Chapter 14: The Singles Club (Part I)

Since Qinglu'er had a few hasty appointments with Gao Gujiang, Gao Gujiang felt that the two of them were relatively dull and boring to get along with. Qing Lu'er felt that the two of them got along more plainly than the green leaf tea she had brewed for a long time, and as they both agreed to end the blind date, Qing Lu'er's tense nerves due to the blind date finally stopped for a while.

After some time, Qinglu'er's family. After learning that Qinglu'er and Gao will end their further understanding, Qinglu'er encounters their painstaking education and persuasion at a family gathering.

"Isn't it good to be a good general? What a good young man, his father and your father have been good friends for many years, and they know the roots. Alas! I really don't know what you young people think. "Qinglu'er's daughter is missing.

"Two people chatting, you have to take the initiative, you have to tease, just our side is not good for you to be anxious! Do you want us to help you fall in love? Gardenia interjected.

"Well, are you really not going to continue to talk to Gao So? Can you talk to him again, old friend's child, what a child, it's a pity! Qinglu'er's father also began to admonish

“……”

In the face of repeated bombardments, Qinglu'er was powerless to resist and did not reply too much, this was a law that she had long been familiar with, and according to previous experience, silence and pretended obedience were the best way for her to be freed.

When Qinglu'er finished getting together with her family and was calm, she felt that there was a pressing emotion that seemed to erupt. The harder she tried to restrain her emotions, the more depressed she felt. The morning after being talked about by her family, Qingluer received a text message from Cher Mu, inviting her to a "singles club" to get together.

The Singles Club has always been committed to cultivating an empathetic friendship. Single people are lost from the disagreement with their relatives, and then have feelings of sympathy with the same down-and-out people, Qingluer was recommended by a friend to join the "singles club" without hesitation.

After receiving Twilight Cher's invitation, Qingluer carried the cool breeze of the Liguang season. All the way to the "singles club".

"Singles Club" is located in a creative park, walk into the gate of the creative park, turn left to the west area of the creative park, walk into the porch of the west area, and then bypass a corridor full of electronic photos of club members, you can see the big patio of the creative park decorated with moss-covered rockery, there are several streams and springs with the rockery gurgling out, several cut and connected bamboo pipes to carry the flowing water, flow into a large waterwheel next to it, with the rotation of the waterwheel and bring out the water is also flowing. The greenery in the nearby scenery also began to show its emerald green color, and they were accompanied by one or two birdsong songs, which looked vibrant and elegant. Qingluer passed through the patio and went to a corridor, the corridor connected to the hall, and some indoor plants and flowers also decorated the hall with extra elegance and warmth. There are a few people sitting in the hall, and even if they are talking, they are all whispering, which makes people feel that the whole atmosphere is extraordinarily comfortable and quiet. Qinglu'er registered at the front desk in the hall and walked to the agreed chat room.

Qing Lu'er gently pushed open the door of the chat ventricle. Finding that the party had already begun, and one of the members was giving their opinion, Cher noticed that Qingluer had come in, waved at her, and motioned for her to sit down next to her. Qing Lu'er came over and sat next to Twilight Xue'er with her hands and feet.

The light in the heart room is warm and bright, and the window next to it is blocked by white gauze, and you can vaguely see the greenery and flowers growing outside. Everything here makes people feel extra open and calm.

Qinglu'er sat down and looked at Twilight Xue'er next to her, only to see her listening intently to the sharing of others. Qinglu'er felt like she was back in the classroom when she was a child, watching the knowledge-hungry children listen carefully.

Twilight Cher once got married once because of impulse, and divorced once because of poor emotional management. Qingluer and Twilight Cher met at a bachelors club, because they were placed in the same chat room at the time, and because their personalities and experiences were somewhat similar. This makes them quite familiar with each other and hate to see each other late. Twilight Cher has also been worried about blind dates recently, she is not very convinced of marriage by emotional beatings, and is optimistic about enjoying her current single life, but she is often entangled in whether to be brave enough to try and enter a marriage again. Because of all the uncertainties in life, she desperately needs to know the answers, so that she listens carefully to the speeches of every single person every time, and always wants to find her own answer from them.

