Marriage and childbearing
Wang Yan has the idea of discussing the future, family, and children with her boyfriend, thinking that she is likely to be forced to marry, so she can only give up, and her heart is to reject marriage, and she wants to talk about it in a few years. How good it is to be in love, hello to me, how good it is, everything else is floating in the Pacific Ocean.
Yan Yan dragged her suitcase into the house, the house was empty, it seemed that her daughter went to work today. I casually sent a WeChat message to my daughter to inform her that she had arrived home.
Looking at everything in front of me, I thought to myself, I have only been away from my home for a week, my face is unbelievable, things are scattered, and garbage is everywhere, this is the child I raised with all my heart, and people in their twenties have not grown at all. Motherly heart and slight cleanliness are about to clean up a place to settle down.
"Mom, you're finally back."
"What's in your hand?" Yan Yan's eyes immediately locked on the several plastic bags that her daughter was carrying.
"Nope. It's nothing. Wang Yan tried to hide the things in her hand, but found that there was nowhere to hide, and under her mother's serious expression, all she could do was to be obedient. It was leftover from the night shift, and I threw it away and felt sorry to take it back. "I want to get my mother's forgiveness through explanation.
Yan Yan broke her daughter's fingers and put the things on the table to check the contents inside. He said to himself, "The onion and coriander in the grilled cold noodles are still raw. The fried chicken is hot, still hard, and looks like it has just been fried. The meat bun is very hot, and there are chili peppers on it, which is really worthy of your stomach. The cold skin and the seasoning are separated, and it is going to be dinner. β
Wang Yan saw her mother's posture of checking all these things, and wanted to comment on them one by one, taking advantage of her mother's failure to read them all, she quickly admitted her mistake and fought for leniency. "Mom, I was wrong."
The corners of Yan Yan's mouth curled, and then she looked at what her daughter brought. "There are also diced yellow peaches and raisins on the tart, which looks good. I bought a lot of puffs, more than a pound, you are really worthy of your figure. Frozen meatballs, greens, wide noodles, konjac and spicy hot sauce. It's about getting tomorrow's food ready. It's quite a long-term vision. β
Wang Yan was a little embarrassed, lowered her head and said, "It's okay." β
"Why didn't you die of laziness?" After saying this, Yan Yan silently recited in her heart, this is biological, not angry.
"Mom, the baby just got off the night shift and has to rest, so I'll buy something to save trouble. I went to boil water and take a bath. After saying that, I went to the toilet to adjust the water heater.
"Don't waste what you buy, eat something and then take a shower. It is easy to faint when taking a bath on an empty stomach. β
Wang Yan heard her mother's advice and understood that she had turned the page on buying a roadside stall, and her mother would not continue to pursue it. When I came out of the shower, I saw my mother eating the cold skin I bought, and immediately sat down and said; "Mom, is it delicious, the little padded jacket is warm. Be intimate. β
Yan Yan swallowed the food in her mouth and replied; "In the summer, the little padded jacket is too hot, and it's a bit heartburn."
After listening to this, Wang Yan glanced at her mouth, and returned to her room to touch the aftermath and get dressed.
"Brush your teeth before going to bed." Yan Yan shouted into her daughter's room.
After a while, Wang Yan, who was wearing a home's dress, walked out of the room, walked across from Yan Yan, and stared at her to eat.
Yan Yan put down her chopsticks, pushed the fried chicken on the plate down in front of her daughter and said; "If you're hungry, eat this, I've tasted it, and it tastes okay. Roadside stalls can eat once in a while, but not for a long time. β
Wang Yan put down the stone in her heart completely, and began to eat fried chicken, this fried chicken tastes good, she has been patronized several times, the first time she bought home, but was hit by her mother, I thought it was not related to it, but the result was an unexpected joy. The older my mother gets, the more close she is to the people, and she can eat thousands of fireworks.
"Mom, do you regret giving birth to me?"
"It's all born, and it can be stuffed into the stomach. You can only keep it, and you're living very well now. β
"Mom, do you regret getting married?"
"So far, it has been a red book, and I have no plans to receive a green book for the time being."
Wang Yan got an unexpected answer, and from this moment on, a seed of uneasiness was planted in her heart. I asked my dad these two questions, and my dad gave a different answer than my mom.
"Dad, do you regret having me?"
"I am especially grateful to God for giving me a little princess."
"Dad, do you regret getting married?"
"I'm very happy to have such a daughter-in-law."
At this moment, when my thoughts are chaotic, I especially want to ask my mother about that year. "Mom, why did you marry my dad back then?"
Yan Yan lost her mind for a few seconds and returned to her original state, and Wang Yan could see the moistness in her mother's eyes deepening. "If you don't marry your father, you will be born into this world. Little princess, you want to be a mother, give birth to a baby and let me move up the ranks. β
Wang Yan stared at her mother's series of reflections, and her sixth sense could affirm that there was a story about her parents' marriage and her own birth, and this story could not be humane, it was a secret hidden in the hearts of her parents, and she must dig it out if she had the opportunity. But she didn't expect that the moment she knew the secret in the future, the secret would change some of the thoughts in her head.
"I can't afford my income right now, and I can't afford to support it. First of all, I don't want to get married for the time being, and I don't want grandma to have a chance to achieve it for the time being. β
"I'm with your uncle in this regard, and I'm very open-minded. If you're happy, it doesn't matter if you don't get married for the rest of your life, as long as you're happy and healthy. β
Hearing her mother's words, Wang Yan felt that her mother's body exuded a bodhisattva-like Buddha light.
Yan Yan looked at her daughter's appearance, her mood improved, and she deliberately hit the child and said, "What I just said is my opinion, your father's idea, I can't change it." He seems to be particularly keen on being a grandfather. β
"Mom. You're so nasty. β
I missed my mother for a few days, and I was not sleepy at all in my mother's arms, and I told my mother about what happened in the past few days, including the eldest sister who had a miscarriage on the night shift in the unit, and the conversation between colleagues in the unit about the cost of raising children. Mom listened to her story quietly, her heart was warm, and she was a little princess and baby of her mother all her life.
"Little princess, we are only in our twenties, we have just graduated, work hard this year, study for a few months, and leave here for graduate school, the environment here is not good, you see that some people have miscarriages because they are too tired. October is just the time to sign up, let's give it a try this year. β
Wang Yan didn't want to listen to her mother's question about the graduate school entrance examination, and after graduating from college, she didn't want to read books and study again.
βstopγ Mom, I'm sleepy and went to sleep. β
"Brush your teeth."
"Got it."
"Little princess, if you don't want to give up love, you can encourage that kid to go to graduate school with you, he doesn't like art, you can take the art graduate school."
Wang Yan plans to face her mother's words with silence, hoping that she can send her thoughts in her head.
Yan Yan saw her daughter's attitude and knew that her saliva was in vain, but she understood that her daughter was still young, she had time, and everything was done slowly.