorted: "I took the 10 yuan you gave to buy buns." I had a very special feeling at the time. You are obviously a netizen who can't be seen or touched on the Internet, but you gave me 10 yuan, and I used it to buy buns. But the buns are real, with color and mouth, and after they are opened, the dish is full and fragrant......"
"So, you've decided to meet with me?"
"Almost!" Hu Shanshan paused and said: "Later, I slowly got in touch and found that you are a very interesting person." It's hard for me to imagine what you're like in real life. ”
"Now you know?" I asked.
"I don't know, because even though I like you, we haven't started yet!"
"It's almost time to start." I.
After that, my heart filled with a burst of fragrance, and I could smell the scent of shampoo in the air again.
"Da Shanshan, come to Guangzhou after the volunteer teaching! We still have a lot of places to go. ”
Hu Shanshan did not agree immediately, and remained reserved. But I slowly made a decision in my heart that I must go to Chengdu during the Qingming holiday and chase her.
may be because of loneliness, half a year after breaking up with Xia Xue, I started to continue online dating with Hu Shanshan again.
It seems like something I haven't had time to do before, and I'm going to finish it after all.
For those obscure and sensitive things, Hu Shanshan and I avoided talking about them, because we have missed a lot! In another New Year, everyone will be thirty years old, and no one wants to touch the ungraspable minefield again.
Thinking of this, I sent another WeChat message to Xu Jiaojiao: "Princess, I'm going to Chengdu." ”
"Aha, you finally think I can't do it!"
"I didn't go to Chengdu to see you, but I need your help with something"
"emmm, don't help!"
"Really? That's it. ”
"Uh......" Xu Jiaojiao hesitated for a moment, and tightened: "For the sake of the love you have called me a princess for so long, I will listen to you first!" ”
Later, I put my plan to Xu Jiaojiao, and she leaned back happily: "Hahaha, Lu Xia, you are so good, boss, I support you!" ”
Courting Hu Shanshan is a romantic scene that has always haunted the depths of my dreams. I should have taken this step a long time ago, so even after going through a lot of side events, the surging and nervousness in my heart is still difficult to suppress. I even want to tell Luo Qian and Zhou Haoran the news. Later, considering that she and Hu Shanshan were not familiar with each other and could not help much, I didn't bother them.
……
At the end of March, I returned the quick flip chat "The Sound of Lan Ruo Cicada" to Han Meimei, and rubbed a meal by the way.
Han Daqing still has that kind of courteous attitude towards me, but I don't know why, when I came to Han Meimei, my eyes were full of kindness.
Pointing upstairs, Han Daqing sat on the sofa and said happily: "Go, Meimei is reading in the room." ”
"Isn't it presumptuous?" I asked noncommittally, turned around and glanced at the maid wiping in front of the wine cabinet, and asked, "Let's let the cleaning aunt tell her!" ”
Han Daqing just waved his hand: "It's okay Lu Xia, Meimei will be very happy if she sees you." If you go directly, she will be more surprised and happier? ”
Later, I saw that Han Daqing insisted on me coming to the door in person, so I had to walk upstairs to the study with "The Sound of Lan Ruocicada".
Han Meimei didn't lock the door, I knocked lightly, and when I saw her answer, I pushed the door and walked in.
"Miss Han, it's me." I'm polite.
Han Meimei was lying on the case and flipping through a financial magazine, and when she heard this, she looked up in surprise: "Lu Xia? What are you doing here? ”
"Why aren't you welcome?"
"Of course not!" Han Meimei took the book I handed her, put it back in the bookshelf, and turned her back to me: "I was still thinking about whether to ask you to go back again?" Because as you know, my dad doesn't often allow me to go out. ”
"It's been a long time since you've been looking home!"
"Yes!"
"That's going to have to go and see, if you don't go, I'm afraid the bar will have to change its name!"
Hearing this, Han Meimei's first reaction was that the female boss was operating at a loss and selling the bar.
"What? Want to change your name? ”
"Yes! Changed to 'returned'. ”
Han Meimei paused for a moment, and suddenly frowned: "Really?" Did the monk go to see her? ”
"See! I was there at the time."
"Wow!"
Han Meimei was a little annoyed, why didn't she catch up on this occasion, it's a pity!
"Lu Xia, let me send you back later!"
"You're a drunkard, you don't mean to drink." I nodded, but I felt that something was wrong: "Will Section Chief Han allow it?" ”
Han Meimei walked back to the copy, her chin rested on the back of her hand and looked at me: "Lu Xia, my father may be trying to trick you into being a son-in-law, so if you speak, it must be fine." ”
This sentence makes me feel very uncomfortable. If Han Mimi was a healthy and normal girl, this kind of joke would definitely not be exported. The reason why she can be so unabashedly is entirely because she knows in her heart that this is absolutely impossible.
It is only when there is absolutely no possibility that she can exit without shying away.