The new member of their group who joined last month, named You You, is dressed in a light blue tracksuit, her hair at the bangs is slightly curly, and her tadpole-like eyes always flicker when she speaks.

Qing Lu'er also listened carefully to You You's words at this time, telling her own experiences and opinions fluently: "My sister has kissed several times this month, and she took the initiative to flirt with four or five young people, and her family took this as an example for me to learn. And I have no interest in any of that. Maybe love is also to cultivate interest, people often say that interest is your best teacher, like me, let alone like love, love things to me, I feel troublesome. According to me, I would rather be a single nobleman for the rest of my life, and I don't want to find a man to marry casually.

Like the man I meet right now.

Not sloppy and lazy. It's delicate and selfish. Either hot-tempered or passionless.

It's not casual, it's just incomprehensible. Either the words are cunning and greasy, or the speech is rigid and rigid.

Either proud and conceited, or timid. It's not just that you know how to play games, but it's just greasy and crooked.

For me, finding a good spouse is much harder than finding a good job. I would rather use my boring blind date time to work overtime to earn money, and the use of money can make me happier, but my boyfriend or spouse may not make me happy.

Do you have to marry someone in your life? Wouldn't it be better to live alone? Freedom, simplicity, happiness, at present, I think like this, I have thought about maintaining my own thoughts, if I don't get in the oil and salt, I will be single for a long time, so it's okay! Sisters, cheer me on! ”

When You You sat down after speaking, and everyone applauded according to the process, some members clenched their fists in agreement and put on a cheering posture to cheer You You.

When You You sat down, Twilight Cher, who always dressed herself very delicately at the party, also began to speak: "I also have a lot of agreement with what You You said. I was divorced once, and when I got divorced, I thought to myself, this time I divorced, I will never get married again. Now that I have been divorced for nearly three years, I have always felt a kind of loneliness inexplicably lately, that is, I feel that my marriage is difficult, but there are still hidden fireworks in my heart. Want to find someone to love to spend the rest of your life with.

I'm not short of money, I have my own company, I don't have a little lover like other single little sisters in the business circle, I don't have much hobbies for these now. Half a year ago, I had a serious illness, which changed a lot of my opinion, I was in the hospital for more than two months, and after I got better, I went on a trip with my friends, and I looked at the beautiful morning glow and thought, 'What if I get sick this time, and I really don't recover?' I did leave this world, what would happen to me? ’

As an individual, ordinary and unique, what will I leave in this world? You can enjoy it in your life! But is it worthy of one's own life to enjoy one's life? Is there just no regrets?

I don't want to see all the flowers, I know it's attractive. After my divorce, I also picked a few flowers sporadically. But picking flowers is too easy, as long as you have money, ability, looks, and honey, you can pick and pick. However, folding flowers are easy to wither, and when they are beautiful, everyone is just playing. Thinking about enjoying it is also a kind of loss, but also a kind of regret, no one in life is willing to share the joys and sorrows with you, to the heart and sincerity, to hold on to the son without regrets, and to complete the journey of life together.

Well...... It is happiness to meet a good person. It's normal to not see each other, because good people are too hard to find, after all, there are a lot of people who treat love as a game now, and sometimes everyone thinks about how to cheat and find shortcuts to win a game, so as to make themselves happy, instead of thinking about each other.

Well...... I think I need to cultivate my heart now, to be able to see the impossibility of love, but also to have hope for the good. Thank you! ”

After Lingering Cher finished speaking, there were tears in her eyes because of emotion, Qingluer took out a tissue and handed it to Linger, while raising her hand to gently comfort Linger, and the female speaker of the "Singles Club" also stepped forward in everyone's applause and gave Linger a big hug.

At the beginning, everyone got together and arranged for a few members to talk about their stories and their feelings. After that, I will have a tea party with other group members and travel to relax. Sometimes there are baking classes, art classes, or sports classes. In this way, the lives of club members are enriched.

The last person to speak in the chat chamber was also a member who had a better relationship with Qinglu'er, her name was Lang Lang, and Lang Lang was her second name. In principle, the name of the person of the Yoyo clan can only have the name twice on the identity verification document. It is usually the parents who choose the first name. If the child is not satisfied when he grows up, he can choose his own name, and if the child chooses his own name, he will call it in private for a while, and wait for a few years, or a few months. I thought it was the name, and then I changed the name on the identity verification document.

