Ling 004) Norton Angels met for the first time, and the opening ceremony reflected on the lack of education

The children of the Holy Angels are not much different from those of any other secondary school, some have excellent grades, and some have mediocre grades; There are honest ones, and there are naughty ones; There are top students and there are scumbags, and the vast majority of them are just ordinary students in between.

The main difference is that due to the residential mechanism that the middle school has always adhered to, the management of life and learning is relatively stricter, so that the children of Holy Angels are more independent at an early age.

However, due to the relatively high entry threshold, the proportion of students with peculiar potential is also slightly larger. And every batch of students who report after the start of school, there will be a few alternative wonders, the problem can be described as a trick renovation, never the same, often let the faculty and staff chase and intercept, can not be prevented, which also makes the school directors constantly worry, refresh the cognition, the fun and value of education, also in this.

No, on the first day of this school year, at the opening ceremony of Holy Angel High School, there was a different from the past, not big or small, but it was very embarrassing for everyone, so that those extraordinarily strange students quickly brightened their sense of existence, and inadvertently became the new focus of attention of the teachers and students of the school.

At the beginning of the ceremony, the process was standardized, and there was not much difference, according to the practice of previous years, a representative of the board of directors first made an opening speech to all teachers and students.

Mr. Wei Chi Luoyi, the largest shareholder of Holy Angel International School, is humble and courteous, full of gorgeous hair, cautious and steady, loving, outstanding demeanor and elegant temperament. In the past, he rarely spoke publicly at various school ceremonies as a representative, but this time is a special one, which is a rare exception.

The main content of Mr. Wei Chi's speech is as follows: As one of the investors of Holy Angel, he would like to express his sincere respect to all teachers and students on behalf of all shareholders!

I would like to thank the school management for their dedication and efforts in the past school year, and also thank all the teachers for their hard work and hard work, passing on their rich knowledge and love to every child in the school, and also thank the behind-the-scenes staff who serve the campus for all the silent protection, maintenance and management of this school.

Mr. Wei Chi also gave a brief introduction to the relationship and glorious history of Holy Angel and his alma mater, Norton College, as well as his latest achievements. Finally, we welcome the trust and joining of a new group of junior and senior high school students, hoping that the arrival of this new group of faces can renew the blood of the campus, add more fresh air, and make the Holy Angel more active and vibrant. At the same time, I also hope that they will be able to adapt to the new independent learning environment as soon as possible, take the initiative to read, fall in love with knowledge, broaden their horizons, live up to expectations, and achieve success in their studies.

Finally, he also publicly explained and comforted the students and parents that were most concerned about the accident of the first sophomore high school student who caused a sensation last semester and aroused widespread concern in the society.

The student's family environment is very superior, but the parents are busy with official business, and due to business needs, they go abroad all the year round, and communication with the child is very limited. This child has a more introverted personality, usually likes to be quiet and alone, hates the lively atmosphere very much, and rarely participates in social activities. The campus club has only participated in one classical poetry and painting club, and it is still for the purpose of earning enough credits, so I reluctantly signed up for it in my first year of high school.

According to later investigations, she only had one or two childhood friends, but unfortunately she did not attend high school in the same school. Here, she has almost no special close classmates, and belongs to a very small number of children who are often alone and alone.

Her grades belong to the upper middle level, she likes to read, and she spends most of her spare time in the library, which can be regarded as a well-read book. She is silent, has a clear temperament, and her writing is very good, and she has won the first prize and the second prize in the city-level essay competition many times.

Entering high school, she became obsessed with web novels, especially time-traveling novels. Not only do I like to read, but I often write on my own. She writes and publishes in private, and many enthusiastic fans follow and read, and it is said that the number of fans reaches more than one million when she is large.

What satisfied her the most was that she could earn a certain amount of manuscript fees at the same time, and later the amount of rewards was even higher than the manuscript fees. This sense of accomplishment made her feel confident and gradually became more dependent on the Internet, which is a feeling that parents could not imagine. Her former online pen name is: Tang Xiaochai, and her own interpretation is: I am a little match from the Tang Dynasty who sells girls. Doesn't that sound like a logical mess and a bit funny?

However, we only thought it was a little ridiculous at the time, but we all neglected the helplessness behind her pen name, so that in the end, it was difficult to return. This is our dereliction of duty and lesson as adults, we should see the sadness and help behind this child, she needs not much, maybe just a little more warmth and attention, but unfortunately we did not wake up in time.

So, she decided to drop out of school and concentrate on writing columns on the Internet. This was her own choice, and it was understandable. But there were unforeseen circumstances, and just when she planned to withdraw from school on her own initiative to hide from her family, a shady scene suddenly broke out on the Internet, saying that she was suspected of plagiarism and plagiarism of other people's works. Netizens also cited some examples to corroborate, saying that the original creator planned to go to court to recover the due copyright.

Online forums have always been a trash can for many losers to vent their dissatisfaction, a window for unconfident people to brush their sense of existence, and even a malicious provocateur, deliberately guiding public opinion and confusing the public. Although there is also a positive energy with three comprehensive views, not every teenager can accurately distinguish it.

The more special moments of this kind, the more there is no shortage of extreme ridicule and criticism, and even degrading and malicious slander and humiliation.

