An independent and frugal life. If they were born with little money, they would not work for others in order to earn money. Number 5 will devote all of his time and energy to spiritual study and pursuit.

Type 5 people say that their feelings are more abundant when no one is around. If there are other people in the room, it will be difficult for them to show their true selves. Loneliness is the basis for them to gain a rich personal life. They say they spend most of the day disconnected from their feelings, and they need a time alone to "get things sorted out and find how they really feel." When they are alone, they feel a stronger connection with others, and they remember what others have said, whereas in real conversations, they may not remember anything. When they are alone, they are free to look back on the days when they are not aware of their feelings, which allows them to feel the joy of life.

Type 5 people don't need words to feel a strong connection with others. In a relationship between the sexes, they need very little contact to keep the relationship going.

A simple party can mean a lot to the 5th, as they enjoy the feeling when they are alone. Number 5 has a lot of different types of friends with whom they share a particular interest or feeling. Although the number 5 will cherish this special trust between the two parties, these friends may never be introduced to each other by the number 5 and will not know anything else in the life of the number 5.

Type 5 people don't need words to feel a strong connection with others. In a relationship between the sexes, they need very little contact to keep the relationship going. Number 5 attaches great importance to etiquette between friends, and if they are smart friends, they should not expect Number 5 to show their truth in front of them, or to take the initiative in the relationship, they should use Number 5 as an observer and advisor around them.

The main traits of personality type 5 people include:

★Private.

★ remain untouched; When you feel threatened, the first line of defense is to retreat or fasten your seatbelt.

★ Afraid to feel with your heart.

★ Excessive emphasis on self-control. Take your attention off the feelings. "Drama is for ordinary people."

★ Emotional delay. Control your feelings in front of others, and wait until you are alone to show your emotions.

★ Divide your life into different areas. Put different things in different boxes and give each box a time limit.

★ Hopefully, it will be possible to predict what is going to happen.

★ Interested in those special knowledge and analytical systems that explain human behavior. Hoping to find a map that explains emotions.

★ If you can't distinguish between spiritual non-dependence and rejection of painful emotional closure, you are a Buddha without enlightenment.

★ Likes to focus on oneself and one's life from the perspective of a bystander, which will lead to:

Disconnect from events and emotions in your own life.

Make your point of view unaffected by emotional bias.



Accept their fate, but in order to survive, they learn to separate from their emotions. The second type, and the one that appears the most in the survey, is the constant psychological disturbance from the family, such a child who closes off his emotions in order to escape.

The presenter below is a typical Type 5 personality. He's an expert who earns a lot of money, but he likes to live in a rundown neighborhood in San Francisco because of the cheap rent and the proximity to the Chinese restaurant that serves him three meals a day.

My memories of my childhood are always quiet, and I love the feeling of being alone. There are 5 people in the house, but all in different rooms, running on their own tracks. We didn't talk to each other, and we didn't have physical contact. My parents were both born deaf, and like all deaf people, they couldn't control their voices. When you're in a public place with them, their strange voices will always attract the attention of those around you, and you will want to find a crack in the ground.

My main feeling at the time was that I wanted not to be noticed, so when I went out with my parents, I always tried to distract myself as much as possible, trying to hide myself in a palm tree by the side of the road or blend into a painting on the wall to make my mind disappear.

The following presenter comes from a typical Type 2 family, a computer programmer who likes to work late because there is no one else in the office except for the occasional cleaning staff, only hundreds of quiet machines.

When I was a child, my family had 3 rooms, and we lived in a total of 7 people. You don't have a place to be alone unless you go outside, or hide in the bathroom. So I invented a way to be alone, which was to climb up a tree. I like to climb up there and read a book and then look at everyone below.

Every time my brothers found me, I had to move to a different tree. I especially like to be alone because that's the only time I can be myself and not have to be directed by others to do things that are good for them.

Later I grew up, and I was scared to go to parties, or any activity that I did to deal with others. I hate dressing up. I don't want to go on a date on time, make small talk with someone, say something inconsequential. There's nothing worse than being caught up in a conversation, especially if the other person wants something out of you.



Door; Another way is to build a wall of emotional distance in your heart to keep yourself away from your emotions. When you build a wall of emotional distance, you can stand in front of those who are trying to spy on your life, and you can remain indifferent to their gaze. As a Type 5 person said, "They can try to control what I do, but they can't influence me." ”

We were in a restaurant and my mother started reading us the menu out loud: "They have green bean beef, fish-flavored eggplant...... and she always embarrassed us. The way I order is different from hers. I love holding the menu and feeling my psychological reaction and feeling about each dish, but her way completely ruined my way and I didn't have time to react at all.

I feel that when ordering, you have to be quite focused to feel your decision. But now, that feeling is ruined by her, and there's nothing I can do about it. Later we went to the zoo and the rose garden. The mother's description spoils all the atmosphere. "Look over there, oh, it's beautiful! Look, that one is called 'Joseph's Coloured Clothes', and that's 'Pink Peace'. "She kept pointing and pointing, and I couldn't even feel the beauty of these roses on my own.

I deliberately walked in front of her or left behind her, trying to keep my distance from her, but I still couldn't find my own feelings because I was paying attention to her reactions and was used to waiting for her to interfere with me. Did she notice what I was doing? Would she think it was disrespectful to her? My thoughts