When the Yoyo clan was first established, it experienced the merger of several regions, and the name was mainly divided into four forms:

One is to follow his father's surname.

The second is to follow the mother's surname.

The first two forms are generally followed in conservative or traditional regions.

The third is that a prestigious family creates a surname, as long as it is related to the family by blood and interests, children and grandchildren can use this family surname.

Fourth, there is no surname, and no surname accounts for the majority of the Youyou clan. Since the former name can have the same legal effect as the current name after application, generally like the first three people with surnames will take another name without a surname after taking their first name.

Langlang's original name is Xie Xie. Yun Jin is originally from a conservative region. Her surname is Xie Xie. It is the father's last name with

Since she could stand or sit to speak, Lang Lang felt that it was not difficult to sit, so she did not stand up to speak:

"For a while, I was particularly interested in why I was single, and I thought it might be that I wasn't active enough in love. So recently, I've been actively committed to blind dates and flirting with friends of the opposite sex. I agree with what You You said, from me, people who have experienced so many blind dates, most of the people you meet on blind dates will challenge your cognitive limits. Until now I haven't met a suitable candidate, do you want to give up? I don't know? I'm slowly trying to relax on the blind date now.

I was suffering from all kinds of pressure, the pressure of relatives, the pressure of age. At this time, I had to have a blind date ceremony, both for my family and for myself, to create the illusion that I was trying to find a partner. To be honest, sometimes I am tired and don't want to worry about these things. Sometimes things are like this, you feel stressed and the pressure starts to get heavier, you take things lightly and feel that there is no pressure, it doesn't matter if you get married or not, it doesn't matter if you're in love or not, happiness is the most important thing, in fact, you can think like this and live a happy life.

I will continue to go on blind dates for the next period of time, summing up this journey, I think happiness is the most important! Enjoy the process and don't worry too much about the outcome. After Lang Lang finished his talk, the speaker of the singles club summarized everyone's speeches and their own views on singles. Then she mentioned: "The Men's Singles Club in the South District of Creative Park is ready to have a fellowship with us. I don't know if any of you are willing to participate in this fellowship, it doesn't matter if you don't participate, everyone is voluntary. If there is participation. On the software of the "Singles Club" in the smart box. You can click on the link of the Singles Club to register, and this registration is limited to Singles Club members. After you register your name, we will roughly match you with a more suitable male partner in this friendship game, and if you want to change your male partner at that time, you can also do it.

After the "chat" process in the chat room is over, everyone is ready to go to the baking class arranged by the "singles club" to get together together. When Qinglu'er walked through the hall of the "Singles Club", Lang Lang and Ying Mu Xue'er each walked next to him, and the three of them whispered and joked in order not to break the quiet atmosphere. When Lang Lang was talking, he suddenly waved his hand towards the corridor in the distance, and Lang Lang was meeting her little cousin Xie Xie. Roujia walked towards them.

Understand. Roujia is now 16 years old. I skipped another grade because I started school early. She is now a first-year adult college student. She studied in W Chengluo and now comes to S 612 Chengluo to play with her cousin. Langlang also often goes to W City to find his cousin to eat and drink when he has free time, and wanders around.

Understand. In her cousin's mouth, when she first heard about the singles club, she showed great curiosity, she was very interested in this club, and at her behest of her. Lang Lang also often brings Xie to understand. Roujia came to this club to play. Understand. Roujia can't get into the heart room, and after she comes to the club, she usually looks at the scenery and walks around. Sometimes I sit on a chair in the hall and listen to the people next to me tell their stories. Qinglu'er has a good relationship with Langlang, and she also understands Xie between coming and going. Roujia became more familiar.

Qinglu'er also greeted her happily after seeing Rou Jia: "Rou Jia, I haven't seen you for a long time, I should be very busy with schoolwork, right?" ”

"I'm busy with schoolwork, but I'm not overly busy. Recently, my cousin said that he wanted to study a flying machine, and he dragged me around the field to test it, and I felt like he was about to explode. I've finally been free lately, and I'm going to come out and have a good time and relax. ”

"Okay! Then my cousin is obligated to take you to the waves. Lang Lang said as he put his arm on his cousin's shoulder.