For a while, it made chickens and dogs jump, gossip, and boiling. The number of fans plummeted in an instant, and more than half of it evaporated overnight, and some people began to speak ill of each other, using extremely vulgar and cruel words. Some people instigated netizens to get back the rewards, and some even claimed that they were deceived emotionally and their dignity was hurt, and demanded double compensation from the landlord.

All these sudden blows were unexpected by her, a simple girl, and she had no relatives or friends at that time, giving her the most timely relief and relief, which made her embarrassed and overwhelmed for a while, and she was highly nervous and depressed, until she almost collapsed.

In the end, she left a paragraph on the Internet: Since it is so inappropriate, then I will go back, wear back to my Zhenguan Shengshi, and still be my princess of the Tang Dynasty. Farewell, people in the new century, who are hypocritical, chasing fame and fortune, indifferent and selfish, and unkind, I hope that I will be separated from you, and that we will be happy in each life, and that we will never see each other again......

At the end of last semester, she was neatly dressed, and spent half a year sewing the Tang Dynasty court costumes, wearing standard moth eyebrow appliqué Tang makeup, coiling her hair in a bun, pinning a huge crimson peony on her temples, like Mona Lisa, folding her hands on her lower abdomen, lying quietly on the bed in her apartment, intending to leave this earthly world that made her extremely disappointed and helpless.

Fortunately, her abnormal mood at that time was noticed by the dormitory supervisor teacher in time, broke into the girl's apartment building, and was immediately sent to the hospital for rescue. Due to the timely gastric lavage, she was already out of danger. Unfortunately, when her parents were about to rush to the hospital, she chose to leave the world again and jumped from the hospital window.

After expert analysis, it can be seen from her online text and daily behavior that she has a serious tendency to depression, but she was ignored by us around her at that time, and did not give timely help and enlightenment. As a school, we also have a responsibility.

In addition, she has always been quiet and introverted, lonely and silent, and all her depression has not been relieved most necessary, so that the depression and depression continue to accumulate, and the accumulation is getting heavier and heavier, and it is the last straw.

Therefore, when the external pressure from the Internet and the huge social public opinion suddenly struck violently, it became the last straw that crushed her, and the fragile line of defense of the girl's psychology collapsed instantly through this incident.

Our cultural education has always been rich and delicate, and there are two categories that are most missing: emotional education and life and death education.

Emotional education is an additional ability that accompanies a person's life, and some people are born with it, so their emotional intelligence is relatively high, although they may not have a high IQ or a successful career, but it does not affect them to become a happy and lovely person. Some people are born with a lack of family environment, so even if they have a high IQ and a successful career, they may not live a full, transparent and happy life.

Life and death education is a matter of life and death, although we cannot control the beginning and the end, but we can affect the whole process. Whether the process is rich and full, calm and cheerful, depends on your reverence for a life and respect for yourself. We can not be afraid of death, we can not be afraid of death, but it does not mean that we will try to die casually, and there is no need to say that we will die. Because death is not terrible, but it is also not lovely, because life belongs to you only once, so precious that you have no chance of trial and error, and there is no possibility of regret.

Remember: life is not a novel or a game, and you can't play it after you die.

Only by understanding these can you not be afraid of death, but you don't want to die casually.

Therefore, this lesson has given everyone a very big shock, it reminds us to pay attention to every child's psychological problems at any time, learning knowledge is very important, but physical health is more important, and ensuring children's mental health is the top priority, is the school and the family, the most important and urgent major event.

To this end, we have recently added a special psycho-educational course, which is not only for children, but also for parents. The original intention of our school is to strive to ensure that every middle school student can step out of our school gate in a comprehensive and healthy way, and embark on a more wonderful life stage in the future, so that every child can obtain cognitive cultivation, education and psychological security in the Holy Angel, and accompany everyone's life, at all times, they can benefit from it for life and help you to glory.

At the beginning of the school year, I cruelly recalled this tragic event, not to deter everyone, but to emphasize one point: cherish life, and do not pin the unsatisfactory changes in front of you in a certain illusory world. If you don't even have the courage and strength to face the difficulties of the moment, to get through the difficulties of life, and to overcome the obstacles in life, then no matter what space you are hiding in, what kind of people you are in, and what kind of things you are facing, the result will be the same - you cannot cope with it.

Therefore, since you have nowhere to escape, only to face it bravely is the solution once and for all.

If you don't learn to appreciate it all the way and continue to transcend suffering, you will never see the complete rainbow hanging high in the sky.

Escape is not the ultimate way to solve the problem, the best way to face it is: know how to ask for help, overcome obstacles, and become strong, rather than only using crossing to escape difficulties.

Parents don't have to worry too much, the open online world is mixed with pros and cons, and we can't stop the general trend of the development of the times, because it is conducive to the rapid development of society after all. However, we can find ways to deal with those deficiencies and help children avoid danger. Complaining, blaming, and insulting are not good ways to face problems, and finding a way to solve them is the best way out.

Finally, I hope that our teachers and students, home and school, can work together: work together, strive to be strong, enrich our hearts, and strengthen our self-confidence. In the future, even if you can't rule the world, you must become a winner in your own life.

That's all I have to say today, thank you for your patience! Thank you to the parents who watched the live video, let us all work together and enjoy a better life together!

(The applause was accompanied by whispered discussions, and many people still had lingering feelings about the accident that had just passed.) ）

(To be continued!) ）