She still couldn't hold back in distress, so after eating the nameless vinegar several times, she said her doubts and plates, but he actually laughed at her for wanting to make more unreasonable trouble with him.

Looking at his almost innocent smile at the time, she believed him.

But the troubles of the days are still there, and the quarrels and cold wars between the two are still the same. Until even she felt so tired that she wanted to leave, but she was reluctant to have two children, and she didn't want the two brothers to be separated. Only then did they quarrel and reconcile, and when they reconciled, they tried to continue their lives without quarrelling.

However, after calming down, she seems to have gradually calmed down in the recovery from exhaustion, and began to see more and more clearly his hard work and strength.

Yes, the man next door, after the business failed, he collapsed, and stayed at home for a year before he came out to continue to look for a job to work, and her man, after the failure, had the courage to take responsibility, the more frustrated the braver, never stopped, the family's expenses, is indeed created by him, although the mortgage and debt pressure is high, but the family has the ability and courage to bear such a big pressure!

Isn't it, in the entire Qinfang City, there are a few young couples who have graduated for less than five years, and they don't rely on their parents to get a penny, and they buy a house by themselves, and it is a good school district and a high-end community in Haiti? I guess I can't count my toes even when I fold my fingers.

This is a piece of family business that she gritted her teeth with him! Today, although he still has a mortgage and foreign debt, his business is indeed improving. It's easy for a fool to let go of everything he has worked so hard for!

But what I didn't expect was that when the days gradually entered a calm and stable happiness, this person listened to Zhang Lan's instigation to buy land, and regardless of her own objections and worries, she insisted on going her own way, she felt that her self-esteem and value were greatly challenged, and she wanted to give him some colors to see, so there was a long-lost cold war two days ago.

But after all, life has to go on, she can't divorce him, and she knows that even if it's for this family, he won't divorce.

Someone always has to take a step back, since he has decided to buy it, and has signed a contract with others, then she faces this fact that cannot be changed, and she is angry for two days, so she has to give him and herself a step down.

As a family, we always have to get through it together.

So, she used the two children to find each other's stairs again, but there was still a fire in her heart, and even she was still thinking about how to make him realize her hard work, important position, and dignity and value that could not be ignored in this family.

Unexpectedly, at more than four o'clock after the lunch break, she was playing with her two children in the lawn under the shade of the community tree, and saw the little couple on the opposite floor, and finally did not quarrel, nor was it like glue, but like the two older people who finally matured, she moved things to the people urging the moving company with a serious expression, she thought they were changing to a new house, thinking about the past to congratulate, but it turned out that the two divorced and wanted to sell the house to divide the property. She was embarrassed, and couldn't help but think of herself, if she divorced her husband, would it be like this? But there are no children to share, so she and her husband have to share a child each.

She suddenly felt that life was not like this, she didn't know about other people's affairs, maybe others had come to that point, but she and him must have reached the point where they wanted to live as soon as something happened? Why is it no longer the same as at the beginning, the two of them are thinking about how to live better?

What is marriage, what is love, what is life, and what is life?

She remembered that she was bewildered by the sunlight beyond the shadows under the tree, but when her two sons called to her mother, and asked her to come over and watch with them a caterpillar she had just discovered, her heart suddenly brightened:

Whether it's marriage, love, life, life or something, she doesn't want to go to the bottom of it alone, this is not something that she wants to think about as an ordinary housewife, it is something that sociologists and philosophers should think clearly to tell the world, including her, what she wants to do is to think clearly about being a mother, be a good mother, be a good wife, run the family well, and manage her husband well. Since she is destined to meet him, fall in love, and have children, she has reason to believe that she and him are the ones who are destined to stay together until they grow old.

This is her marriage, her love, her life, her life, no need to think about it, just move forward step by step with her children, husband and parents and the elderly with the pace of time, be yourself, and live a good life.

None of this is thought out, it's lived out through one's own mind, isn't it?

When Zhao Hong thought about this clearly, she spent the whole afternoon in a quiet pleasure that she had never had after the sudden enlightenment, just like the branches in the sun, facing the yang on one side and the yin on the other, each with its own income, its own pleasure, not determined by others, just according to her own height and width to measure the acceptable sunlight and the shadow surface that can shade passers-by.

She didn't think of telling Qin Wafan what she thought immediately. She still remained silent when he returned, but this non-speech was no longer the stiff silence of the previous Cold War, but a kind of quiet with a solemn silence that implied peace.

Of course, she didn't know what Qin Wafan was thinking at the moment when she was walking next to her with the boss, but she was happy, and the smile on her face unconsciously was pleasant, like a flower blooming in a street lamp.

"Why, people are divorced, are you happy? Finally you see the results? ”

Qin Wafan caught the faint smile on the face of his wife who was holding his little son. He could smell that the breath in her smile was not a sneer, nor a mockery, but a real laugh.

"People are divorced, what am I happy about. But for them, maybe it's a relief. But it shouldn't be their result, it's just a new beginning for them. ”

Zhao Hong did not evade, nor was she angry, she still answered well with a smile.

"Hmm. Be. ”

Qin Wafan lowered his head, as if he was muttering something.

"What are you thinking? Do you feel sorry for others? ”

Zhao Hong still smiled and asked.

"Looks like you're happy now?"

Qin Wafan glanced up at his wife and said with a smile.

"Yes, I'm happy, but not gloating about people, I'm glad we didn't."

After Zhao Hong finished speaking, she chuckled in her heart. It's not a pleasant topic. But it's always good to be open.

She saw that Qin Wafan didn't speak, so she said