"Count me in, my little sister wants to wave and I'll take you there." Twilight said jokingly.

"Hahahahaha......"

After a burst of laughter, Lang Lang suddenly said: "Xiao Roujia, you can come to this place less." ”

"Why? Isn't it interesting here? ”

"The single atmosphere here is too strong, you are still young now, and being single is also contagious, be careful that you will be single if you are infected later."

"Hahaha! I can see it. It doesn't matter if you're single or not! ”

"Hey! It's good to be young. Everything is out of the way! Look away! Twilight Xue'er looked at Rou Jia and said with a sigh!

"Xue'er, did you sign up for the friendship just now?" Langlang asked Cher inquiringly.

"I reported, while there is still time, there are still some young people left, and I must always give myself a chance." Twilight Cherle answered.

"I reported it too! Ha ha! Walk! Go meet the old men for a while. Because Langlang had one more comrade-in-arms, he spoke happily.

"Ahh You've all reported it! I didn't report it, I didn't want to go, and I couldn't get interested. Qinglu'er said.

"Hmmm! I've also decided to cut back on the number of blind dates I have, and I feel like I'm getting a little tired. Lang Lang sighed.

"Aren't you a 'singles club'? How can there be a friendship? Does the sorority ask for money? "Understood. Rou Jia asked curiously.

"Friendship doesn't cost money!" The speaker who was passing by next to him heard and understood. Rou Jia asked, and couldn't help but interject.

"Yes! Old girl! We've paid a lot of dues! How can a fellowship ask for money? ”

"So how does it work? Can you tell me about it? "Understood. Roujia looked at the speaker with friendly and curious eyes.

"The current "singles club" room is functioning normally on membership fees. Members pay relatively high membership fees in exchange for high-quality services.

With the success of our singles club, there are many other unreliable organizations that have started to hold "singles clubs", some of which do not even have membership fees, but there are other miscellaneous collections, and other miscellaneous advertising.

The main fees of our "singles club" are the assessment fees for the authenticity of the materials of the people who come to participate in the singles club, the provision of venues, the emotional protection fees of members, the psychological counseling fees, the tutor counseling fees, the auxiliary course fees, and the auxiliary course fees are generally free, but because there are more course institutions that cooperate with us, members can also choose courses of different charging grades, and do not force them.

We also have to invest a lot of manpower and material resources in many things in our operations, and the normal operation of an organization also needs to be profitable. When we first started, we were also in a loss-making state. Because this singles club is famous. The "Er'an" psychological research laboratory is a derivative institution, so the losses we first started were stopped by the headquarters of the "Er'an" psychological research laboratory.

Because of the contact with "Er'an", the psychological counselors on our side are also first-class, and it is not a club that can be replicated according to the routine casually. "Er'an" has also been carrying out public welfare activities for vulnerable groups. We also often have some volunteer support activities. The main purpose is to expand the positive influence of the society and improve the image of the public, in order to achieve a balance between the profit of the organization and the public welfare. ”

"Uh-huh, I roughly get it." Understand. Rou Jia nodded and said, she also understood that many business secrets were inconvenient to explain, so she stopped in moderation and did not ask any more.

"Hey! Speaker. What are you talking about? Swimmer followed from behind and happily greeted everyone.

"Did you participate in this fellowship?" Lang Lang said jokingly.

"Of course not, be single to the end!"

"Haha! All right! Qing Lu'er looked at You You's expression, and felt a little stubborn and a little silly, so she couldn't help but be amused.

"Speaker, have you been on a blind date recently?" Qinglu'er asked gossipingly.

"Yes! There are several more to talk about. Find a suitable one, and after a while, the marriage will be over! ”

"Really? Fake? You You showed a suspicious look.

"Of course it's true! Little sisters! Ha ha! I see it! Two people on a blind date, you find fault with him, he picks on you, it's nothing, look at each other's advantages or can make do with it. Hahaha......"

"Hahahaha......" In this way, a group of people went to participate in baking training with easy steps in laughter.